Friendships

How beautiful it is to find someone who asks for nothing but your company - Brigitte Nicole

Friends are those strangers that we meet along the journey of life. They are once a part of the crowd who just smile at us, who bumped us and help us picked those things that fallen on the ground. There are some lucky people who meet their friends during their grade school and still manage to maintain the friendship even after school.

I envy those kinds of friendships, those friendships that starts at the young age and they remained friends even though they already have their own families.

There are some friendships that just met yesterday and it already feels like they’ve known each other their whole life. They just clicked with everything, from clothes, foods, types of films that they like, music that they listen to. They have similarities in everything. And from then on they already keep in touch, in fact they talked most of the time.

There are friendships that don’t need constant communication but whenever they need each other, they are present. They are there for each other during important times not just for petty things. This kind of friendships is the one that tested with time and they are confident that they are there for each other no matter what.

Now there’s this kind of friendships that is built virtually. They talked every day, they update each other every day and they don’t need the other physically just to be called a friend. They can support each other even if they just met online. They can trust each other with things just like friends in the real world. They know where each other is, they can contact each other in the real life and the beauty of it is they can believe and trust each other unconditionally.

All kinds of friendships have one thing in common whether its in real life or just friends virtually. Common denominator of each kind? Its the time they give each other. Its the company of each other.

Friendships becomes more beautiful because of the time that you give. And with time, trust follow of course, understanding each other is also important but they are all built with time. It doesn’t happen overnight. That is why giving someone a part of your time is important.

That is why you’ll feel comfortable with your friends company. That is why it is so beautiful to have someone who can always be there for you, not because of anything else, not because of money or anything that a person can give you but simply because the person whom you called friend doesn’t want you to feel alone, doesn’t want you to be alone.

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