Have you ever survived anything that makes you feel like the luckiest person in the world? Perhaps surviving in an accident, illness, or any other problem/challenge that nearly took your life? Then you should always be thankful to your guardian angel.
At the time when I write this post, I remember one of my friends “Asmah” who was only 15 when the worst thing happened to her life and leave a scar on her heart forever! It was on October 2018 on the graduation day of “Asmah” she was graduating from secondary school education. She had only one younger brother and her two parents, so all three were prepared to travel to their daughter's graduation which was about a 312KM journey from their home. Sadly they had an accident when they were crossing a bridge and all three passed away in that accident! Asmah did not see her family on the graduation day but she did not have any doubts because his father was a governor so she thought he would be busy with his duties. After graduation, she came home and that is where the whole neighborhood became sad, she was told everything that happened and from there she understood that she lost her father, mother, and young brother in an accident. So she had remained alone in this world, it was the saddest moment that she will never forget in her life. Two words that she said and a lot of people will never forget is “Why me?” I would’ve said the same words. She fainted three times during the funeral because she did not believe what happened to her family, and why she was the only one left. Many people [neighbors, relatives, the government] were touched by that young lady and decided to take a closer look at her, so she’s doing well until today and next year she will graduate university with her first Economical degree. Imagine you were in that situation but no anyone to look after you, no relatives, no family friends, not even your government, in short no guardian angel to look after you?! What would you do?
Sometimes you feel like the world is not fair for you because of the things that happened to your life. You keep asking yourself why these things are happening to me? Why my friends are not facing the same things? When will these things be over? But all in all, we should always remember that everything happens for a reason. Why did Asmah family get an accident while Asmah was at school? They used to take her to school after holidays but they never got an accident, but the only day when they were alone they got an accident and died! Why Asmah was not there? Don’t you think she is still alive for a reason?
Sometimes we can have a very hard path full of challenges but maybe we face all those so that we can be prepared to become someone who will be a bridge to others, a guardian angel. Because you can not comfort anyone who has difficulties by giving them hope while you have never faced any challenges and survived them! So we must go through tough situations in our lives so that we can be able to help others who have given up, we are prepared to be their guardian angels. Everyone has their challenges, I have one too. But we should not give up because we do not know what may happen tomorrow, perhaps our tomorrow can have a different story and bring joy to our lives forever, perhaps our tomorrow can send us to people who need to hear our life stories so that they can have a new power to fight for their one life which they have, perhaps our tomorrow can make us save the whole world, who knows??! We all have different sad stories but most of the sad stories have something that can help us to change our thoughts and our lives, from losers to winners, from giving up to starting up, from falling to standing, from sadness to happiness!
Conclusion;
Do not giving up despite your life situation, we all have challenges, we should fight them but not giving up and allow them to ruin our lives. We all have our guardian angels who always stand with us and help us in a tough situation, perhaps you are surviving every day but you do not know your guardian angel, your mom is your guardian angel, your dad is your guardian angel, your relatives are your guardian angels, anyone who knows your value and supports you is your guardian angel, but God is our first guardian angel because he created us [that means he created all our guardian angels]. Fight your challenges, you are prepared to be someone else’s guardian angel, perhaps your daughter, your son, your mom, your dad, your friend, your fiance, your husband, your wife, your country, or anyone else.