How to handle a toodler.

Some say that the hardest part of being a mom is in the early stage of pregnancy, they said that once you give birth the difficulties will be over. But is it really the case? Being a mom my struggles starts when my child started walking and talk. All the thing she does sometimes annoys me to the point sometimes all i want is to just lock myself in the room. Is there really a thing about how to handle a toodler? Are we really prepared for what they have in store for us moms? The answer is there is no pattern of how to handle them every child is unique you just have to be patient with them until they understand what right and wrong on their own. My advice is us mom's should just always be there for them.