Expected vs Reality

Isa sa mga natutunan ko sa buong buhay ko ay yung kilalanin mo muna ang sarili mo bukod sa ibang tao, unahin mo munang mahalin ang sarili mo bago ang iba.
Minsan sa sobrang pagmamahal naten sa ibang tao nakakalimutan na natin yung sarili natin kung paano natin ito pangangalagaan o mamahalin. Marami na akong pinagdaanan na pagsubok at hanggang ngayon talaga matatag at nagsusumikap ako upang makamit ko yung pinapangarap ko na buhay.

Unless you change the way you think, you won't be able to change the way you handle your money.

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Have you ever thought why most of the lotto winners get back to poverty after winning millions?

In fact, marami sa kanila ang mas naging mahirap pa even than before.

Even if they save. Even if they invest. Even if they put up a business.

Because the truth is.

HAVING MORE MONEY WILL NOT HELP YOU SOLVE ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS.

Ang totoo niyan, baka mas bigyan ka pa nito ng mas maraming problema later on.

Why? Because it's not enough unless you rewire your thinking processes or else, your old ways of thinking will always sabotage your new behavior.

Ang taong mahilig magsugal at magbisyo.

Kahit bigyan mo ng milyon yan, hindi yan titigil magsugal.

In fact, he has a huge tendency to lose all of his money because of his gambling attitude.

Unless he change the way he thinks.

Ang taong mahilig gumastos sa walang makabuluhang bagay.

Kapag binigyan mo ng milyon yan, mas gagastos at gagastos lang siya sa mga walang kabuluhang bagay.

Unless he change the way he thinks.

Ang taong mahilig magpaimpress ng tao by buying more than what he or she needs.

Will only end up buying even more when she or he has more money.

Until he wakes up one day, wala na pala siyang pera.

Unless he change the way he thinks.

Money is neutral.

Money is not evil.

It always depends on how you use it.

Because money only magnifies the attitudes and values that you have around it.

Your money problems are mostly your mind problems.

This is why I always say, change your mindset first before you wish to earn more money.

And the first and most difficult mind problem you have is your core beliefs about yourself.

Unless you change your picture of yourself in your mind, it will be almost impossible to get rich.

Even if you have all the skills and connections in the world.

Even if you earn huge amounts of money.

You'll lose it all again.

If sa 100 or 1000php pa lang, you cannot manage it well. Imagine how will you handle 1,000,000 instead?

Kaya baka at this moment you're praying to get rich.

Pero God and the universe is not giving it to you yet.

Why? Because your mind and heart is not yet ready.

It can sense that you'll attract more money problems once you have more money.

You want to get rich?

Change the wiring of your mindset.

Check your heart.

Check where your desires are coming from.

Saan ka ba nanggagaling?

Are you coming from a good intention?

Kasi kung hindi.

Trust me, you'll never have more.

And even if you have more.

You'll only end up again to the situation where you have less than before.