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Character is so important in all our expectations of life.Your character is more important than your success. Character matters more in your practical life and professional life.If you lack it then you have to build it. Characterless men/women face social ignorance and shame.

Character is such a topic,we can write about it easily. We can talk about it easily but to practice it is a very important and tough thing indeed. We should practice it rather than just say about or write about. Practice is more important and it makes you a better man with good morals.

According to me it has two definitions

Character is the name of a promise which you do with yourself.

Character is your daily exam.

Promise yourself that you would never do bad things or activities which make you characterless. You have to overcome this. Strictly improve yourself. Make a commitment that you would never make this mistake again in future.

Second point is that you face it on a daily basis. You need to reflect on your activities and behavior and try to find out where you need to improve it more and make mistakes again?

Lower class myth

Most of us belong to lower or middle class families. We have a mindset and thinking that character comes with money. We always make mistakes and compare characters with money or relate with money. Most of us think that if we have a luxurious life,more will be character in our personality,but we are wrong. Maybe you saw some people in your life having better lifestyles and having everything in their lives but they are characterless. Especially in Pakistan, the richest people are more bad than lower class people.

How do indo pakistan people distinguish characterless people?

We distinguish character lessness on the basis of three basic concepts.

If he is doing corruption then he is bad in our eyes. We think that he is looting our country,so he is a bad man.

Secondly we distinguish him from the base idolatry or illicit sexual intercourse between unmarried woman and man. So we consider and think that he is a bad person having an unlawful sexual relationship with a woman.

Third one is that if he/she is alcoholic then he is a bad person. Because it has no scene of relationship even his/her future.

But all of these come in only a small part of character lessness.we need to improve us more. So how can we improve it? Let's discuss it briefly.

Professional character

It means you better characterize your professional life or routine. For example you are a cop and your duty time starts from 8 am to 7pm so this is your prime time. You are giving prime time to your profession. If you have no character or morals in your profession then spending your prime was useless.

If you are committed to the values and principles of your professional life than you have good character. If you are not corrupt and doing your job honestly and you come at time and complete your task then your moral and character increase. Hardwork and commitment to your work make your character better.

Greedless

Actually unfortunately most of us think that maybe we would not get it or maybe we would be late. So we try to snatch things. We can't wait for your turn. We feel greedy and think that Maybe someone else would take our rights. So we act awkwardly and lose our moral values and character.

We need to root out this misconception and keep in mind that it is in my luck that no one can take it. Never lose control of your emotions. We need to be strong emotionally and mentally. Think positive and wait for your turn.

Respect your relation

Some of us get so busy in our lives. We don't even imagine our siblings, parents and even we lost them. Those who are alone have more problems and lack of happiness in their lives. They feel more depressed. They have no one to share their personal matters with.

On the other hand, those who are connected with their families, parents, siblings and friends enjoy life more and make their name and morals. They build their character in a better way. They have more respect and happiness in their lives. Those who keep in touch with people gain more character and become celebrities.

Accept your life

Those who accept their current life live an easy life. They accept all challenges of life.

They are happy with happiness and also strong in bad conditions.

Once, he had no shoes. He was a poor man who couldn't afford to buy shoes for himself. He was blaming himself while walking beside a road. Why was he living a poor life ? Why can't he afford shoes? Suddenly he saw a man walking in front of him on a wooden stand, unfortunately he had no legs. That time he thanked God that he is better than him. He has no legs, at least I have feet. So unfortunately if you lose any part of your body. Or if you lost your wealth then don't be ungrateful. Say thanks to almighty still you're enjoying a better life. This makes your life characterfull.

Believe in better future

If you have doubts about your future life and profession then you can't enjoy life in a better way. You always count negative things. Unfortunately we don't look at what we got from the past.

Believe that if you honestly think about the past right now, I am 100% sure you would say thanks. Thanks for everything I learnt from the past or I achieved from the past.

Wait to recall that moment of your life again when you came back from the mouth of death. Be thankful to god and your past. Learn from the past. All you have everything right now are all Because of your past.

So clear your future and expect better to happen in future. This would increase your energy and character.

Synopsis

Lastly, I would like to say that mistakes are part of our lives. So humans make mistakes. But we should learn from mistakes rather than fear from mistakes. Most of the things we want to do in our life but can't because of the past. We faced loss in business in the past . We don't make any investment in the future,this is not fair. We should expect better and try your luck.

Keep smiling, showing path, charity, helping others, giving respect to others and good morals provide you a better life and keep your moral values higher. You get better character in your social circle. Keep doing better, you are the best.

Thanks! for reading 🙂