@turuncuOnNoiseApp 11 January 2023

People who are happy and smiling seem to have no problems. Moreover, happy people are blamed as if they have never faced any difficulties. I say to all people who complain about the difficulties of life: "You are so wrong!". I am going through such a process that "sinking to the bottom" is not enough to express it... I am like a machine that extracts oil from underground. I'm still digging, but I haven't gotten to the oil yet. 😂😂😂 That oil will come out one day! Or at least we'll have a well and plenty of water. Then we'll take a nice bath and watch the sun rise. 😅 Rest assured, everyone has their own problems, no matter where they are in the world. So, stop blaming everyone else, let alone competing with others on the excuse of the size of your problems, and face your problem. What is certain is that most people want to be with you if you are happy and smiling. But if you're unhappy, sad, and in pain, very few people stay with you. It's not their fault. It is not your fault. It's nobody's fault. Because everyone, including me and you, want to be happy and to be with happy people. The attitude we need to take here is to face our problems, do our best to find a solution, and appreciate what we get when we dig under the ground. It could be oil, it could be water, it could be peanuts, ginger, groundnuts, carrots. But whatever happens, what we achieve is the fruits of our efforts. Yes, I don't have time to deal with other people's problems because I struggle with my problems. And I'm kind to myself for that, because that's what I can do. I don't mind if people leave me because I'm dealing with my problems. Because instead of understanding how I am emotionally, I can't deal with the problems, distress, interest and benefit expectations of many people among my many problems. In other words, I can do nothing but embrace those who stayed with me during this period with love and gratitude. Those who want to go already know their way and go out of my life spontaneously. I don't apologize to anyone for this, nor do I expect an apology from anyone. Everyone is free to make their own choices. You can easily make anyone who wants to be happy laugh. But you can't force anyone to be happy if they don't want to. I just need people in my life who appreciate the little happiness, who can make me smile with a single word and who are happy when I smile. I can easily recognize people who are unhappy when I laugh and do their best to make me unhappy, and I can immediately remove them from my life. So it's everyone's choice to stop being bothered by the happiness of others and whether to let go of jealousy. Anyone who continues to dig the ground and has the courage to stand up in the face of difficulties will be rewarded for their hard work. Those who despise the efforts of others and envy their achievements are left alone even in the crowd. Gains are not just financial. Beautiful and good people, wonderful friends, and wisdom are indeed the most important and great gains. So smile my friend and be happy!. Because you deserve it. I am happy with you too. And I know you're happy when I smile because you're next to me right now. Your smile adds light to my life. And I share my light, my joy, and my happiness with you. Because what illuminates the darkness is that we shine a light on each other. When those who tried to extinguish the light of others with their own darkness left my life because they failed to do so, you are the one who stayed with me. I love you! ❤️ Thank you for not trying to change me, being with me even in my change, and honoring me with your presence.🙏