@rodriguezpct 20 December 2021

Waiting for the ideal moment.

We are always waiting for the ideal moment to start a project, to start a relationship, an undertaking, a new activity. The ideal moment will never come. There will always be an excuse, an obstacle in some situation that will make us postpone the opportunity to start, always waiting for better times. It is important to change this mental scheme that limits people. Many people remain anchored in their comfort zone for years, even if it is a zone of limitations, but as they know they can bear it, they get used to it with time, they even get used to be all the time suffering for a past, for a moment of sadness, for a loss, for a failure. The human being gets used to everything. And some people like to suffer, always playing the victim, they cling to everything, to people, to objects, the attachment is so great that they even create dependence and strong bonds, even in some cases, obsession.

Always waiting for the ideal moment to start a new project in life but they become dependent on someone or something, and they are willing to do anything to not let go of that dependence, creating an attachment bond that prevents them from starting something new and leaving their comfort zone. I do not mean to say that it is bad to become attached to people, objects or even activities. I only mean that the problem of clinging to the point of ending up limiting life by waiting for the ideal moment, limiting opportunities, these limitations end up causing harm, because they produce anxiety, fear, and even suffering. Neither do I refer to abandoning your dreams, on the contrary, you have to continue acting to achieve the proposed goals, continue giving everything, at every moment. Pursue the objectives of working hard for what you want, never give up if it is within our reach to complete the projects and aspirations in life.

The situations that arise in our environment and no matter how hard you try you have not been able to give a solution, you have to let them follow their course freely without clinging. Let the circumstances that we cannot solve flow. Accept the situations that no matter how hard you try you cannot change, let them go. Not to cling to them. Without becoming dependent, without suffering, and without anguish, closing cycles. Do not stop waiting for the ideal moment, do not get attached to that idea, when your mind manages to detach itself to someone or something, fears and anguish automatically disappear, your body relaxes and you enter into a sense of tranquility and peace. Life continues, it moves, there are few situations that we can stop in our environment because they are always in constant change, the ideal moment never comes and that is precisely the beauty of life, it never stops, it always changes, it only stops when the final moment arrives and yet it continues for others.

Don't wait for the ideal moment, don't get attached to that idea, move forward. You will not be able to stop the years, the departure of a loved one, the end of a love relationship, children growing up, friends leaving. It is important to accept that the loss of someone or something is part of life, that there is a cycle of mourning, but also a stage of closure, hence the importance of developing detachment, accepting that what you loved before may not be part of your life now. The ideal moment does not come, the circumstances of our environment are always changing... the most valuable thing is to know how to live the moment now, not to wait for better times... Go ahead and seek the greatest possible happiness, thanking God for each day lived, life is short, make the most of it.  Are you waiting for the ideal moment to advance in your life plan? I look forward to reading your comment. Thank you to my followers and sponsors for never stopping, always supporting me with your renewals and comments, thank you very much. You guys are the best. Pictures from: unsplash.com