Greetings!!!
Assalam o alaikum!!
I am sure that you will be safe and sound by the grace of Almighty Allah.
Everyone wants to live happy and pleasure ful life. What is happiness? Happiness is another name of success. Happiness is something which you really want in life and you are at that point. Happiness is something which you want that people will see you at specific point.
Happiness is something which you achieve goal and you feel really good about your life. You are achieving more goals in life and you are feeling great about your life and you consider himself in a full control.
The law of controls
Law of control says that you feel good when you have fully control on your life. You have full control on your decision and action. It has internal locus of control which is related to soul and you feel that everything is going well.
The locus of internal control give you happiness while the locus of external control always make you unhappy and increases sorrows and worries. Means that if your friend, relatives have some control. This control may be your past that you are still stick to the past that and always make you worry for those deeds that you have done. In this way past control you and waste your present too. Your some bad habits of using social media and wasting movies are the things that give you happiness in short term but in long term these also causes stress and worries.
Take control of your life you will be happy.
My experience in happiness
I belonged to a low class family and i am born in sorrows and worries. I admitted in private school and top the class 1 in 2008 And awarded prize. At that time i do not give any importance to prizes.
I am only one of my whole relatives far and near which has good grades in fsc and always remain toper in class. My classmate teachers, Principal and hostel fellow always respected and appreciated me. Often student came to me for any problem in the topic discussion.
The point i want to convey is Every one is strive of appreciation and when you do good in life people will appreciate you will always enjoy a happy life just like me although i had not money for eating something at break time but enjoying happy life because of tiny success.
I always feel himself a lucky person and most happy person of the world when i came after receiving first prize award and whole school of almost 2000 strength is cheering for me.
Ingredients of happiness
1. Health and energy
If you have good health and energy you always happy because there is nothing which you can not bear in your good health. You can do any task.
2. Good relationship
You often feel good when you have strong relationship in the shape of friends and relatives which are always with you when you are difficult situation of your life. You always feel good when you talk them in a funny mood. Try to make strong relation that give you mind relief when you talk them
3. Financially independent
Money is one major issue which has turned happy faces into sorrows and pain. Whole world is worried about getting money. Even peoples take ones life for money.
If you are financially independent you will be happy in your life. Try to become financially independent.
5.Self discovery
Talent is some thing which attract you or which give you pleasure when you do it. Talent can be something which you more liked. If you are in passion which is naturally given to you by Almighty Allah. You always be happy. If you do work against your natural abilities you always feel bored and discomfort in your life.
There are much more things about happiness which i could not explain in one post.