If you want your life to really look nice and great, you need to remove malice from your chapter in life. Your life will not be great or nice if you are the type who always holds a grudge with people. If you want your life to remain pure, then you need to learn how to make people see the true aspect of your life.
Effect of keeping Grudge in life:
One can lose the opportunity to remain happy: if you are the type who does hold a grudge, you will lose your happiness. Your happiness is your life and if you want to make headway to remaining happy, then try to remain happy. Happiness keeps one going and when you lose those that can give happiness, then you cannot.be able to see happiness.
Hypertension will find its way into your life. Life is just too easy and too sweet and so, when you are the type who does hold a grudge, then you will be prone to hypertension. Health is wealth and so do not take your health for granted.
The result of not keeping Grudge with people is paving ways to your opportunity. This means you will have the windows of opportunities opened. Opportunity can only come to you when you do not hold a grudge with people. As a man who is building up his life to make a happy home, you have to learn how to make your life grudgingly free.
A man who was starting his life gradually was keeping his neighbor malice just because of something that does not worth anything. He kept on keeping his neighbor malice by telling all his friends about what his neighbor has done to him. His neighbor would want to greet him, but he always ignores his greetings. He never wanted to have anything to do with the neighbor but his neighbor is a freeman who doesn't love keeping Grudge.
One fateful day, he was having a problem with something which happened to be from the job he has been eyeing for so long now. They gave him the job under a condition. The condition is to give the document to a reputable man who can sign his document. The one who he is holding a grudge with is the only one who can take this document to the king just because of his closeness with the king of the land. If anyone wants to see the king, he or she must pass through the man. So, he went through the back door to see.the king but to his surprise, he was sent back to meet the man before his document could be granted. He tried the second time and the king collected his documents and dumped them at one corner.
He was given a week to return the document. He cannot ask the king the whereabouts of his document. The man he is keeping malice with saw the document when he was searching for other documents and decided to attend to it. He took it to the king and it was approved.
He only had a day left to submit his document and was turning from one end of his house to the other and from one point to the other thinking of what to do and suddenly heard a knock on his door. He went out to open the door and to his surprise saw the one he is keeping Grudge with and wanted to close the door back but saw an envelope which he submitted to the king with him. He was given the document and his mind was not at rest and indeed he got to realize that one must not keep a grudge with his neighbor or with anyone because one does not know the kind of help he or she will achieve from it.
Be kind at all times and do not hold a grudge neither would you keep people malice as this can destroy your very person. Be kind to everyone around you and to those who are not around you.
Very good and informative topic... it really affects our living and state of mind when we keep grudges for so long... came right on time..