I don't like angry people
I do not like angry people.I don't think anyone does, but I'm pretty sure that I don't like them more than the average person.
There are a lot of reasons why people get angry, and it's easy to see why they would be frustrated or upset. It's not always easy to tell what is going on in someone else's life, and it can be hard to know what is worth being mad about.But anger is not an emotion that helps anyone, and it never solves anything. Anger just makes things worse.
I'm not sure what it is about angry people, but I just can't stand the sound of their voice or the expression on their face. When they're angry, they're not happy, and when they're happy, they're not angry. They are always mad at someone or something.
I don't want to be mad at people all the time. Angry people are always mad at someone and I don't want that to be me.I know that anger is a natural emotion and some people need it more than others, but for me it's just a waste of time and energy.
There is always a downside to everything. For example, one disadvantage of being angry is that you may easily overlook the facts and exaggerate the problem. You may also get angry with people who don't deserve it and they start to become too sensitive to your anger.
Being angry may also lead you to make bad decisions that you regret later on. Anger can cause people's minds to work faster and more creatively but it can also lead people to say or do things that they later regret because their judgement is clouded by their feelings at the time.
**There are many people that think that anger is a sign of a fresh mind and never harbor any wickedness in their heart.**But what will happen with such fresh minded people? Those who hurt others at a moment's and do not hesitate to hurt their own people with their words.They don't have the ability to understand how much it hurts others when they get angry and talk down on others. If they had the understanding at that moment, they would have tried to control their anger because people don't have good sense when they get too angry.
**But angry people have a secret -** when they get too angry, they can't control themselves and many unpleasant truths come out.The truth may be unpleasant to many or it may be a personal secret of the person that he/she has been hiding from others.These things sometimes make the situation more complicated.
It is very important to keep everything in balance in life, of course I have anger too, but those who are overly angry especially those who get angry very quickly, yell and scream and always put others in fear, create scary situations, cannot control themselves during anger, vandalism and rage. Only by insulting others.I never support this kind of behavior and I never want to be this kind of crazy.
I am not against anger in general but I just don't like angry people at all because they are really unpleasant and too mean-spirited for me.
**—**Hey, maybe they're right, maybe they have a fresh mind and never harbor any wickedness in their heart. But it's not a good thing to be angry all the time. I just need a normal person who is easygoing to chat with and make friends with.
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This is for you My dear Friend....🥀
We all love to be in the company of a person who makes us feel loved and cared for. We all cherish that one person who is always there for us, no matter what. They are like our guardian angel, our hero, our sunshine when everything else seems dark.
Expressing gratitude can be a simple thing but it can also be a very complex task. I would like to thank someone very close to my heart in this article:-🥀
My dear friend, You are my sunshine when everything else is dark.
You are my hope when I am lost and without a plan.
You are my strength when I am weak and feeling low.
You make me laugh even when I don't want to smile.
You're the one who understands me, you're the one who sees.
The best part of waking up is knowing that you're mine!
My dear friend, You are my sunshine when everything else is dark,
You are only one, You will always be around.
When I'm alone and feeling blue, You'll dry all of my tears.
You are the one that's always there for me.
This poem of mine is about how the sun can light up even the darkest of days. It reminds us that there is always hope and happiness, even when we feel like everything else is dark.
And that sun of my life is my friend. This poem completely represents my friend, his kindness and love towards me!
I started the poem by saying that “you are my sunshine when everything else is dark” which means that you are the one thing that makes me happy and brings light to my life. It then goes on to say “when I am feeling low” which means that you make me feel better when I am feeling down or depressed.
I will always love you no matter what happens, because you make me happy and bring light into my life.
In this era of technology, it is not necessary to be in the same room to feel connected with your loved one. With social media, we can still share our thoughts and feelings with our loved ones without being physically present with them. I mean, technology has made it easier for us to connect with each other even though we are miles apart from each other.
I want to say something more to express my feelings towards my friend
I love it when I see your smile, :)
I love it when I hear you laugh.
You bring the best out of me,
And make me feel like I'm the one.
You are my sunshine when everything else is dark.....!🌞
**A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.**
This article is a very short presentation about me and my best friend!
**And last but not least--**
My dear friend, You have contributed so much to my life that I cannot finish writing in an article! I want to telling you again "you are my sunshine when everything else is dark". You are the one who makes me laugh until I cry, and the one who always knows what to say. You are my best friend and I love you. I thank God for giving me a friend like you.💖
There are many people who have done terrible things and should not be forgiven. However, there are also people who have made mistakes or done something wrong but they have apologized and they are trying to make amends. The decision of whether or not someone should be forgiven is a personal one that only the person who has been harmed can make.
But People who have committed crimes against humanity should never be forgiven because they have done something that is unforgivable.
And people who are not willing to change their ways should never be forgiven.
Forgive but don't Forget
We are all hurt by someone in our life and it causes us pain. None of us can ever say that he/she has never suffered. We all have this experience. Some may have suffered a lot, some may have suffered less, so they have been able to forget and forgive the person who hurt them.
But I am not writing this article to verify the extent of suffering. Because there is no cure for suffering, only the one who suffers can feel its pain, and it is a matter of time. As time passes our pains fade away, maybe time gives a layer of peace over those pains. But some sufferings cause more wounds that time cannot heal.
We should forgive the people who are responsible for our pain and this forgiveness should be done for our own peace of mind. People who make mistakes definitely deserve a second chance and should be given a second chance to correct their mistakes. Forgiveness is a must but there are some people who should never be given a second chance. Never give two types of people a second chance. Who are they?
**Number one** who always uses the two-faced snake principle. Those who put others in danger and talk in different places for their own good. Those who only care about the politics of self-preservation even if it harms others.
**And the second is** those who are very selfish people. The human race is selfish. Selfishness works within each of us. It's true, we have to be selfish in some cases because the world is very tough and there are many cheaters in the world constantly walking around us. Those who develop a good relationship with us and protect their own interests when necessary. They will forget us completely when the interest is gone or they will not hesitate to harm you if there is any decrease in their own interest.
You can never change such opportunistic people, no matter how much you love them and forgive their faults, they will always look for opportunities to hurt you! So whether they are your family members or someone you love, think 100 times before giving them a second chance.
Don't get carried away by their sweet words. To survive in our society we must have good relations with each other and forgiveness is a noble virtue. There is a very popular dialogue that, we are not connected to each other because we forget each other's mistakes, we are connected because we know how to forgive.
But beware of these two types of people. They are just opportunists and never have the values to appreciate your forgiveness. I'm not talking about breaking up the relationship, I'm talking about maintaining a distance between the relationship that can protect you or me from being in danger in the future.
If your Love is poison!
I’ve been wondering if my love is a poison,
Treating me like it’s a toxic waste.
What if this love is what I deserve?
Your love tastes like poison but I couldn't care less.
I know I have to turn and leave.
The idea of giving up on you makes me feel sad,
But I know it will be the right decision.
**What is the antidote?**
**It's YOU!**
The antidote to this poison is not someone else's love, it is taking your power back. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life being manipulated by someone who doesn't care about anything but themselves? It doesn't matter if they're a lover, friend, or family member. You deserve better than that.
You deserve to find love that strengthens you and your own faith in yourself. It will take time to heal from this relationship and put the pieces back together but once you do, you'll see that life can be so much brighter and healthier than before.
It is hard to say that love is not a poison. It can harm your body, mind and heart. Love can be addictive, it might give you the feeling that you are in love or higher than usual. It will make you feel safe and protected with the other person. But sometimes when you don’t get the attention from them, it will make you feel lonely, self-absorbed and frustrated. It can even bring up feelings of loneliness and unhappiness from past relationships or current ones.
Love can be toxic. It can make you think you're someone else and do something in ways you would never have done before. Love is really scary to me, because it’s a strong feeling that can affect everything about the person. What you would want your lover to know when they do something toxic for you?
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Good morning friends. I hope you are having a great day!
Dear friends, the message which I am writing to all of you is that you should always be happy with your life. There is nothing better than being happy and leading a peaceful life. Love your family, love yourself, love your surroundings as well. Be grateful for what you have in life and do not take anything granted.
You may consider my writings a little advisory but these words are very important for every person's life including me
I just wrote an article and published it on my favorite read.cash profile. Related to that article here is also written for you all.
I hope you will enjoy reading my article and of course it will not be a waste of our time!
https://read.cash/@sj0820/my-happiness-with-self-satisfaction-6afd7b55
All of you have a good day!
My happiness with self-satisfaction!
We live in a society where we are constantly told that success is the ultimate goal. But even although satisfaction and self-satisfaction were more important! This sentence is not often heard.
We all want to achieve success but sometimes we need to remind ourselves that success is not always what makes us happy; even if this comes with failure on the way.
Before we think about materialistic things like attaining a certain status in society or buying expensive clothes, we need to see the benefits of being satisfied with life. Satisfaction is more important than success and there is a balance between the two has a significant impact on our lives.
The happiness of being self-satisfied is different from the success that we seek. It is about feeling good about oneself, having a sense of worth and capability, feeling competent in what one does, and being satisfied with the efforts one puts into it.
We all want to be the best version of ourselves, and if complacency is the way to get there, why let it out of life?
_Self-satisfaction has many benefits that we can all enjoy. Self-satisfaction can provide comfort and relief to those who are going through difficult times or it can motivate us to take on a new challenge.
_One of the most significant benefits of self-satisfaction is that you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone else. You can please yourself without the fear that you might do something that no one else does.
_Another advantage is that it is much less stressful than trying to satisfy someone else's needs. It's easier to get your needs met and less effort as opposed to going out of your way to please the other person. The most important thing is that self-satisfaction is never about perceiving someone, it is about your own satisfaction.
Self-satisfaction is not something that is meant only for depressed people or those who are failing at almost everything. There are many people who have achieved a lot of success and own a lot of wealth, but even if we observe their personal life, we can see that there is no satisfaction in their life.
That's why I say the most important thing is to be satisfied with yourself. No matter what level of success you or I reach, if there is no self-satisfaction, all success will be worthless and it is enough to destroy life. So be satisfied with your achievements!
It's not that I don't want to fulfill the lacks in my life, of course I want to fulfill them, but I am also satisfied with the blessings that are in my life. If we think a little deeper it is very easy to feel that how many people have got what I have got in my life? Not many have. Our desire is unlimited. It is not possible for all of us to fulfill this infinite demand. So to me self-satisfaction is being happy with limited attainments amidst infinite demands and keep trying to achieve the remaining goals. Which makes my heart happy.
It's easy to get scared of failure, but it is a necessary part of the process. We should embrace it, because we can always learn from our mistakes and use them to make us stronger.
At first glance, our culture seems to promote the opposite mind-set that failure is something to be feared. We are taught not to make mistakes and consider them as bad or wrong. It's time for a change in mindset where we understand that this attitude does more harm than good when it comes to creativity and innovation.
And there is my article discuss this in detail.
https://read.cash/@sj0820/dont-win-at-all-cost-6cbde33e
Don't win at all cost...!
The 'winning at all costs' mentality can be seen in our work life, school life, and personal lives. It is the mentality of only trying to win and never accepting defeat. The mentality can be harmful to society. It can also be harmful to your personal life, by making you competitive and angry with others.
In our society, this mentality is often normalized. We are raised in a generation where we are told that anything worth having is hard fought for and thus we should also want to win at all cost. This mindset that has been adopted by many people in the world. This mentality has led to many problems in the world, such as violence, crime, and corruption.
This mentality has also led to many problems in personal lives. People who have this mentality are often not satisfied with what they have and always want more. They are never satisfied with their achievements and always want more success.
This culture of winners has led to us feeling like failures if we don’t “win” against our opponents, even if it involves deceiving them or others, because they were given an unfair advantage against us.
Winning at all costs is not the best way to go about life. As a result, it can lead to bad outcomes for both the individual and society. It can be seen in many forms, from social media to politics. It's propelled by the idea that there will be an ultimate reward for achieving success at any cost. But that mindset is causing people to disregard others, which ultimately disrupts society and individual well-being.
**With a fixed mindset, you are either a winner or a loser.** Yet with a growth mindset, you see that failure is an inevitable part of the process and there’s always more room for improvement. If you currently have a fixed mindset and want to change it over to a growth one, then there are plenty of ways in which you can do this. For example; consider failing at something every day for 30 days in order that you can experience what it feels like and how hard it is to recover from defeat. This will help you build resilience so that when something bad happens, your reaction will be acceptance and determination instead of doubt or guilt.
**Success is not the absence of failures. Successful people have the mindset that they can make mistakes - it's how they use them to learn and grow.** It's all about your mentality, but if you think that you are going to succeed in everything you do, this will only lead to failure. So instead of dismissing failure as a negative thing, consider changing your winning mindset to one that allows you to welcome failure.
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Good Morning Friends! Happy Friday 🤗
Today I woke up early so fast think I did was make breakfast. And now I am here. That is, I am writing to share with you what I have done since morning and what I am doing now.
I have a problem when I get up early in the morning and that is hunger after a while. I finished my breakfast and now I am eating ice cream and in between my daughter brought guava. She cut guava into small pieces and mixed it well with kasundi (pickle) and green chili paste and salt. Now how can I say no to this food?
There is no question of saying no! So eating and having fun. How is your day friends?
Wishing you all a very happy day...!!!
Sudden plan Outing with KIDS....!!
Last three months ago, on Eid-Ul-Fitr we went to the village with my son and daughter. After visiting the village for about ten days, I returned to Dhaka. But so far Eid-Ul-Adha has been celebrated but I have not gone anywhere special with the children. That's why I suddenly made a plan to go outing on my daughter's special request. So let's see friends where we went outing with the kids and what fun we had all day!
I have seen many ads on Facebook about Toggi Fun World and many content creators are going there and uploading videos on Facebook. So we decided to go to Toggi Fun World with my kids which is located at floors 7, 8 and 9 of Bashundhara City shopping complex. It is basically a shopping complex of huge area. But I went especially for kids because there are different riders to play for kids and kids have a lot of fun.
After entering through the main door of the shopping complex, there is a small ticket counter in front to collect tickets. After collecting the tickets as usual, we went to the seventh floor. At the time of entry, a person standing at the gate took the cash memo we had to collect the tickets and asked the children to wear the badges that were given to them. This badge is basically made of paper with Toggy Fun World sticker painted on it. This badge is applied like a sticker on the children's Wrist. When children get on a rider, that badge will be checked and placed on that rider.
Although I couldn't take pictures of everything there because it was a holiday and it was very crowded that day. It was very difficult for me to manage two children and take pictures. That's why I managed to capture some pictures in my mobile and I will try to use them in my article.
It is good to say that there were separate riders for children by age. As my son is 4 years old and my daughter is 11 years old, I have collected tickets for both my children in separate packages so that they do not miss any game and enjoy it fully. Time to get on the riders!!
This rider rise slowly from the bottom. After reaching the maximum, it will stop and jerk, that is, it will shake. Whenever it shakes, all children start screaming, in fact, this scream does not seem to be a sign of fear, this is sign of express their joy.
Riding these horses was suitable for two brothers and sisters. Although my daughter didn't want to ride it because she thought it was for little kids even though it was appropriate for her age. Then she was requested to sit with his brother. *If there are younger brothers and sisters, the older brothers and sisters have to adjust like this.😊
My son had to sit alone in this train as it was only for children of his age. But my son was not scared at all and enjoyed it very much.
My daughter has ridden it twice. She said she felt dizzy after riding it but she enjoyed it a lot. That's why I named it Dizzy Rider!
It was the cutest small toy rider where my son fastened his seatbelt himself.
Here I have uploaded only a few toy rider pictures but there are about 25-30 more such riders. It is not possible to present all of them in one article. Not writing anything about food because we didn't really eat anything special there. I just walked and had a cup of coffee and the kids ate ice cream.
We entered Toggi Fun World around 3pm and left at 9pm. About 6 hours. My father does not like to stay out late at night. Besides, the children were with me. That's why we didn't eat there because if we sat down to eat there, we would have been late for another hour. For this I buy food from there and pack it and bring it home. Then everyone eats together. I was so hungry that I didn't have the energy to take pictures.😏🤐
This was the backdrop for my one day outing with the kids. I hope all my readers will like it. And for those who can't make time to go anywhere like me, you can quickly make a plan for such an outing. I promise this will be the most effective plan of your life. Friends, if you have any such impromptu plans that worked, please share with me. Until then stay well, stay healthy and stay safe, have a good day!!!
****All uploaded images are captured on my mobile camera!**
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*Written By@sj0820
Good noon Friends. Today after lunch I sat in my favorite place that means in front of the computer screen where I can interact with you all and it is my best place to spend time.
A few days ago, I went to the shopping complex with my children. There is also a children's playground. I visited this shopping complex especially for this reason and the kids enjoyed it very much. Taking the children outside sometimes to refresh their minds and playing with other children helps their mental development very quickly.
I am not sharing more about this today. I will share some pictures with you, hope you like it Friends.
Maybe what you need is Dopamine Detoxification!
If you are one of those people who have trouble focusing on their work and find themselves distracted by things around them, then this article is for you.
Dopamine Detox is a method that helps you to stop the addiction to dopamine. Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that’s released by your brain when you experience something pleasurable, like food or sex. It makes us feel good and draws our attention to things that provide instant gratification.
The concept of dopamine detoxification is based on the idea that we can train our brains to crave other stimuli than just dopamine-inducing ones. This way, we’ll be able to focus more on tasks at hand and stop being distracted so easily by what’s happening around us.
The brain is the most important organ in the human body. It controls all of our thoughts, feelings, and actions. The brain is also very sensitive to what we eat and drink.
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that helps control the brain’s reward and pleasure centers. Low levels of dopamine can lead to depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues.
We need more research on how diet affects dopamine levels in order to better understand how food affects our mental health.
Diet is a major factor in mental health. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that plays a significant role in the brain’s reward system and has been associated with many mental disorders. It released by the brain when we experience something pleasurable. It is also released when we eat food, drink alcohol, or take drugs. It is also released when we are anticipating something pleasurable.
The release of dopamine in the brain can lead to addiction and cravings for certain foods. This can be seen in people who have an addiction to sugar or other types of junk food.
Diet affects dopamine levels because it influences the amount of neurotransmitters that are released by the brain, which is done through dieting, fasting, and exercise.
****You Can Design Your Diet To Reduce Your Levels of Dopamine.****
**1)** Eat foods that are high in protein and low in carbohydrates.
**2)** Eat foods that are high in fiber and low in fat.
**3)** Eat foods that are high in omega-3 fatty acids and low in omega-6 fatty acids.
**4)** Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated.
**5)** Avoid eating too much sugar, which can lead to insulin spikes and increased dopamine levels.
**6)** Avoid eating too many processed foods, which can lead to inflammation and increased dopamine levels.
**7)** Avoid eating too many refined grains, which can lead to inflammation and increased dopamine.
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that is responsible for the regulation of mood, motivation, and reward. It is also responsible for the regulation of sleep, attention, and learning.
Dopamine Detoxification can help you overcome depression and fatigue by removing toxins from your body that are preventing dopamine from being released.
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**Original Content By @sj0820
Suffering from current load shedding problem
Another name of electricity is light, air, cooler machine and other facilities. It is difficult to imagine our day without electricity. Although the consumption of electricity in daily life is immense, it is when this load shedding occurs that our public life is disrupted.
Load shedding is a phenomenon that is most commonly found in developing countries, such as Bangladesh. It is a problem that has been present for years but has recently become more severe. The problem of load shedding in Bangladesh can be traced back to the country's lack of capacity to produce enough electricity to meet the needs of its population. It occurs when the electricity load exceeds the generation capacity of the national power grid. Load shedding happens in periods of time, usually for an hour or two during a day.
The load shedding problem in Bangladesh was first noticed in April 2013 and it has been an issue ever since. The government blamed the power plants for not having enough capacity to meet the demand of electricity. The power plants blamed the government for not giving them enough money to upgrade their facilities. There are many negative effects of load shedding, but the most significant one is that it affects people's lives and livelihoods in a very negative way. Load shedding has been going on for years and people are sick of it, but there doesn't seem to be any end in sight.
I am referring to Bangladesh capital Dhaka as an example because I live in Dhaka city and as we are used to city life so load shedding is not really acceptable such a situation. It is very difficult to go out of power four to five times in a day and night, especially for those who do not have alternative electricity system, i.e. generator system, it becomes very difficult. And besides, now that it's summer and the temperature is so high that people sweat profusely even if they sit under the fan all day and in that case load shedding is very difficult and natural air is not available in city life as there is a lack of space and because of the densely populated houses. Hard to find. It becomes very difficult for those who have small children at home when the power goes out.
Although there is no other option but to adapt ourselves to this situation, we are trying but there are many problems in work. Yesterday, when I wrote and published an article on read.cash, the power connection was disconnected and I could not read or comment on other users' articles. Exactly the same thing happened with noise.cash. I wrote the whole post but whenever I go to click post it the power connection went out and I couldn't post. Later after two hours electricity came back I rewrote and posted.
I know if an article is unfinished and suddenly the power is disconnected then the article is automatically saved but later after 2 and a half hours when the power connection comes back when we get back the internet connection there is no attention to write the article again. That's why I thought from now on, instead of typing on the computer, I will write and save the articles on the notepad on the mobile and when it's time to publish, just copy it from the mobile and published the article on read.cash. This will save a lot of time and I won't have to suddenly fall into the mess of load shedding. This seems to be the best idea for me at the moment for the load shedding problems of the past few days.
The government has been trying to solve the problem but it seems like they are not making any progress. Since there is no such thing as storage of electricity, its distribution depends on the generation capacity, so the government is claiming that there will be load shedding problem till October. So till then let's see what steps to take.
We can’t always have the best of everything and we can’t do everything. But that doesn't mean that we should stop trying.
Life is not always perfect.
It's not always easy.
It's not always fun.
But it's our life and we should be happy with it.
So friends, whatever happens in life never stop. Go ahead and learn from every mistake that happens in life to make yourself stronger. OK! I wrote an article about learning from mistakes that I published today on read.cash articles. I have tried to highlight good things in the article, I hope you guys will like it if you read it.
So I gave the link below. 👇🏻
https://read.cash/@sj0820/life-lesson-learn-from-your-mistakes-4c7ae90b
Till then Goodbye and Goodnight everyone.......!!!!!!
Life lesson: Learn from your mistakes
Life is not always being perfect. And it's not always going to be easy. But that doesn't mean that you should give up on life and stop trying to live your best life. It's important to focus on what you can control, and not let the things that are out of your control bring you down. The only way for you to live the best life possible is by working hard and believing in yourself.
**Life lesson:**
A life lesson is something that you learn from your mistakes. It is a way of learning from the past in order to avoid repeating mistakes in the future. This section I will explore some examples of life lessons and how we can use them to improve our lives. Life lessons are important because they help us grow as people, and make better decisions in our daily lives. Learning from your mistakes is one way to do this.
"I am not sure that I can learn from my mistakes, but I am sure I can learn from the mistakes of others."
- John Wooden
But in my case there is an exception to this saying because I have seen the mistakes of others and never tried to learn from them. I thought the kind of mistake I would never make. My biggest mistake was that I was never careful, so I made the same mistake. It was a mistake to trust someone like a blind person, it was a mistake to choose the wrong life partner, it was a mistake not to be able to create good relationships with good people. But I learned a lot from this mistake and what I learned may not be repeated in any other case in life.
Life quote: "Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony." - Mahatma Gandhi.
If I am asked the question, What is happiness? Then my answer will be- Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. There are many quotes about life lessons and happiness, but one of the most famous ones is from Albert Einstein.
He said, “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.” It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to grow and be happy. If we never make mistakes, then how can we learn?
We all make mistakes. We often don't learn from our mistakes. We are so busy with the task at hand that we never take the time to reflect and learn. This is a big mistake, because we can't grow if we don't know what went wrong. But what's important is to learn from them.
It’s important to reflect on our mistakes, so that they don’t happen again in the future. If we don't, we'll just keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again. That's not good for us or for those around us. It will just make our life harder, and the lives of those around us as well.
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Memory with during my pregnancy!
Motherhood is a fondly remembered time in every woman's life. Although the life story of all of us is not the same, but the period of motherhood is the same for all women, I am not saying this from a family point of view. I am talking about physical and mental changes. In this case, the experiences of all of us are the same, although many of us may have many physical problems, but we have to turn around and stop at the same place, that is motherhood.
Today I will share some memories of my motherhood! Many people may have very fond memories of motherhood but I don't remember having any such memories. My husband used to work in Dubai. So he was able to stay with me for a few months during my pregnancy. Then he had to go back to his job in Dubai as his leave was over. So I spent the entire period of pregnancy alone. It is safe to say that since I lived with my parents, my days were spent in physical comfort, but I was a student at that time.
And Studies were very stressful at that time and I had to spend the day very busy from the beginning to the end. At that time I was a BSc third year student and every day I had to go to the university for classes. Since I studied in a private university, there was no chance of missing classes. Every day we had to attend class and there was 10% marks on attendance. That's why I couldn't miss the class. I talked to the faculty about this but they also could not give me any exemption. As all will be against the university rules.
It happened once that I left home to go to the university and I had an exam that day but I stood at the bus stand for about an hour and a half because I couldn't board the bus. And at that moment I didn't have enough money to take a private car to go to the university. Finally I reached the university but after the exam. My teacher gave me so much facility that later I took the exam again. That's why I am very grateful to that teacher.
I heard that women feel better when their husbands are by their side during pregnancy, but nothing like this happened to me because my husband was not by my side, so I didn't have this experience. .
I even had to go alone to the doctor every month for a checkup. I was used to doing everything alone, that's why I never felt any dissatisfaction.
In the last stage of my pregnancy I was at home because I withdrew one semester because I could not travel at that time so it was impossible for me to go to university.
My favorite times are those times. Because I couldn't sleep all night and I would sit up so I would talk to my baby all night by myself. I have shared a lot of things with him, about my likes, about my pains.
During the last 4 months of my pregnancy I was able to feel my baby very well because I was not busy at that time. Stayed at home all the time and when I talked to my baby it felt like she was kicking me back in the stomach.
Now my daughter is 11, she is in school. Sometimes I question her - I shared many words with you before your birth! Do you remember that? My daughter looked at me very surprised and asked what did you say? It's really funny but I feel happy. Then I answer her, no, nothing (hehe)! Not every memory can be forgotten. Maybe these memories will make me happy till I die!
I hope my readers will enjoy reading these short memories and of course you can share some of your memories with me in the comment box. Everyone stay well and be careful. Goodbye friends until I come back with a new article!
@sj0820
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Anger Issue
Anger is a basic or primal emotion, and it can be defined as "an emotional state that involves an intense negative feeling, typically one of anger or hatred." It is often accompanied with strong physical reactions and thoughts.
Anger has been a part of human nature since time immemorial. Every person has a different level of tolerance for anger, but the anger issue can be in varying degrees. The consequences of anger could range from financial troubles to creating a tense environment at home. It is important to address the issue calmly and rationally without any air of superiority.
This emotion is helpful in some cases when it brings people together to do something productive. There are times when anger can help achieve a goal that needs to be reached. In other cases, it becomes harmful and difficult to control. The problem is when we become addicted to the adrenaline rush that comes from anger and end up feeling lost without it.
There are many different ways that anger works on the brain, but two of the most significant are when it is either suppressed or when it is expressed.
Anger can be suppressed with a number of different methods, including distraction, humor, and finding a way to release the tension. Anger can also be expressed in a number of different ways, including yelling to release frustration and releasing the tension by hitting something.
Anger is one of the most common negative emotions. It's difficult for people with anger issues to maintain healthy relationships if they are constantly taking their anger out on those around them; in many cases, this takes a toll on their mental health too.
It has also the ability to make us feel alive, to help us find a sense of purpose, and to give our lives meaning. Anger can be constructive, motivating, and beneficial – but only when it's not getting in the way of other important aspects of our lives.
The benefits of anger are many. Anger is an emotion which might be helpful at times. It can make us more focused and alert, while also releasing tension and stress when we have been under pressure for too long.
There are various techniques that one can use in order to manage their anger, including the following:
Deep breathing- a technique where one focuses on their breath and breathes deeply.
Acknowledge your non-productive emotions- acknowledge when you're feeling angry and try to channel them into something healthy.
Regular exercise- this will help reduce stress levels.
Plan ahead-People who often suffer from these anger issues need to always plan and proceed with actions that are less likely to get frustrated and reduce the source of anger.
Anger can be a destructive emotion, but it's one that is hard to control. We need to learn how to deal with it in healthy ways, as anger can be destructive if left unchecked. If you find that you're struggling with your anger or are concerned about someone close to you who may have an anger problem, it may be worth seeking professional help from a qualified psychologist or counsellor. Anger therapy provides many practical strategies for helping people learn how to control their anger .
In the time span of a day, a lot can happen. It is, frankly, a good thing that we don't always remember every little detail.
There are many small things in my life that still make me smile like eating my favorite ice cream for the first time, the joy of going to the market to buy an Eid dress for the first time, the joy of saving my pocket money and buying a story book. Many more memories.
Sometimes, it's nice to be reminded of the moments that make our lives worth living.
Privileged to be a Woman....!!
Privilege is an idea, system, or an institution that protects and ensures the dominance of a group of people over other groups. The word privilege (noun) was first used in 1819 and its meaning has changed ever since then. It's often seen as vague and complex by many. Even now people have different ideas about what it means to be 'privileged' as a woman. We can divide it in two main categories: social privileges and female privileges
The first category includes things such as being able to dress the way you want without being judged or having access to higher education, whereas the second one includes things such as having easy access to reproductive health care services and not being stopped on the street.
Women are privileged in many ways, for example, given more opportunities than men. But there are also instances where they are not given the same opportunities as men. We should not think of this privilege as a replacement for feminist movements, but instead as a supplement to them. That is because women still face many issues that men don't have to face and this privilege can only do so much to help them overcome it.
It is no secret that being a woman brings with it a lot of privileges. There are many benefits to being a woman which could be financial, social, professional and personal and a woman is privileged to be female, smart, beautiful, rich, powerful and confident. Being a woman has its perks too - from not being discriminated against in the workplace to receiving preferential treatment in the dating sphere.
But there are some challenges that women have to face too - like balancing work and family life or discrimination at the workplace. As much as society needs to do more for women, they also need to empower themselves - by taking care of their bodies, careers and mental health.
This may not be the most politically correct topic, but it is one that's worth talking about. Women are seen as being privileged and empowered in many ways when compared to men. Women get the opportunity to break through social boundaries, to defy cultural expectations, and to make a difference in their communities. It's important for women to know their worth and never let anyone else dictate what they should or shouldn't do with their lives.
How does it feel to be a Woman in the World Today? What if you were a woman today? Would you feel like your rights were being infringed upon? Would you feel unequal because of the gender that you were born into? Do you believe that there's an imbalance in society between genders? These are all questions that we need to think about before we can say how it feels to be a woman today.
Despite the progress that has been made in gender equality, women still suffer from discrimination, sexual harassment and abuse. This needs to be tackled by society as a whole, but also by men and boys who are not part of the problem.
We often hear how the world is changing for the better for women and that it is slowly but surely becoming a more equal place. But why is the world changing for the better? The first reason why these changes have occurred because of the feminist movements of the twentieth century, which created an atmosphere where gender issues were no longer taboo. In these movements, people like Gloria Steinem, bell hooks, and Angela Davis paved a way to show how important feminism was. They demonstrated what was possible when a movement unites around its cause. The second big reason why these changes are happening is due to technology. Technology has created an environment where people can connect with others who are similar to them throughout their entire life and that has led to more acceptance about differences in gender and sexual orientation.
The world we live in has changed. We are more open about our identity and sexuality and more than ever, we are encouraged to speak up for ourselves. We have seen many historic moments in the past year where women were empowered to share their stories of sexual harassment or assault and encourage others who had experienced similar ordeals to come forward too. There are plenty of initiatives that seek to create a more equitable environment for women which could lead to a world where gender equality is finally achieved.
Yet, it’s not all smooth sailing. There is still work ahead of us before we see real changes unfold in the workplace, while people around us seem unwilling or unable to understand what women go through on a daily basis.
It's a warm morning after the celebration of Eid, so friends let me wish you a good morning.
I spent all my time with my friends and family, I was very excited.
Eid is a religious festival of Muslims. The word "Eid" means "celebration."
I think Eid is the most special day of the year - it’s time for celebration.
It is an opportunity to get together with the people we love and give thanks for all that we have in life. I am really happy because I can see everyone waiting to see me.
Again Good morning friends!
Never bully a woman by abusing your authority.🙅🏻♀️
Bullying is the act of a person who inflicts pain, distress, or discomfort on another individual. It is well-known that women are more often victims of bullying, and it is less likely for them to be perpetrators. Women are the majority of victims of harassment in the workplace and school bullying among teenage girls has increased in recent years.
The problem with bullying a woman by abusing your authority can be seen as a misuse of power - as well as sexual harassment. The violence and humiliation involved in such bullying also creates a culture where other types of abuse are more likely to occur.
Bullying women is not only damaging to the victim, but also reduces the productivity of an organization: It costs employers an estimated $5 billion annually in lost time because employees fear speaking up at work or are too worried about their physical safety while they're at work. Bullying women in the work place is a problem that needs to be tackled. No matter whether you are the boss or not, it's . . . never okay to bully a woman.
The issue of gender bullying is a result of a society that has been conditioned to judge women not as equals but as different. We also have to deal with the archetypes of male and female that have been ingrained in our minds over time. They are seen as being unequal, opposites, and complementary. We are socialized to believe that men should be the breadwinners and women should be in charge of the household or raise children. This mindset is what leads to inequality in all areas - including bullying at work.
Statistics show that some experts claim men are twice as likely to experience workplace aggression than their female counterparts. Females are usually more affected by bullying than males. This is because women are considered to be at a disadvantage in the workplace and they are also more sensitive to interpersonal conflict. This has been due to a lifetime of social conditioning which dictates that females should be meek and defer to males.
There is a type of bullying which affects the most disadvantaged and marginalized in society. The kind of bullying which targets women, transgender and non-binary people because of their gender, race, disability or ethnicity.
This is a form of bullying which can be more insidious because it comes from someone who holds power over them. A bully who abuses his or her authority to undermine the person they’re abusing. This can happen in many different ways including through words, tone, ignoring them or by withholding resources they require to do their job properly. And the impact can be life-changing: anxiety, depression and PTSD are all consequences that come with this experience. Ultimately though this is really about power; either using it to abuse others or refusing to share it when asked.
Bullying is a serious problem that affects children, adolescents, and adults. Girls are more likely to be bullied than boys, and they may feel powerless to stop it. Bullying is never OK. It is not always easy to be assertive and stand up for someone being bullied.
However, it is possible. The first step to help your daughter overcome bullying at school or elsewhere is to believe her and listen to her without judgment or blame. Next, help her develop a plan and then accompany her as she carries it out.
Women are constantly objectified, singled out for abuse, and devalued in society. It is time that we stop bullying women by taking advantage of their vulnerability, targeting them with sexual violence or making them feel like they do not belong in this world.
In a world where equality is not defined by gender, bullying is never acceptable. Gender equality is not just an issue for the next generation of women. It’s an issue for men too. We should all be working to erase the bullies from our lives now, before they have a chance to carry out abuse later on in life when that girl becomes a woman and her power and agency are reduced.
#Original content By @sj0820.
Good morning friends! I wish you all a very happy day.
Not a good morning for me though because I haven't slept all night. Eventually I got bored and sat down to write an article. And I finished writing and publishing the article. Now it seems that you too should take the opportunity to get bored after reading my article. So I am sharing the link for you guys.😂
Goodbye friends, I wish you a happy reading journey!!
https://read.cash/@sj0820/i-am-looking-for-what-i-want-f9e92752
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I am looking for what I want🤔
It is now midnight, a little later in the morning. I could not sleep all night, so I got up and sat down. Thieves usually stay awake at night. But I am not a member of that group(bad joke), so why is there no sleep in my eyes? I do not know the answer. No worries, still sleep is not coming.
My two children are sleeping next to me so the inside of my chest is full of complete peace. I looked at them for a long time and thought how naughty and playful they are all day and they don't want to sleep but now they are sleeping peacefully. It seems that after a lot of work all day their brain is taking charge now. They are getting ready to go to work in the morning (haha)!
But what happened to me! I really have a lot of work to do tomorrow because Eid is the next day. Preparations are huge .😨
The bigger bad news is that every year my cousin comes to our house to celebrate Eid with us, but this time she has only three days off from her office so she will not come to celebrate Eid with us. She is going straight to her parents in her village. I'm all alone here. I really need a lot of speed to handle my very sweet naughty two children but there is nothing to do.
I quietly left the bed and went to my work place, in front of the computer screen, but I felt empty because a cup of coffee would not be bad. So I came to make coffee. ok done! I brought it. Now I don't just like coffee, it would be nice to have a little biscuits with it!
A lot of time has passed and now it is dawn. Now let's look at a little different context. I want to shape some unspoken thoughts in my mind through my writing.
Often at night I can’t put this chaotic thought of my mind together. Feeling an emptiness but I don't know what it is. I don't know when I will really understand what I miss. Maybe in the middle of the night some living part of my being comes together and wants to tell me something but I don't want to hear. Although this statement of mine proves here that I am unhappy but I am not! Maybe I need to change more or I need to add something new in my nature. Maybe it's a new beginning or a breakthrough in finding something new!
In this case, I can't be completely truthful, I can only say that I am happy and I want more. I don't know what is going to happen but I hope whatever happens will be ok. Now I don't really know what's going on in my mind. My mind is like an open road where a lot of storms are coming but when I find out when it will end I will really have a lot of peace. Then maybe I won't get lost in the crowd of questions anymore. I will not ask myself again and again what I want?
No matter what we are looking for, the thing is that what we find in the course of our lives changes our lives ..!!
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My own kind of unique is my original happy !
I have always been told to do what everyone else is doing. You arrange yourself in that way, the way all the girls are arranging themselves, that is, get married and have children. This is the aspiration of every family in our society.
It's easy to say that you do what everyone else is doing, but I'm not everyone. I didn't want to make everyone happy. I just wanted to change the world for myself, not for others. I was just hurt when I found my happiness among others. I have been torn apart by the blows of words. Maybe the injuries didn't make a wound in the body but left a deep wound in the heart that still burns me, hurting me.
Every time I extended my hand of faith, I got back into deception. Should I call this deception unfortunate or am I more stupid so I will accept this deception. I've heard all the time that this world is very difficult, this world is a battlefield, winning here is very challenging, building life here is very challenging. But believe me, no one has ever told me that your family is a battlefield like this world and there will be many deceivers around you who must be defeated and move on in life. If I really knew, I would have been careful beforehand and I would not have had to learn the ultimate defeat of life from here.
But life is meant to be learned from every step. All I have in the midst of all this is trauma and some lessons and experiences from it that may be of great use to me in the future.
There is a proverb: He who eats lime and burns his face is afraid even if he sees yoghurt!
I don’t know how understandable this proverb will be to my reader friends. But my condition is now like that lime and yogurt.
It is very difficult to rebuild one's faith when it is broken, although it is a common saying that one should never depend on anyone and never love someone with one's whole arms and save something for oneself. It's been a long time since I've lived for others. Now it's time to live for myself.
Ever since I decided to live for myself, I have noticed that everything around me is empty, I have given everything to others. But I am human! The best creatures created by the Creator.
It doesn't take long to get everything back, just need a little willpower and a little inspiration. My friend is the biggest inspiration and blessing in my life. The more I talk about him, the more I admire him, the less there is because there is so much more to say about him. Sometimes some naughty sweet conversations give me a lot of pleasure. After all, he has a saying: do what you love and you want to do.
One thing I never hear motivational speeches because they are like a blazing fire of light. You will create a flash inside you when you listen to inspirational speech but after a while I don't know why the light starts to go out and that's why I don't like to listen to inspirational speech. It's not about everyone, it's about me. I believe that I have to be determined to do what I have to do. Nothing can be done by listening to someone's motivational speech because not everyone's life pace or story is the same. That is why we have to plan and implement from our position.
Above all I want to find my happiness I don't want to waste my time to make duplicate people happy anymore. I’m not a strong enough person but I need to be strong towards things that can make me happy. I would never say I am a perfect person but I am a faithful friend, a gentle and dedicated partner.
I know not everyone can agree with me and maybe many are crushed by my behavior but now I feel perfectly fine in this form of me. I have seen many ups and downs in my life and learned a lot from this journey.
When I free myself and make myself happy it seems like I can get a lot out of life and I want a lot. I have to build my own dream hut. Only I can claim it as my own. Children need to be raised as good people. They need to be educated well. I have to be by my father's side as a good child.
Now, if I only talk about myself, I still have a lot to see, like walking barefoot in the sand by the sea at colorful sunset, soaking my feet in the sea water and going to a candle light dinner. Sitting on a park bench on a balmy afternoon floating in the rain.
I want all things that will refine my heart and shake my mind in softness.
There is no problem even if there is no one beside me because now I have learned to walk alone because I am now self-sufficient. I know many people will not like these habits in me but I am completely fine with it!
Above all, what will be most important to me will be valuable to me. Everything about me is now in its original form and that is what makes me happy.
Mango is a very popular flavor for ice cream and milk is an essential ingredient that gives it that perfect texture and taste.
There are many variations of recipes to make mango milk shakes. The most popular one, however, is when you mix milk with puree of mango, sugar and some ice cubes.
The combination of mango and milk is creamy and very tasty.
The ingredients of the perfect blend are always changing. This time, it is the combination of mango and milk.
Love is something to learn: Only my opinion...!!
When we get frustrated with our partners, we hear a lot of people say learn to walk alone. I used to say the same thing. I never thought about how much consent the issue has. All I knew was that if my partner didn't love me, if he didn't give me enough time, if he didn't take care of me, I would have to refrain from being optimistic about him.
Is it really that easy as I wrote? Is it really possible to change yourself in a moment?
How can I give up my claim in a moment from the one I took as my life partner, the one I thought would always be with me, the one I loved with all my being? I don't know where I can find the strength to do this. But this is always happening around us.
I have accepted or I have adapted. Even if these words are uttered from the mouth, the mind can never be understood and the heart can never be understood. The depth of the pain cannot be shown to anyone else.
We have nothing to do because we have to give up all rights once we are tired of fighting for our rights. You can teach a person discipline, manners, but you can never create love, sincerity, care, dignity for you if you want to, if that person does not have the will of his own mind.
Do you know when we are most frustrated? That same love, sincerity when not received from the man in front. Many people say that you can make your spouse your own if he or she is not like you, but is it ever possible?
In this case, I think those people are the luckiest in this world whose spouse loves them or is romantic. Because he who knows how to love can take care of the people he loves.
Although many things in the world can be one-sided, it is not possible to fall in one-sided love.
But yes, people change, but it doesn't happen in the same way in all cases. Your love for your care may make a person weak in you or at some point he may fall in love with you, but will all people be the same in all cases? Of course not!
It is better not to expect anything from someone who does not know how to give love even after receiving love, who does not evaluate you even after receiving care and respect.
Because you can wake up a sleeping person but how do you wake up a person who pretends to be asleep! Because he will not understand and he will not see even if he sees everything.
In married life, it is very important to be responsible towards each other and mutual understanding. Those who want to be happy in married life are honest with each other and love each other.
There is a popular proverb that says: Love is not for the truthful because here one has to lie all the time to make one happy.
Those who are truly in love will understand the essence of it. Many times we lie a lot to keep our partner happy. Despite not liking his gift, we say, wow! You have brought a very beautiful gift. There is no harm in telling a lie to put a smile on someone's face.
Those who are dedicated and caring to these things can create a happy married life. And it is not possible to tell those who are indifferent a thousand and get devotion or love from them in any way.
You can repair an abandoned house and make it livable but you can never do it to your partner if your partner doesn't want it. There is nothing more to say to those who do not know how to give such loves.
Bitcoin is a digital currency that is written in computer code and runs on a global peer-to-peer (P2P) network without the need for a central authority.
Many people believe that Bitcoin will be the future of money. This might be true if we consider how much gold is priced and how much it is being used in the world today. For example, Bitcoin can be used for an investment as well as for daily purchases because of its decentralized feature.
The price of Bitcoin has gone down due to various factors such as bad press, other digital currency being introduced, regulatory concerns from different governments, competition from other cryptocurrencies and scalability issues with the bitcoin network itself.
It could be because of the many regulatory obstacles that Bitcoin is faced with around the world. In fact, there are many countries that have banned cryptocurrencies altogether, and some have introduced strict regulations around their use.
Identify priorities in life and set goals for life....!!
There are a lot of questions and thoughts that come to our mind when we start thinking about life priorities. As we think more deeply about these, the answers start to take form. The process is not linear and it is more of an iterative process.
First, we need to identify our values in life and write them down as a list. Then go through the list and rank them according to importance or priority in your life - this will help clarify what matters most to us in life, what are the most important things for success and happiness.
Many people know that they need to set goals, but few can articulate the steps necessary to set them.
What follows are five clear steps that will guide you through the process of setting goals.
1) Identify your priorities in life and the things you need to accomplish in order to be happy.
2) Define what constitutes success for you – what is success?
3) Set a timeline for achieving your goals.
4) Identify milestones along the way, celebrate successes and stay motivated by focusing on your goal as a whole rather than individual tasks.
5) Create an action plan that will help you achieve your goal and prioritize each task accordingly.
Goal setting refers to the process of setting goals and deciding what we want in life. It is the act of making and committing to an intention, or determining how we want our lives to turn out. Goals are things that we want to achieve in life.
What are goals?
A goal can be anything that you think is important or meaningful enough for you to pursue and work towards in your life. For example, having a good relationship with your children might be a personal goal for some people, whereas for others it might mean having a career that pays well.
A goal is something you have decided you would like to do or have achieved by a certain time or date in the future. The time frame will vary from person-to-person.
The first step in setting goals is identifying what kind of goals you want to set. There are different types of goals that can be set. Some examples are life goals, career goals, and personal development.
The next step would be to define your goal in a very specific way so that it has a tangible endpoint or objective. You should write down the goal on paper and ask yourself: "What do I want to do?" or "How do I want my life to look?"
There are two ways to prioritize:
- By analyzing the values from the list of Values and Actions
- By analyzing our life priorities using the Life Priorities Worksheet
The first step is to analyze the values in your list. You should examine if you need to change some of them if they conflict with your current life priorities or goals.
The second step is to identify what are your current life priorities and goals. For that, you will have to complete The Life Priorities Worksheet. You will have to make a timeline for 3 years and set a priority for every 3 months in order to determine which aspect of your life you want to focus on at what period of time.
"I'm still not sure what my goals are."
As we grow up, we will find new priorities in life. One of the priorities is looking after our health. It's important to have a healthy lifestyle and keep ourselves in shape. When we look at the long term, it makes sense to try and put our health as a priority.
We should take time for ourselves and find some time to do activities that we enjoy in life. We can be more productive when our mental state is better so it's worth making that a priority too.
Another thing people can make a priority is their appearance. Make sure you take care of your skin, hair and nails so they look good but don't forget to do things that make you feel good too!
Finally, it's important to have Identify priorities in life and set goals for life.
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