The biggest disease in the world.
What will people say! "" Your life is completely your own. Whatever others judge about you, it doesn't matter!
The difference between ordinary people and successful people is; Ordinary people always rely on the opinions of others and work for the purpose of making others happy. Successful people are in control of almost every single situation. Successful people are in control of almost every single situation. Successful people are in control of almost every single moment of their lives. Failing people always try to blame others for their own failures in life. And it is from such a mentality that fear is created in the minds of ordinary people and they have to determine the course of their life's purpose on the judgment of others.
Your life is completely your own. Please tell, whats the story of them big puppys ..... In fact, people are always afraid of failure. But failure is an inevitable event in life. No matter how talented, highly educated and efficient you are, there will always be failures and failures in your life.
No one will condemn you to success. They will not see your small mistakes. But as soon as you face the slightest defeat for the purpose of your goal, you will see that your life begins to fall apart. Those traditional judges will hurt you in criticism. But you are not an accused. So who gave them the right to judge you? You gave yourself. Because you value the opinions and criticisms of others and make your own life an object dependent on the opinions of others.
Just think, when India defeated Sri Lanka in the final to win the Cricket World Cup in 2011, there was a huge public outcry against the decision of the then Indian captain Mahendra Singh Dhoni. Mahendra Singh Dhoni went down to bat before Yuvraj Singh. This decision was exceptional for the Indian batting order throughout the World Cup. In the final again! But since India won the World Cup under the captaincy of Mahendra Singh Dhoni, his decision was not so much criticized but praised. But if India had lost the World Cup final, the same people who had praised Dhoni's decision would have criticized him for his decision.
In fact, this is the world. All current judgments and criticisms depend on the results. Although Sunny Leone has done porn films before, now that she is acting in Bollywood, she has become a Bollywood actress. But former Bollywood actress Charlene Chopra has acted in Bollywood before but now she has become a porn star as she works in porn. Then there are two types of judgments depending on the outcome and the society.
This world is like a zoo. Here people will feed bananas to monkeys and in return monkeys will dance and entertain those people. No one dares to carry a banana in front of a lion's cage. Because the lion will not eat bananas, nor will he entertain as others wish. He will live his life in his own glory.
You start thinking like that lion. You have to live in a zoo but never dance in exchange for a banana like that monkey, emphasizing the opinions and judgments of others in life. If anyone has the right to judge your life, it is your own. You are the only judge and creator of your life.
it doesn't sound a fair enough comparisons between the two classes of people. Yes, peoples become successful not always through hardwork. Some are successful by the previlegdes they have and I think that is the difference between the successful and not so successful. The differences are the privileges.