You Can't Change Bad Child

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3 years ago

Firstly, remember you can't change bad child but you can change bad behavior. The only reason the behavior is bad is because they are exploring the world and learning where the boundaries are. They have to make mistakes in order to find out what's what. It is only natural and quite normal .

The same goes for any other behavior that is out of the ordinary. There are no clumsy children, only clumsy behavior. There are no stupid children, only stupid conduct. They are no spiteful children, only spiteful acts. There are no selfish children, only selfish actions.

They don't Know any better and it is your job as a parent to teach them, educate them, help them, encourage them. You start off on the wrong food if you start off believing they are bad.

Listen, you're almost bound to fail if you believe then to be faulty. You can't change a bad behavior. If you believe the child is good, you're on to a winner immediately. All you've got to do is change the behavior and that is an attainable goal.

It is awfully detrimental to say to a child, 'You are a bad child'. It sets something up in their mind that is hard to shift. Better to say, 'You've done a naughty thing' , or ' You've been naughty' . This they can do something about. But if you tell them they are bad, there is nothing they can do about that and it affects them forever...

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The role and the influence of a mother on children is extremely strong. They start to nurture their children from childhood .the earlier, the best. Children atimes are adamant, we must look over them not to misbehave

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3 years ago

Children are so adamant. Stubborn children may have strong opinions and tend to argue. They may become defiant if they feel that they aren't being heard. Most of the time, when your child insists on doing or not doing something, listening to them and having an open conversation about what's bothering them can do the trick.we should learn to give them attention

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3 years ago

Atimes,they will some important issue to discuss with us, let try to give them maximum attention. Some parents never know the well being of their since they give their children a caretaker,some parent have time for their work than their children

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3 years ago

We shouldn't prioritize our works over our kids... They needs us at the tender age because their minds are so open for different teaching to come in... We should set aside time to teach them, discipline them and time to ignore their behavior.. thanks for your contribution dear

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3 years ago

, there is time for everything ,time to let them know how to face the challenges of life and how to overcome it and time to start thinking about the future and works towards it

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3 years ago

That's it dear ... And at each time we should be able to teach them what to do... Although they will always makes mistake at each phase of life but we should be there for them and telling them how to go about life.. thanks for your contribution ... Are you a mother? Your illustrate this well๐Ÿค”

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3 years ago

You welcome dear ......anyways am not a mother yet but a mother to be

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3 years ago

This is really great, we all should learn how to deal with the bad behavior that our children or our younger ones display... This your article have shown me some important point to tackle bad behavior in our children life without hurting them.. Thanks so much for this great pieces of information.

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3 years ago

Exactly dear... We should all learn to correct our young ones, children with love and not be strict with them because of their bad behavior sometimes....

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3 years ago

Yeah we really need to, because that will help them to get over the bad habit or behavior.

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3 years ago

Children behavior are kind of dynamic and critic in so many ways I must say. They are so very kind of varites you could learn and unlearn about them the better .

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3 years ago

They are young but at times they do things beyond their age.. the best is to correct them in love and not telling them they are bad... It's their behavior that's bad, so we should correct them, teach them and most importantly listen to them... Sometimes they might be the one that's right while the mother might not.... Right???

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3 years ago

Well one thing that is key is to always tell them the truth about thing don't just tell them not to do something tell the good and bad part of it they would choose.

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3 years ago

Correct.. parents should teach their kids both good things and bad things do that they will be able prevent themselves from bad things... Thanks for your contribution..

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