@psychie 30 August 2020 more from that month

Leave your comfort zone.

If you have a perfect life with all the good furtune and success you desire,stay in your comfort zone. Do not be tempted out of it whatever you do. Otherwise be ready to step out of it now. Success will not come to you, you have to go and find it. We all live within comfort zones. It's reassuring to know exactly where you are and what you do. It's nice that failure is not a big problem. What does your comfort zone look like? Are you? Staying in your jod and not pushing for a challenging promotion. Staying in the relationship that seems okey,when in your heart you know you want out? Holding back from starting a new business? Putting off going back to university or starting dance classes? Why do we get stuck on comfort zone? Why we do hold back from commenting to things we know we really want to do?It comes down to fear of failure- we are terrified of things not going to plan,hearing the word "NO",or some other unspecified embarrassment. So why does anyone ever leave their comfort zones? The most common reason is when the pain or cause of not changing becomes to much to bear- greater that the benefits of actually maintaining with the status quo. Sometimes it is what we are missing out on,the so called "opportunity cost" ,that motivates us to make a change - when you want something so much that you are willing to step in to the unknown to get it.