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Consistency is the key of success
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@Aalia
“Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it. We all die.” "The worse death is the death of our hope." Once I was awake and fully aware of my childhood memories, I no longer feared physical death. Life and death is personal, as is our own life changing journey, both are walked on a one way street, we are born alone and we will die alone, it’s the in-between life and death that matter.
@Aalia
Your existence isn't about pleasing people to be attracted in you, because you have that perfect glass figure. you are here, to learn new things that makes you drive into the peace that only yourself could ever give, so does seek for something that your soul desire to be eaten at. you are here, to discover and fight for your own life despite of bulky mountains, to conquer the madness of thunderstorm, and to swim in the bashing waves of uncertainties. you are here to grow and satisfy yourself through being soft and gentle. sometimes, being physically attractive won't help you to validate the tranquility you long to embrace whereas, it's not the best version of you. your entirely purpose is to attract people through your personal grow, to show what you've got from drowning. let yourself be decorated with optimism and focus of being mentally stable while letting your emotion to be aesthetic and balm your soul with shadow of root you was once were.
@Aalia
Can we find healing through our purpose? Deep pain often draws us closer to our purpose because we want to know the actual reality of life. In search for the truth of life, we find the reason for our existence. At that moment, the experience of pain changes into healing. Some situations leave us deeply wounded. We are unable to understand why it happened to us. We then connect with ourselves and are led to our higher self; this is when we experience the bliss of life and all experiences become one experience of life. Embrace every experience as part of life, clear your heart of resentment and connect with your higher self, you will be led to your purpose and, fulfilling your purpose heal yourself. #healing #purpose #higherself #hurt
@Aalia
We are always told to be strong and to be brave but somehow, no one tells us exactly how. Perhaps, we never travelled the same exact roads, we never knew what there is in front of us and we never have to follow the same trails that are left for us from people who were ahead of us. But there are these people who believe in us, that whatever hurdles and detours we get to experience along the way, either it's in pursuing our passion, fulfilling our dreams or whatever the thing that keeps us braving, we'll be able to get through them, and we'll deal with them in our own way. I think having someone who believes in us is enough to believe in ourselves—but courage always lies within. Always believe in yourself, that's when you begin to gain courage.
@Aalia
When you run out of stories to tell, When you don't have the energy to speak, When you can't explain what you're feeling and you don't wanna talk about it because you're afraid I might get offended. Just stay. Coz I love doing nothing with you, —and you don't have to be an interesting person every single day.
@Aalia
Maybe you can't understand what's happening in your life right now, you don't know what's the journey behind every sunrise but I hope you pick up your broken pieces and stitch them, I hope you still hold in that little hope inside your heart that sunsets lead us to beautiful endings. I hope you manage to live despite of having an urge to disappear, keep going, maybe today we can't understand the process of life but someday, hopefully we will find happiness and peace that our heart desire to feel. Just move, slowly. You can do it!
@Aalia
People know your name, not your story. They’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through. So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt. In the end, it’s not what others think, it’s what you think about yourself that counts. Sometimes you have to do exactly what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else ❤ ☆* May the Angels shine light on your path today ❤
@Aalia
There are those who love us and hugs us with no conditions, no matter what, through all the storms and drama of our lives. These people are a treasure and the best way to attract one into your life, is to BE ONE of these humans. Forever can mean forever, if our Souls are connection in unconditional Love..
@Aalia
Why should we never fear the challenges we face in life? We all face many different obstacles, even in our everyday life. As we overcome many of them unknowingly, we don't see them as a challenge. When we face a challenging situation, the ease with which we overcome it decides how we feel about it. When the situation is difficult, requires patience and perseverance, and brings us to the verge of giving up, it might seem like the toughest life situation, but once we get through it, it doesn't feel the same. Don't fear the challenges in life. Find ways to overcome them, ask for support and never lose self-trust. Once you overcome them, the same challenge will make you feel like a champion. #challenge #champion #fearless #keepstrong
@Aalia
If you are not going to respect yourself, then how can you expect others to respect you. It’s all up to YOU. When you are good to yourself then you are showing others how you like to be treated. It's not being selfish to care about yourself, in fact it's actually a requirement on the way to enlightenment. It's about remembering how valuable we really are as Spirit within. A Soul having a human journey. The main thing is remembering how valuable you are and having self worth as a human.
@Aalia
Why should we never feel defeated in life? Life is full of ups and down. Some days we feel like winners; some days, we feel we have lost the game of life. How we handle defeat greatly influences how worthwhile we feel in life. There are times in life when even with our best try, we are unable to achieve what we want. We start to doubt ourselves and feel like a failure in life. Self-doubt affects our ability to stand back on our feet, and the more we underestimate ourselves, the more we lose our confidence in life. Never underestimate yourself. It doesn't matter whether you lose or win; what matters is how gracefully you accept it and keep going. #win #lose #defeat #achieve #selftrust
@Aalia
When we focus only on what we want to feel and happen, and nothing else, we provide a clear path for that physical reality to come to life. What we focus on, we find, what we focus on grows, what we focus on seems real and what we focus on we become. "You don't have to be brave, you just have to keep trying. You don't have to be strong, you just have to keep going. Maybe your superpower is refusing to give up, even on your weakest days when you feel you're not enough." - Christy Ann Martine “If you don’t give up on something you truly believe in, you will find a way.” - Roy T. Bennett Today's action (for those who'd like to have fun): Remind yourself 5 things you want to be, have, and experience in your life. If you can't remember what those things are, you can choose them right now. It's never too late to live the life of your dreams. Have a super powerful and fulfilling Evening!! ❤
@Aalia
God's love for you is so great and unexplainable in that He loved you even before you were you. Your mistakes don't surprise him. He has already known your end from the beginning. He knew every mistake you would make, And He has already made a new route for you, He called it 'the way of escape'. Strange but true, that's how much He loves you. Your sins are great, but His love is greater. No matter what you've done, He loves you still. You can still fulfill all of His plans and purpose for your life. Like the prodigal son, God is telling you, "Just come back home!" I can give you a new beginning, I don't care about your ugly past. My plans for you are still to give you a beautiful end. Our broken relationship, I am always ready to mend. You are loved by God every day, Nothing can ever take that away. No matter how big your errors are, His love for you is all that matters.
@Aalia
Why do we judge others? Judging others means we form a firm opinion about others without knowing them enough. With a preset mind, we treat them to fit the notion we have about them. Most of the time, we judge those struggling or doing too well. By letting them down in our minds, we create a sense of superiority over those we feel are behind us and find faults in those ahead of us to satisfy our ego. Try to look beyond a person's appearance, situation or state of life. Understand and help those you see in need and learn from those who have succeeded.
@Aalia
Do you worry? Of course you do. All of us have some worry within us. It is part of being a human with a conscious. But how much do you worry? Is it too much? We don’t ever ask that question. We only ask questions that leads us to believe that we just shouldn’t worry at all. But I’m here to tell you that will never happen. It is just a part of us to worry some. The key here is manage worry to a level that we can live with without affecting our life in a negative way. So how do you manage “worry”? The easiest and most effective way is to first, identify what it is you are worried about. Second, ask an honest question; do you have any influence over this worry? If so, then use courage and willingness to take action to enact your influence as much as possible. If the answer is no, you don’t have any influence over this worry, let it go. If you cannot do anything about it, it doesn’t deserve to occupy space within you. Yes, it is that simple. Stress and worry is simply dealt with in that fashion. This is how you manage your worrying to a level that isn’t detrimental to yourself or your health. It is that simple. Just not always that easy. Especially if you have some very strong beliefs that your should worry about things you don’t have influence over. Just unconsciously always worrying about everything. You have to be present and mindful to ask these informative questions to acknowledge what you have to take action on or to let go of. This simple technique is also a way to alleviate a certain amount of depression, anxiety, fear, sadness, and other thoughts and emotions that weight you down and hold you back in life. Only hold onto what you have influence over. Let go of that you don’t. Acknowledge that you don’t have to carry anymore than you are able to change. Free yourself from too much. Only you have the power to let go or to take action on. Choose wisely.
@Aalia
I tremble at the thought that the universe has a way of bringing two souls together and by owning a heart that has a capacity to love, we fall in love fiercely, repulsively, and carelessly—sometimes, we even abandon ourselves completely and become an entirely different person just to say that the love we have truly fits us. Do we really, though?
@Aalia
If I’ve learned anything from life, it’s that sometimes, the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places. I’ve learned that the most toxic people can teach us the most important lessons; that our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth; and that the most heart-breaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people. I’ve learned that what seems like a curse in the moment can actually be a blessing, and that what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path. I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always hope. And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem, we can’t give up. We have to keep going. Even when it’s scary, even when all of our strength seems gone, we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward, because whatever we’re battling in the moment, it will pass, and we will make it through. We’ve made it this far. We can make it through whatever comes next.
@Aalia
The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot he taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.
@Aalia
Whatever you do, whatever happens with you, never ever treat yourself as unworthy. A lot of people are waiting to take advantage of your lack of self-worth. They are willing to judge you, put you down, abuse your loyalty if it serves them. Don't let them succeed. Embrace selflove.
@Aalia
Dear Life. A confession. I still cry when things get really tough. I live in a hustle culture and being busy is the new norm. It feels like I'm cramming as much as I can into each waking moment, the world tells me I'm not living my true potential. And when I feel like I'm failing and falling behind, this is when it's hard to stay inspired and difficult to find steady ground to stand on. I apologise for creating my own heartbreaks through expectations because of all the rushing around. I forgot to stay still and open myself up to your very natural flow. And that it's okay to get lost, to backtrack, to reimagine, and to try again. Nothing is wasted because it all counts. You are challenging, but you are also empowering. I keep rising from the aches of being and learning to let go of not knowing. Life, I trust in your timing.
@Aalia
My grandmother said: 'Don't let your pans shine brighter than you do. Don't take house cleaning so seriously. Life is short, have fun! Dust when you need to, but also take time to paint a picture or write a poem, take a walk or visit a friend. Cook whatever you want, water your plants.... Take time off to drink a beer, swim at the beach (or pool), climb mountains, play with dogs, listen to music, read books, spend time with your friends and enjoy life. Dust off if you need to, but life goes on outside. You know this day will never come back. 'Dust off if you need to' but remember that you are getting older and many things you can do now are not so easy to do in your old age. And when you leave, since we all leave one day, you will also become dust... And no one will remember how many bills you paid, not even your clean house, but they will remember your friendship, your fun and what you teached them.'
@Aalia
What makes a good life? Undoubtedly it is your own perspective of life. How do you see life happening? See, so many people live in a world where their perspective keeps them from even being grateful for the life they have. They become enveloped by catabolic energy and the focus on trauma, lacking, and even loss. This is how we become programmed on every thing we experience. If we are catabolic then we see catabolic. If we are anabolic then we see anabolic. The neuroplasticity in our brain wires a certain way because of the quality of our thoughts, emotions, and actions. And form the habitual perspective we use most of the time. All derived from our perception of anything. But we have a choice. We can be mad and yet at any moment choose to be different. We can be offended and yet decide to not be. These are always our choices. Very simple choices but not always easy choices. There’s a difference. Even when we get caught up in very catabolic moments, we still have that choice on how we want to perceive it. To be influenced by it. To choose the energy we want to show up with at any given moment. No one ever promised life was going to be easy. But it is still simple. We are the ones that make it difficult by trying to force life or choosing the wrong energy for that moment. Don’t wish for as easy life. Instead wish for the focus and strength to choose the energy you want to be so you can attract that same energy back to you in this life. Remember, bad things happen at times. This is part of the life we live and experience. But how you perceive any moment in life is truly your choice. And you can make that choice at any time you desire. Choose more anabolic energy in your life. Choose to be happier. Choose abundance.
@Aalia
"No one will love you before you love yourself" is a really bad way of articulating "if you don't see your own value you're more likely to allow other people to mistreat you, so be extra careful when entering relationships if you're struggling with low self worth."
@Aalia
Imagine standing in front of a clean canvas, with a paintbrush in the one hand and a palette of paint with a full range of colors in the other. Your instruction is to paint your life story with the available colors in the available space of the canvas. What would your painting look like? If you should stand back and look at it from a distance - as is done in art galleries - would you be inspired by your piece of art or would you be discouraged? While alive you can always start a new painting, one that will inspire rather than discourage. Let's create paintings. Paintings that will inspire using the available tools to the best of your ability!
@Aalia
TRIGGER WARNING I don't give myself too much credit, but there are times I wish I could acknowledge myself more. I wish I could see how passionate, industrious, and jolly I am in the eyes of other people. I wish I could watch myself happily smiling while helping others. I wish I could touch my heart when it feels pain. Right now, all I want is to be the version of me that cares for herself. Because that's what i need to survive. That's what I need to live. To be someone who never hates herself.
@Aalia
Our life is controlled by what we focus on. Happiness is an emotion we feel when we focus on the best in our life. Positivity is a mindset. Positive mindset is a trained mind that focuses to see the good in every situation. "The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life." - Roy T. Bennett "Miracles start to happen when you give as much energy to your dreams as you do to your fears." - Richard Wilkins If you want to see your competition, look in the mirror at this gorgeous and talented person. It is you now vs you yesterday or even a minute ago. Each moment can be a new beginning if we allow it to be. Our only power is this very moment and in a way we live it. Have a super powerful day, moment by moment! ❤
@Aalia
No one has the right to judge you. They might have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going through. No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently. So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. What most people think and say about you isn’t all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself ❤ 𝓗𝓾𝓰𝓼 & 𝓚𝓲𝓼𝓼𝓮𝓼 𝓶𝔂 𝓫𝓮𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮𝓭 𝓯𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓷𝓭𝓼 ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤️
@Aalia
Here are some things you should do to truly live your life: 1. Do the things that will make you happy. No matter how big or small it’s effect on your life will be, for as long as you’ll be happy without aggravating anyone, do it. 2. Take chances and don’t be afraid to take risks. You will never enjoy your life if you’re always hiding behind your fears. If you want to do something, as I have read somewhere, “You have to want it more than you fear it.” Taking chances means trying things regardless of its outcome because the real essence is in the process. You may not win on your first try, but the lessons you will learn while trying will help you build a stronger version of you. 3. Be ready to get judge but most especially, be your own judge. You should know that not everyone around you will like your real identity. Some will love you while you’re not surpassing them, but when you do, they’ll always make a plan to bring you down. Others will hate you from the very beginning up to the very end. Some will hate you from the start but as the time goes by, as you unleash your real self, they’ll see the goodness that resides within you. Of course, there are those people that remain true to you and ready to support you in your whole journey. Focus on them—the people who see the goodness in you. I know that you can judge on your own as to who they are. 4. Distance yourself from all the toxicity in this world. You shouldn’t be living your life being stress on the bad things that are happening around you, it’s not yours to carry all alone. Do not spend your whole life trying to reorganize yourself as to how toxic people want you to be, you’re just wasting your time. 5. Enjoy and celebrate even the little achievement that you have accomplished. Celebrating your success boosts the happiness that’s waiting to happen in your life. The key to be successful is to be genuinely happy and fulfilled.
@Aalia
Why do, at times, we lose motivation in life? Our Motivation to achieve is greatly driven by our needs. We always feel motivated when we do something to fulfil our true needs. Sometimes, we begin something with a lot of enthusiasm but soon find it hard to continue due to a lack of motivation. We tend to lose motivation because we choose to do something that is not truly needed, doesn't add value to our lives, or we are not really passionate about it. To keep yourself motivated, there has to be a hunger to achieve it. When you feel that achieving will bring a positive change and a significant difference, you wake up each day with a passion for pursuing it. #motivation #passionate #need #achieve
@Aalia
You are limited only by the walls you build around yourself, nothing can stop you, only you. Know your limits, but never stop trying to exceed them, you are stronger than you think, yes, more powerful than you can imagine. All limits only exist in the mind, there are great abilities within you that you will find, if only you choose to try. Once you try, and discover how true this is, there's no telling what you can do or who you can become, for the limitations have been broken, there's no more fear, freedom is here.
