@santiagorhie 5 June 2022

Thursday night hubby and I had a fight...again. It just started when hubby was browsing his facebook feed waiting for sleep to come. And I demanded we have a talk instead of him looking at his phone. What triggered him to jump to the edge was my remark of "how many hours in a day have you been in front of your phone? And how many hours in a day have I been in front of you? If I sum it all you have more time for your phone than for me." And then he snapped. He told I was being dramatic again. And I defended I have to be coz he only had ample time for me. The next day we don't talk the whole day since we're both at our work. Me at the office and him at his station. We already talked Friday night but I still carry the drama. Yesterday he doesn't had work but he drove me to mine. Today we both have no work, it's Sunday! And though he's already in good mood again I'm still into the drama so I confronted him. Our conversation this morning goes like this... Me : the night we fight, why did you tell me to go home? Him : i meant i want you to sleep Me : why did you tell me you'll leave instead? Him : i meant i want to sleep instead Me : why did you tell me you dont want me already? Him : i meant i want rest instead of drama Am I just really complicating things or he really meant what he said when he's upset or angry? Sometimes I really wonder which one of his don't think of the other more, me or him? Well everytime that we finish a fight I always remember this quote, "don't make a promise when you're happy, don't reply when you're angry, and don't decide when you're sad..."