It is a riddle… Living is a promise made… Living is luck!..
Is living to have breathed for a countable period from the past to the present? Or is it what you can do while you can breathe?
If you have an expectation about life, your answer will probably be the latter. Because as long as you can breathe, there will be things you plan to do as much as you can do. If you are not designing anything, life remains for you as a concept consisting of a period of time where you can breathe.
Then I ask the same question again: What is life? If life is a car speeding towards the unknown, it's about catching a happy face or a warm glance from the images passing by. No, living on a slow train is waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel; sometimes with patience, sometimes with an overwhelming sense of rebellion.
If it is a ship that glides through the vast seas from time to time and escapes from capsizing from time to time, to live, to face the storms that are thought to be never-ending; is to fight for survival, to experience the calm after the storm. To be a lonely tree in a huge forest, to live is to resist the stormy snows of cold winters. Not to hear the deafening noise of the great forest.
To turn your back is to dive into all their hums.Or if it is to share, living is being able to pass a large piece of it to the other person without hesitation when a warm crispy bagel cuts it in half.
To love is to live, to love even if one does not love, without expecting anything in return, without turning love into shopping.
If you can't do any of these, living a vegetative life. It is expected that the plugs that provide breathing are pulled…
It is said that "the darkest moment of the night is the moment closest to the dawn". After the times when you feel the most hopeless and say "I'm tired, I'm giving up", there will be times when you can breathe easily. If you don't give up, if you keep on keeping your feet firmly on and holding on to life.
Hopeful developments sometimes knock on the door of your dejected heart as an unexpected offer, and sometimes something you have dreamed of for years will come true... As long as you haven't left the stage called life, say "I'm still here, I'm here". The lover of the people also said: "What is life, what is the use of soul / When you do not have a purpose in life / What is home / What is a home for / When there is no smiling person in the house"...
To live; laughing, crying, rejoicing, being sad, shouting, calming down, being sick, being happy, being healthy, experiencing stress, using antidepressants, getting married, getting divorced, giving birth, loving, cheating, being deceived, being understood, not being understood, insomnia, school, profession, drinking, traveling, having fun, having a picnic, committing suicide, dying, not being able to die, getting angry with the people walking on the road, getting scolded by the bus driver, getting angry, and still being able to say "what a good day" when all this has passed.
Maybe living is writing and drawing on a blank piece of paper with a pen given to you… In my opinion, to be able to say “I lived”, it is necessary to know a lot of songs, a lot of poems… Then you need a voice to sing out loud. Well, it takes courage to smile too.
Efforts and struggles while life is flowing prepare us for the next step in our life.
Some people find themselves in life. Before they have time to think, "Can I do it, am I ready, will I be disgraced?", they fall into the middle of something with a bang.
Life offers them its own pace, its own flow, even though they do not know how to swim, they see that they are in the water, they have to figure out how to swim quickly.
Sometimes life is like a waiting room for some. They wait in that room, and they wait… Either an outside development, an intervention is expected, or maybe the miracle will happen…
For some of us, what is expected is to be the best, most competent, complete and flawless.
It seems irrational to step out of the room before it is fully equipped. Being disgraced, being stupid and pathetic are the dangers that lie just outside the room for such of us.
They, too, wait to be ready on the secure sofas of their rooms, either constantly procrastinating or "working" incessantly.
When we see ourselves as a project that needs to be meticulously worked on in order to be loved, accepted, appreciated, we sometimes think that the project must be complete and complete in order to be ready to come to light.
Only when it is complete and complete will it be able to receive applause from the audience.
However, when we feel ourselves to be a natural part of life, when it is enough to be ourselves in order to be loved, accepted and cared, and to feel safe, the waiting room disappears. It's like, isn't it?
*If I continue with a little story;*
One day, while walking through the forest, the man saw a butterfly trying to come out of its cocoon. He watched the butterfly for hours as it struggled to get out of the small hole in its cocoon.
Then the man thought that the butterfly had given up trying to get out of the cocoon and that it had no strength left. He thought that I would help the butterfly so it could come out easily, and he enlarged the hole in the cocoon so that it could come out more easily.
In this way, the butterfly could easily come out of its cocoon. But he wasn't ready to go out yet, his body still dry and his wings wrinkled. The man thought that the butterfly would gather its strength, spread its wings and fly. But Butterfly had emerged from its cocoon prematurely. No matter how hard he tried, he could not fly and continued to crawl on the ground with crumpled wings.
The man had wanted to help the butterfly with good intentions, but what he didn't know was; The butterfly's struggle to get out of the cocoon would allow the fluid in its body to go to its wings so that it could fly when it came out of the cocoon at the right time.
Efforts and efforts made while life is flowing prepare us for the next step in our lives and enable us to reach the necessary strength. If you want to fly with your own wings, you have to work hard and struggle with difficulties. If you do everything your child wants in good faith and don't let him face the difficulties of life, you will actually prevent him from flying with his own wings when the time comes.
A bunch of experience from me to you
Life is easy for some and easy for others. Everyone eats a slice of the cake. Life teaches us something, thanks to our experiences. We all have some stereotyped mindsets.
I also have some notes that I took from my own life, experiences, and a little of my perspectives. I don't want them to stay with me alone because; I know there are people who may read what I wrote and find a piece of themselves. Maybe I will meet a young girl just in time when she needs it..
Be understanding with people. Not everyone may feel as good as you do at that moment and may not be able to look out of the same window. Believe in love but never say you can't live without it!
Never gossip. Don't gossip about anyone when there are so many good things to talk about and so much exchange of ideas to do. Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you. But don't compromise your own behavior just because you're not treated that way.
Beware of parting ways with people. In such situations, who is what, it becomes very clear. And he continues his relations with the same point of view. Say goodbye without breaking a heart. Do not forget that the behavior you do, the words you say will form a chain. Will it be a chain of goodness or a chain of evil? You will give direction.
Do not take a single step on the path that you do not believe in. Don't make promises you can't stand behind. Don't be blindly attached to anyone, it may snow on the mountains you trust.
Heed the words of the elders. Do not attempt a great task without their consent. I have not seen a person who could be happy by disobeying the words of his parents. Don't make big sacrifices for a love that doesn't fit your logic by saying you can never live without it. Everything is beautiful in its place, on time and as it should be.
Beware of conscience hunters. They appear to you with their most beautiful faces. They either take your property or a piece of your heart and leave. Today, don't be offended by the words "I Didn't Come To This World To Be What Everyone Wants".. The person who will interfere with you so much is your family anyway. Time has a moderate aspect.
Make your own decisions, but don't be offended by consulting. Making mistakes teaches a lot of lessons, but it is insane to be led into error on purpose.
Be soft-spoken. If you are not in your mood, stay silent, but do not beware of those who expect a little attention from you with a warm glance, so that their hearts are not hurt by being taken on them.
Good-naturedness does not harm anyone. A good-natured one also loves God in the servant. Fill the void inside you with prayers and see how peacefully it overflows outside. Control your anger, don't break anyone's heart, even if it happens unintentionally, find ways to treat it. Hug a tree, run around, stay away from the unpleasantness that you will put on yourself later.
Love nature, be the last person to want to stir things up, defend your rights when necessary, be constructive, not destructive, empathize. Remember, do not forget the concepts of the heart. Even if you do not have blood ties with the people around you, know the heart.
Forget those who say "don't be with people who won't give you energy". They want to make you a lonely and unhappy person. On the contrary, be friendly. And see how your energy grows. Make a difference in the lives of others. Show your difference.
Don't forget that you can't get anything by deserving without working. And don't forget that you will get what you want in the end of every effort. Do good deeds, so that your existence gains meaning.
Instead of grumbling about the past, we should learn from the past.
Regret is a combination of multiple emotions: Anger, sadness and shame... Sometimes even envy and jealousy... Although it may seem like a retrospective emotion, it also plays a role in shaping our future.
We all experience the feeling of regret in negative situations or troubles from time to time. We regret our actions, we regret our choices, we regret our experiences.
From time to time, instead of blaming ourselves with this concept of regret, we throw the responsibility of our experiences to external factors with expressions such as I am unlucky, I am unfortunate, it always happens to me.
That is, we often live by focusing on the past. We use the past tenses too much, like that which is constantly stuck in the past, had been, had done, had been, was, was like that.
Human life consists of 3 main phases. These are past – present – future concepts. None of us can change our past, that's for sure. But is it possible to be constantly stuck in the past, to regret what we have done and experienced, to be stuck with the remnants of the past, actually a phenomenon that takes us to the bottom even further?
What you have lived, what you have done... After all, it is in the past... Even as you read this article, the moment of writing this article is in the past. You can never go back to that moment again, you cannot change that moment, you cannot make any changes about that moment. Because he has passed. The emotions or lives we live now are actually a result of our past choices or actions. I'm not talking about forgetting the past, we can't forget our past. But we can't get stuck in the past.
The constant feeling of regret is a result of being tied to the past with thick ropes and leads to emotional depression and loss of self-worth. For this reason, we have to reshape the concept of regret by changing our perspective on the past.
Instead of cursing and grumbling about the past, we should learn from the past. In other words, we should replace the concept of regret with learning. First of all, we should be conscious of accepting the negativities we are experiencing now and we should know that we have to take action now to change the future. I say it again; I'm not talking about forgetting the past. I am saying that what we are experiencing now is our past choices and that we should not regret these choices but learn from them.
Because regret seems like betrayal to oneself, many things in life are our own choices, our job, our spouse, having a child, doing sports, gaining weight, driving... our own choices. Why should we regret our own choices? But let's learn. Let's learn lessons for the future of our lives.
When we live with the past and regret, there is something very important that we overlook and miss. Right now... Yeah, we're actually missing the moment
Not the regrets we have experienced from the past, but the lessons we have received should guide us. We have to make plans now to change the future. Because life is based on the concept of “you reap what you sow”. In order to reap crops in the future, it is necessary to sow now and grow correctly. It does not give us anything to regret that we did not get crops in the past years. But right now, we can learn from the fact that our crops are not what we want, and we can correct our mistakes in the past.
Every end is the beginning of a new one. For this reason, what happened, what happened, is in the past. Tomorrow is a new day and life will begin anew with each passing moment. Therefore, blindly clinging to the feeling of regret does not take us forward, it causes us to stay where we are and even to get stuck in the nets of the past. While sailing to innovations, a new route should be drawn based on past experiences.
Especially regretting the choices both in professional and emotional environments leads us to negativity and pessimism. If you regret your job choice, you will not be successful in your job. Your choice. You have no right to regret your relationships. If our relationships are our own choices, we cannot regret it. You can't regret the food you eat, if you choose the food you eat. You can't regret that traffic is locked on a road you take, because you choose to enter that road.
Maybe you will say, do we choose everything? Of course not, but in order to make our lives happier and more peaceful, we should make our own choices in our sphere of influence by knowing ourselves better, analyzing ourselves better. We human beings have the freedom to choose their behavior with our free will, conscience, self-consciousness and analytical thinking ability. We should individually be our own leader and shape our lives without regretting our choices.
Letter to my left side
My dear heart, you have always been the one who gave me meaning. If you weren't so beautiful, I wouldn't be so compassionate and emotional now.
My heart has always chosen the right one. Despite everything...
I know I couldn't take care of you very well. With my inexperience, I made the same mistake with my eyes. I cried a lot and hurt you a lot. Some were right, but some were really unnecessary.
Back then, I was always looking outside. Who thinks what about me? Who cares how much? Who criticizes me in what way? Who left me and why?
I used to listen to these a lot, so I know best what restless days and nights you've had. Most of the time I couldn't see the signs, I deliberately went over mistakes without knowing they were mistakes. But now my heart has grown. I've really grown.
Breakups don't hurt that much anymore My dear. I forgot about it. Of course I didn't forget everything, but at least I got rid of my material worries. I know that was one of the biggest burdens. So how do you feel now, is it lighter? As I got older, I learned some bitter truths of life.
You can't be insensitive like what's happening around you. It's very difficult to get used to and accept what I've been through or it happened. I thought everything would be as innocent as when I was a kid. Forgive me I failed. We've been abandoned, tricked and hurt I know it was mostly my fault. Uncontrolled
I made myself a victim of my loves, quick deceptions and my need for love. I forgot to love you out of the need to be loved all the time.
But our good days have passed. What we feel in your mother's arms with you is still somewhere in our subconscious. We experienced love together and we felt this stirring inside us. We were exposed to the hugs of sincere friends and listened to their heartbeats. Aren't we both in our hearts?
I know I hurt you so much. And you were so sensitive... My heart, I won't say sorry for what happened. I know that if I say I'm sorry, I will hurt myself and you again. We will start thinking about the past again and fears will surround us again. I know that I shouldn't be sad anymore. This girl knows that what I've been through has contributed to me. We spent long and difficult years with you. We cannot say that everything went well until now.
But now I've changed! Now I listen to you more. I look at you and I find myself. You are so beautiful, my heart is still bright, you are still not dark. You are still dazzling in the colors of life and you really dazzle. Your wars with my mind have lessened. You know, sometimes he can be right too. The condition is cleanliness of conscience. Thank God, our minds agree with us. You always knew how to stay clean. Thank you, my heart.
Dear Heart, we shared the years we lived with bitterly and sweetly. Even in my hardest moments, you always beat. Sometimes you accelerated, sometimes you slowed down. Even in my saddest moments, you gave me a very important message. You pushed me to life with your throws. You whispered hope to me every time you crashed. If there is hope, there is life. My dear heart, now I am touching you and listening to you. Listen to me carefully! We are together on this road until the end. Sometimes we will be sad, sometimes we will be hurt. I promise both of us a pain-free life. Good days are waiting for us.
So glad I have you,
glad you're on my left side...
Sagittarius is life… All energy comes from it.
We are all archers of divine will. For this reason, we need to know which tools to use and how. Some important advice from me to you…
Sagittarius is life… All energy comes from it. The arrow will surely leave one day. The target is far away. But life always stays with you, so you need to know how to take good care of it. It needs periods of stagnation. It loses its strength if it is kept always armed and stretched. This is why you must accept rest so that you can renew your strength. So your strength is complete when you hang on to re-tighten the spring.
The bow has no consciousness: it is an extension of the archer's hand and desires. It serves to kill or to think. So always set your goal clearly.
Sagittarius is flexible, but still it has its limits. Any attempt beyond its capacity will break it or exhaust the hands holding it. In this case, do not demand more from your own body than it can give you, as well as from the bow. And remember, one day the time of old age will come, it is a blessing, not a curse.
Stretch the bow gracefully, let both sides do their part properly, don't waste your energy. In this way, you can shoot many arrows without getting tired.
The arrow is your intention… It is the tool that connects the power of the bow to the center of the target. Our intention should always be very clear, unambiguous and well-balanced.
Once detached from the bow, it never returns, so it's better to interfere with the process - when the movements to guide the arrow are not accurate and smooth - than to act old-fashioned just because the arrow is stretched and waiting for the target.
If the only thing holding you back is the fear of not hitting the target, then don't be afraid to make your intentions clear. Perform the right movements and open your hand and let go of the bowstring, take the necessary steps and face the challenge you enter. Even if you fail to hit the target, you will be able to aim better next time.
If you take no risks, you never know what you have to change next time.
The target is the goal to be achieved… It is determined by you. Herein lies the beauty of the path followed. You never have the right to make excuses or say that your opponent is stronger. Because you are the one who chose the target and all responsibility belongs to you.
If you see your target as an enemy, maybe you can shoot well, but you will never be able to improve yourself. All your life you've been trying to shoot your arrow into things made of paper or wood that don't make any sense. And when you get together with other people, you complain that you have never done anything interesting or exciting in life.
This is exactly why you need to set a goal, do your best to achieve it, look at it with respect and care: You should know well what it means to you and how much effort, education and intuition you have put into it.
When aiming at your target, don't just focus on it, but also see everything around it; because when the arrow is thrown, it will encounter factors that you cannot easily calculate, such as wind, weight, distance.
A goal exists only as long as one can dream of reaching it. It is man's passion that makes his existence real, otherwise the goal will be a dead thing, a distant dream, a sweet dream.
And just as intent needs a purpose, purpose needs a person's intention. Because that is what gives meaning to your existence; so it is no longer just a dream, but the center of an archer's world.
Hate is usually a negative feeling we have towards the other person.
Hatred, which is an extremely negative emotion that we can usually show as the source of anger, hostility and disgust, can be said to be a very strong emotion because it is intensely felt and embraced. Although hatred is generally a negative feeling we have towards the other party, we can say that it is an extremely destructive situation that actually kills the beauties inside the person. In addition, there are many expression alternatives for this feeling. However, it can also result in self-harm with the evil that the person feeds entirely within himself. So why do we hate it?
Hate; can be felt against a person, a community, language, religion, gender, sexual identity, any object, or a movement. However, whatever the subject is, prejudice is the basis of hatred. If you don't put enough thought into understanding and knowing something, only your assumptions will be with you. This can cause you to fear, dislike and, at worst, hate that thing for which you do not know enough. To harbor hatred towards a person or a situation based only on your first impressions, how they make you feel, and outward appearance would be extremely contrary to the requirements of being a civilized person. However, sometimes the reason for the feeling of hatred may be the behaviors exhibited by the other party rather than the feelings and attitudes of the person. For example, let's say you saw an evil from the other side and this caused negative effects on your psychology. If the person realizes that his action is causing negative effects and does not take steps to compensate for it, the negativity it causes may result in the hatred of the other party.
However, in some cases, a feeling of hatred may manifest itself because of the predominance of the person's own problems from the other side. For example, jealousy arising from wanting to be like the other person but not being able to do this at the moment may cause the individual to hate that person. What a person with a healthy psychology will do is to illuminate the positive points of that person. However, hating a person who has never had any close relationship with him is actually equivalent to wishing his evil. No matter what the subject is, there is no logical and humane explanation for wishing evil on a living thing, while having such a feeling towards a person with whom you have not the slightest interaction can cause destruction both within yourself and for the other party.
If the other party reminds the person of things that they cannot be, the person will start to feel a grudge against that individual at this point. We can say that this situation is actually an expression of his own despair, giving up and laziness. If you envy the aspects of the other party that you want them to have in you, you should focus on what you can do about it. If you're after elements that you can't get, then you have to first realize it and then accept it. Remember that accepting something does not always mean giving up. The introduction of logic is extremely effective in making healthy decisions.
For example, let's say the thing you are jealous of is the physique of the other party. This may make you feel overweight and unhealthy. If this really bothers you and prevents you from being at peace with yourself, if you can take inspiration from that person, you can adopt a healthy life, do sports and focus on losing weight. However, doing these does not mean that you will be like the other party. Everyone's body structure, system and needs are different. For this reason, it is extremely important that you make a real determination of the point where you want to be.
Unfortunately, this feeling that arises from our strong prejudices is closely related to a person's lack of compassion and love. Although there are positive points you can choose, chasing after the negative ones will cause you to get lost. Instead of being jealous, you can envy and nurture, instead of responding to a place where you see evil in the same way, you can weave stones of love, instead of being afraid of the unknown, you can try to learn, and instead of opposing the situation you think is not normal, you can embrace differences. Both positive and negative emotions are highly human. But why have such a strong feeling towards a person you don't like, even if it is negative about a situation? Growing such strong hatred will do you harm. If you don't like it, don't like it, ignore it, or ignore it. But don't take hate, which is an extremely bad mood, into your own heart or surround others with this fire.
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Strength; In fact, sacrificing, loving, seeking, missing and not being offended in the least.
A young man was walking down the street and saw a dog lying on the sidewalk, making sounds as if the dog was crying.
When he got closer, he saw that the dog was lying on a nailed board, and the nail was sinking right into the dog's stomach.
He asked the old man standing right there,
-Uncle, is this dog crying?
-Yes, said the old man, it seems,
-Why? asked the young man,
-Can't you see? said the old man, he is lying on the nailed board, he must be sinking.
-Then why doesn't he get up?
I think the old man's answer was very meaningful:
-It means it doesn't hurt enough to get up...
If there is a problem or situation in your life that you want to change right now and you are not doing anything, there are two possibilities: Either that nail doesn't hurt enough to lift you from where you're lying, or the pain of the nail that pierced has not yet passed the pain of your fear of change. That nail sometimes pierces a person so hard that even in the most unfavorable and unfavorable situations, a person suddenly jumps out and establishes a brand new world for himself...
We know how wrong it is to be strong. We think the one who raises his voice is strong. We think the one who hit the table is strong. We think the frightening is powerful.
To be strong is to remain silent while shouting and this voice is so loud that it can make even your own ears deaf.
We think that those who impose conditions, set rules, create principles, and those who think that saying Noah and not saying prophet are something, are strong. In fact, power is being flexible without giving up its essence, being a shape, being kneaded with what life brings.
We always think that the one who sacrifices everything for the sake of what is loved, wanted and sought is strong.
Strength; In fact, sacrificing, loving, seeking, missing and not being offended in the least.
We think that the one who continues, who knows everything he has, who loves what he has for fear of losing, is strong.
Strength; Actually, it's not to decam, it's to give up…
Whatever happened yesterday happened… we should laugh at the troubles that we will have trouble remembering in the future… we don't know what will happen tomorrow. Maybe at a traffic light, maybe at the opening of a painting exhibition, who will we go to. All our lives, unfortunately, in order to earn a little more, to be loved or known a little more, with the emotions and dreams we postponed by holding on to the shore of life; Sometimes we compromise our personality, sometimes from our hearts, and sometimes from what we have in our pockets, and drift to places we don't want for people and jobs we don't like. If we believe in the necessity of making ourselves a means instead of an end and satisfying someone's ego, we are lost with the teaching of kissing the hand we cannot bend.
While thinking about what has just happened and what will happen soon, we bury that moment in the past.
Simple, derived, compound; intransitive ćati with causative transitive; There are qualifying, specifying, sign, number, question adjectives, it is in the present tense.
The mistakes I've made, the tears I've shed, the successes I've had, all the criticisms I've had, the shocks I've had, all the abandonment I didn't deserve, the treachery I've experienced, the joys strong enough to make me cry, the hugs I've had with my loved one, the things I've eaten from the one I loved, the laughter I've had, the anger I've had, all of my life sacrificed!
But all in the present only. What success, money, beauty; nor the traumas that accumulate feelings of pain, anger and hatred are permanent in this life. Trust neither happiness nor pain in this world. Whatever you're going through is just right now.
Let me live to the fullest, the hours of peace that make me forget this past and tomorrow, make me write on my chair, stroke my dog's head, and keep my hopes and dreams in it. Not knowing, wanting to know, the only truth, the present...
I made all my fights on the way your eyelashes opened my life
I didn't change you for any world bustle. I have not placed the weight of the houses and the crowd above you. I did not know your pain lightly from the pain of poverty. It was the suffocation of everyone who was defeated, the distance I was lost, every time your face clouded. Wherever I go, I always walk you. I carried your joy like a morning of peace and a feast. I trusted your voice, that perpetual summer afternoon that suits your eyes best. It was the spoils of children walking under the rainbow, the chill in my body every time I parted their bangs. You were the temper in my mouth when I was reading poems to people. I looked at him with the grief of all orphans, whenever I thought of the future. I gave your breath to everyone who shouted an injustice. I made you the window of all prisons. Then I held on to the solitude of the slums, hoping for an apology, a forgiveness. I made all my fights on the way your eyelashes opened my life. I believed the word, your body more than him. As I turned and came to you, I realized that freedom is love. I didn't succumb to habits, I just didn't want to turn you into a habit. Children were growing up succumbing to the world. Men were aging without knowing the truth except their fathers. The bazaars had already taken over the houses. The girls couldn't sing their song to anyone. It wasn't the sun blowing from the streets, it was the feeling of retreat.
There was no light in mothers' milk. The deep voices of rude men covered the country. Beauty had long since emerged from people's dreams of the future. Nobody had a common song and nobody could sing their song alone. Everyone was waiting for someone to come, without going anywhere. The choir was silent, and people believed only those who spoke aloud. Subtlety turned into solitude. In the geography of violence, of course, the sky was a luxury and only remembered when it rained. Neither love, nor freedom, nor peace could be told to those who had a job from the greatest distance home they had ever been to. I stood against all this to protect you. I loved passing the world through you. It wouldn't be good for me to withdraw, not to love you.
You've been gone for days. I even miss your anger. I don't know how far you will come. I have been blessed with separation. I'll stop where your eyebrows are pointing. I will stand like blackened silver. I will apologize by holding on to the suffering of a country. I will seek a light shelter in the folds of your voice. I will say, 'It is good that you come'. I will have no answer other than my heart. I will hit you again from one question to another. All the rains of the world will fall between two words. I'll be confused whether to put my hands on the past or the future. I will ask for a sip of breath for the embers under the ashes. I will think long and hard about the phrase "love is for two". I will get up and look out the window at life. I will say that where I kiss on the forehead, you are my country, where I kiss on the mouth, I am a woman. I'll come out with a smile and fill the streets.
*The child I carry beyond my life... What if you weren't born in this country, what if I knew love like everyone else.*
We should leave good memories as we continue our journey in life.
We met our parents on the train we boarded when we were born. Back then, we thought they would always travel with us. However, at one of the stations, they would get off the train and leave us alone on our journey.
In time, others got on the train.
and they were important to us. Our brothers, our friends, our children, even the love of our life…
Many have descended, leaving a permanent void behind them.
The lack of some of them has been so unnoticeable that we have not even noticed the emptiness of their places..
This train journey is full of joy, sorrow, dreams, expectations, hellos and goodbyes. success here
To be in good relations with all passengers. We do our best for this. We have to do..
However,
There is a conundrum that we all face
None of us know at which station we will get off.
This is why, to live in the best way,
We must love, forgive, reflect the best we are.
This place is very important.
because when we get off the train and leave our seats empty
We should leave good memories for those who will continue their journey on the train of life.
So I wish you a good journey on the train of life.
Give a lot of love, reap success!
Finally, thank you to each and every one of you for being a passenger on my train.
Oh, not forgetting!
I personally have no intention of getting off the train any time soon!
Nevertheless, I may have landed,
It was a pleasure traveling with you!
Glad you boarded!
There is nothing more important than living by accumulating a memory and happy memories in every passing moment. After losing everything, everyone, those moments remain. The only consolation of a whole life gone by is the memories you can collect with your fingers, that's all. If you don't have good memories, what would happen if the title deed of the world was on it? There is no point in having houses that we can't heat and sit in all day, or seats that we can't sit on and wear out. What will you do with what you bought with money after you don't have a scent to miss, a lap where you can leave all your burden when your arm is broken? One day, you may lose everything in an instant, and you will have moments of refuge. You're lucky if you can save it. If there are bad, unpleasant things in your life, you don't like things that remind you of them. Or if you've had things that make you happy, you like things that make you feel happy.
“My dream is to one day realize the talents each person has and take responsibility for their own happiness. Because nothing in life is more important than fulfilling childhood dreams.”
RAPHAELLE GIORDANO “THE SECOND LIFE BEGINS WHEN YOU KNOW THAT YOU HAVE ONE LIFE”
Life is all about learning to walk, after starting to walk, getting tired in a relentless race to take a step until your feet get tired is on every line that comes your way. in any direction.. – Meo
Everything takes shape again. As long as there is hope in your life
Have hope in your life. Don't stop, run as far as you can.
Run regardless of the obstacles placed in front of you. Despite those who try to prevent you from resisting, run and do not look back.
People say I have grown up now, I know everything well, I learned, but that's not the case. Every year, people change a little more compared to the previous year. They say whether I did them or is it me. half-mouth smiles and continues on his way.
In middle ages, people question what they do and live more. I could have read, I could have chosen a better department at school, I could not miss these opportunities, we lament for the steps we take. For example, all the time we spend on people we grieve and grieve for… We feel sorry for the passing time. .However, our experiences and choices make us who we are. As we say if only, we multiply the number of days we wish. Then it was meant to be and it happened. Your feelings and thoughts at that time guided you. If you hadn't suffered that pain, maybe you couldn't move on. You would regret that you didn't do it. You still have the strength and time for what you couldn't do. Many successful famous people were able to reach their goals at a very old age.
They ask me how are you. Sometimes I say I'm very good even if I'm very calm and self-conscious. But it's not like I'm throwing it in. I think about my bad days, I compare them with those days and today I feel really good. That's thankfully... I don't expect constant attention from someone. It doesn't happen either, but I don't let go of the things that make me happy. It's to love yourself and be happy with yourself. Sometimes I let myself get bored. My bored soul is happy with the smallest thing when I least expect it.
They knows how to be happy with these little things. This serenity suits me very well.
Nothing makes me sad anymore.What if I get sad, I even choose to be sad when it comes to my life. I also choose to be sad when appropriate. Crying suits me very well. My eyelashes get wet and stuff. Sometimes that drop of tear you can't shed becomes a burden on your heart. You can't be purified for years. That's why crying suits my life. Everything takes shape. The universe fills the gaps. As long as there is hope in your life. May the gaps always be filled with hope. May the light of your hope never go out. Life goes on with enthusiasm inside you. let it.
This post is for you dear friend
I don't know where you live and how you study. I don't know under what conditions you are and who you are, but if you are reading this article right now, I am writing for you. Listen to me, read and listen well. You even think about it. I'm sure you will find some. I know, you are not happy at all these days. You're not alone; don't worry. It may not seem like it, but not everyone is happy. They're just better at hiding it. Many people actually share the same feelings as you… I know you haven't been very well lately. For example, you want to be silent for hours. I am aware… The sentences you have formed have also become shorter and shorter. Obviously, you don't like this tiredness, stagnation, and silence either, nobody does… Laughing suited you very well. You were nice with your loud laughter and your irresistible attitude. It doesn't feel like it these days; your colors are missing, your light is diminished, your body is transparent... "Are you okay?" You can't bear the question now. Every time you hear this question, you think, "What would they do if I said I'm bad?" You're right, they won't do anything. They can't… You remain silent instead, your silence answers for you. Because it sounds like you'll be "good" quicker unless you name the "how you are".
Let's think calmly: This is probably not the first time you thought it would never pass. You've felt the same way before. It's all over, isn't it? Because everything passes. When the time comes, the flame-red embers turn ashen. The feelings, mistakes and shame that you once thought would die turn into other states. It's hard to believe right now, but for you, this too will end one day. Let's pretend it's a bad dream for now. One morning you will wake up and life will go on as if nothing happened... Happiness is not a gift. Don't forget this. Many of the people you think are happy on the outside are so good at capturing joy, not because they're so lucky, but because they've found a "way to be happy." Everyone has different choices for this. Try to smile at the little children you see, there are definitely things you enjoy doing – spend time with them as much as you can, listen to your favorite songs, spend time with people you feel comfortable with, read a book, drink coffee, go out, if there is a sea in your city, look at the sea – otherwise, you will see the sky. turn your head… Sometimes a stray animal or even a small flower can be my excuse. I'm sure you'll find your own way in time. “Being happy” is a heavy responsibility. I don't necessarily tell you to "be happy", "be good" is enough – it's enough if we are "well"... Dear you… If you are still not bored and still reading this, I am like many other people around; I want you to know that I love you – that I care. Do not lose hope and faith. I wish to see you in better days and happy matters... As I always want, do not lose hope, while you are sad, life may be working for you in a beauties, think about it.
No matter what, everyone's point of view is different, everyone is right in their own way.
Have you ever thought about what is personality?
Isn't it obvious from the name, it's actually personal. Your very existence. Actually, your opinion is your opinion.
Is your personality similar to your sibling or your partner and your friend? Or you don't need to go that far. Is your personality similar to your mother who gave birth to you?
It's very rare, of course, even there, I'm sure there are differences. Because the real truth is that everyone's mind works differently. When emotions come into play, that's what makes you the real you. Every person thinks differently, lives differently, has different understanding.
We all have different ways of expressing our feelings. A situation, a thought, another thought can affect another thought in a different way. When you love someone very much, the fact that they don't love you may cause you to act more angry with them.
All of us must have felt that we have been wronged at some point in our lives. Everyone without exception... When I say injustice, I don't mean just being deceived, slandered or other serious injustices like this. Even though it seems more naive and sometimes very simple, it is a feeling that often scorches people and makes people lonely. When we make too many sacrifices to the people we love Isn't there the disappointment we experience when we make them feel and show their value and we can't see it from him in the same way? That's what I call it.
My experiences have taught me that, no matter what, everyone's point of view is different, everyone is right in their own way.
Sometimes there are things that have not been seen in the place where there is a lot of noise, unnoticed emotions, people trying to be understood...
A lot of gossip, anger, resentment are always caused by these.
From the lack of love...
I'm not saying anything about their rightness or wrongness. But I want to talk to you about the wisdom of being constructive rather than destructive.
Look around you carefully. There is always someone you hurt and hurt without even realizing it. For example, a family member who wants to be understood by you and who needs a sense of trust?
Some people know that even if there is anger where they truly feel love, even if it is ice, they can melt it and boil it in their heart. Be one of those who know this unique recipe...
If you have fought a lot, if it is always a one-sided effort, you will definitely end at some point. Yet your loving heart does not allow hostile separations.
Tons of resentments inside you, the acrid lightness of leaving residue in your heart, and your hopes that have left an open door on your back… you will go on your way…
Love a lot. Don't be afraid to love and don't be ashamed. Love is the beginning and the end of everything.
When you truly love and are loved, life is worth living despite all the difficulties.
When You Say Everything is Over, Hopes Come Alive Again
Let's be aware today... Let's wake up now. Let's think a little bit. So what should we be aware of? What will we think?
Let me tell you; be aware of the pain you are experiencing now, you have experienced or will experience, or happiness, whatever you are feeling now...
We don't know what life will bring us day by day. We don't know. When we say it's all over, hopes come alive again. We get rid of our most impossible impossibilities. Tomorrow is always hopeful, always full of surprises. We live and taste what we have in life.
Life is full of ups and downs, just as everything has its opposite, there are two important things that are opposite in life… Happiness and unhappiness, bitter and sweet. Have you ever thought how much we would taste sweet if there were no bitterness? The fact that you knock the pins every time you throw the ball will make you enjoy the game how much will you enjoy the game? However, the fact that you can't be successful in every shot will trigger you more, get excited and make you enjoy the game... That happiness you get while the ball you throw is moving on the line will make you more successful in life. It can't even be compared to the taste of life that you try to be and constantly try and experience while trying. While bowling, we take care to choose the ball correctly, we choose a ball that we can hold properly with our palm, we try to hold the ball properly, we pay attention to our posture and even our steps, then we adjust our angle and throw the ball. …your choices, ey your deeds and what they bring to you..
How would you feel if every choice you make was correct, how would you feel about success? Think about it, even when you eat too many sweet things in a row, after a while you become unable to eat anything sweet and you feel the need to eat something salty. That's what life is like… What makes life so beautiful and enjoyable. It's not about being successful all the time and being happy all the time. Sadness, grief and pain; these are the feelings that add more value to everything opposite, that is, to the feelings you always want to be for you...
Failure as well as success in life,
Sorrow as happiness
sweet as bitter,
There will be as many wrongs as right so that that life can be truly experienced and lived properly...
Do not forget that even if your soul is scorched, even if death feels sweeter than living, even if you sink to the deepest level, with a little time and what you have done in that time, life will give you new chances, new hopes, new opportunities and the joy of living as if you were starting from scratch. It has a wisdom… As long as you see the wisdom in both pain and happiness…
I wish you to look at the world with awareness today and every day from now on...
Feel how strong your heart is, believe that with this strength you will overcome all bad thoughts
If you are one of those who seek peace, here you go. Are we not bored anymore, tired of stress, getting angry, getting angry.
Today we let out our anger. Join me and do it with me.
We all get angry with some people in our lives, sometimes right and sometimes wrong. Ask yourself first,
Am I right to be angry?
Could my ego have a hand in this?
Could it be that this anger stems from an underlying jealousy?
Could this anger be due to a lack of emotion that I have experienced before or at the moment?
Put your hand on your heart, yes yes, don't stop and multiply the questions in this direction. Hold your palms to your heart and feel its energy. Feel how strong your heart is, believe that you can overcome all bad thoughts with this power and answer your questions.
You are the owner of the heart you touch. You are the one who controls your thoughts. Do not forget that it is in your hands to control your anger. Use your free will to the fullest. Do not forget that many of the emotions you feel are caused by some emotions that are not going well in your mind. Otherwise, the heart is pure, usually seeing the good sides of even the bad ones. It is a state of confusion that we humans, unfortunately, cannot fully fulfill.
Now think about what it will do for you to be angry with that person.
What is the purpose of this anger?
Even when dealing with any job, you will constantly grow this anger in your own mind.
How about letting it go instead?
Come on, let's get rid of all the evil inside us today. Let's be fresh, Let's get rid of tons of weight, together...
This anger you have right now will not be constructive from the outside, but will almost rot inside you and push you into depression. Thoughts containing anger often contain distortions. The anger inside you turns into a big snowball and prevents you from seeing ahead and moving forward.
When you wake up in the morning, before you go to bed at night or when you are alone during the day, please take 15 minutes for yourself. And do what I say. Take a deep breath and say the following.
Anger inside, I know how you got here
But no reason justifies the way they make me feel right now,
I don't want you to hurt me anymore
I don't want you hurting the people around me anymore,
The person I'm angry with... I stay away from you for a while because you create anger in me. I don't want to hurt you or myself.
I release my anger into a roaring river.
My anger had grown inside me and turned to ice,
Now it goes into the unknown with this river and melts into the water.
I am pure now, I am purified, I have nothing but love inside me,
Now all I can give people is love,
I love my soul and feed my soul with beautiful things,
Anger is now so far away that I can't see it,
I am pure, my soul is pure, no outside reaction can affect me anymore, because I am forever closed to anger, envy and all evil thoughts that harm me.
I love myself, I love people,
I have a mature soul now...
What I have is enough for me, I live it, what I don't have doesn't belong to me because it's not good for me,
Did you feel it? Did you see how the anger flows from the river. You are pure now you have no anger anymore, nothing coming from outside or done can upset or disturb you anymore. Don't bring him back! He's not going to do you any good, other than wasting your best time, darkening your eyes and breaking your heart...
You may be right in your anger, it's a natural state. After all, every emotion we experience is unique to us. We just want to get rid of our anger here. Everything is for us and we self-help travelers know how to deal with which emotion. Think of something positive that our anger can give us? You can't think of anything. Isn't I surprised by that. If you think you need to protect yourself, don't do it out of anger. The only person anger will hurt and take away from you is yourself.
Don't let others make you someone else. But be careful! Don't hate people while doing this... Empathize and just be yourself. What you have is enough for you, with this pure heart, better ones will soon replace the evil you left behind...
Pain, sadness and joy are ours. I wish the years would pass without saying
I'm lost in thought this time. It's like I've calmed down. Have I become like my elders? Because I feel like I'm living the things I've heard from them.
Something has happened to me... I have completely withdrawn into myself. There is no trace of my old crazy moods. It's like I've become stagnant.
This is not alienation or isolation from life, do not be confused. On the contrary, I am more attached to life than I have ever been. On the contrary, it was as if I was unaware of all the evils of the world. from every color, every area...
Life changes people. We think that we will always stay the same, but that is not the case. The more we keep our inner child alive, the more we grow, this fact does not change anything. You actually experience good things. You are more experienced, more confident. Now you are smarter, you have an opinion on everything. And if you understand life well, your thoughts are always right. And you direct your life with these thoughts, with more confident steps.
You are looking for a little more silence, a lot of peace, you can hardly stand the sounds of children, because you are growing up. You hear the noises better, you know people better, you listen to nature and life. You listen to the chirping of birds more…
I still question myself in many subjects. I still haven't been able to complete it. So it's not really easy to find yourself. Even if you find yourself, you are always in a struggle with yourself. Sometimes you even do what you know wrong. You do what you shouldn't do, you say what you shouldn't say. You know you should have anger but you can't be angry, don't be angry or you are still broken on the issues you shouldn't be offended.
I know I still have a long road ahead of me. Every year I improve more than the previous year. I don't know what else I will experience on this journey. Maybe that's why life is so beautiful. Think about it, after our most painful experiences, our wounds are healed in time and life does not make us forget completely, but new things are happening. We meet new people, we make new beginnings. We write new stories for our lead roles.
Maybe that's why life is so beautiful... We don't know what we will experience tomorrow. We don't know when we will die. We live as if we will never die without knowing it. Death is a part of life... Thanks to him, we love life more, we know its value. ;
I'm not even halfway through. I know I have a lot more to learn. I'm improving, adding more to my thoughts and feelings every day and removing as much. But now I'm sure of this. I don't want to say WISH for the rest of my life. I did it. When I was caught between my emotions and my logic, no matter how much my logic said no, I uncontrollably chose to believe my emotions.
Now I know that happiness is not in the whirlpools that keep us in a vicious circle.
I can achieve anything after I want it,
that not all people can be trusted blindly...
Anger and jealousy do not take place in love,
When a brick of the wall of respect falls, the wall will crack,
What a blessing trust is in life,
The lie is a messy hair and it hurts so much,
that my family is my treasure,
This is exactly why life is beautiful. You get pleasure as you experience it. Pain, sadness and joy are ours.
Look, it's spring again. Imagine, just like me.
Wishing you a life with few wishes…
Love Despite Everything, Don't Expect Anything in Return
The most precious thing in life is undoubtedly love. It is beautiful to love, it is better to be loved.
Today, I want to talk about love. Actually, our topic is always love. I have always wanted to tell people about this from the very beginning. In my writings, in the articles, poems, and photographs I have chosen… In spite of the profiles and sharing places where reproachful sentences are shared, which compete with each other. Of course, everyone at the same time It is not possible for him to be in the same mood. Some of them read my articles with great enthusiasm, some turned away. There was love in you that you found yourself here, I am sure. Love was valuable to you. Here is the common point of all of us. Here is the common point of this word.
Love… Do you know what kind of power it is that can erase all anger and resentment in a person, what kind of feeling is it that can make you forget everything, all the negativities, even some injustices. Do you know what a sincere word "I love you" can change? Many things...
Look, I draw your attention; I'm not saying love, love...
It is not necessary to say I love you all the time, any attitude, look, caring, caring that shows you love...
People are constantly waiting for love from each other. We expect love from our lover, from our family, from our brothers, from our friends. When we truly feel loved, we calm down and become happy. However, lovelessness puts us in various impasses. Actually, it shouldn't get in. We always strive for it. But love is always a need, like bread and water. just as…
When you lose interest in your spouse, your spouse starts to become more jealous and more aggressive. When you do not show your love to your friends to your brother, your brother will always be incomplete. When you do not show love to your children, they always look for this love outside and always need to be loved… Some say yes to everyone, to the extent that they forget themselves to win people's love, some say so. he is loveless that he is always angry, always frowning, even running away from people in order not to get hurt. Even the evils of some people are always due to this lack of love. You are about the love you give, not what you get.
In fact, even the dose of love is harmful to me when the dose is too much. A child who is very loved, saturated with love, suffocated with love, all his needs are met, and his or her every need is met, may be different in the ways he seeks to find happiness in the future. In this satisfied state, he may steal or even kill a person.
That's why life is beautiful even with its shortcomings. Life is in such a balance and we are so busy with our shortcomings, our shortcomings, our shortcomings…
But when I look around, we are always surrounded by people who are burning with the need to be loved. Everyone is broken, hurt, lost in enthusiasm...
That's why the most beautiful thing is to love unconditionally. To love despite… If everyone loves without expecting anything in return, maybe there will be no one left unloved, no one will be hurt.
So, love today to the fullest, without gratuitous... Congratulate people, thank the waiter who offered you your coffee. Wish good day to the driver who dropped you at your stop, rejoice him as an individual for serving this world and the universe. Don't wait for it to happen. You smile a little bit. Surprise him. Maybe your smile will cause dozens of customers to be greeted with a smile. Be the one who smiles. Be the one full of love.
Give a big hug to your mother, say I love you to your sister. Is this an obstacle to hug because it is in front of your eyes every day?
Love your family not because they agree with you, but because they are your family even if you disagree. Love your friend not because he always flatters you, but because he is your friend instead of billions of people.
Love your spouse for sharing life with you, good and bad...
I am happy today. Because I know that I am loved. Most importantly, I can love despite everything; people, nature, living. This is very beautiful.
Have a nice day full of love
Who knows whose lives you touched without realizing it.
Life offers us some possibilities, these possibilities are in front of our eyes, but it is not enough to just look and perceive. Who knows what opportunities came during the day and we did not see them.
We touch each other's lives… Maybe we are consciously or unconsciously touching each other's lives effectively on an occasion. Life always brings different faces before us. Each of us teaches each other something. Maybe one person teaches different people different things. We serve each other in some way.
We touch each other's lives… Knowingly or unknowingly, and we all leave permanent traces on each other. The more empathy we can have in our relationships, the more successful we will be. Caring about and valuing the opinions of the other person guides us in leaving good traces. We get so angry with people that we don't feel like empathizing. At this very moment, we must remember our truth that should be done in the first place, our truth; our own truth, our own character. What kind of person do I want to be in life? What traces do I want to leave? What do I really want to be? My color what do I want it to be? Think about the relationships you've had. Your heart has definitely been broken many times. Think about it, could you have broken someone's heart before? Could this be a return to us from a mistake we made? parts of z.But each ring determines its own color. The people we deceive, lie, talk behind, insult, show no love… it's all our interaction. We smeared them with our own colour. Maybe from his loveless, angry family, maybe from his lover who cut him out of his life like a piece of paper, maybe from anyone he had cheated, cheated, gossip about for a short time in his life.
Just as good things increase as they are shared, bad things increase as they are shared. After the injustices and lies, insecure, prejudiced people emerge.
Let's also think about good things. Let's think about a sweet word, for example, the smile we always give as an example, keeping one's word, appreciating, loving... Let's think about what all this will bring out. Let's think about what all of this will reveal. We should be fed with them and spread them around. When we communicate with someone, we should know that when we leave there, we leave the environment together, without messing up someone's life, we should leave him standing upright on his feet.
We all have hard times in life, times when we feel tired and exhausted. Think about who we get strength from in times like these. From your loved ones, your family, the people who love you, right? He needs people, people who he dwells in for a while and then leaves with the least damage to the heart he leaves.
We all touch each other's lives in some way. We don't need to go into each other's lives to touch it. Think about how it would be if a person who bumped into each other on the road as if nothing had happened, think about how disrespectful people are. This is the state you left that person. Then, there are people you leave alone in your most difficult times because you don't need them anymore; Here is a person who is insecure and whose love for people has decreased. Here is your child, whom you constantly beat up, right or wrong, here is a generation that mistreats its environment, its family and its own child.
Our hands are there to lend a helping hand, our feet are for visiting a patient, our eyes are there to see well, our brains are to think well and our hearts are to love. Let's use them in the most correct way.
We all touch each other's lives in some way. Maybe knowingly or unknowingly. I wish you to be one of the ones who do not change even if these things happen to you, and I wish you take a colorful ring from the person in front of you and put that ring on the neck of your loved ones and people who love you...♥
Always look to the future, not behind, every age has its beauty
This time last year... I was in a very good mind, maybe I was feeling a little better than I am now. Of course, I changed hundreds of shapes to come to this time. I added some more memories to my experiences. I grew a little more and learned a little more about living. I understood a little more the value of my breathing.
If you start saying 'how fast a year has passed', it means you are getting old. However, how close is it '-Let high school be over, if I pass this exam once, what will happen when school is over, I have a job, long live I have a job, promotion, marriage proposal, how the wedding should be, will we have a child, who will it look like, will it be a girl or a boy. Let's leave the questions behind.
As time passes, there are those that we leave behind the most painful and bid farewell to eternity. You understand that when you get older, if you have family, friends and children with you, you are rich, happy, and you are the luckiest servant...
Another new year... Another year has now been added to the household... My wish is the same in this new year...
As we get older, we think we lose hope in life when we are little. It won't be as cheerful as it used to be, it doesn't deserve everything like it used to be. Let that old man sit on the sidelines 🙂
It wasn't like that at all… I'm getting more and more attached to life. I look at young people with envy. Being at that age again, living again, seizing opportunities. always being renewed...
As I grow, my soul seems to shrink inside my body. I want nothing to be left behind that I haven't tasted.
In the end, I take refuge in the saying that "every age has its own beauty". When I was younger, I wouldn't appreciate something again. I would make the same mistakes, get stuck in the same holes, experience the same pain again. I'm not, let's have some courage, I regret everything I've been waiting for or delaying because I have time. I'm still young, I'm still alive. I don't want to regret another whole year after 1 year. Let my body, my hands, my mind work. Let me learn the most meaningful and the most beautiful information Let your words read, the most beautiful of poems... Let my eyes witness the most beautiful views. The birth of a cat, a magnificent sunset. May my heart live the most beautiful love, share valuable love with good people. Like a working machine. Like a daisy that comes out from under the ground every spring. Let it shake my body again and again, that joy of life. I. Forever… There is no more life to be given to me. No more procrastination! No more regrets…
Because You Want To Love. To Love And Be Loved a Lot.
Some people live by listening to their heart, others their mind.
Have you ever thought, do you listen to your mind or does your heart not allow you to hear your mind? Which one wins? Isn't it a strange question? Of course we listen to all of them, but one of them definitely outweighs. I personally say that my heart is the center of my body. Even if my mind wants to think about something, it can't take many steps without consulting my heart. A person that my heart does not approve cannot enter my world no matter what.
It's hard to open the doors. Experiencing love to the bone, without fear, without the thought of leaving it. Loving like crazy. You accept it in every way. Even if your mind says no, look, it doesn't suit you, you don't listen. Because you want to love. To love and be loved a lot. You love him with all the features that make him what he is. without changing it. Maybe you want your steps to match. A little you want to her and a little to her... You want to make the most beautiful melody in the world from those steps. To be the most harmonious couple walking. Walking into love at every step, forgetting the world, away from fears and worries.
You want to make him the luckiest man or woman in the world. Because he is your lover, the only person who owns your heart and can be loved...But you are afraid...Sometimes you are even afraid to show your love. Because does he really love with his heart or with his mind? If he loves with his mind, ego will get involved, you know As you run, he will run away from you. The more you show you love him, the more he will distance himself from you, he will not know your worth. You want to wake him up. But how can you say that, how can you explain it to him. Will he love you like you love him? Off how hard it is to be understood, to agree, to achieve that harmony… If there is no harmony, it will be easy if you are the one who loves the most.
If you start to get scared, you understand that you started to fall in love. You sing the same refrain every time. A little love, a little commitment, then a cool wind and falling autumn leaves, the end of separation... They say autumn brings love. Maybe the cold brings us closer to each other. We hug, warm, our hearts fuse more lots.
So I say a little prayer
And hope my dreams will take me there
Where the skies are blue
To see you once again, my love
Overseas from coast to coast
To find a place I love the most
Where the fields are green
To see you once again
To hold you in my arms
To promise you my love
To tell you from the heart
You're all I'm thinking of
I'm reaching for the love that seem so far..
Westlife - my love
Don't think too much, you get tired, think simple, live simple!
I don't know what you are doing there right now. It can be very sad or very joyful or a day like every day for you. I have no idea. You may have had a very bad day, someone may have upset you, your expectations may not have been fulfilled or you may be suffering from love. Hasn't he sent you that message yet? It starts with "how are you". Look what you're worried about. Is it the end of the world?
Sometimes I forget these things too. I worry about nonsense. I feel sorry for people who are always cheerful anyway. .
You know how I feel now?
Yes, we won't! Of course not for me.
So get rid of that gloomy distress. Ask your lady for a tea, even make a gesture, get up and pour a cup of tea for your lady, get up and chat with your family from the internet, go out and buy yourself a coffee, read a good book, give your song and dance the sound. I don't know, just do whatever makes you happy. Get involved in life. I won't feel sorry for anyone, nor will I let anything destroy or hurt me. Think less, live simply!
No matter what stage we are at in the life we live, none of us have suddenly come to that situation. That position, position, job, the school you have won, the car you have bought, and everything you can think of… When you look back, you have achieved later, places you have reached as a result of certain steps. No matter what you're going through, life always starts simple. Our life always goes from the detail to the whole. Have you seen a teacher or an education system that started directly from reading in the 1st grade, or started from topics such as direct derivative and integral in the mathematics lesson? Of course no..
If we get a little serious;
Here, every point of life, every stage reaches from the simple to the whole. Our relationships, our school life, our business life, our career, our commercial processes… Whatever comes to your mind, life is all about the details. If you're going to learn to read and write, you have to start with the alphabet and drawing those simple lines first. If you want to overcome the obstacles and problems that you have encountered, first go simple and think simple. See what the first move was, where the problem started; Don't look at the whole problem!
In the process you will spend in this life, when you focus on your concrete wishes and desires, you will always be in the feeling of the event. Your troubles, achievements, careers, values you have seen in relationships, and your comparisons with people will come into play. And because of this, you will always be far from logic and problems will always become mountains that cannot be solved in your eyes.
Put all this aside and enter through the right door, think of the simplest. Look at the factor that caused the problem, not the problem itself. When you find the cause of that problem and accept that problem, you will reach the solution. In other words, instead of pacifying them with temporary solutions, you will have eliminated your problems with permanent solutions.
Of course, in order to achieve this, we must choose the right life. A right life will enable us to overcome the upcoming processes more easily with the experiences we have lived and gained in the past. We should be able to learn from our past mistakes and accept them. You will accept, smile and be happy when you eliminate these mistakes that you have found a permanent solution to. This right way of life that we have shown will eliminate the anxiety and fear of the future and the past, and it will not contain the need to think about it.
You live with logic and with the truth, with the truth…! Do not doubt, life will surely reward you...
The Peaceful World I Dreamed of
Sometimes people are ashamed of being in the same world with the bad people they live in, sharing the atmosphere and breathing the same breath. It is very bad to feel like there is nothing you can do to remain silent about the persecution. Knowing that some people out there are suffering and helpless, wishing well for them without knowing them is slowly consuming my will to survive. I want a fair life and a fair world for everyone. I dream of a world where there is no war in any corner of the world, where all people live in fraternity, where they never doubt each other, do not break their hearts, do not lie...
I want to turn on the news one day and the announcer will say: "Dear audience, we are happy to say that there is no news we can give you today, the only thing we can offer you this evening is the video recording we watched from the world you will watch soon, I wish you a pleasant watching." and then people's happy smiling faces, running children, flying balloons, lovers walking hand in hand at sunset, crying tears of happiness, a nigger and a white boy running hand in hand... Come on, think about it, wouldn't it be nice? I know you want it too A world like this. Well, then I ask you to think for a few minutes about what I have done for such a world. What have I added from myself to the universe I live in. What have I given to my loved ones. How much of my energy have I spared for anger and how much for love. It is my duty in this universe How much have I fulfilled? Please question and ask your inner core. Give yourself honest answers. Think about your hateful moments. For example, think about who broke your heart last. See if you have anything left behind. Or have you changed someone? Could you have destroyed his self-confidence, his trust in people?
We always look at things from our own side. We always want things to go smoothly. We are impatient, we are angry at everything, everyone. We suddenly get angry, we are always nervous. We always get zero from the life test.
While there are so many good things in our life, we always get stuck on what is not. We are prisoners of unjustified troubles. We can't manage to be thankful for what we have. We don't know the art of living. We always expect to be understood, we don't understand anyone. We don't want to understand. which is the whole world? What cannot be shared? Is it a world entity that you can never truly belong to?
We will heal the world. We will also leave a beautiful heart, we will leave a hope for goodness in the hearts.
Despite all the bad things that are happening in the world, I wholeheartedly believe and even know that there are still good people. There are also hidden heroes that we do not know. I know them too. Those who help the poor and the poor, who give an invisible hand to the people and children of the wounded and war-torn countries... GOOD PEOPLE STILL EXISTS, I KNOW .The world is still a livable place thanks to such people.
I'm going to recommend you something. But do it at least once, okay? and feel that energy spreading within you, you will realize that you are smiling involuntarily. Once you do it, I'm sure the rest will come.
That's it 🙂 I just wanted to write them to you. Afterwards, I can say for myself;
Who; In the name of Peace, in the name of Love, in the name of Humanity, if he takes attendance, I; 'I am her'
I wish good people to be too many to show with fingers and kisses from all of your hearts, my brothers, my species, the beautiful people with whom I share the same house (the world), greetings to all of you.
You go where your heart takes you...
Of course, man has done a lot in search of true love. Let's not think of it just about the opposite sex.
In general, the truth of love is quite difficult to find. And love is not a feeling that is earned without effort and not deserved, in my opinion.
So, what have you done in your life to seek true love?
Saying that I didn't do anything is a choice, of course, but just because everyone is doing something doesn't mean they won't do it after a while.
I have sought love in every area of my life. In my family, in my friends, in my work, in every environment I am in... because there would be no love without it. Without love, what would it be possible to live in peace in this world today. Love is the most precious blessing that the Creator gave us. It is more than bread, it is more than water. Would it be possible to divide a loaf of bread between two brothers? Would it be possible to live in this world in brotherhood without mercy?
Was it possible to feel compassion, to empathize, to understand your brother's difficulties? Was it possible to give birth to a child whose origin was love. The most beautiful thing my Lord gave us humans is love. The most beautiful thing...
I have been courageous in everything I have done with love. I thought possible even the impossible, I tried, I fought for what I believed in.
Even when faced with the most impossible, I thought about it. I did not give up. My shield was always love, passion and still is.
If you ask how many of them you have accomplished, I could not achieve most of them. I failed and then accepted.
People prevent you from doing what you want to do. They don't believe you can do it. It's very slow; the chains always go through different places. The important thing is that I adapt to this system. Not what others say. It's not a rebellion, it's not rude or immoral. It's living what you believe.
People are prejudiced, people are angry, angry, jealous, why!
You go where your heart takes you, go even if you are defeated a hundred times, go even if you are defeated a thousand times. It is enough to keep your morals and good intentions. It is enough not to leave others on the road, do not lead others astray for this cause, do not leave others in the middle of the road for this cause.
Dostoevsky defined love as follows: "To love is not to seek love in a beautiful person, but to find yourself in that person in an unexpected moment of a time you do not know."
You go where your heart takes you...
No Matter How Much You Run Away, the Past Doesn't Let You Go
Life is not as pure and clean as the day you opened your eyes to the difficult world. People are liars and manipulatives. Time makes you experience everything. You accumulate good and bad memories and experiences behind you. They say a person's past is like his shadow. It really is. I have experienced this many times in my life. This shadow sneakily came and sat in front of my light, shrouding my world in darkness from time to time. But I learned how to deal with it.
Sometimes my friends hurt me; Is there a way to forget the past? Why can't people get rid of their past? Why do all misfortunes find me?
Believe me man, I don't know the right answer either. Who can show you the right path better than Allah than you? Your biggest guide is your life anyway, your experiences...
Are you empty? don't be sad, or forget it, my friend, be sad! What's wrong with that? This is life, my friend, this is life itself. Everything will not always be perfect. You will not live every day with joy. You won't be lucky every time. Maybe you don't like your family, you live under pressure. Maybe you took a big hit, maybe from your friend, maybe from your family, maybe that person you love, from him. Do not grieve, or grieve, my friend, grieve away! What's wrong with that? This is life, my friend, it is the pain of this life that adds flavor to it. This is a part of the beauty of life. But no matter what you experience, never forget that all these things are not permanent. Oh man, don't you know that after winter comes summer again, day after night… yellowing leaves turn green again, dried earth gets wet again with a rain. If you get sick, you get better again. You think you can't fall in love with anyone again, you will again. Even the most intractable troubles have an end, a cure. Just a little time, my friend, a little time… Don't stop, even if they try to stop you, don't stop, you flow with the time. Find yourself a pastime. And belief is the most beautiful harbor where you can take shelter when you feel the most alone, because it will offer you beautiful days again. Make sure of that, my friend. Do not forget that there is flesh and bone in this world, do not boast; But don't bend your neck and say I'm weak. The Lord has given you one of the most precious things. He gave you a unique spirit. He gave love and mercy to your heart to spread it to the world. Love your trouble my friend and be stronger. Don't lose yourself in space. You know who you are. Do not let anything that happens to you to darken your heart, to turn you into someone else, to make you a bad person. Keep on your way, walk and see what a beautiful sight will come your way. Accept sometimes, if you have to accept. Don't be persistent. Time will give you what belongs to you again. Fix it now, don't frown like that.
How to Develop a Clear Mind Awareness
Think about how pure clean water is not susceptible to pollution. Well, is everything that easy? The water is polluted and it's useless now. Never like that, water is such a thing that it knows how to clean it as it gets dirty.
Here in the mind is just like a water. It can get dirty, but it is still possible to be cleaned in itself.
Developing a clear mind is the direct result of being able to develop such a relationship with the body, and also the prerequisite for cultivating it in a paradoxical way. Our mind is constantly concerned with how the body feels, if you think about it, because we even experience our mental pleasures in the body. If you watch and categorize the thoughts in your mind for a few days, you will likely see the following or different versions of the following as subtitles for the thoughts passed:
The true nature of the mind
But is it really so? In the meditation tradition, the mind is considered a sense organ like the other five sense organs. In other words, the mind is a sixth sense organ for perceiving thoughts, just as the eye is for seeing objects and hearing sounds. If my mind is not made up of repetitive thoughts, feelings that torment me or give me pleasure, and is independent of them but perceives them, then what is my mind like? What is its shape? How is the color? What is its content like? What if my mind isn't those clouds and fog, or the sky they're in? Do clouds, fog, storm change the nature of the sky, do they infect the sky? Does it remove the clarity, transparency and infinity of the sky behind the clouds?
If I realize that I am not the thoughts, feelings and stories that come to my mind all the time, stop and torture me for a while, then pass and leave their place to someone else, and if I realize my sky, my clarity, my transparency in which these thoughts take place, then what would happen? What would my relationship be with facts, with the world, with myself?
What would my relationship be with my body and my heart? What would my relationship be with the eight earthly winds?
Achieving this clarity and developing this clarity permanently starts with the relationship we established with the body, which we talked about in our previous article: Being aware of the body and what happens in the body. Being aware of your breath. Being aware of how the body confuses our minds through desires and fears. Being aware of emotions and sensations. Build a strong relationship with the body.
Develop Concentration.
Think about the job we're trying to do. We're after something like confronting directly some situations and feelings that we automatically avoid, and trying to see directly the facts about them that we ignore. What kind of mental power do you think this requires? While trying to divert our attention away, especially towards the hut of the disconnected, we try to direct this attention to the things that we fear, hurt, and naturally want to escape, not touch, not feel. Don't we need serious concentration and the determination that it brings?
That's why almost every teaching that aims to confront us directly with the facts and realities inside and outside of us, and thus enabling us to see the truth within, makes it an important part of the way to strengthen our concentration muscle in some way.
Fortunately, concentration works like a muscle. If you run it, it thrives. The neuroplasticity of the brain, that is, its remodelability, comes to our aid in this regard. There is a permanent increase in gray cells in the centers that provide concentration in the brains of people who meditate regularly. At the same time, some features of these people, such as sensory and cognitive awareness, being able to control their reactivity, and even contentment, and the brain regions corresponding to these features are observed. These are the characteristics of a clear mind. In that respect, concentration enhancing applications
Making it a part of the ayat is critical to living our life as a celebration.
Reduce your busyness, simplify.
However, in order for this concentration to occur and the mind to become clear, we need to stay away from constantly busying and confusing the mind. If we constantly stir a turbid water with powdery soil in it, it will remain turbid. When we leave this water to itself, the sediments will settle to the bottom over time, the water will be purified and clear. So is the mind. It means creating space for ourselves and our minds, allowing it to settle down, giving it the opportunity to develop some skills that will lead to a clear mind. However, just as we pack a lot of stuff in a narrow room, it becomes impossible to move around in that room, so filling our minds with unnecessary preoccupations prevents it from moving fluently and identifying and focusing on the things that matter most.
The biggest problem here, unfortunately, is that we use our minds as a means of escaping pleasure. The phones in our hands, the television series, our ambitions, unnecessary worries, repetitive thoughts, and of course our pursuit of bodily pleasures are our mind-playing game of escaping from pain and discomfort, chasing pleasure and happiness. Our minds are constantly occupied now with what to buy, what to eat, how to get approval, how to be appreciated, how to secure myself physically or financially, how to achieve sexual and emotional satisfaction and pleasure, what more to achieve, how to expand my possibilities to gain more is it? Watch your thoughts: you will rarely find that a thought has passed except to move away from constant pain and discomfort and to seek satisfaction and pleasure. Almost all of our preoccupations are about desires and short-term pleasures.
"The trap of pleasures and desires."
In this respect, it is important to simplify and look at these desires more wisely. Perhaps the most important thing to realize is this: Most of the time, advertisements promise more than the product they advertise can deliver. Let's say you connected your happiness to finding the best flavor in the world. Finding that flavor is your most important goal. Can you imagine how your thoughts will be organized around this purpose? Then what does every meal you eat turn into? No, you say, that's not it either. Some flavors will approach that ideal taste, but you will never be able to get full satisfaction, be completely happy, and live in a state of never-ending dissatisfaction and unhappiness. How clear do you think this mind can be?
No, let's say one day you found that flavor, that wonderful flavor you were looking for. That's it! you said. This is the flavor I've been looking for, for years, for which I gave up everything. You ate well. You are very happy. And then? Let's say you have the opportunity to always eat the same food from now on. Eh? What about the 3rd meal? What about the 10th meal? So what is going to happen? How is our mind in this situation, what will it be preoccupied with?
Isn't that how our whole life is? If we are dealing with all these things, desires, ambitions, anxieties, etc. If we do not look wisely, our mind and attention will be completely covered with these clouds, we begin to think ourselves as these clouds. In such a mind, too, neither concentration nor clarity, nor the true nature of the mind can emerge from behind the clouds.
Greeting is the Beginning of a Communication and Relationship.
When we see someone you know, we greet you immediately. We shake hands. When he sees a person with whom we are closer, this greeting becomes more sincere. Sometimes we nod to greet a person we do not know, just because we are in the same environment.
Do you think we know the meaning and importance of greeting? I do not think so. Because today, those who live in two flats next to each other in huge apartments, meet anywhere, and even if they have to establish a relationship, they no longer greet. In fact, unfortunately, people do not greet each other for unfounded reasons such as being superior to the other in terms of material or education, sometimes in terms of country or race, being eastern or western in their own opinion.
However, if it were the other way around, would it be easier to fight against this system, which is against humanity and nature?
Well, let's imagine for a short time that no one greets each other; Let's remove gestures and facial expressions such as smile, waving, bowing, winking, as well as words such as hello, good morning, good evening, good night, and asking for health.
What would it be like? There would be no coldness, opposite polarization and no sociability among people. Yes, this is a development and culture issue.
It is either learned and used in childhood, or a person thinks, realizes this, forces himself and then makes it a spontaneous behavior. This process is actually one of the stages of evolution towards "Human".
The tradition of greeting is a tradition that has continued as a common behavior in all societies, without exception, since the creation of humanity. It is known that in ancient times, when two people met, they would shake hands with their right hands to show that they were not armed and would not use it against each other even if they were armed, and they would wave their hands and stay in this position for a long time to be sure. And, probably in later ages, kissing on the cheek was added to the handshake at least once, at most three times. I don't find shaking hands and kissing healthy. Hands are one of the most polluted areas. The person next to you sneezes without a tissue, cleans his hands by rubbing them together, then extends them to shake hands. It's disrespectful if you don't. And if the other party gave a wet kiss while kissing, smack your cheek! It would be a shame if you wiped it at that time, but if you feel a wetness on your cheek, it is a strange situation. Similar things have happened to us.
Although we greet as in ancient times, the meaning of greeting is actually much deeper and it should be healthy.
The way of greeting is not just a word of encounter, it is basically based on the logic of glorifying the person and valuing him, but also includes thoughts and good wishes about the life and work done.
greeting; It means warmth, brotherhood, friendship, fellowship, respect, safety, peace, health, comfort, you can count on me, good results, salvation, well-being, love, peace. Physical greeting is the expression of all these concepts. Whatever the purpose of the person's soul is, physically his body also adapts to it. So you don't think of doing harm to a person you greet.
The greeting is like a contract between people in terms of trust, it is the beginning of a communication and relationship. In greeting, it brings aesthetics in harmony along with mutual recognition and recognition.
A person who is greeted should respond with a better or at least the same greeting. To return the greeting with a better one is the expression of being humble and tolerant.
Greetings are first and foremost an exchange of emotions.
Know The Value of What You Have so That You Can be Happy
He had all the riches of the world, but now he sought peace of mind. He went from one sage to the next and they all gave great advice, but advice doesn't help anyone. After all, only fools give advice and only fools take advice. Wise people are reluctant to give advice because a wise man knows that advice is the only thing in this world that is given for free and that no one takes.
So why bother? A wise man first prepares you to accept advice. He doesn't just give you advice; You also need to be prepared. It may take years to prepare you; first you will plow the field and only then can you sow the seed. Only a fool does not think that when he sows seeds on stones, rocks, he actually wastes them. All these sages advised him, but nothing fell into place.
Finally, a man whom he had not asked anything, a man whom no one knew - even regarded as the village idiot - stopped him on his way one day and said:
“You are wasting your time unnecessarily. None of these men are wise. I know them very well, but no one believes me because I am stupid. Maybe you won't believe me either, but there is a wise man I know. Seeing you torture yourself so much for mental peace, I thought I'd better show you the right person. After all, I'm an idiot. No one asks me for advice, and I don't give it to anyone. But I couldn't stand it. Seeing you so sad and unhappy, I broke the silence. Go to that man in the neighboring village…”
The rich man immediately mounted his beautiful horse and left with a large bag of precious diamonds. He reached the village and saw the man. This man was the Nasreddin Hodja of the Sufis.
He asked the teacher: “Can you help me achieve mental peace?”
The teacher replied: “Help? I can give it to you.”
The rich man thought: “Very strange, that idiot recommended it first, and I said out of desperation that it wouldn't hurt to try, so I came here. This guy looks like a bigger idiot. He says, 'I can give it to you'…”
The rich man spoke: “Can you give it to me? I went to all kinds of sages and they all gave advice; do this, do this, live disciplined, donate, help the poor, open a hospital, do this, do that. They said all that and actually I did them all, but none of them worked. Even more trouble came to me. Now you're saying you're going to give it away?"
The teacher replied: “This job is very easy. Now get off the horse.”
The rich man dismounted. He was holding his bag in his hand and the teacher asked: "Why are you holding that bag so close to your heart?"
“These are very valuable diamonds. If you can give me peace of mind, I'll give you this bag."
But before the man even knew what had happened, the teacher grabbed the bag and started running. Shocked for a moment, the rich man did not even understand what to do. Then he followed the teacher. But this was the village of the teacher; He knew every street, every shortcut, and he was running. The rich man had never run in his life and was very fat…
She was crying, panting, and tears welling up in her eyes. “I was scammed! This man took all my hard work and everything that I had accumulated throughout my life.” When this was the case, a crowd had gathered and they were all laughing. The rich man said, “Are you all stupid, is this village full of idiots, I am ruined and you guys are laughing instead of trying to catch the thief”.
Voices came from the crowd: “He is not a thief, he is a very wise man.”
The rich man said, “That idiot from my village got me in trouble!” it was said. But somehow, running and sweating, he followed the teacher. Hodja came under the tree where the man's horse was still standing. He sat in the shade of the tree with the bag in his hand, and the rich man came crying.
“Take that bag,” said the teacher. The rich man took the bag and pressed it to his chest. The teacher asked: “How are you now? Do you feel a little bit of peace?” The rich man replied: “Yes, it feels very peaceful. You are a very strange man and have strange ways.”
Hodja replied: “There is nothing strange; simple math. You start to take for granted what you have. You need to be shown the possibility of losing it; only then do you realize what you have lost. You haven't gained anything new. This is the bag you restlessly carry. Now you press the same bag to your heart and everyone sees how happy and peaceful you are; excellent wise! Go home and don't bother anyone…”
Broaden Your Perspective
In India there was a magnificent temple called the 'Temple of a Thousand Mirrors' built on the top of a high mountain.
One day, a dog climbed the mountain and entered the 'Temple of a Thousand Mirrors' by climbing the steps of the temple. When the dog passed into the hall of thousand mirrors of the temple, he saw a thousand dogs. Frightened, he fluffed his feathers, tucked his tail between his legs, and bared his teeth with frightening grunts.
And a thousand dogs also plucked their feathers, put their tails between their legs, made terrible noises and bared their teeth.
The dog panicked and fled from the temple. And from that moment on he believed that the whole world was full of dangerous, scary dogs.
After a while, another dog came and climbed the mountain. He also climbed the steps of the temple and entered the 'Temple of a Thousand Mirrors'. When he came to the hall of the temple with a thousand mirrors, he met a thousand dogs and was overjoyed;
He wagged his tail; He jumped around cheerfully and urged the dogs to play. And a thousand dogs wagged their tails and jumped for joy.
When the dog came out of the temple, he believed that the world was full of friendly and affectionate dogs.
Our choices in life are our own perspectives. Maybe not everything is under our control, yes, but how we see the world and our thoughts..?
Everyone's perspective on life is different. For example, what one sees as white, another person may see or want to see as gray. Everyone has a way of life acquired from family and environment. Accordingly, the person has a stance that he or she wants to stand against life. When the performative facts acquired by the person come into play, the aspects that affect the point of view are shaped and may differ by the influence of the information and visual square that he acquires from day to day. A person may not defend the ideas he defended ten years ago, or even evaluate them from a completely different perspective. People should have a window to look at life. Own perspective and value judgments.
If a person develops and educates himself sufficiently, the view of the window he will open against life opens to beauties, peace and happiness. A person always looks brightly around him, which is possible with self-development and upbringing. The person should decide who will be in the opening angle. If that window can be opened to a dirty world, the view of the person can be polluted and the quality of life can be reduced. One of the most important factors affecting the point of view is the environment in which a person lives. In this context, he should take the example he will get himself by passing a good filter. It should not be influenced by people with narrow perspectives and one-sided thinking. If we compare the point of view to a mirror, if a person watches life from a clean mirror, life shows him the facts as they are, but if the mirror you look at is dirty, you will see yourself blurry in the image you will see and you will not be able to make sound decisions. You can think of the narrow and one-sided perspective as mirrors held up to events from a single dimension. The ideal point of view is the dimensions that help us see the event in all its reality from all angles. The person who can have this point of view sees the events comprehensively and evaluates them. To give an example, if you watch the sea view from the top of a high slope, your view will be enriched. If we watch the view from the bottom of the sea, our view will narrow and it will not be possible to see it comprehensively. Just like this, our constant coexistence with one-sided and narrow-minded individuals restricts our view. However, everyone can have a preference to watch life from the top. This choice depends on which way you look at it. Of course, everyone may have different views, different ideas, and the principles they adopt. The important thing is that you can choose and see the ones that are most suitable for you and most compatible with your mind, heart and life. It is just like choosing a career. You can understand what you need to focus on during your education life, and those who choose the right profession will watch the view from the top. Those who decide according to the point of view of the people, do not have an opinion of their own, so they realize what others want, which is a situation that prevents them from going forward and being successful in that profession. The person should find himself by reflecting all the knowledge and habits he has acquired into his perspective. He should look at life through his own window, respecting everyone's opinion. Only in this way can he achieve real success and view the landscape from a wide angle.
Our perspective plays a huge role in our lives. The more a person expands his perspective, the more he adopts the decisions he will make, the ideals he will hold against life, and by doing useful works, he becomes a useful individual for himself and his environment.
Our stance in the face of an event can be different for everyone. We can evaluate the same event by looking at it from different aspects, such as teacher and student, parent and child, or our best friend. In this sense, the most important factor in looking at situations differently is social status. Our social rights and responsibilities, our needs and expectations for life, and our duties differ. For someone, reading a quality book is the goal achieved, while for someone else, a good place and drinking quality coffee may be much more important. Everyone has different items they want to take from life. If we take the example of the book and coffee above as a baseline example, it is possible to enlarge such examples. Some may want to live in a mansion, and for others, a small house may be sufficient. Within these wishes and expectations, our perspective towards life in our interests can also show versatility.
Social learned learnings also affect our perspective. The norms and values we acquire also play a significant role in our perspective.
Knowing that everyone can have different perspectives in the face of social events and certain situations that develop around us, watching the environment with a sufficiently expanded perspective on this issue and realizing that everyone has different views and thoughts will enable us to respect our surroundings.
You Won't be Able to Change your Eyes Unless you can Change your Energy...
Looking into the eyes of the person in front of you, can you experience a different emotion than what you feel, do you think you can make him believe that you think differently?
"The eyes are the mirror of the heart." they say. They reflect what you think, what you feel. Your eyes are very sensitive, special and pure. While they allow you to see and interpret the world, they also do this according to the state of your inner world. If your energy is negative, your outlook will also be negative and pessimistic. If we have eyes that smile sincerely, our view of the world will be affected positively by 80%, we will have beautiful eyes.
So how do we have beautiful eyes?
In order to see with beautiful eyes, we must keep our energy high and travel towards positive energy. Positive energy comes with inner work. Change your energy, change your world.
Once you can't change your energy, you won't be able to change your eyes...
A little story:
Since the day she knew herself, the little girl had received great affection from her mother and believed that she was more beautiful than Snow White with the words she heard from him. According to that; She had a bright face and almond eyes. It was always a particle offspring.
But things have changed when the primary school started. Her friends were saying she wasn't pretty at all, she was even considered ugly.
The little girl didn't believe them at first because everyone was jealous of each other.
But in a few years he faced reality. His face, which his mother had compared to a cotton ball, had pockmarked skin. His eyes, which he called "almond", were cross-eyed. His body did not resemble a cypress.
So his mother had cheated on him and lied for years without hesitation.
The young girl's motherly love soon turned into hatred. Although She was of marriageable age, no one looked at her. Moreover, his eyes did not improve in spite of all treatment. When the young girl realized that she would be blinded by the secret talks of the doctors, she became distraught and could not stand the lies of her mother, who still loved her with expressions from her childhood years, and decided to leave the house. But her mother preceded her by saying that she had found a job in a distant place and sent the money she earned to a relative and asked her to take care of her daughter. The young girl disappeared after a while. He was alone with his dark world. By the way, she wasn't worried about her mother at all. Her mother was a liar, it would not have counted as a loss even if she had died. One day, doctors said they had found a suitable pair of eyes and operated on the girl.
But when she opened her eyes, she was afraid to see the same face again. But it was hard being blind, she. At least she wouldn't be a burden to anyone. When the young girl looked in the mirror at the end of the surgery, she screamed terribly. In front of him was a beauty of the world.
She was indeed a great girl, she was the she she saw. The facial imperfections had completely disappeared. His very arched nose was straightened, his prominent ears had returned to normal, and his weed-like hair was in waves. The young girl hugged the old doctor next to her with joy: “It is as if I was born again!” she said. "I have no ugliness left on my face, did you do the plastic surgery?" The old doctor: “We did not perform such an operation, my daughter!” she smiled.
We put on the eyes that your mother donated. You saw yourself through his eyes! ”
Good to See...
It Does Not Belong To The Seeing Eye, It Belongs To The Seeing Eye.
May we Open Our Hearts to New Awareness.
Ancient yogis used logs, stones, and ropes to effectively practice asanas, or Yoga postures.
B.K.S Iyengar, one of the most important living Yoga masters, has expanded this principle and discovered supports that allow the asanas to be practiced easily and for longer periods of time.
If you are under a high level of stress, have a minor injury to your body, or feel tired in any way, the Yoga practice using support is definitely one of the best practices for you.
Yoga asanas involve stretching and exerting effort, as well as relaxing the body. More importantly, the purpose of the postures is to harmonize the body as a whole. These practices also involve mental harmony, which involves the mind touching every part of the body at the same rate.
To be able to practice yoga well, you need to be in good mental and physical condition. You may have observed that even those who have done Yoga exercises for a long time and are in good shape sometimes find it difficult to maintain certain postures in the required time. This is the reason why the use of supports in yoga has been developed. With these supports, asana exercises become easier and less tiring. Asana practice with these supports makes each asana practice more suitable for all yoga students, including thin or overweight, strong or weak, young or old, beginners or advanced students, and those who want to conserve their energy for fatigue or hurts. makes it.
Yoga supports are any object that helps to stretch, strengthen, relax, or harmonize the body. It allows the practice of asana to be practiced for longer periods of time and conserve energy. These supports help to work comfortably by balancing the asanas effectively as well as keeping the body and mind still. Everyday and mundane objects can be used, such as walls, chairs, stools, cushions, blankets, and belts to help my students perform the final pose. By providing more length, weight and support, the supports help the implementation of important movements and the harmony of the body.
Yogic exercises performed with supports are unique in that they allow both movement and relaxation at the same time.
It activates the muscles, strengthens the body and reduces excess mental and physical stress. The supports contribute to increasing flexibility and endurance, as well as the relief of weak and tired muscles. They help to rejuvenate the whole body without increasing physical fatigue.
Working with supports works wonders when the body is extremely sluggish, lifeless and exhausted. The nervous system relaxes, the brain calms down and the mind calms down. Asana exercises with supports increase emotional balance and motivation. As stress decreases, anxiety, fears, and depression disappear, enabling people under emotional pressure to take better care of all aspects of their lives.
Asanas practiced with the aid of a mat, block, stool, or chair help relieve many common ailments. It regulates blood pressure, facilitates breathing, eliminates stiffness in the back, hips, knees and feet, and relieves rheumatism and joint pain. It helps you to improve your body position and maintain your balance by allowing you to stretch and relax throughout the workout.
As a result, Yoga with supports creates a feeling of calm, providing a fresh and renewed appearance. Yoga students find Yoga practice with supports to be a very stimulating exercise. Supports give students the confidence to practice difficult asanas and enable them to practice correct study. These supports also help to understand and develop each asana and act as silent teachers.
Hoping that we can open our hearts to new awareness...
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