“I don’t want expensive gifts; I don’t want to be bought. I have everything I want. I just want someone to be there for me, to make me feel safe and secure,” #PrincessDiana once said. There is no hard and fast rule for what a man should spend on a woman. That said, spending more than a third of your salary on her might make her feel as though she is being bought. What can be done to put your partner at ease? The best way to avoid this feeling of being bought is to offer the relationship the opportunity to flourish. If you want to buy her something, give her an experience instead of a materialistic gift. A dinner date, concert tickets or even a day trip can be much better than buying something physical that will just sit around collecting dust.
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I agree. As far as I'm concerned, a dinner or an outing has always been a welcome gift