@santiagorhie 30 May 2022

Good evening everyone! Well I have been absent quite a lot lately. For a start of what I'd like to share, I am sure each family is unique. Love within each family is unique. Misunderstandings within each family is unique. Actually my mom and I had been in a fight last weekend. It's money thing. Daughter's responsibility to her mother that I can't regularly sustain as clearly I also have a family of my own to look after. My mom lived by herself in her own house while me and hubby stayed in our own space with his parent's compound. For a time hubby and I tried to live with my mom specially when my dad died. But hubby and I can't just really take in the nagging and money topics. Being in the relationship with hubby we've lived longer with his family than with mine. With my in laws we never experienced any issues...at all. I asked hubby why can't mom understand our situation? I asked hubby why his parents never nag at us regarding money. His response? "Coz i am a true child." And then I cried there. That's true. What he said was true. I am not my mother's true child. Not a biological daughter, just an adopted child. Mom never really had a child of her own. I am really confused.