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In times of hardship, famine, calamities, disaster and now pandemic men will says it is the end of the world, punishment has come and let us repent. Does the world really end or it is the humans that inhabit the world will end? What can you say about this?

Finding and building friendship through writing in a letter, sending by way of mail and delivered to your doorstep by a postman, your friend will be called a penpal. Friendship discovered and develop through telephone conversation the friend of yours in the other end is called phonepal. For me, today finding and creating friendship through the internet is called chat friend. How about you how do you call today's friendship on the internet?

Falling deep in thought, wondering why life has to be this way, while others live in luxury, free of problems, no worries of tomorrow and confidently respected in the community. Does life has to be like this, unfair? or there was fairness only we could not see because we are blinded of our own misery?

On Line Relationship We are now living in a world of technology wherein communications is so fast and effective, reliable and dependable. With the introduction of social media, in which people all over the world could communicate face to face, immediately know each other well, on line relationship became the trend of today's generation. At first it was just a friendship, exchanging of hellos and hi, and then it became deeper,turning into a relationship of more than friends. Friends in love that end up into the altar. Many became prey of this social media, for it helps for those who are seeking of eligible bachelors or valuable women to be their partners in life which they believe they could not found in the place they were in. For those individuals who lost hope of finding the right one in their life, or those who wants to uplift their status in life and to be financially secured, social media is their last recourse. There are pros and cons in engaging in on-line relationships. **The Pros**: Distance will not be a hindrance that a relationship will work and progress even you are far from each other due to your work. It will makes the hearts fonder and became considerate with each other. Knowing each others behavior, characteristics and the whole personality of a person will be possible since communication is within a minute and anytime of the day. Introduction to the other families will be swift and there will be no difficulty in adjusting to them since you have known each other day by day. **The Cons:** There are certain individuals when in relation do not show his true self. They wear a camouflage to hide their real identity, of the kind of man he is. They tend to be good, loving, and considerate on your moods to the point of spoiling you. Trapping you with their net of love. But in truth they were the worst that a man could ever imagine. They are the abusive being who used their prey for their self interest, a relation with a monkey business behind, as what we heard on the news. Engaged their partners into white slavery, what an inhuman act. When that curtain that conceals his true identity will fall down, you cannot already escape on the hole that you fall. A hole of abuses, aches, pains and misfortunes. There's no harm in engaging in on-line relationship, for there are others who make it to the altar and live successfully but unfortunately there are others who didn't make it. It is just a matter of luck and most of all prayers. People nowadays are difficult to comprehend, there are many temptations and vices that trapping humans that make them misbehave, and losing their conscience. What do you think? Are you in favor of on-line relationship or the traditional way of courtship?

Time is running is so fast and short if you are so busy catching deadlines of your work. The ticking of the clock is so loud and fast as if running after you, racing with you to the finish line. But if you are idle and nothing to do, time is long and so slow like a crawling snail. Looking at the clock it is walking behind you with a silent ticking to the finish end. Looking back where we begin from being a baby and today, we will say how time flies.

You wake in the morning looking at the sun outside the window and feeling the hot rays unto your unwashed face while shivering the early morning cool breeze that brushes your skin, and joyfully listening to the chirping of the birds, you will say, how blessed you are to see the beauty of the sunrise. To be one of the many who was given a chance to live in this world. When sunset came, thanking God that you were able to accomplish a quality work of the day, that nothing was wasted, have able to fulfill the purpose life in this world, and deserving to witness again another day. What am I doing is the purpose of my life, the reason am I created? How about you, do you know why are you created, the purpose of your creation?

Relationship with In-Laws They say it's hard to please the in-laws but you have to,since they are your family now, especially when you live with them after marriage. You are on the stage of adjusting the kind of life you are entering, adjusting your relationship with your partner and in-laws. It is not really easy coping all those adjustment, adjusting your budget in coping all the expenses and your first priority is to save, in order to create your own haven. You have to share in financing the expenses incurred in living with them and help in the household chores. If not you will labeled as lazy and the beginning of an unfriendly atmosphere. There are in-laws who are low profiled,you can easily go with their likes and dislikes, their standard and beliefs, whose lifestyle you can blend with. Living with them will be smooth and flowing steadily as you go on with the current. If you have this, then you are lucky. But there are high profiled in-laws, whose lifestyle is not within your reach, a double standard, you don't know what is the real personality they have. They have different personality depending on the person they are with or in a situation they are in. With this kind of people, you have to adjust and put down your pride, go on with their music even it is in contrast of your steps, just to be accepted and be one of them, that sometimes you forget who you really are. Others says, in-laws are the wrecker of a home, they middle the married life of their children especially in conflict, that instead of helping to patch up, mend of what is broken, to heal the wounds, they are even the reason why things got worse, sometimes poisoning the minds of their child, leading to separation. There are no good or bad in-laws, they are just like us human, not perfect, others are educated and others are illiterate. Whatever their status in life, whoever they are, we must learn to accept them, for there's nothing we can do we are already a part of the family. We are marrying their child, we marry them too, and if they are tag as bandits then we are bandits too. Accepting and learning to love them as we love their child is all we can do, to have a harmonious relationship with them. They say it is better to have a grudge with your parents than to your parents-in-law because parents can forgive you whatever you have done and love you whoever you are, while parents in-law will not, they will automatically lost their slowly grown feeling of affection to you and will not easily forgive you if they will forgive, it is because there was no blood relation between you and them. It is seldom that in-laws will be in your side during family troubles, they will always defend their child even it is not right thing to do. In-laws are like men in another planet that you have to study their attitude and disposition in life and learn how to immerse with them whether in the deep or shallow water. How about are you, how is your relationship with your in-laws or future to be in-laws?

Anyone could help me. I have accidentally push the botton downvote. How could I correct it, i have undo by pushing the red downvote to be back to black but I went back to the article it was downvoted. What is the effect of downvoted? Does your points decreased? If so, am sorry it was not intentional, it was really accidental. Next time I will be very careful.

Love is a immeasurable feeling. No yardstick can measure its length, an anchor can't reach it depth, and no words can fit its meaning. It is ony the heart can measure of how far it goes, how deep it submerge into the heart of the ocean and can define in detail the real meaning of that mysterious feeling. Heart is love.

When we are surrounded with problems on health, financial stability, relationship and emotions focusing on work is so hard. Sometimes we easily be irritated, moody, lose of appetite, losing of interest and inspiration. As if the world stop revolving and a feeling of self pity enters into your system, and to question yourself where did I go wrong, what I have committed that I am punish like this. Am I punish or being on trial?

If you are in relationship be faithful, stick to one. If you think the relation between you and your partner has lost its spark, settle first the relationship in a civil way before jumping into another new one. Do not double cross, you might end up in a close tunnel where there's no going back. Remember karma is always around, ready to embark if you have done nothing good.

Many says they are hard up. Not so easy to look for money and many are in hunger. This lines has long been heard before the pandemic and that time you could observe that malls are full, wharf are full of travelers, in bus terminals passengers are swirling and airports are full of tourist. It is only this time of pandemic that this number of passengers and tourist are no longer visible, the numbers are declining. What can you say before pandemic, are the people hard up? Does many live in hunger?

Importance of Marriage Marriage is a legal contract entered by two consenting individuals solemnized by a priest or any person who has a license to conduct a marriage ceremony. **Holy Matrimony** As christian we believe the sanctity of marriage. Entering into a relationship without being solemnize by a priest is against the christian doctrine. We believe, to obtain blessings from above, to have a successful and fruitful married life is to respect the holy matrimony. That God must always be the center in a relationship, believing that a family blessed by God the offspring are into the right path following the footsteps of parents, a model parents the kids will look up into being a good christian. **Civil Marriage** Other couple who are in different religious sector, who has different beliefs opt for civil marriage. They enter into a ceremony conducted by a judge or a person who has the capacity or license to solemnized to make their union legal. This is an assurance of the man and the woman that the bond they have signed is forever and strong, that no one shall ever share and each partner shall not be taken by the others illegally. The difference of the two marriages is the way how it was solemnized. Usually the holy matrimony is done in the church or in a place where it is solemn, with all the decoration. A well detailed embellishment participated by two families. An entourage of main sponsors down to the secondary sponsors and even participated by their cute toddlers marching in the aisle. A long ceremony that ends in the reception area with merriment and fun-making. While civil marriage are just simple and quick as long the couple had submit all the required documents to proved their capacity to enter such ceremony. It could be held anywhere, anytime as long the solemnizing officer is authorized by the law making body. All it needs are the witnesses signatures to prove its validity and legality. A simple engagement with the same effect and binding. **The Importance of Marriage** Two marriages are legal and binding. It is a bond to be respected, the laws and provisions that protects the marriage bond must be abide by the two individuals. Anyone who violate such sanctity will face its consequences. The offspring became legitimate children, they could inherit what is to be inherited from their parents and could succeed any positions if there is any. Legitimate children develops self confidence, self esteem in their being, they don't have inferiority complex since they have a close net family, of having legit parents. Children outside marriage are considered illegitimate and develops inferiority complex. They are usually victims of bullies from school thereby creating them into a timid person. They feel neglected for they lack a father or a mother who will be there when parents are needed in any school activity and the beginning of a declined self esteem and self confidence. It will develop them to be introverts, avoiding the companies of other children, who always want to be isolated and buried deep into their thoughts. The reason of many juvenile delinquencies and shooting attacks of children in schools with no apparent reason of their violent actions. They perceive life as being complicated and chaotic thereby making them emotionally and mentally unstable resulting to violence as an act of release of the hate and hurt they feel and escape from reality. The laws and provision that surrounds marriage must be abide for anyone commits adultery will be dealt with accordingly since legal marriages are protected by the law. The laws were created to protect the family especially the children. Children are protected from any violence and abuses from outside the family and inside the household. Legitimate children have the feeling of security and stability for the present and the future. How about you? What kind of marriage do you prefer? Civil wedding with lesser cost or the church weeding with all the ceremony and embellishment.

It is normal for a man marrying younger woman but when a woman marrying a younger man, all eyebows arch into 90 degrees, it bacame a talk of the town. Why? Is there a law prohibiting women to be with younger men? People became judgemental whether or not the relationship work. What can you say does their marriage last?

Loving me first before loving you is the better if not the best I can do. I have to love myself first before loving you. How could I extend, express or show my love if even me could not love myself. By loving ourself first will teach us what is love and how to love for the others.

When at young age we wish to be living in urban cities where the center of entertainment and great oppurtunities we think awaits. Thinking the place is the answer of our hopes and dreams. To be one of them living in luxury and enjoying the city night life. But as you grow informed the life in metropolitan all those wishes vanished and content to live simply and ordinsrily.

Happy Sunday to all my fellow read cash users! Slow connectivity again is the culprit for less interaction with you. When you have enough to say, to compose and when you're done a read words will appear: connectivity problem. When does this be resolved? I hope those government officials will act fast since on line classes are now starting.

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One of the factor that many were infected with this pandemic is the living condition of the people. Many are living in the one roof with small space wherein having a good sound sleep is impossible with no ventilation. Physical contact is inevitable and everybody inhaled each others unfiltered breath. Some could sleep flat while others just squat in the floor or stand in the corner.

A Life In The Mountain A life in the mountain is so different from the city. If you are used living in the city you could say that mountain living is difficult and you won't survive. You will live simply but peacefully. You have to used your physical strength in order to survive for farming is the only source of income. It is compensated with the fresh and natural food you eat everyday compared to the fastfoods or the process foods in which there are side effects. Water is fresh from the stream being fetch everyday using the bamboo or bucket. Unlike in the city it will drip into your faucet or the mineral water be delivered into your doorstep if you have the money. The air that you breath is carbon-free and you are sure of being safe of any pollutants. That is the reason why mountain people live longer compared to the low lander. When it comes to their complexion they are shiny black and matured compared to the city people having a fair complexion and fresh looking because of the of many beauty regimen. While the high lander's beauty are natural not artificial. Everybody know each other even how far their houses are located. If you ask the location and answered in a pointing finger, it is near but the if the answer in a pouted lips that is too far, you have to traverse many mountains, and there was no transportation you have to walk those mountains. A celebration of one family is a celebration of the whole neighborhood (barrio). No need of invitation they will come with their families and the news will reach even to the farthest mountain. Unlike in urban areas even invited still ashamed to attend. Sleeping and wake up time is early. Since there was no electricity, dinner will be served when the sun still rises. At night time all you can hear are the sounds of insects, the barking of dogs and even the smallest sound of worms. The peaceful night is so deafening and there's nothing you can do is to close your eyes and sleep. Since the sleeping time is early surely you will wake up before the sun rises, it is when the cock crows. Upon waking up you can feel the fresh morning breeze that brushes your skin and smell the sweet aroma of the grass. Farmers will begin to toil the soil and have to finish their farming work before the sun rises because upon the rising of the sun the work will be in the house and other activities under the shades. They make used of the time because time for them is precious. You seldom heard of any news outside from the city, usually it is an old story, a history or a many days old news. One mistake or misbehavior of a certain person will be the talk of the village for many days. You will be a like a celebrity, became famous but eventually it will die in its course and be forgotten. Most mountain people don't believe in synthetic medicines, they are herbalist. They prefer the herbal plants the natural approach in treating certain ailments and you will wonder the efficacy and effectiveness of such herbs. In which there was no side effects and no cost. It is nice to live in the mountain. Hassle free and stress free. Life is slow pace unlike the fast pace of the city, time is running fast. But if you are used the city life, its noise and glittering lights of the city, the merriment at night time with friends, living in the mountain makes you lonely. You long the city's busy life, the rides and all the amenities the city have. Comparing the two environment I would say living in the mountain is not forever, it is just good for vacation. I am used of the city life since I was born and raised in the place where it is complicated and chaotic. Despite of its present status I long the city life and the experience I have in the mountain is something to learn and be not forgotten. The city is where I belong.

The world is compose of people with different nationalities. You could distinguish each nationality on the persons appearance. There are those with fair complexion, with black hair and chinita eyes, and medium built called asians. Those six footer height, brown eyes or blue eyes, red or brown hair, with white complexion and they are the westerners, and the black man from Africa. All these nationalities live in the same world, the same air they breath and the same time they use to live. Why can't all these nationalities stand together as one. Why do they fight each other, what is the root case? Why not live in peace.

Over exposure of gadgets that emits radiation really has a side effect. Whole day facing the computer makes my shoulder ache, pain between the eyes and a headache. Others having black a coloring around their eyes as if having just punch. How about those young children so young and tender to be exposed to radiation through their cellphones, what do they suffer later on?

Let us continue to show and express our love even though the world in chaos and turmoil. Let our love stand to end this aggression, bombings and battle which are so confusing and devastating. Let us pray together for world peace and love each other. Love conquers all.

Saying I forgive you but will not forget is the word of a hypocrite. If you forgive you must forget if not, reminiscing the past will dig up the buried pains and the flame of hatred will create fire of violence. To maintain peace let us be man of words, "I forgive you and forget everything that happen." Eventually it will create a world peace.

The Reason Behind It is a reality that a famous actress, a suit after because of her caliber she has on her craft, quit the limelight and live in a simple life away from the city, in a rural area so different the kind of life she was born with, just to be with the love of her life. Marries someone ordinary, not to be called an Adonis, with a simple means of living. But there was no regret with the change of the course of her life, she is contented to be a devoted mom and a wife, a good house keeper with no house helper to do the household chores. She managed to adjust the new environment, the new way of living, to live simply and ordinary. There was once a great singer of her time, even a winner of an international singing contest and have uplift the living standard of her family because of her bright and booming career. She was not born with a silver spoon and platter so she works hard, accept any engagement when still hot thus, giving richness and comforts to her family. All the blessings she received came from her star-studded profession. It seems she felt that happiness is not the career, the money and the fame. She felt emptiness and it was filled by the love of her life. So she left the country and her glittering job to be with the man she loves. Leaving the complicated life of being a star and settle down to a place where she called home with her husband. Away from the noise of the fans and sounds of the stage living in an average standard of life. All of this because they follow their hearts. **Love is the** **reason behind** all these quitting, leaving the comforts, luxuries and richness the art industry had given them. Their happiness is waking up each morning with their love ones on their side, the hugs and kisses that assures that there is someone waiting eagerly when they return and no single doubt that there is someone to be with in sickness and in old age. To follow your heart is to live the true and real life. To be ready to endure and sacrifice whatever comes, for life is a roller coaster, there are ups and down, it sometimes dark and bright, a multi-colored life, and one must be ready to make love works and last. There are happy relationship that did not last, just a short live happiness, and quit. Leaving the ones they love and go back to their world before. They realize that it was a mistake of giving up their profession that it is in the limelight they belong, to be with their fans and the sound of music. The reason behind these is still love. They love their profession above all things, they love to be praise and hail by the fans, to be not away by the media be it tabloid or on air, and always be the talk of the town. It is where they found happiness and we could not blame them for that is the dictate of their hearts. Happiness cannot be given and be bought. It is upon your definition of what is happiness. If you love and you are happy so, that's it.

Battling depression depends on oneself. It is only you can cure your own depression. It is just in your mind, to find ways to divert your attention on that thing that depressed you, and focus on something that brighten and gives an interest. Pray hard for God's help for the mind is so strong and our body is weak. Psychiatrist will just assess you and the effort is yours.

Cell site towers emits radiation 50 meters radius and children are at great risk specially on their developing brain. The reason people protest the erection of cell towers on a certain area afraid of any side effect to ones health. Afraid of the towers, but did not take any precautions on handling gadgets to children. Cell phones, tablets and computers emits radiation the same way with towers and it is even more stronger.

Many would say I love you to a beautiful model, best dancer, an NBA player, to the great singer, musician and to all people who are famous and well known. They are proud to be with them, take selfie picture with them even thou they do not know each other personally and keep saying "I love you". What kind of love is that? If they like the performance of a man they will shout that word love.

Love Letters Love letter are group of words written in a piece of paper and sent through mails or through a friend in which all content is all about love. It is a way to convey or to express the love felt to the other or a way of courting a woman through writing. Well polished words of love are well written, with good penmanship in a scented colored paper and that paper was called before as stationary with different colors to choose. Love letters are treasured and cherished, keep in vault and drawers for it link the years before and the present They are not just ordinary letters to be trown away after reading. It is a letter full of love, hope and plan for the future. On how you treasure the one sending the letters the same way the love letters for those are the voice of true love, care and affection. Love letters were not written for the sake of communicating, it is written from the depth of the heart expressing and pouring out all emotions, the love, the loneliness and longingness of being afar from the one you love. In breaks ups others torn love letters to pieces in tears and later regret of doing so. Eventually and actually it is kept somewhere that no one will know. Re-reading all those love letters is re-living the love being shared of the yesteryears. Reading each line makes you recall how to love and how it is to be love. It is not a love letters from the sand to be swept away by the waves it is a love letter from the heart to the paper, to be folded and kept in the drawer and buried in the heart. I hope I have touched your heart and rekindle the love shared before. Just the sake of recalling the happy memories of the past.

Flowers and chocolates are the usual gifts to melt a womans cold heart. How costly love is, in the same way how costly that woman is. If only they know others are waiting in the corner without any cost and willing to sacrifice in poorer and worse for the sake of love.