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LOVE CAN BE UNCONDITIONAL. BUT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS HAVE CERTAIN CONDITIONS. We can love those we love without expecting them to love us. We don't expect them to meet any of their conditions to love them. But love is important in healthy relationships. However, we also need mutual trust, loyalty, help, support, making time for each other, being there for each other in good times and bad days. Loving someone does not mean that we have to constantly meet his needs, do whatever he wants, and devote most of our day to him. Love needs no conditions. We can even love people we're not in a relationship with. An actor or actress doesn't have to come into our lives for us to love. We can love an artist without even knowing him/her. We can love unconditionally, not just humans, but all living things in the world. Certain conditions do not need to be met in order to love. However, relationships are not just love, they have many variables other than love. We cannot calculate everything one by one as we do accounting, but we must make our sacrifices balanced so that our relations can remain healthy. Sacrificing our own happiness to make others happy will upset this balance. If the person whose wishes and expectations we are trying to meet does not do the same or similar things for us and ignores our wishes, we cannot talk about the balance in this relationship. The first condition of close relationships is love. Even if love is unconditional, it is one of the most important conditions of close relationships. It doesn't have to be a condition of love. It would even be great if the whole world could learn about unconditional love. Relationships will only be healthy when certain conditions are met in a balanced way for the benefit of all. Yes, true love is unconditional love. But relationships require certain conditions. Would you like to meet every request of a person you don't like, devote most of your time to him/her, and be there for him/her whenever he/she has a problem? Would you want to do that even if he/she didn't do anything for you? Would you like to be friends with someone you don't like? Would you like to take a large amount of loan from the bank for him/her? Would you ever want to marry someone you don't love? Would you like to dedicate your life to him/her? Let's say you find out that a friend of yours is a thief, cheater or murderer. Would you continue to be friends with him/her by saying, "Friendship is sacred!"? "No, I'm talking about true friendship", I seem to hear people say. You cannot recognize a true friend at first sight. We get to know people over time. I'm speaking as someone who thinks hundreds of fake friends are real friends. Friendship, marriage and all kinds of relationships have many conditions such as mutual love, trust, respect and understanding. Love may be unrequited, but relationships are conditional. In order to make friends with someone, we need to trust that person. We love our friends. Because love is the condition of friendship. But we don't have to be friends with someone we love. Because love doesn't have to be conditional. Of course, another thing that consumes relationships is expectations. While all relationships are subject to certain conditions, having too many expectations harms relationships. "True Friendship is sacred." But joining an illegal gang, selling drugs with the person you have been friends with for years is the opposite of sacrament. We must choose our friends well. It is better to be alone than to be in a relationship where we will exhaust ourselves and lose our personality and character. Friendship, marriage, and any relationship can be sacred if they meet certain conditions. Love, trust, allocating enough time to each other, taking care of each other sincerely, helping and supporting each other... But we can talk about a healthy relationship if both parties fulfill these. Trust is subject to conditions. It is one of the most important conditions in all relationships. We don't need conditions to love someone. But it would be wiser to love from afar than to have relationships that could harm us. ®️ This article was entirely original written by me. It's just a point of view after all. Nobody has to participate. But if there is a point that you do not agree with, you can specify it with its logic. In this way, I can realize the points that I missed. 🔰It's a long article. Thank you for taking the time to read. 🙏 ©️ Photo is free for commercial or non-commercial use according to Pixabay license terms shared by Bob_Dmyt at https://pixabay.com/photos/team-friendship-group-hands-4529717/. #originalcontent #CreativeWriting #Writing #Articles