@sj0820 5 September 2022

Don't try to control things that are out of your control. You can't make the weather change just by wishing it were different, and you can't control other people's behavior. That said, don't be naïve about what you can and cannot do: if someone is being rude or inconsiderate towards you, don't get angry at them for being inconsiderate; instead, set up boundaries around how much time together is appropriate before making your departure from their presence.