Should decision making be on you or on a third party
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Why must someone else who does not know what i desire and what my aspirations are make decisions for me. We decide how we live and how to live. Decisions most times today are not made by tgose who are to decide for themselves instead a friend or someone old makes them which i personally think is very wrong of us to do.
They say experience is the best teacher but that dosent mean we are going through the same experience as others. We sbare different goals so our ways of deciding should also be different. Even if the decision made is not the best at least we have the time to know what is best for us and what is not. We know what we want to achieve and set a rule towards getting it done.
My advice to you all is to make sure you have at least a 70 percent control over any matter that involves you deciding. These decisions might seem very stupid and not reasonable but when tgey are being put into actiona they become a solution to a particular piece of puzzle.
Why not be upright and very positive tpwards a goal. Your will is very important also while deciding to achieve. Your heart and mind is also another important piece and this is where the question "what decisions should you make". Technically we have a lot of different ways of deciding like for instance some people decide for achieving something of the past while some set goals ahead of them. Which ever way it goes there is always the same way of deciding for such.
What are your plans towards this coming next year and will you make sure to get it done or will you give up halfway. Where will you set your mind towards and what and what will you do to make this year a splendid ending?
Happy new year in advance. 2022 is coming really fast and before we know 2023 also.