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Let's boost your public presentation skills When you think of making a presentation, do you feel unnecessary nervousness, do your hands start to shake or do you suddenly break out in a sweat? If yes, you are not alone. For many people, presenting and speaking in front of a crowd can be a stressful and anxiety-inducing event. Speaking with all eyes on you, controlling your body language, focusing on what you are saying, managing your time well and most importantly, preparing a speech that will not allow the audience to get bored can be quite challenging, but it is possible to improve your presentation skills with a few tactics. Who will you be presenting to, what is the age range, occupational groups, education levels of your audience? By learning the answers to these questions in advance, if possible, you can develop tactics that will appeal more to the audience you are presenting to. Thus, you can produce content that is more suitable for your target audience and shape your speech in a way that will attract their attention more. Knowing your audience in advance can not only improve your presentation but also make you feel more comfortable and reduce your stress and anxiety. Make sure you are well informed about the topic you are presenting on. Prepare well enough to be able to answer your audience's questions and to know the details of the topic. The better prepared you are, the more confident you will be and the less likely you are to panic on stage. If you are going to support your speech with a visual presentation, make sure you use interesting visuals and do not overwhelm your slides with too much written text. To ensure that the technical infrastructure does not let you down, check the place where you will speak in advance. Find out if the projection machine, remote control, computer, sound systems, etc. are working, how they are controlled, and if possible, talk to someone to help you with technical issues that day. Decide whether you will go through your slides yourself or ask someone to help you. Remember that a good presentation requires thorough preparation. This preparation includes not only what you are going to say, but also you. Just as you spend days preparing your presentations down to the finest details, adding tables, notes, visuals and working to ensure that nothing is missing, you should also take care of your own needs. Pay attention to your nutrition, sleep, prepare your mind, manage your stress, calm yourself with breathing techniques, prepare both physically and mentally. Especially if you feel nervous before appearing in front of people, spend a few minutes meditating, if possible, to keep your reactions such as sweating, trembling, rapid heartbeat under control and go on stage or on the podium with optimum inner peace. As you can imagine, no one enjoys listening to a presentation with an uncertain content and ending. The unknown can be frustrating for people of all ages, especially in academic and professional life. Therefore, preparing an outline to inform your audience before you start your speech can put them at ease and make it easier for them to focus. Outlining how long your presentation will last, which topics you will cover, when you plan to take a break, whether you will have time for Q&A, and planning both your content and your time can help you get off to a good start. Instead of worrying about what people will think of you, focus on what you are saying and think about what your message will evoke in them. Don't worry too much about how your physical appearance is perceived, just think about your words. Share your knowledge, entertain, inspire, that's all. Don't let the fear of being judged overtake you; ask yourself what message you want to give to the audience and only engage your mind to get there. Don't get sidetracked, focus on the big picture. Otherwise, if you worry too much about what people will think of you, you may start doubting yourself, and that can cause you to fail. It doesn't matter if you are preparing for a presentation, a meeting or a conference. Whether you are speaking in front of 3 people or 300, make sure you practice often to feel more confident and comfortable. In this way, you can improve your presentation skills; you can go in front of people with great confidence by realizing that you are getting better as you practice. You can make this process more efficient by recording yourself while practicing. This way, you can capture where and how you speak, how you use your gesture-mimics and how you look. If you don't want to videotape yourself, you can create the same effect by practicing in front of a mirror.

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We embraced each other at the wrong time . We tried to be companions to our pain at the very wrong time. We had no remedy, how could we heal our wounds. Still, it was a hope, even though this endeavor was as pointless as looking for a breath of air at the bottom of the sea, once our arms were entangled. As we wiped our tears, we couldn't even say to each other that we would see beautiful days from now on. We knew because no wound could be healed with lies... Half a soul: It's exhausting to travel with my burdened troubles. Between you and me, that's why I don't even make any effort to run away. I don't feel the need to face anything, I don't even feel incomplete or inadequate. I just want to stand still and look at life. Suppose I am an anonymous portrait that God has scribbled in his novice period. I am destined to be inactive and I am quite content with that. I can live a life at peace with inaction and unresponsiveness. I don't know, birds fly, seasons pass, people go, time flows and I just watch. I can fill my eyes with deep and meaningful glances, as if I am looking for a solution to a vital problem, as if I am about to tell you the cure for the biggest troubles. There are no painful sighs, for example, no jealousy gushing out of my eyes. I can even pretend that I am a person who is far from all human weaknesses, but at the same time, I am a person with feelings. How can I put it... I just want to live still for a while. I need it so badly that I can even endure a century of inactivity... Believe me, I only wanted to break this damaged cycle for you...but... Oh, we put our arms around each other at the wrong time. At a time when I was burning with the desire to be lost in a deep unresponsiveness and you felt that even a simple reaction was too much for you. In short, it was the worst possible timing. Otherwise, believe me, the problem was not with you, the problem was that we were stuck in the unbearable pain of existing for a long time. The other half soul: I'm done with lies a long time ago, that's why I'm so hard on myself. Like just before a suicide, no thought other than tossing and falling grows in me. I have been away from life for a long time. I've been tossed about like a yellowed leaf in the wind, and the strange thing is that I've been enjoying it in a way that seems strange even to myself. It was as if God had created me to be aimlessly tossed about and I was discovering the me I was meant to be through another absence. I don't know if that's why I like storms. I don't envy having winds that make it easier for me to drift. In my life, which is divided into yes or no, black or white, I do not rejoice like a child when I see the grays that herald the arrival of the storm. And yet, despite my fear, when those grays that I loved appeared in the sky, I longed for the entrance to turn black and the lightning to illuminate the sky. There is no such thing as a choice...everything that was offered as a choice was a trap for me. If there was a choice, believe me, I would have chosen you in every possible life. But... When God has equipped all my paths with different reflections of the same result, when every option presented to me is either black or black... And when I was blessed with having to be on the wrong side of life every time, I couldn't ignore the possibility of being tossed away in the middle of the storm. No way, no how. God knows that would have been bullshit, I couldn't bear it. I said to God one day, "Your reality, take it, send me to hell. That's when I was struck by the lightning of those storms I loved so much... I would like to say... but he didn't see me again and I think I was forgotten again... Actually, I'm not in the mood for all this angry behavior. Don't look at the foul-mouthed rebellious child behavior. I'm just another desperate man digging his grave with the need to be loved. Believe me, I only wanted to walk a few steps towards life for you...but We put our arms around each other at the wrong time. At a time when I accepted profound unresponsiveness as the most likely solution and you pushed the limits of resignation. It wasn't your fault, it wasn't mine... it was the fact that we were possessed by the pain of the insatiable emptiness that precedes annihilation. Sometimes two halves are just two halves; the damage is so great that they cannot be whole in this life even if they wanted to be.