Relationship /Love your partner

We can't avoid not fighting with our spouses especially if the dispute is about money, children but do you know that the best secret to strengthen your relationship is to caress your spouse, explaining the misunderstanding , and the good thing is to go outside when you are angry and when you come back to home buy her/him a gift for peace offering,if the one is angry then try to calm down and explain your right too, don't be angry too because your relationship going to lost if both of you is fire and your kids is going to suffer when their parents is separated,think your child first before you action