A personal look at relationships We can't always do everything perfectly. Even if we are very smart, even geniuses, we can do simple stupid things. Even if we have excellent speaking ability, we can sometimes make mistakes even in simple sentences. Our words are sometimes true, sometimes jokes. Even if we have a perfect memory, we can forget where our car key is, an important day. These do not show that we are guilty, flawed, sinful. We are just people who can make mistakes.…
Negative Acceptance! Negative Acceptance! "How you start your day, you continue." Maybe! If you don't do something about it... There is a difference between fatalism and the victim role. It must be so... I'm not getting into the subject of fatalism at all. But none of us have to pretend to be victims. Whatever happened in the past, it doesn't have to stay like this for the rest of our lives. We may have started the day badly. For example, I started the day with a headache…
Physical, mental and emotional toxicants Those who produce work quickly and efficiently have a common technique. The things they use most often are closest, and the things they use least are farthest away. They don't keep garbage, leftovers and things they will never use there. They also guard important things that might distract them or accidentally drop or break them. That's how life should be. The things that work best for us should be close to us. The loved ones we want…
Short vacation at home Today I spent a little away from social media, closer to my own life and needs. I started the day with a cup of coffee in the morning. Breakfast is a very important meal for me. So I had a nice breakfast. I spent some time in the garden. Then I chose a lot of music that I like on Spotify on the computer. I haven't made a list yet because I want to create a playlist by listening to the music I chose on the phone with headphones. It is important for me…
Today's walking activity with photos. I spent a few days indoors due to the weather and personal possibilities. Finally, I took the opportunity to take advantage of the wonderful weather today and went for a walk. Of course, I also had to shop. As the New Year was approaching, there were stalls in front of many stores with clothes and products sold in stores. There were also a lot of people in the streets. I took pictures of the beautiful and interesting things I saw while I…
To criticize others or to organize your own life? In many places, articles and messages about our discomfort with people in our lives attract my attention. There are so many people who constantly talk about the people who disturb them in their lives, the people who break their hearts... The thing is, we choose the people in our lives, even if we don't consciously choose them. For example, you are the one who chose the boyfriend who broke your heart... "But I didn't know he…
Oh Romeo! Juliet is not here! To ignore the things we are uncomfortable, it hurts us by overloading us emotionally in the long run in the long run in the long term to make us constantly compromise against the mistakes made against us. Because no one has to drive the injustice. That is contrary to existence. Each response is unable to give and delayed as if it does not grow as an avalanche of avalanche. If you fill an enclosed bottle with continuous air, the bottle will…
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