Self-love is also synonymous with building oneself
One of the greatest loves that can exist throughout our lives is self-love, the love that helps us generate fruits that throughout our process can generate fullness of life, since it is something that collaborates in all areas of our life, even enjoying the daily pleasure that the little things in life offer us is even more satisfying if we first learn to love ourselves and then learn to love everything that life brings with it. Because many times we do not cultivate this and therefore we live fed up with life, uncomfortable with everything that our life represents, it makes us even accept life experiences that often generate anxiety and doubts in us, it is in these circumstances where the famous impostor syndrome which implies that it fills us with insecurities, anguish, claims against ourselves and doubts, which ends up stealing our life, since we would be letting the days go by without enjoying them as they should.
We find our true first love looking at ourselves in a mirror, nothing like putting our needs first in that same order, also making ourselves happy before putting anyone before us without first having cultivated and known self-love, love that makes us love each other as we are, even knowing and understanding that we are not perfect but that even in imperfections lies perfection, the beauty of human beings, in their warmth and the way they show empathy to others as well as themselves, because We must begin to respect ourselves, to value ourselves, to have patience with ourselves just as we have for others, because we do not find love halfway, in something or in someone, on the contrary, it is our task to find and love each other in order to promote the extraordinary things that bring this with you as self-esteem.
The love for us comes out even more on occasions where we feel deeply hurt due to life circumstances, in things that are completely out of our control, in situations that we do not control or maybe yes and it makes us feel in a comfort zone. and getting out of it costs us, up to a certain point where it already exceeds the water in the glass and we want to turn our life around and this also happens because of habits of which we are not aware that they harm us, stagnate us and prevent us from Let's flow like paying attention to what others say, think or do, governed by what they will say or by simple restrictions imposed by society, for this we must record in our minds that someone else's perspective of life is always different from ours Since it is their story, not yours, we also have to learn to give priority to our thoughts, beliefs and perspective of life before that of others.
Idealizing and romanticizing life to extremes is also another habit that robs us more than it should, since we live anchored to overthinking things, to making them see from beautiful perspectives when the reality that nothing is white and much less black always has everything. positive aspects but it also has its negative side and that does not make us unsuccessful, we all have our own time to have our things, we cannot compare our process with someone else's, when there are people who have advanced more others who are barely halfway and some that they are starting but the beautiful thing about all these groups is that they are all making them want to get there regardless of whether they advance fast or slow, the beautiful thing is that they are safe and firm steps that help to see life from a new perspective, from love own and from the happiness that this leaves us.
Facing fears helps the soul
Fear has always been a small problem if we are not capable of making the decision to overcome it, to turn it into a strength instead of leaving it as a weakness, since it is something that consumes us, that does not allow us to do or have experiences that they will enrich but unfortunately we reject because of fear, fear of failing or the simple fact that it can happen, these are the ones that deprive us of living and having a full life, a free life, since fears are only synonymous with chains, since We cannot be happy because we are anchored and tied to fears, that if at any time you decide to face them you will realize that they were unfounded, that you limited yourself to living for what they will say or for what would happen, leaving you with a bitter feeling of insecurity, and even of lack of love towards oneself, since the blame falls on us, but this is where I hope you realize it sooner rather than later because some consequences can be disastrous just for you.
That is why it is necessary to face fears from childhood and not feed them, which in many cases is what our parents do, never with the aim of harming us but with other objectives, but from these small defenseless actions a network can be created in some of insecurity, I hate that many times it does not leave room for love since fears stop it, fears and insecurities prevent them from taking the step that will surely bring them the opposite, that although in the end things do not have the expected result they can generate an entourage of positive emotions that feed security, confidence but above all the self-esteem of the person since the problem as such does not lie in fear, the problem lies in how each person faces it, acts and manages their feelings, many do not They have the strength to face, therefore they fade under any circumstance, but it is the duty and task of all of us to know ourselves thoroughly, to know our limitations and everything that we can do with ease, so always remember the first step is to live based on self-knowledge, in it lives the key to many of our problems in terms of fears and also in us we find the key to overcome them.
Getting rid of fears is our own decision, as well as something that depends on us, not on our parents, family and much less revolves around our friends, on the contrary it is something that is personal, it only depends on us to return to the natural state of life. life, since we come to this world to learn, since we come without any programming, a clear example of this is that we even learn things as basic as walking and talking, everything we are today and what we have learned is partly all the teachings in our first stage of life, fears and even limiting beliefs are also generated there, sometimes due to things that society dictates and falsely make us believe that we must follow those restrictions of life, when the reality is different we come to do the rules in our own process since in part there is found and generated the key to happiness and in it we find peace, calm in a few words the fullness of life
Do not forget step 0 is that you decide that you want to change those limiting beliefs for ones in which you feel comfortable living them, that there is nothing wrong with doing so since you are in search of your happiness, it is something very yours that only it depends solely and exclusively on you and on the actions you do every day that help you promote this decision and some of them can be: Recognize that it is time to change your life, that the routine in which you are living is not generating well-being but on the contrary it is taking away your calm, as well as learning to recognize that there are times when we must leave our comfort zone, where routine is not the best decision, where we must force ourselves to do things that at first they generate fear and terror in us but with the passage of time we will only realize that fear only lived in our mind, that it is something mental that prevents us from being happy, another big and important step is to accept that failure is part of our life but only you decide how to face it, how to live it what face of the coin to give it, since it is not what happens to us, it is how we ourselves decide to face it and live it, because in failures we will only find learning to do things well in the future If this overwhelms you and you feel too much anxiety on this subject, you can try meditation, since it is a means of relaxation and bringing tranquility to our lives.
So also asking for medical help, or our friends, asking for help is not the problem, the problem is not doing it and letting any fear, anguish, anxiety or problem consume us and generate crazy ideas, which simply would not help us but would sink us, medical help in reference to mental health is not negative as many falsely believe, it is a peaceful solution to everything we are experiencing and that we are not capable of managing on our own, that is where a medical staff has the objective through its help that at the moment and in future problems we are able to solve any problem on our own, do not be afraid of these aids that, as their name indicates, are HELP that help us get out of a pothole that we are experiencing at the time that we do not they are causing more unhappiness than happiness.
Welcome June friends may it be a transforming month, bringing with it the change and opportunities that we have always been waiting for.
May: Full of rewarding, challenging and irreverent experiences
Today we are missing another month of May, one that will not return, I hope you will enjoy it to the fullest, that you will not limit yourself in living it, that although many times the days are not as we expected, you will get the most out of it, the greatest learning Because when we don't get the results we want, the only possible option left is to learn, learn from what we have experienced, learn and understand that not everything has to turn out as we expected, but nevertheless, as it turned out, it was the best thing that could happen. there are things that we have to release, let them flow, to give space to those that do belong to us, to those that are ours. Personally for me May was a magical month, I will not deny that things happened that at the time made me lose my nerve, that at the time I questioned why, but little by little with the passing of the days I understood that it is better to let go what is robbing us of peace, serenity and fullness, things that before that happened were my faithful companions every day.
In May I learned that losing balance is normal in life, that we should not be ungrateful neither with life nor with ourselves, because on many many occasions we attack ourselves, when we must understand that we do what we can, that we do what is in our scope, that we do the best we can with whatever situation we come across. We cannot lead such a balanced life if at some point we do not lose the threads of that balance, but one thing is learned as this happens and this happens and that is fine, since there is no claim box in life for these Things, as I said before, are something that we learn to deal with, they are events that are not in our hands, that are totally out of our control, but even so, with the passage of time, we learn to be grateful that they happen, since they make us wiser for the rest of the experiences that correspond to us to live throughout life.
In May I also understood that there are experiences that we cannot avoid no matter how much we want to, that they are things that we have to live yes or yes, I will tell you a little about my work as a Graphic Designer, it is independent, that is, I am my own boss, I decide with whom or not I work, as well as decide what experience to enter, that was precisely something that came suddenly at a time in my life where the context was that it was a bit out of my hands since perhaps I did not value the stability that I offered certain aspects of my work in April, that one does not see until time passes, it is not so much that I did not see it, it is more that I did not value it, I did not value the benefits it had, one of which was, as I said before, I was my own boss, besides that I worked from home, but this experience came from the hands of a person who at first painted it as a great opportunity, as she was someone I knew, I trusted her, I told myself the only impossible thing is what you don't try and in I was in it, but it wasn't as wonderful as they told me and even as I said myself, I also deceived myself because I thought it was something bigger and better when the reality was that it stole my peace and calm.
Thanks to this experience, I learned many things that not everything that glitters is gold, but that there are also things that are inevitable to happen in life, this is one of them, I also learned to value myself more, since as the time offering my services there I felt that my peace and calm had been stolen, that I lost myself a little more, since they were not valuing my work and the efforts I made daily to do things well with what I had, since they were people who They did not give me collaboration either, on the contrary, I always had to do the best with the little I had, in this job I understood that there are really very few people who value graphic designers, who falsely think that it is an easy job and that it is done alone, when you have to have a natural talent and also the skills, since it is not a job that anyone dares to do and of course not everyone performs professionally, (I leave you some photos hope I have done for them here).
Not everything is bad, May was also the month to celebrate and celebrate the lives of my cousins – brothers, in a few words more brothers since they are two people who have always been together, we saw each other grow and likewise develop a brotherhood that is for life, a unique connection which I appreciate very much since they are people who are always in my life, through the good times, the bad times, the ups and downs, the support received by them has been incredible, today they are one of the most important in my life, but I am infinitely grateful to May for being the month of the year that gives them another return to the sun, another opportunity, so that they seek their goals and that in turn these are the conduit to bring only happiness to their existence, to them and for them I only have gratitude for accompanying me in every step of my life, for giving me friendship and brotherhood in two people who are unique, who are completely different from me and that helps me learn more, to accept that although we are different what unites us is even stronger than that.
So I also want to tell you that if this month did not go as expected, you have a few before the end of the year so that you can take it and make things work and flow, that even if it was not as you wanted, thank and investigate what to learn to get of all this that you lived, because many times life reminds us that we are alive through these experiences that are not as we expected but that had to happen like this to make us leave our comfort zone and take action, which translates into working for our true goals.
To this month only my entire gratitude, you were very helpful, thanks to your many learnings, I am sure that in June I will find the transition to incredible things happening in my life, I will find abundance and prosperity.
People who change perspectives
<Judging a cover by how it looks prevents us from knowing an unimaginable universe of learning>
Personally, I declare myself addicted to learning about things, places, experiences and even people, since over the years it has been possible to understand and understand that power lies in knowledge, that in one way or another it is the key that can open success, that the more we prepare and the more we focus on working on our goals daily, the more we can overcome ourselves, but at the same time we do not have to be selfish to recognize that even others put their grain of sand so that we we arose, including people who, simply through their example, their path, were sources of inspiration to always move forward, artists who, analyzing today, can discover that their fame and the recognition that they have today came after death, as well that although people do not recognize your effort, there are many possibilities but this does not indicate that you should leave everything behind, on the contrary, it is the perfect time to demonstrate r that even if nobody bets on you, you keep betting, you keep believing in yourself, in your dreams, in your projects, in your goals but above all in the process, a process that is never easy, that is full of potholes but nevertheless It gives you growth in many aspects of your life, in short, it gives you a new perspective on life.
Today we are very advantageous people, people who even have everything at our fingertips, people who with just a click away can learn about something new whether it works for you or not, and even things that further nurture your goals, but not only things and specific aspects, we also find people, experts, most of them logically in the area in which we want to be wiser but we can even find teachers of life, sources of inspiration that have absolutely nothing to do with our goals. of life but nevertheless we share many values and clearly many positive qualities can be learned that we can use through our own approach and philosophy of life, likewise nothing happens by simple chance if you are today reading these words that I have decided to transmit since there is no use learning and leaving said knowledge stagnant when many more people in the world can do it through our actions and words, that is why today I want to tell you specifically about an artist who has worked tirelessly throughout his life to achieve goals that perhaps he himself did not imagine and that no one else could do as is the case of Ramón Luis Ayala Rodríguez, better known as “Daddy Yankee”, an artist of a genre that perhaps many do not like and I even do not declare myself as a fan of some expressions, but we cannot erase that this artist through his work over the years has left an incredible legacy that has inspired the birth of new artists.
He is an artist, of whom I had no expectations, we always falsely think that artists in this genre are not so intelligent people, when it is quite the opposite, I also have to emphasize that it is a very revealing interview since "Daddy Yankee" has granted very few interviews with such a personal approach to his life, his thoughts and of course the way of seeing life, so I also have to mention that it was done by the YouTube channel called MoluscoTV in case you want to hear it. As I mentioned before, one mistakenly believes that they are hollow artists, that they do it because they cannot find a real full-time job, but this is where the parameters exposed by society consume us, since instead of supporting us we judge, for reasons such as not we like the genre or that we simply judge these people by how they look when we should be neutral because first we don't know them and we don't take the time to look a little deeper into their lives, often somewhat unfair and hard lives but they they chose to work and bet on music to get out of that life and turn it little by little into the life of their dreams, very similar to the case of the person I am emphasizing in my article today, since he is a person who at first moment it never occurred to him that he would get to what he is today, he discovered it as his process progressed, perhaps at first it was to do it as a hobby but then little by little it became In his real work, work that many believe is easy but requires great attention, discipline, effort and desire, it is not for nothing that he is the pioneer, in short the king of the genre, the one that many admire, many would like to know and with him that so many want to work.
As I said before, it is better to take the time to get to know someone before truly giving a final verdict on that person, so many will think, but what can we learn from a reggaeton player, let me tell you that I thought the same until I started watching this one out of boredom interview where I thought that he was just going to brag about his money, his fame and power when it was totally the opposite, even though he has a different profession than his, I was able to change my perspective that success lies even in the discipline that we put into it to our objectives, work, doing things well and not for doing them that although at first it revolves around this, to our objectives later we will be able to enjoy the success that this leaves us, that although at first the others are enjoying of their lives when we are working on improving, they are sacrifices that must be made to be better, to improve, as well as to keep the EGO at bay and for heaven's sake HUMILITY, since the ego consumes us, creates wrong perspectives of life, but humility helps us come to our senses.
A person who fits the famous phrase that says "Work hard, quietly and let your success and work make all the noise" bragging about having or owning something only shows that the EGO runs your life, and even shows that there is more missing inside you than you only feel complete with recognition and with material things, because if you worked hard there would not be time to shout to the world that you are the best because that is in a title that your work gives you and in its defect to whom it reaches, for this reason it is always better to keep the EGO locked up and humility to heaven, also to not judge anyone without knowing them first, knowing their path, their process and the story behind all their success, because it comes easy and much less given away it comes with effort, sacrifice and work.
calm in the soul
To flow, to have a full life, it is necessary to put aside people who are not contributing anything good to our process, as well as force ourselves to gradually remove any conflict forever as unnecessary fights, beginning to control our mind before everything whose The only objective is to steal stability, give way to anguish, sadness, calm, guilt and many emotions whose sole objective is to make us lose control of our lives, just as we have to learn to put aside anyone who clouds our sunny day. , we must learn to put aside any toxic attitude that we have towards others, such as commenting on others, punishing others through our anger that simply has no justification, in short, putting aside everything that robs calm to others. others but that also does the same in our own lives, stop being a slave to what societies dictate, it is time for us to start You begin to design life as you please, as you always wanted, the life of your dreams, always with the aim of creating your happiness but not harming others.
Calmness without a doubt as a pillar or fundamental stone in our life, is satisfactory, it is a lifestyle that will only help you to flow positively, that will only contribute to your life, peace of mind and tranquility that today, in the present that we live it is a luxury to have it, but it is not only having it, it is knowing how to carry it always and make it last no matter if at times there are days when our life is a bit in chaos like the stormy sea, because many times we blame the world for everything that It happens when the root of all that is inside us, that is where we have to give ourselves the task of searching, that is why one of the most important roles in which we must invest is in us, in knowing each other, but ultimately, knowing all of our limitations and also all the limits that we put before the world, as well as knowing what makes us happy and what robs us of that happiness, are points that seem so insignificant but in them lies the key to living a life full, full of calm.
Not everything that glitters in this world is gold, not everything that is sought in this world has to be in the material plane, on the contrary, all of this is often exchanged for the greatness that is within us and within all of us. the people we know and are part of our world, for this reason we must bet more on humility, on the authenticity of ourselves and of the good people who make our world more beautiful and more magical, as well as change complaints for words of gratitude for everything we have, for what we don't and for what at some point left our life to make it better, but above all stronger for us, another great anchor that is important to have as a pillar is empathy for us and for the rest of the people around us, us to be patient, to be clear that our process is unique and that it has no comparison to that of another person, as well as one of the keys to respecting others, their op inions, their points of view, perspective and attitudes towards life, having the ability to understand and comprehend that not everything in life can be done in our way of seeing things that we have to broaden our perspective of life.
Many times the things we fear never happen as we imagine, our mind always plays tricks on these issues, scaring us, filling us with intrigues, of what will be, with falsely unfounded fears, thus fearing chaos, when many times it is comforting since comes from the hand of change, change that many times we are so blind to recognize that it is what was missing in our lives, since monotony at some point was consuming us, also remember that chaos often never happens as it is we imagine and think in our mind, since reality often exceeds the fiction that our mind is in charge of sheathing in us, remember that everything in life is a process with ups, downs and straight lines but nevertheless you are on that path learning something, that not everything is lost, that although many times we relapse and that we falsely think that we will not recover, our process is still not over and no matter how many things are are happening are negative there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
To conclude, calm in the soul is a choice, one of your own, that you should not make because someone close to your circle did it, on the contrary, you should do it because you want it that way, because you recognize that it is the wisest choice that you can give to your life to your calm to your serenity, because even when you are going through, or you are coming out of a certain process that is not so easy, you always choose the path of fullness of life through calm and peace of mind.
Bullying and its catastrophic consequences in the world
How shocking and unfortunate to see situations and events to which the world is exposed every day, due to circumstances that I personally believe could have been avoided, keeping bullying at bay, which has been the root of many negative events in the world, there are many even the tragedies that happen in the world or simply situations because of it, given that they suffer from other children who study or are in higher grades and even minor situations with psychological damage and repeated physical damage, the little ones who commit these acts feel an ambivalent power because they feel they are superior beings and clearly their victim is an inferior being, who in their eyes is worth nothing or is worth much less, this in many circumstances may be due to their economic situation and may even be indirectly related to their self-esteem, since they are very submissive people, who think that what others tell them is true or change their minds quite ease, it is something that occurs mostly at school, which is where children are sharing their most time with you to learn, but unfortunately they can have super negative setbacks in their lives, such as bullying, so the objective as parents is also make them strong, strong in self-esteem and strong so that they talk about everything, not judge and give them the so-called confidence so that they can tell everything they experience daily, especially in those hours when they have to be apart.
It is a more common problem than some parents think and believe, since more children experience this harassment on a daily basis, even experts, thanks to their studies, revealed to the world that between 15% and 50% of children and adolescents suffer from this condition, which is extremely worrying and even more so if you have children, so you have to know how to instill strength, self-confidence and everything they represent, let them know that no one is more than anyone else, we are all made of the same and that unfortunately at some point in our lives we also have an expiration date and that these are things that do not change even if we have different social conditions, that absolutely all the people you meet, have already met and will meet in the future deserve respect, including him, that if at any given moment a child messes with the one who is not afraid and who has the absolute confidence to say so, that as parents while they are minors the right is to protect them and oh Helping them is to say seeking to solve any problem that is taking them to the edge either physically or even more importantly psychologically, since to have healthy children it is not only necessary to take all the attention to the physical body but also beyond, to what is inside, to the psyche, to what he is thinking and of course how he is driving and what can cause this in the future.
As parents we have to learn to give priority to our children, since they are people who until now are discovering life and everything that comes along with it, we have to get more involved in their lives, be attentive to how they are conducting themselves and of course to everything they say because that is a small reflection of what is being lived in their head, in their thoughts, many times we worry simply because they have everything they want in terms of material things but this does not fill the love and values that can be implanted in our children from a very young age so that they have a good life in their future, getting fully involved in their upbringing, teaching them aspects that they cannot learn with anyone else but with their manager, such as respect, strength, generosity , reciprocity, love that is the basis of everything, understanding, empathy, but above all resilience to face any adversity they may have and that is not in our hands, due because they are totally unavoidable things and that they are beyond our power, as well as sowing the seed of trust in them from a young age, as opposed to keeping quiet and talking and telling everything they want, because through their behavior we see what is happening also in their lives, they are small warning signs to which we must be attentive to help them and guide them in their processes.
Now it is very unfortunate what the world is suffering today thanks to this unhealthy disease, causing people who did not know how to manage this to carry out actions that hurt others who are completely innocent and oblivious to everything that happened to them or how they felt, when instead of causing harm to others they should seek psychological help to help them drain all their bad feelings for the world and for those who at a given moment they consider guilty, which was seen in the massacre that occurred just a few days is that the attacker was a lonely person who lacked the love of his family and of course psychological help but that was not a reason, reason or circumstance to attack such innocent lives and create in others precedents of anguish due to actions that were not he knew and his parents did not know how to manage, that even his teachers should have become more involved with respect to this issue, because without trying to justify what he did but absolutely not No one deserves to be exposed to any circumstance that helps a mental or psychological imbalance, there were many warnings that this young man gave and that unfortunately ended the lives of so many children who had a radiant future, but nevertheless he left us a great lesson and that is that our children deserve more attention and love, from their direct relatives and also from their family in general.
Bullying is deadly, although many believe and affirm that it is something completely innocent, it is not, it is something much more serious that if it is not treated in time, its consequences can be catastrophic and that a lot of people who did not deserve it can also end up being affected. as is the case of the 19 children and those two teachers who went to school like any other day to fulfill their certain duties and ended up dead thanks to someone who thought they had to pay in blood for everything he had lived , simply because his parents were not there and did not pay attention to his actions and thoughts to have helped him, if this had happened like this, the reality for all the victims would have been different today, at the end of everything that happened there are many lessons for parents , teachers and the general public, that we have to be more aware of our surroundings, maybe someone needs us and we can be drivers of life.
What happened in this world, only the memory remains
<You have to give pleasure to taste, life soon ends>
From a young age they instill in us the false thought that we are eternal that we are forever, when we must live a life aware that it is fragile, it can go like a sigh, but not only ours that of our loved ones too, we know the day that we come to this world but the day that we have to leave it is a complete unknown, but that our passage through this world must be something completely unforgettable, unique and tremendous for us, taking advantage of every sigh that has been given to us, taking advantage of that we can come to this world to make our process an event, that although we come without a manual, in the process we learn to live life, because we only have one to get the most out of it and thanks to it create the best moments of our life, that after all we come to the world with nothing and we leave the same, we only take everything lived, the experiences and all the memories of which we were once a part.
As the song says, you have to give pleasure to taste, because we don't know how, or when, or where, life surprises us that our passage through this world is exhausted, there are many people who unfortunately wanted more time who expected more, either by experiencing or by the simple fact of sharing with loved ones, we are exposed to go through many processes in this plane, regardless of our social conditions, we can experience things both good and others not so much but that nevertheless help us and also benefit us , that is, we learn from them, we learn that even if there is darkness there is always a dawn that the sun's rays always come out for those who trust, for those who have full confidence in life and in their deities They are transformative processes, processes that personally are equal to the process of the butterfly, an animal that at first is completely different and for both a little ugly, but as it goes through the stages that correspond to it, n shows you that things change, that how rare it was becomes a thing of the past and there is only something very beautiful left to see, but not only do we learn this from the butterfly, it shows us that those who at some point missed it because it was strange and a little full of ugliness were the ones that at the end of their process changed their conception, but this is something that happens more often even in our daily lives, with people who perhaps do not care so much about the physical or what one looks like. it represents the interior or our interior, they are people who go further, only the material and everything that this represents seems relevant to them, they are only with people when they have riches, the rest of the time they are beings to the left.
In addition to enjoying ourselves, trying to transform our lives and our thoughts into healthy routines that only bring out the best in us, we must also become selective people, selective even of experiences but above all of people, since there are too many people who only seek to be there when the storm step, but if you analyze the process, only a few were there and it is those few who truly deserve to live and experience the greatness that life is giving you for having lived your process with strength and patience, to the other people who only seek to be at the In the end they are kept at bay or at a distance, because actions speak louder than a thousand words, they are things that when the time comes you will learn if not that life has already given you that lesson, on the other hand, do not look at the things that happen to you as bad, neither do you Give yourself a lot of time to mourn, because time is running out, time is short, what today or at this moment hurts you and hurts you later will give you As you know, you have a creative solution, because the only thing that has no solution is our departure from this world, so enjoy yourself, enjoy your family to the fullest, tell them how many you love, love and appreciate them, maybe tomorrow will be too late, to your friends to those who have truly been accompanying you and giving you words of encouragement and to everyone you consider important to you, let them know that your love, support is completely natural and pure, that they can count on you because they have been people who have done the same for you, but also let them know that you value their presence in your life, don't wait for them to be 3 meters underground, do it now, today that you can, don't stop enjoying letting the right moment pass, because that moment is NOW.
And finally look for your happiness, but do not look for it in material things, because it is a decision that lives in you, that no one else can come to take for you, it is something that you must constantly choose, that only you can do that in your days the sun rises even though it is really cloudy, as well as value the small great things in life, those that are within your reach but that you do not see because you only feel clouded by the material when you change all this for more intangible things I assure you that You will feel the fullness of life, you will feel peace in all aspects of your life, but not only that, love will be the most important flag of your existence.
Make your days count, remember that it is not one more day, it is one less.
The job of my dreams
From a very young age we are taught that we must recognize ourselves, that we must let everything we want and wish to be flow and come out, that we not repress ourselves, in short, our family molds us for the future, prepares us by giving us the determination and courage that forms our own criteria, the perspective of how we see life, that at first we put little to work because at first we will always seek the approval of others, but especially in the family, because it is the moment where they are guiding us , where we are forging our beliefs, both positive and limiting, our perspective on life, is where little by little, with furtive glances at the lives of others, especially those of people we take as examples, as inspiration, we decide what we want and desire for ourselves. life, but we also take as sources of ideas our closest circle outside the family, such as our friends and acquaintances, little by little. Little by little, everything is aligned so that we realize that we like it and, on the contrary, that we do not like life, we only have to let it flow up to a certain point of adolescence, since it is at this stage that we have to go through the process of adulthood where even At an early age we must make transcendental decisions, which will make our future better or, failing that, something totally contrary to this.
Consciousness little by little guides our life through thoughts and actions that we will do, we will be more alert cataloging good or not actions, but we must also take time but above all space for ourselves, space to analyze our interior, space to listen what our inner voice tells us, space to give a deserved place to our intuition to our sixth sense, because this will even help us in moments where we falsely think that there are no exits, creative solutions for any aspect of our life will always live inside us . To make room for the work of our dreams in our lives, it is necessary to know ourselves, it is necessary to give space to self-knowledge, because in any circumstance we must always act in favor of those we want, long for and that in the same line makes us happier, due to that a sad future would be to reach a certain point along the way and realize that we are doing something that unfortunately we do not like and that robs us of peace through anguish and anxiety or even reaches the point where a bad work environment either because of colleagues, because of economic problems or due to leadership issues take us out of the way due to insecurities.
No one is obliged in this life to make their life something that makes them unhappy, on the contrary, it is always the legitimate right and by nature of each person to make their number one priority something that makes them happy, something that generates happiness, something where you can flow, something where you don't get stuck, something where you can climb little by little until you become better, something that makes it your own success, because you can't compare your goals to someone else's. On the other hand, on the contrary, you must be very faithful to yours, you must work to move them forward, so that they are prosperous ideas, so that the world sees that your individualistic ideas had the strength but above all the courage to go forward thanks to the fact that you bet on them, that you put all your efforts so that they prosper in the future, so I share with you some tips that may help you decide what to do with your dream job to improve it or to turn it into your dreams.
-Get to know yourself, give yourself the time to explore what lives in you, what you want for yourself, what you like and what you don't, in addition to your limitations, because if you don't set limits in life these will overwhelm you, welcoming your life a retinue of negative emotions, also learn to recognize when some emotion takes control of your life but above all how to manage this, on the other hand do not take age into account, many times they criticize when you are very young and others when you are older, you just have to take into account always what you are passionate about, what ignites your soul, your life and based on this, look for a point where you feel that in addition to being happy you are successful but everything on your own terms.
-If you feel that you are not happy, focus first on yourself to know why you are not, because many times we falsely believe that it is a matter of work and that we should change it when the real circumstance is that the work we are doing is not making us happy.
-Eliminate from your life the no and all the limiting barriers that are only that limiting, because everything you propose you can achieve, you just have to stop and analyze what or not can become your reality and based on it work even first in achieving small goals that, as time goes by, become big goals and make you have a whole personal growth.
-In balance is fullness, try to organize everything so that your life becomes lighter, more calm, let things flow and little by little time puts things in their place.
-Let no one make decisions for you that only interest you, that will only make your future happy or unhappy, remember that.
Fate gives you surprises, surprises fate gives you
<Don't be early or late, what has to be will be>
One of the formulas for destiny and life to bring us beautiful things is to be open to them, to be open to new possibilities, that although we are not going through a good moment, the certainty that at some point in the future the cards will be clearly reversed. in our favor, since the processes are never linear, today we are down and tomorrow by grace of something more divine we are up, but all this clearly goes hand in hand with the way we see life and even more our attitudes towards any of these circumstances, regardless of how we take the slumps, which are one of those things that can affect us the most, since clearly when we are at a high point or something that favors us in life, we will feel full, full of life, full of desire to continue but on many occasions this is inverted giving way to a lot of feelings and sensations that rob us of calm, but above all peace of mind.
Resilience is one of the magical tools that life puts within our reach, it is our own decision whether or not we want to include it in our lives, at all times because it helps us above all in any bad circumstance we are going through in a specific moment of our life or, in short, a process through which it is not only plagued by mixed feelings, feelings that we do not know how to handle, much less digest, they are things that even at given moments get out of hand, they go away. without complete control but when this specifically happens we must learn to flow with said situation, we have to learn that sometimes to find balance again in any area of our life, we need to lose it, so that it is something completely renewed, so that it is something that again it works 100%, they are even processes that are led by fear, an emotion that many perhaps say does not scare them Although they have already overcome it, but on the contrary, fear often takes over even our actions, completely clouding us, but it is in these specific cases where we will put resilience into action, where it will become the anchor of our lives, we will govern ourselves. from it to make our path something extraordinary, that although fear often abounds, resilience will always be above it.
Likewise, it also analyzes and thinks why on many occasions the opportunities do not come or on the contrary they abound but we are so blind or we are waiting for something specific to happen that the convenience is being stolen from others who can come to transform our vision in many areas. , as well as the perspective of life, our attitude to it. There are countless occasions when we only look at the negative things that happen, thus ignoring those that come to make our lives more beautiful, but we always have to be clear that nothing in life is black and white, everything is full of nuances, that just as there are moments of luminosity where everything literally for us is pink, there are moments that we cannot force not to happen, it is in these moments when we are most activated and on the surface we must have resilience but above all the understanding of what things and circumstances are that they come to teach us, that they come to give us lessons, that although we believe that there is only suffering behind all these things there is a teaching that may be happening because in the future we needed to be wiser in that sense, not everything is always bad, no there is no solution to everything, remember even that it is not a bad life, that on the contrary you have to know that there are times when you dance to good rhythm and others where not even a step we will take, but that we will always gain in learning and experience.
The key is often found in leaving control aside a little, living more and trusting in the process, trusting that in the end what is for us will always find us, that they are not only negative things, that life is also full of beautiful and positive news so that our life revolves around a good environment, that like all life has its times, its own rhythm, that we must have an open heart in the face of many circumstances, because light always wins over darkness. Always try to change your way of seeing even the little things, the things that do not turn out as you expected, do not feel that it is a punishment, feel that it is a learning opportunity because very soon something much better will come to you, but this clearly does not come for work and divine graces, goes beyond, of all the actions that you do to reach a desired goal, do not get involved in limiting thoughts, do not let your life revolve around them always, because we vibrate around everything what we think, everything we believe, since it is these thoughts that limit us that prevent us from doing x or y thing because we firmly believe that we will not be able to achieve it when the reality is very different, because even if you do not believe it we are the sum of our failures because nothing and no one had made so many discoveries, the world was not so advanced today without making mistakes or failing because this only gives us gasoline for the soul, it gives us and renews energy I had to continue, to reach the desired goal regardless of whether it is at a snail's pace.
the magic of coincide
Fate or chance?
Many mistakenly believe that magic is found in coinciding, but we find true magic when we connect much further with someone, when we give them a little more of us, more of our soul and more of our heart, since if you analyze, the world very often puts in our path many people with whom we coincide but only with a few of these do we manage to connect beyond this plane, it is something much deeper that nevertheless brings with it multiple positive aspects to our existence, such as knowing that it is something real and that not everyone can have, that is why life is transformative, magical and unique because it brings people, places and experiences capable of giving our lives a 360º turn, although not all people believe in the magic of life, in its coincidences or coincidences the only thing clear is that the mystery of connecting between thousands of people, being in the right place is extremely unique, magical and irreverent, for this reason we must not only enjoy to the maximum as long as it is hard but to be grateful for the adventure of matching.
The saddest thing about coincidence or the magic of causality is that many times we do not live it and experience it to the fullest, because many times even these small miracles and turns in our lives are so small that at first they go completely unnoticed or perhaps Whether we think it is forever when the reality is different, they may have an expiration time and unfortunately because we are clinging or hypnotized in other life situations, we let it go by without living it to the fullest, without giving it its deserved attention, they are things that without Not even we know it, they give a little meaning to our existence, so I want to invite you to value more, to carry out an exhaustive analysis of things, of moments, but above all of the people that you feel and firmly believe that give another meaning to your life. life, that without you having been aware before, they return the luminosity to your existence when this happened, that fear does not paralyze you that you can demonstrate the same or more of what this person does for you and in your life.
On false occasions we think that the key or the key to happiness is found anchored to material things, when the world, although it is full of small things, but nevertheless give meaning to life such as smiling, dreams, love in form of hugs and caresses, colors, words of encouragement all those things that are the simple things of life but that are undoubtedly the meaning of it, as well as knowing, understanding and understanding that all our actions are directed under our happiness, under what makes us happy but also in the same process makes those who are with us happy, because in balance we find fullness, since you cannot be happy if you are not in balance and harmony with yourself, After this you will find the direct pass to happiness and you will know that perhaps it was neither coincidence nor causality, it was because you made the right decisions to make your happiness the center of your life.
There are too many occasions when we think that things are thanks to chance, when unconsciously we want that, we vibrate in it and we also act for it, for our balance, our happiness little by little finding our own path to follow and in this same process people, moments, places, experiences will be added or added to make our whole story something incredible to tell, something incredible to see, but it is not thanks to chance because it is based more on the fortuitous encounters of life, it is about causality since this is all that is behind chance or in a few words the opposite, since it refers to the work we do every day, what is behind what we call chance, the work, the commitment that we put into it day by day to work for our goals, so that you understand these two words a little better I will give you a brief explanation, chance is all those events that which we cannot avoid and they occur because that is how life has them prepared instead of causality, it is certainty, the work behind your dreams, that is, it is that situation in which we can ensure that it will happen in a way because that is how we do it. We decided, that is why the magic of connecting takes a bit of both, because they are fortuitous encounters that life gives us to turn them into causalities, to work on building unbreakable connections that are not broken by anything or anyone, not even by the passage of time. .
So most of the time it can be fate acting in the form of coincidences, but it is up to you, in your decisions, to turn these infinite connections into causalities, which will undoubtedly give your existence an unexpected turn, because that is life. , an ups and downs, full of ups and downs but nevertheless it is magical, it never ceases to surprise us, because reality many times exceeds fiction, so let yourself go, flow with the current, flow with the passing of the days, do not think about things too much, leave fear aside, do not let it paralyze you, do not let the famous impostor syndrome take over your life and limit you, limit you from living transforming situations that will not only change your existence but also the perspective you have on life, let life surprise you and like a magnet take you to its place, a safe place where you will feel at home, in your home.
Failure is the key to many opportunities
<In failure I found my success>
As strange and incredulous as failure sounds, it becomes a fundamental key to our lives, because it is a situation that has two sides, at first it can generate multiple things, including feelings that perhaps at that moment we are not able to manage or know how. overcome them but as time goes by the reasons are revealed to us, which were even situations that did not go as planned but that gave way to opportunities that we were never able to see because we were behind something that was not convenient for us and much less would help us move forward . Although failure is something extremely chilling, saying it is one thing but living it is something completely different, since as I said before it is plagued by thousands of feelings that we do not want to feel, because they turn our lives around, although many times we think it is something negative, they come to plague us with a new perspective that even helps to temper our character, our way of thinking and of course the way of looking at life.
They are facts that we cannot stop as much as we wish and want, it is something inevitable, it comes even in times and circumstances when we least expect it, but they even plague us with reflection, strength, motivation and humility since they push us to be more of life, that although not everything goes as planned we can take advantage, that is to say something good, because we put our feet even more on the ground, giving way to seek more realistic creative solutions to the situations we live in, that is to say we start to give this problem a true creative solution that revolves around reality, to things that, although small, are more within our reach little by little and climb to the top, because in the beginning, even if it is what we most want to achieve to the top is something that cannot be done because absolutely everything has a process, which is full of nuances but nevertheless it is a relic because it brings with it a lot of learning, which will make us wise and also He will give us humility and strength to face other events that we will have to experience throughout life.
Today even from my own experience and with great propriety I express that even failure does not always represent that we are wrong, only that we must also accept that there are moments of our existence for which we are not prepared to travel certain paths and for some divine reason something he is taking care of us away from those situations that were surely going to bring only negative aspects to our lives, an example of these words can be seen in the great characters that life has given birth to, many did not even know fame, they lived their whole lives and process thinking that they were failures when the reality was different and would change in one or many years giving them recognition even after they were dead. For this reason, not everything is lost, although perhaps many circumstances are not in favor, everything always has a reason for being, therefore, even if it hurts, we must hug each other, forgive each other, in a few words, make use of self-love and continue, get up, look for other paths. that they serve as an alternative to reach the same goal or, failing that, reorganize the goal because not everything we plan for ourselves in life is the right thing, it is our path, on the contrary, we must be completely open to any possibility that life puts in front of us and not let ourselves be intimidated by anything or anyone.
Many times it is our EGO that gets hurt because there is an unhealthy need for others to recognize what we are doing, which is an unequivocal sign that we do not know what we are worth or, failing that, we doubt it, that is why we must work hard. times in daunting the ego, making us aware every day that although our process is not like the partner next door, our process is unique and magical because each person develops their personal potential, their own style, the magic lies in it, because everyone we are unique, we are all exceptional beings, that the moment we realize this and fully develop our potential, we will know how to lead our lives, we will know how to distinguish our purposes and, failing that, our borders, setting limits to everything that robs us the energy that we may be putting into our goals or projects in mind the only clear thing that we must keep in mind is that everything we propose has to have r solid foundations that are realistic and coherent, that even if they go on a larger scale in the future, in the beginning you can set small goals but that can be achievable, that you can reach them even in a certain amount of time, without fear of failure knowing that if it arrives it is because it was not for you, but nevertheless you had to learn that great lesson in life.
There are many circumstances and life stories that revolve around success and failure, but all of these deserve recognition, they all deserve credit because even with many circumstances and reasons against or for you were able to jump into the water and fight until you see where the current took you, until what place or step, for that and because you were brave you deserve the credit, but nevertheless do not let this cloud your EGO or, failing that, make you feel bad, on the contrary, learn from these situations that life puts in your way, get the most out of everything, understand that although the failure of a lot of fear, the best formula to live a life in freedom is to leave fear and all its entourage of emotions aside, to make way for a free life, a life that although full of mistakes and failures is full of learning that only made you a wiser person for the future and its future situations and experiences.
In life you lose but you also win
Many times we are presented with many experiences that we confuse with opportunities, but even if they are not, they are enriching experiences that shape us to true opportunities, they truly teach us to connect with ourselves, to know and understand that life is a boomerang that not always everything that is presented to us on a silver platter are true opportunities that are convenient for us, but even if these are not the most appropriate, the true ones, those that are convenient for us, help us, both to grow personally and in the perspective that we give to life are very important in our lives, because to do things fairly well you have to go through endless good experiences and not so much, but the positive thing that they offer us and leave our lives is teaching, to believe in actions and not in words, to truly know who is with you when you are good stretches of your life and even more to know and understand who is when you are for Going through stormy moments, hard moments, the only thing clear that we must always have is that we come to this life to complete learning cycles and in that same process unlearn things that only bind us and distance us from the essence of our life.
Personally, this week that is passing and moving away from our lives little by little has become a week where I have learned about many aspects of my life, not only personally but also at work, accepting that there are things that more than we force them, they don't happen, because they simply aren't for one, or it's not the right time, but even if it is something that we want and yearn for at the time, we must accept that it is not the time for it in our lives and continue, with the hope and faith that what is to come will be much better than what we lost, because in my spirit there is only room to let flourish what will truly bring many beautiful and positive things to my life, leaving aside what is stealing my peace and instead of making me grow, it is anchoring me to a place where I am becoming a person that I do not want to be, just to please others, so we must always be very clear that we are the most important thing in our lives. , that we have to work based on ourselves, on our happiness, but on any aspect of life on our peace of mind, because if something does not make you happy and is turning your life into hell little by little we must let go of it and leave it altogether freedom, both to it and to us.
Freedom is really overvalued, many times it is associated with things that really do not have the same relevance and importance as those that really should be given priority such as our peace of mind, and even unconsciously we direct our lives to things that trigger anxieties, sadness, that make us have bad moments in terms of our mental health when we should be in search of things that truly do us good, fill us with infinitely positive things and not with emptiness and doubts, it is something that we should constantly work on to be more aware of everything that is good for us and also of what is not, to improve it or try by all means to remove it, in order to give space to what is truly good for us. One of the great basic aspects that we must plant to see it flourish later on is self-love, since it is a very valuable and invaluable tool for our lives since it will help us to see things with much more clarity in circumstances that are taking away more of us. what they are generating for us, everything is up to you, that is why you must work towards cultivating this day by day, because not only will it be of great help with the aforementioned, on the contrary, in it you will find courage, strength and patience for your life, as well as you will be able to see that you are a great human being that everyone who has the opportunity to meet you is lucky because you are a great person who touches the lives of others through their good deeds and their great perspective on life.
That is why today I want to tell you to trust in your process, to never lose faith or hope, that although today you feel frustrated by something that is not going well, it will not be forever, sooner rather than later it will be solved, perhaps staying and adapting to you or perhaps leaving because something positive is only giving you headaches, you deserve much more, it is something that applies to everything, for love, for family, for friends, for colleagues and in the workplace. So never try to retain something that is no longer working for you, let things flow because that situation and person may not be for you and it must flow to reach its destination but it must also flow to make way for what truly belongs. to you, to your life. Add to your life things that truly do you good, give meaning and value to your life, do not leave aside self-love, because in it is the key to valuing yourself to realize that although you are not perfect, you are worth it, because you are a great person and human being who only seeks his happiness and work towards everything he dreams of. Don't get frustrated either because something didn't happen as planned, be grateful for that experience and look forward to what truly belongs to you, without despairing because what is for you will never be lacking and what is not will automatically flow and if you have to leave teaching that does it but that does not last longer than it should in your life, that it be an appetizer of the incredible that it will be in the near future.
Never lose faith, the best things take time
Self love allows us
It allows us to see life and its experiences from another perspective, of course as we adopt it more and more, because it is not just saying it or preaching it, it is putting it into practice, but in our lives, adopting it even as a lifestyle, because the Self-love allows us to see things from another angle, an angle that gives us the recognition of ourselves and everything that surrounds us and invades our lives, self-love allows us to build one of the purest and most innocent loves that can exist in the world. love for us, the love that allows us to recognize ourselves, that allows us to free ourselves from many things that are simply tying us down, turning us into other people, something toxic that is withering us, that is only contaminating us and filling us with hate, love itself changes perspectives allows us to look at our lives from a critical perspective to know if we are acting correctly or how others are acting towards our lives. It gives us many instruments or tools that we can use to implement in our lives to make it much more functional and better in any aspect.
One of the great tools that implementing self-love in our lives gives us is that we are aware of what we deserve and what we don't, or we simply give ourselves the value that we didn't allow ourselves before, or we were afraid to do so, but when for Finally you do it, when you let go and when you are able to adopt only things that positively help your process, to be a better person, to be a better woman or to be a better man, you understand everything, you understand that you are a good human being and therefore we deserve the same or more than what you always try to give to others, you deserve to have the life of your dreams, with everything you always dreamed of in it, because you are a fighter who works tirelessly every day to make your dreams come true, so you so much deserve someone who is in the same alignment as you, who always tries to return the love you give him in the same or more quantities, who above all respects you, who always above all reigns peace and harmony, you do not deserve me In dealings, you deserve to be treated like a queen or failing that like a prince, because your behavior and your way of seeing life makes it possible.
This kind of love will not only help in your love life, it will help in any aspect of your life, it will help you to give yourself the right value, it will help you to know and understand that even we are teachers towards others, that we have to know how to express how we feel, that it is good to feel, because it is something natural for human beings, although many today only want to hide their feelings, you do not have to feel guilty and do the same, everyone is their own executioner, that is why manage your life as you please, it is the only one you have, you have to make it unforgettable, creating and manufacturing the best moments, leaving a mark on the people who had and have the opportunity to meet you, to know the great person you are, the spectacular person that always try to help and do good to others, that person is unforgettable, that person will always be remembered in a good way, he will have only love in the minds of those people who knew him, because thanks to the tools of Self-love shines with natural light, with its own brightness and never illuminating others, on the contrary, shining and helping others in their process so that they can also shine, that person is the one who deserves all the love in the world and in that process all happiness in the form of experiences and people.
Because in the end there are only experiences left, in the end there will be no material things left, only everything lived and learned remains, everything you contributed and others bet on you, in the end you will win more for having given love and all things in general selflessly, all thanks to the fact that instead of being filled with hatred, he decided to give love and the tools that it gave us such as self-love a chance, for that and more you are inspiration, you are pure art, you are someone who deserves everything. Self-love is the one that leads us only by the boundaries of peace and there is nothing more beautiful in this life than living in peace with ourselves and with others.
The family our safe place in life
I could not let go of the fact that yesterday a very important holiday was celebrated in honor and to celebrate the most beautiful, pure and harmonious union in the world, the family, where life begins and ends, the place where we undoubtedly feel safe and secure in any moment and circumstance of the world. The family, regardless of the fact that at times not everyone agrees or thinks and acts the same, is the most important thing that exists in the life of the human being, since we are children and even babies, it does not matter if only the conformity of a few people, because always The only essential requirement for this to work is that love always reigns and abounds, which brings with it a retinue of emotions and good values that help harmony reign in the home such as respect, solidarity, generosity and empathy. They are values that are acquired and taught to us by our parents for any situation in our lives, but that undoubtedly helps in how we develop in any area of our life, especially the family, because the family is those people who always are regardless of whether it is or not. a good time, they are the most faithful people in your life.
With the passage of time we realize that even despite thousands of adverse circumstances where there are crises, the family is the family and it is the one who will probably never turn their back on you, those who will be supporting you even if they do not agree and They think that you are committing a madness, those who are in case of illnesses or very serious problems, always in these circumstances, whoever is with you is who truly is your family, who should consider your family because regardless of whether you are or not, that you have or possess is with you at the foot of the canyon ready to accompany you, support you and keep you company in your life situations, that is why today more than ever value those who are with you do not waste another second to tell them everything they are worth in your life, how much you appreciate their presence, their light, their company and support throughout your entire existence, that although they may not have many things of value, they give you much more with the small s great things in life like support, words of encouragement, being attentive.
Even on more than one occasion there are people who become part of our family even without having any blood ties just for the fact of being present, of giving us gifts and giving us much more value than many people who say they are family, family is something much Deeper, they are connections, which we can even establish with strangers, we can create our own family of life, with our friends or people who we consider have always been in our process, who have not been afraid to give us love, strength and desire. always going against the current, people who have remained even in times of storm, who have gotten wet with us and who have also waited for the sun to rise, these are the people who deserve to celebrate and celebrate with us any triumph of our life These are the ones that we must always keep in mind, help but above all have them as a priority since they always had us and have kept us on their list of people. Featured women, people to whom they give and deliver love and many things without expecting anything in return. Value, value the family with whom you share DNA but also value those who have become family, with whom you have created and developed deep ties, value why we are here today and maybe not tomorrow, how nice it is to tell people how important and valuable that they are in our life and in all our process.
Venezuelan families are very similar to Italian families, everyone always seeks to protect everyone, everyone helps each other and even looks for a way to solve the things of others, loyalty and respect abound in the air, in addition to the fact that the love above all and anything, how nice it is to grow up in this kind of family, happy, a little crazy, outgoing, but above all loving and fun, that never gives up and are always there at any time and circumstance, regardless of whether it is from day or night, how nice it is to grow up among so many beautiful people, who only add value to our personal process, people who, although fate and life distance us, know that even in the distance nothing and no one can extinguish all the feelings and experiences that they unite us, because before anything there will always be support, consideration, affection, admiration and respect. How nice it is to grow up in a Venezuelan family, with so much culture and history to tell the world, so many common experiences that we share with our entire nucleus that only promotes unity and genuine support.
Today more than ever I thank life, God, the universe, for putting me in such a special family, in which I have never felt alone and there are always words of encouragement to follow, in which support, love and the commitment, in which they only support you and look for ways to help you build your dreams, thanks to all the effort and sacrifice of my little family, today I can say that I am a professional, thanks to the fact that we were always in the good times and not so much giving me encouragement to continue, not to abandon the path, because even if it seems difficult we can always fulfill everything we want, because we are powerful and we are even more powerful with the love of our family.
the train of life
Many are those of us who hear say and express that the train is leaving us, that it is the last one, that there will be no more that we have lost opportunity, each belief is VALID, because all of us in one way or another are right in our beliefs of life, but particularly in something that I do not believe is that up to a certain point in life and the road we travel, the train passes or stops passing, the opportunities, because many times you are on the tip of your nose but you are not capable to decipher how these come about, because they are very silent, they are like a kind of onion, you have to cut them little by little and remove layers to be able to visualize them, it is not easy, because there are few who see the small great opportunities in life, there are to be filled with strength and strength to discover them, patience when we grow up we learn that it is a great virtue that we must adopt because things do not happen by magic, the good things of our destiny take time, the axis A clear example of this is food, the special dish that you like so much and is your favorite lasts certain hours to cook and not only is it plagued by a process, a process in which you must fill yourself with patience, sow it in every pore of your existence, but always keeping in mind the certainty that everything in the future will be better.
Many times it is not a matter of luck but of work, perseverance, strength to always continue and never give up when the only thing we want is to leave the towel, leave everything, because that is how life brings with it moments where we enter into false crises, we think foolishly and mistakenly that we are not enough, we even compare our process with that of others, the only thing that brings doing this is to sink a little more, because no process is the same, just as we are all different we live different processes, but each one full of its own magic, full of spirit, that always urges us to seek and follow the best path, the one that we think and believe with conviction will be the best, many times it is not about choosing, it is even about being the own architects of our destiny that we are not afraid to be different, to let go of stereotypes and create our own rules in a few words to make a difference, to create parameters, to inspire the d Furthermore, it is not about following the path of someone determined, it is about being inspired by their strength to never abandon something they want, their courage to go down paths that no one has traveled to be better, because the meaning of life is to try to improve ourselves, because when you stand in front of a mirror remember this, you will know who is your only and exclusive competence, it is you, nobody else but you, for that reason fight to be better, to create, to be the architect and the designer of your dream life, because everything in this life can be achieved with patience, but above all with work.
I only hope that my words fulfill their mission, which is to inspire you to work on yourself, in the life of your dreams, that you know and understand that the trains in life always pass if you want them to pass but above all if you want to stop them. and get on it, even not knowing the whole trip but with the strength and the certainty that it will be full of magic, that like everything in life it will have curves, it will have beautiful landscapes and the not so beautiful but that will help you and serve to learn , experience is everything in life, of any kind, without looking at whether it is good or bad, everything will help us to become better people, to cope with sorrows and burdens, experiences that will give us the key, the keys to powerful instruments that make us stronger, invincible beings, that it no longer hurts even the slightest thing, this time we went from removing the layers of an onion to becoming it, because we are stronger adversity no longer frightens us because we know in the background or that the person we are going to become once we have overcome that stage of life is completely even supernatural, many times we will even go through the fire without fear, without fear of the consequences that it gives us or brings because deep down we know that we are very very strong and capable of everything even building our own train in life.
The ways of the life
The paths of life many times are not as we expected or much less as we planned, destiny, life and God many times have prepared paths for us that perhaps we never thought to travel, paths that are synonymous with change, that bring surprises, Totally unexpected things, things that we never considered but nevertheless, we have to live to learn, to understand that many times we make plans but God, life, the universe and destiny can have a bundle up their sleeve, surprises that are so good like not so much, one of the great learnings that this leaves us is to let go, know, understand and understand that we do not control everything that life has its ways and its ways of subtly showing us how much we were wrong about something or someone but that We should not feel any feeling that binds us forever to that moment and to that stage of the path such as guilt, rage, anger, ego, or simply hatred, in Instead, learn to be free souls, without burdens, that adapt to and adapt to any situation in life, that we accept everything as life puts us on the road because for better or for worse it is happening and happening in our lives to give us a lesson on a silver platter, it is up to us to take it or wait for another lesson even stronger than that to come.
When things do not go as planned, frustration and all those feelings associated with this feeling undoubtedly surface at first, it is VALID because it is a natural reaction of the human being, we have no control over it, nor how we will react, it is like the popular saying "one thing is to do it, another is to live it and feel it", we cannot know how we will react to x or y circumstance along the way, because we never react in the same way or manner as in previous circumstances, there are moments and circumstances that have to happen to know how let's face it, face it, I just hope you always have strength and courage with you that you don't let yourself be daunted by anything, anyone and much less situations, my grandmother may she rest in peace always told me that even the problem that I thought had no solution He also had it, but the only one that was never going to have it was death. Wise words, that perhaps in my childhood I did not understand, that in my adolescence neither but with the passing of the years one understands how much truth and certainty there is in them, they are like a lifesaver, because I know that it can be a very hard problem but in the end there is always light, life and God will take care of putting the right instruments in the form of people or situations so that your problems in life are resolved satisfactorily, the only thing is that we should never lose faith and much less hope.
Unfortunately, many times we allow ourselves to be believed by others, but they do not speak or act from love, love is synonymous with doing good, acting better every day, instead they do it from envy, from hatred and all their entourage of bad guys feelings and actions, they are people who are in charge of putting and sowing in our head, mind and life the seed of doubt, which triggers many negative things that do not help us to emerge that are like a chain with a dog stretches, but without willpower, if we do not decide that we want to get out of that hole that they have planted in our minds, we will not do it, the decision must be yours, because you and more than you must be the one who wants to improve your life, suppress those people who take you away from happiness, who do not contribute even a grain of sand for you to improve, instead they invade your life in a completely negative way, creating dark tunnels that we are not able to see where the exit is, where it is the light, but nevertheless it is a battle that you must fight, because when we arrive in this world our parents are in charge of creating a perfect bubble, where we think and believe that life is perfect that everything will happen as we believe and plan it but It's not like that, life is full of ups and downs, it's like a roller coaster, you must be prepared to be up days and down others, but with the certainty that nothing is forever that life can change you in a second, take you to places where that you never thought to be, but that without a doubt was something that you had to live, to understand and appreciate that even with its ups and downs, life is unique, it is magical and that we come to unlearn to become light, to carry the burdens that it puts on us with a smile with the certainty that everything happened for a reason and that it is up to us to choose and choose the path we want to travel.
Remember many times the decisions are in your hands, decisions of who to have or not in your life, how to govern it, which path to choose and travel, everything is in your hands, I hope you always find the wisdom, strength and divine help to choose the good way, so that the decisions are always on the side of your life parameters, that life covers your life with immense blessings.
failed love
From childhood we are implanted with the false idea that the love of our life is the first and that it is the only one, as in fairy tales, what they do not teach us is that sometimes, we have to be with several toads before we find the the right partner, the one who is willing to support us, to love us as we are, because many do not learn that people are as they are, that changing them at this point in life is like turning them off, it is taking the light off, it is even lowering a switch synonymous with hurting them, because we try to change something that makes that person special, trying to do it is hurting their mind, their self-esteem, when you truly love hurting is not an option in the least and much less unconscious because you will always try respect and love purely including the faults, the setbacks, the virtues and the not so nice things that people have, this does not mean that we should put up with things like infidelity or disrespect, because undoubtedly they are We are tolerant but that does not mean that we have a hair of fools, because when you grow up in environments where peace, love and harmony reign, where you see examples of love that without a doubt one of its flags is respect above all, that It is what you are looking for in your life, in terms of friendships and life as a couple.
Society often dictates guidelines that even these people are unable to follow or did not follow in their lives, but they are in charge of living the lives of others even more than their own, when others are living their lives as they please, doing what seems best to them and what makes them happier, in conclusion, people who understood everything, who look for what lights up their soul and leave aside what doesn't, what robs them of peace, calm, what in instead of turning them into loving beings, it is leading him down the path of hatred, it is something normal that can happen in all facets of life, in friends, family, acquaintances and even as a couple, but we must always be able to discern when things they become negative, when they are no longer giving for more, when instead of bringing happiness they bring the opposite, because absolutely everyone deserves a beautiful and peaceful life, this also includes a loving life, because many times we do not give ourselves the opportunity to It is something we want because we live for what they will say, because we think more about people than about ourselves, hopefully one day you will put aside those fears and dare to cross the line because beyond it there is only the path of happiness, but of the personal because we are not all happy with the same thing, just as we are all different, happiness changes depending on each person.
Understanding the above took me a long time and with it the false idea of being in love with someone who only loved me for a while and who foolishly thought that he was the love of my life for being the first person in my sentimental plane, for this reason it is necessary live open to any possibility that life puts us in front of, because without a doubt we do not all live the same stories and experiences, each one has something different to tell and therefore lives something different, that my experience was bad does not mean that the yours was or is the same, we all say and speak from our perspective of life, so if you feel identified with my words I just want to tell you that many times they are just things that happen to make us stronger, to give us experience and even for us to cultivate LOVE OWN because there are many who come into a relationship loving their boyfriend or girlfriend more than themselves, making themselves less, believing that they are very lucky nothing more and nothing less than because They gave them an opportunity, because they thought they didn't deserve that to happen to them, but let me get them out of their mistake, because absolutely all of us are deserving of LOVE and RESPECT, no one deserves to be treated less and much less with disrespect, always look for people who treat you well, that they respect your way of being, your way of seeing life, because in one way or another you are the one who determines how others treat you with what respect or not, one teaches them how they should treat us.
That is why the paramount thing in your life is always you, self-love, respect, without this there is nothing, so try to be a little selective, give yourself the time to get to know people thoroughly because you will share your life with that person, so it is essential to know if they not only connect on the sentimental and loving plane but in all. Just as you do not despair, try to make your life and your life the best story, do not get carried away by the restrictions imposed by society. Lastly, failed loves hurt incredibly, but even if you are going through that hard moment, you must understand that they do not last forever, they are processes of life, processes that come to teach us, so try to discover what yours is, so please do not close yourself off. Before the prospect of a new love in your life, not all are the same.
magical stages of life
April and May have been quite an odyssey, months of pure transformation, months where I have managed to grow as a person like never before and much less achieved, months where flexibility reigns in my life, where I do not allow anything bad to enter and ruin happiness and stability for which I have worked so hard. The path of life is not easy, at first I personally falsely believed that things came super easy to life, be it people, moments and things, but as one grows, one transforms one's mind and therefore the perspective of life is not the same as yesterday, weeks ago or even a year ago, the beautiful thing and what gives meaning to life is CHANGE although many are afraid of it, it is one of the few constants that we can be sure that it will happen throughout life, it is inevitable that is why I live clinging to it, trusting in my process, in the universe, in God and in me, that I will be wise and make the right decisions, allowing myself to fail of course because not always They will all be correct but I am not going to crucify myself for that because with the passage of time, one of the great lessons is that if there is an error there is teaching, which in the future does not make us perfect beings but a little wiser.
I am very fascinated with life and its processes, when I thought I was very stable, my life took a complete turn, showing me that there is still a whole world to explore, things to live that will undoubtedly transform me in the future as someone much better. That the things that we do not expect to happen are the best that can happen to us, in a few words, living without expectations is something magical, because when something good hits you, you live it even more intensely and you are twice as grateful, because you certainly did not expect that happened is exactly what has happened to me this year but especially these last months of April and May, now I understand very well and I am more realistic in terms of the phrase that the year is not the one that has to be different, it is you, with your actions, trying to re-educate you, to unlearn things that we have ingrained that are the triggers for certain things to happen, even negative in our lives, to learn things that vibrate in the harmony that we now want but above all we decided for our lives, because the decision to be that person you always wanted to be is solely and exclusively in your hands, you just have to work for them, that they work and that they march on the right path.
Many times the opportunities are in our noses, because we are blinded in things that no longer vibrate with what we want, because we are not clear that now we are different people, that our priorities have changed, we let many opportunities pass that perhaps at the time we were not able to see clearly but with the passing of time when our mental level changes it is something that we can already see clearly, we just have to be clear that we cannot afford to regret it all our lives, therefore we must be able to learn and continue, devising plans and looking for new things that ignite our soul and that of course bring to our lives what we so desire and have longed for throughout this life. My life changed when I decided that the only one responsible for everything was me, because I am the owner of my life, no one else is responsible for my actions and much less for the decisions, or simply for what happens or does not happen, everything is in my hands and I am the one who decides when or not to act, when or not to believe in something or someone, when I took responsibility for it, when I understood that no one is to blame, that the best thing I can do is always search, fight and work for me, for my things, for my dreams for what I have yearned for so much, it was when I woke up, I woke up from a false reality but I don't regret it, because they are lessons that life puts in our lives there are those who grasp them sooner or later, but in my case it was at the right time, now I work and fight for myself, to improve, because my only competence is to be better than yesterday and today, to create the future I choose.
Nothing is ever lost, even if you live in a country where the opportunities are not ideal, those opportunities will be lessons that catapult you to what you have wanted so much, but first you must start because you cannot reach the goal without having gone through a process in which you have learned to climb each step, everything is like a boomerang, it is a process very similar to that of the transition from babies to children or adolescents and even adults, because we do not come into this world learned and much less with titles or with a certain age to get there we have gone through a whole life process in which we have learned and even learned to enjoy it, to live to the fullest each stage that life presents us on a silver platter. April was an incredible month because my efforts began to bear fruit being able to create my own business, it is not easy at all, but it is something that fills my soul, and I am also sure that it can repay me many fruits in the future, it was also a month of numerous opportunities in my life, since it brought with it a dream job, which may not be the ideal one in the current conditions of my country Venezuela but which is undoubtedly something that I love to do, that love for what you like to do so much , that passion is what can lead you to achieve great things in life, as long as we don't get tired of working on it.
Therefore, do not be discouraged if you are going through a bad time, because it is not a bad life, it is just a bad time, which will undoubtedly pass, remember that at the end of the storm comes calm, that is happening to teach you and not only that to make you stronger, to teach you that even in adversity there is light and that if you cling to it, you can get out of it and more.
Today I celebrate my beautiful mother
<Mother's love is peace. Doesn't need to be acquired, doesn't need to be deserved>
Every day is a good day to recognize our mothers for the beautiful work they do every day, even without complaining, even if they are tired and sick, we always see them with a smile on their face, always trying to make us happy in that process. Today in particular I celebrate and celebrate my mother and all the mothers in my family because they have shown me with their example that when you are a mother you always give everything for your children, for your tireless effort so that we are always better and excel in everything that let's propose ourselves, today more than ever I see that the most important role in life is to procreate and to be a mother also also that a mother is not made of iron but she can bear everything for a child in a few words a mother is a WARRIOR.
A mother does not have a battery but works all day at the level of being inexhaustible for the fact of caring for her children, a mother gives everything to make her children happy, even her life if necessary, so let us always try to admire and value them in life, the moment is now, today we are and tomorrow maybe not, but the goal is always to create unforgettable moments with our mothers, with our loved ones and in that process tell them how much we value what they have done to be able to give us a plate of hot food, for giving us a roof, working tirelessly so that we don't lack anything and yet always being present in our lives with the same or more energy trying by all means that we have everything and grow in a healthy home.
For this reason and more, my mother is the most beautiful and special being that lives in my life, because she was and is mother and father at the same time, always filling me with love, values, strength, sympathy and the desire to emerge and flow forward to be better, thanks for getting me up and motivating me when I felt faint, when I felt I couldn't take it anymore, you were always there, supporting me and giving me moral support, always saying that the bad times in life don't last forever just like there are storms the sun always rises and there is light at the end of the tunnel, thank you because with your example and overcoming life you have taught me that I should never give up until I achieve everything proposed that although sometimes plan A fails we can devise and contemplate other paths, because many times we have to travel other paths to understand that we plan but the one who always decides the best for our life is God, thanks to you I learned to have faith not only in myself but in God who I know is always guiding me.
It is also impossible not to be thankful for the scoldings, the calls for attention, mothers always have that highly developed sixth sense, they know when it is not necessary to walk a path or go in a certain direction for that reason today I thank my mother for being a guide, because even in moments where we both disagreed, she always treated me with love and respect, in the end she achieved her goal to look from another perspective and understand that there are times when the paths and decisions we choose are not exactly the best, mothers are always angels and guides in our walk through life, therefore always have the humility to accept any advice that comes from the being that gave you life, because it deserves respect and because in the end they are almost always right in all their decisions and thoughts towards us, that's why and happier mother's day dear mom thank you for being my cane and the cornerstone of my life.
Of course I also congratulate all the mothers on the platform, without you this world would not be the same, congratulations, may love and all the beautiful things in the world always abound in your lives.
The effort and sacrifices are worth it
<Effort is the best substitute for excuses>
Yesterday was a very special day, but for reasons of force majeure I could not share my joy and happiness for celebrating my first year as an official Graphic Designer, this means that with a title that supports all my efforts, sacrifices, all those days that I felt faint because as in every process it is full of nuances, not everything is rosy, processes are often romanticized, when we enter it, we realize that nothing is easy, everything is possible with discipline and effort. Today I can proudly say that my sacrifices were worth it, because it was not easy going through this process here in Venezuela, where every day for three and a half years I had to put my life as a student ahead of any other priority, since all the days I got up at four in the morning to be able to arrive on time and take my classes, because the university where I was studying was practically two hours away from where I live with my family, these are processes that one thinks one cannot overcome and leave the towel, but God with his superior strength always gave me the courage and strength not to do it, to make my future something splendid and of course to fill my parents with pride, one of the most gratifying aspects of being human, because those two people are the ones who were behind the whole process advising and filling me with beautiful vibes to always follow.
Many are those who do NOT bet neither by effort nor by sacrifice in their life, depriving themselves of living one of the experiences that will undoubtedly give a 360º turn to their lives, because it is a process that improves not only the quality of life but also the perspective we have of life, because they are enriching experiences that leave us with a wonderful story to tell and even more a tremendous life experience, that although there is no magic formula to achieve success, without a doubt, each experience is unique, because even from the successes and errors we create our own scheme or path to reach our own brand of personal success, which may be similar to yours but it is not the same, because just as we are all unique, our success is also unique, due to which is relative, not all of us want or desire the same thing. What without a doubt all of us who are eager to succeed or to improve our life together is the determination to achieve it at all costs, thus creating a plan to follow although many times along the way the plan undergoes spontaneous modifications that in the long run one only understands that it was for our good.
The processes are not linear, but with resilience we can achieve any ups and downs that we suffer in this process, but now I want to motivate you to work for what you dream and desire for your life, it does not matter if others say that they are very little or small while fill you up and make you happy you should do anything that motivates you but I want to give you a series of tips that you can put into practice to achieve anything. The first is that you must set your goals, in this step you must be realistic, you must mark or put something that you can truly achieve, you must stop and analyze what it is that undoubtedly promotes you more every day until you reach the great goal, even many times it is not about material things, many times everything revolves around it when we even reach a more personal level of success thanks to the fullness that even the small big things in life give us, as I explained before, create goals, but divide them , in the highest and of course other smaller ones but that without a doubt help you get a little closer to the goal every day, for this it is essential to create strategies that help make all the objectives set a reality, for this it is not only It is necessary to put heart and soul into it, but also to create deadlines so that the results can be felt.
Another great tip is that we must get to know each other, we must know, understand and be realistic about our strengths and weaknesses, because we are human beings, we can handle everything but not everything at the same time, many times we have to ask for help, we must understand and let go. the ego even aside from the fact that we are not scholars, that at some point we will need to ask someone for help rather it is because that person has better skills in terms of something specific, therefore we must also work on humility to recognize any situation, as well as take the pill not to throw in the towel, because on any road there will always be bumps but we must have the ability to get up, heal ourselves and continue looking for solutions to reach the goal, another super important thing is to be organized, do not let chaos take over you, your ideas, emotions in general, do not let them take over your life, create work schedules but also rest schedules, you must rest your mind, let it flow freely. So that it comes again accompanied by the same amount or more of creativity.
How nice it is to be able to say that if you can, with effort and discipline you can achieve great things in life, even though hardly anyone believed in me, I always went against the tide, I always bet on my interests, I always believed that my actions they would bear fruit, perhaps not at the moment but in my future they certainly would. It was one of the best decisions I could make in my life, entering the unknown knowing that it would not be an easy path to travel but that it would bring literal gold to my life.
In the photo you can only see happiness and pride. A photo taken the day I received a role that turned my life around, it's amazing to see how a simple role has the ability to bring so much happiness to my life, although maybe for you success is something else, you're also amazing and powerful because you don't get tired of fighting daily to change your reality for another.
It's better late than never, happy day to me and my fellow designers who are part of the platform and communicate not only through writing but also through the ideas embodied in an image, how proud it is to be designers.
Self demand, is it good or bad?
<Never allow anyone or anything to steal your dreams under any circumstances, let alone make you believe they are too big>
Like anything in life, the demand or self-demand must be balanced, because it is a very positive tool that we have at our disposal, that is, if we want to use it, it is enough to create a plan to follow to do it, it is even as good as criticism or self-criticism but on a certain constructive level, that is, when we use it as a bundle up our sleeve to bring out and potentiate our capacities, our virtues to extract the best of us that perhaps lives deep inside and we have not yet reached the point of potentiating. In short, self-demand is like a coin with two sides when we pass the side that brings us only positive aspects to our lives, we take it as when we inadvertently put something else in a glass, the negative side arrives but in this case even we are It can get out of hand, since it would bring us a lot of damage to our lives such as insecurities and even depression, which translates into poor mental health.
That is why we must always work on setting limits to avoid reaching the point of surpassing the positive requirement, reaching the one that would only steal our peace by bringing negative aspects such as criticizing ourselves all the time, falsely believing that we are not good at anything, here it also comes into play. the impostor syndrome that is very common today, when we mistakenly think that we are failures because our vision is cloudy since we are unable to see, recognize and accept all our achievements, everything that we have advanced throughout life so that reaching a better version of ourselves, are aspects that even lead us to treat ourselves badly, becoming misunderstood with everything we represent, pressing us to extremes where they can cause irreparable damage not only to our mental health but also physical, because there are many people who day by day do not feel good about themselves, do not accept their essence, their way of being and even in various cases their physical appearance, which is not bad to improve certain conditions but what is completely negative and harmful to our health is pretending to be like someone else, when we should always follow our instinct or rather let our essence flourish.
In short, even the demand or self-demand must be put into practice through self-love, respect, understanding, things that without a doubt we always try to offer to others or rather we do, but many times we do not put it into practice. practice with ourselves, leaving us aside, making us less, even today I am able to see how much reality there is in the phrase that says "that many times our own enemy lives within us" because many times the syndrome that I exposed before takes hold of us leaving an unmistakable bitter taste, that nothing will happen until we put an end to it, until we find a way to gradually remove those bad vibes from our lives, to give way to the true demand that gives us vitality and well-being in all the senses of our existence, even setting real and measurable objectives that we can achieve based on what we want to achieve, never giving up, always We are giving our best to be even better every day, as well as looking for sources of inspiration in people who have achieved similar goals to the ones that we are not proposing, without reaching comparisons because each one is experiencing different processes, as well as analyze them deeply and objectively to try to decipher their action plan for us to do it our way, because if they were capable it only means one thing and that is that you can also achieve it.
“If with everything you have you are not happy with what is yet to come into your life, you will not be either”
It is a phrase that leads us directly to reflection and it is that it is good to be persevering people who push themselves to achieve great things in life, but that does not mean that we should only concentrate our existence on achieving and accomplishing things, because we must be pauses to appreciate and value everything we have achieved, enjoy it, thank life, send waves and manifestations to attract even more beautiful things but from the point of appreciating and valuing what lives in our lives, learning that happiness is a state that it depends solely and exclusively on you, not on people and much less on material things, although of course they contribute but they do not take all the credit because living happily, in peace, with love and tranquility only depends on you, so take time or pauses to enjoy what you have achieved, because if you are not happy with how little or how much you have worked and achieved today, you will not be in the future when you have what you know. According to you it would bring you instant happiness, these are things that we should reflect on.
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Conquering oneself is a sign that we are on the path of self-love
<If you have the quality and capacity to love, do it with yourself first>
Many things teach us whether they are our parents or even life itself is responsible for giving us thousands of lessons silently, obviously it is up to us to learn or continue making mistakes until we reach the point where we automatically understand it because it is already impossible not to see and accept what happens, well I am a faithful believer that apart from loving everything that surrounds us we must do it with ourselves, because this is the first step to love others, accept ourselves, value ourselves, with defects and virtues, accept that there are things that they get out of our absolute control and that's fine, because not everything goes according to our plans but without a doubt it leads us down new paths that change our perspective, it leads us to understand and accept that these are things that happen because deep down we needed to learn some of it.
It is ironic to offer others what we lack in our lives, such as love for ourselves, which is not just saying it, it is feeling it, through understanding ourselves, valuing ourselves, accepting ourselves as we are, because many times we even want to change our physical appearance or exterior for simply to please others or, failing that, to follow a fashion, when the main thing is to accept ourselves as life made us, to understand that these are things that are out of our absolute control that being different does not make us less than the other than according to the standards it is more graceful physically, on the contrary we must embrace the idea that all ugly or beautiful have something that makes us unique, different in a few magical words.
Self-love is something that dictates that we should even bring out and potentiate our best version, not only physically from within, from the soul, where the most beautiful and striking of the human being is found, such as the values that we are taught from childhood in home, such as empathy for others and for ourselves as well, because we must always match the position we give to others with the one we give ourselves, creating a perfect balance between the two, without going to extremes of making ourselves less or Failing that, the ego clouds our vision, another great step to get to put self-love into practice in our lives is to know ourselves, many people mistakenly think and believe that they do it, when they are very wrong, many times they even do not know something so simple as what they want or what they don't want in their life, that is why self-knowledge is not only physical, it is a very deep and very personal journey, but in the end it will bring lots of positive aspects to the life of those who love it. or do, because you can't love or appreciate what you don't know.
“Loving you is not only accepting you, it is building the best version of you”
I hope you always keep this phrase very much in mind, because we are changing beings, perhaps when you embark on your journey of self-discovery you will understand and change your opinion about the person you currently are and you want to modify it, modify it in that you firmly believe that much is missing. to bring out your true essence, because perhaps you have created masks to try to fit into the world that society standardizes which automatically caused you to repress your authentic essence, creating in you insecurities and limitations that prevent you from daring to be your most authentic version When you become aware of this, you must fight for yourself and learn to release those stigmas that keep you deeply tied to someone you are not, because love for yourself, for something or for someone else does not mean ties or chains, on the contrary, love it is freedom, love is not a barrier, love even gives you independence.
One day I heard that self-love fixed everything but until today I truly understood its meaning, when I tried to love someone else in a loving way I always felt an emptiness, since I falsely thought that love was to please the other in everything even when this I wanted to change things in me, which were part of my essence, undoubtedly what I did was move away from myself and feel completely empty, when you work on yourself, to improve not only your professional, economic, love life, in short, in all areas of life you see that love is synonymous with freedom, acceptance but above all understanding, that when you feel an irrepressible desire to change the other or vice versa, it is an alarm to take the time to think and analyze the situation, if it really is a relationship that adds or that it is subtracting and stealing more from us than should be expected, because relationships should be seen more as teamwork, the two parties must put the same effort or for being together, for growing up, for this reason affective responsibility such as one's own is of vital importance because together they are the perfect cocktail to clearly see if it is something healthy or on the other hand if it is not, when the latter is the most advisable it is getting out of them because they even rob us of that self-esteem that is so difficult to build.
Soon I will talk to you about how to get out of relationships that only remain for you and how I could achieve it
April: a month full of transformation
I am a faithful believer in change, that everything is possible, that life takes many turns, but above all that we are never the same people as yesterday, a week ago or a year ago, because evolution and change are constant. We are never the same again after living various experiences that life puts in our way, of course none can be compared with the other, they all come into our lives with the same objective to teach us a lesson, it is up to us to take it or commit the same acts until we understand them, they are experiences full of nuances like everything in life, sometimes there are days full of color and happiness, others instead are full of low spirits and various emotions such as sadness.
I firmly believe that humans are like butterflies, we must go through certain cycles until we reach our true essence, until we become stronger, more resilient people, but that is thanks to experiences, regardless of whether they are good or bad, because they all help. contributing a grain of sand for our personal growth, because a healthy, stable mind will automatically reflect on our exterior. I want to confess that it was one of my mistakes to falsely think that happiness, my emotional stability, was physical or external, when that is something deeper, when in reality the journey begins when we decide to meet but not physically, at On the contrary, knowing our soul, our strengths but also being aware of everything that has the power to destabilize us, another super interesting thing that I have had the pleasure of discovering is that we give ourselves that power to make us lose our balance.
For this reason, we must work on our well-being, on balancing all areas of our lives as much as possible, accepting once and for all that we are not in control and it is okay, it is okay to let ourselves be carried away by the moment, by feelings or by our intuition, because many times the path is dictated by our own heart or the intuition that lives in each one of us, a sixth sense as many also call it. Also be aware finally that happiness is something individual something very yours, something that in the end when you are leaving this world only you will know if you were or not, so do not waste looking for it in others because it is something that lives in you, something that no one can give you and much less take away because only you have the power to decide what makes you happy or unhappy.
Do not let others dictate how you should live, because you came to this world, to look for everything that lights up your soul, as long as you do not hurt anyone you can do anything, do not be governed by the stigmas imposed by society, a such a false society, that even those who dedicate themselves to criticizing and pointing out dream and long to do and be the one who is ruling their life for what they like and love so much, do not let that in the end when you have to leave this world take over you the regret, regret of not having done what you wanted so much like traveling, finding a new love, eating delicious things, or simply following your intuition and committing crazy things that in the long run only become the best stories to tell, don't let False prejudices cloud your mind. Never stop looking for your happiness, become a born fighter for what you think will be your genuine happiness, it doesn't matter if it's looking for a university degree or on the contrary looking for love, looking to create a home, don't get carried away by the false standards of success, because this is relative, what is for me may not be for you and that's fine, because we are all unique, incomparable and think differently.
That is why today more than ever I know how real the following sentence is: “If you know me based on what I was a year ago, you no longer know me. My evolution is constant. Allow me to introduce myself again.” Oscar Wilde
As I said, it is one of the most accurate phrases I have heard in my life, because it is something that has happened to all of us, nobody is the same after a year, a month, a week or even a day, because there are things that happen even like sighs that undoubtedly come to turn our lives around, changing the perspective of everything that surrounds us, including our beliefs and ideas, because nothing is forever everything is subject to change, without a doubt some changes that I appreciate today because some have shown me that I was right about situations and people that happened to me at some point in my life and others have shown me that my ideas were wrong, but not for that reason I should cry and much less die, when I could absolutely humility recognize that at some point I fail and try to remedy it, whether it was in acts that I committed that hurt me or other people, because the goal is always to be better, not worse, and that implies recognizing even when We call not staying stagnant, on the contrary, working towards improving every day, because we can change anything as long as we have the courage to do it and the desire.
Likewise, I am undoubtedly grateful for each situation, whether it is good or not so good, because they have put a grain of sand to make my life better, because we are even the sum of mistakes and setbacks, because they make us more human, I am grateful because I always do I listen to my intuition, I always follow what my heart dictates, without a doubt it has led me down good paths, full of splendid people and situations, but I will not stop being grateful even for bad situations and people because they have helped me taught, they have even left me stories to tell.
there are always new opportunities
<Fortunately there are always new days, new experiences, new people and new loves>
Lately I have understood many things that some time ago, just at the moment they happened maybe I didn't do it or failing that I did it halfway, but today I can affirm that when something leaves your life it is for some reason, such as It has already fulfilled its objectives in our life, it leaves a space that will soon be occupied by something much better and not only that, it leaves you full of learning, because although not everything is forever, many people, experiences and things in general leave us full traces, it is those little things that make us more human, less perfect, because life is full of mysteries to be lived not to try to understand it, many times we stay anchored to a past waiting for it to be the same again, when never It will happen, that is why it is essential to live each moment that it offers us intensely, many times they do not repeat themselves twice and it is in each of us how we live it.
What you can be sure of is that at the end of the exercise that is your life, only those who truly appreciate you will remain, appreciate the beautiful light and energy that you radiate, not only those who wish to contribute only positive things before being a burden. negative, because in any circumstance we must always choose our peace, tranquility and calm, because it is useless to live a life full of peace and rush, we would not even be living and appreciating one of the great virtues of life, we would be wasting it, wasting the most valuable thing that has been given to us by looking for things that in the end only fill us up for moments, have you ever thought how many would like to have more time or have had more time on this plane, because many leave even before fulfilling their biggest dreams, you have that opportunity, start working towards them to achieve them even if it is at a snail's pace, it does not matter how small they are while If you are firm and bring you a little closer to the goal, you are winning and consequently you are being successful.
Today more than ever I value those who are in my life, those who accept me under any circumstance even knowing that I have defects and virtues, that I am not perfect, that I did not always act in a good manner because we come to learn from mistakes, it is valid to commit them but what differentiates us, makes us unique is that we accept said errors, we take responsibility and recognize it before ourselves but even better before anyone who had affected said errors, because pride is very great but many times what is great is bloated is not healthy. Just as I immensely value those who are with me today and remain, I value equally or even more those who courageously at some point in my life contributed only beautiful things, which became experiences full of learning that life gave me, that Although I would have loved them to be eternal characters in my life, they fulfilled their cycle in it, therefore they were very brave to leave and leave a space that would undoubtedly be filled by someone else with the same or better intentions.
Appreciation is one of the best virtues and tools that are within our reach, I personally believe and affirm from experience that it is a powerful tool that only helps us promote and attract incredible things, because a life full of ingratitude is undoubtedly synonymous with hate instead the lives of all those who constantly thank more and complain less is full of many blessings, in the form of people, moments, experiences and things, thank even for the most, because you are lucky and have a healthy life, because there are many people who break them health problems, that make their life a little more difficult, even so they are people who do not get tired who fight because their deepest desire is to live and be able to create more experiences next to what they love, as well as we must give thanks for the people who are always on our side, our family, because there are many who are alone in the world with an undoubted desire to belong. Create a nucleus of people who value it, as well as give thanks for the experiences that arise in your day to day life, such as being able to eat delicious things, go out with your friends, travel and learn a little more about what this wonderful planet has to offer. to offer us.
Last but not least, thank yourself, for being strong and finding that strength even in moments where you thought you would faint, for trying even when many decided to turn their backs on you, because even with a broken heart you always smiled and never turned off, you are your best and most important project in this life, in the end only you will know if you did what ignited your soul and therefore filled you with happiness, because in our choices is the key to our happiness, this is a reflection for you to think about this precise moment if until now what you have done has generated happiness or unhappiness, if it is the first one, it only remains to say that you are very lucky but if instead it is the second you are also very lucky because you still have time to change that reality, changing the course, changing your way of thinking and seeing life, a virtue that I love about myself, is that I am extremely faithful to my ideas but if for some reason, reason or circumstance I see that these are not leading me and generating positive aspects I can change them, because there are very few safe things in the world and one of them is change, you can change any aspect that you do not like and therefore it is taking you for a direction you don't want.
You are powerful and you can achieve anything you set your mind to because there are always new opportunities in any area of our lives, the last train never stops passing because every day is a new opportunity to do things better.
April celebrating the life of my beautiful and dear mother
<I will always affirm the truth of the phrase that family is where life begins and ends>
Dear readers, I was very absent from the platform because power and internet cuts made it difficult for me to use both the platform and many other daily activities that I do, living in Venezuela is not easy at all, but even with all the inconveniences that affect the daily life of Venezuelans, we do not let this affect us completely and steal our peace and much less happiness, happiness that is a decision that we must make for our own well-being, knowing that there are ups and downs but even so nothing is comparable to having our loved ones alive and enjoying good health, because to live affably there is nothing like good health and today is a day to thank God and all the energies of the universe for the life of my mother, a being whom I admire because he has suffered many adversities in life but has always made the decision to seek his happiness and well-being.
Family is the most important thing in people's lives, although they are things that we are learning and affirming as time goes by, because when we are young, we are only focused on ourselves, living with the false idea that everything is eternal , that our loved ones will always be there for so little we show them affection, which is a mistake because the time comes when that reality can change, with the death of someone close, it is when we open our eyes, to value even more everyone who shows us affection regardless of whether we are pretty, ugly, if we are moody or on the contrary we are talkative, personally it was something that happened to me, when my grandmother died, the world as I knew it changed, I began to understand that life is fragile, it's like a sigh, it flies by, today we are here and maybe tomorrow we won't, but they are circumstances that we have to live through and they put us to the test to value life and that of our loved ones and just April is a special month al for me because I have the pleasure of celebrating my mother's life.
Celebrating another year of her life, counting on health, which is the most important, basic and primitive thing to live a healthy life, is a reason to thank God, because my mother is the most beautiful thing that exists in me. life because with great sacrifice she gave me her guidance and all her knowledge of the world, including values and principles that have undoubtedly been fundamental pillars throughout my life, my mother was a father and mother, a strong, warrior and hard-working woman, who helped me She gave even more than was within her reach, sacrificing long nights and days of her life for me, to educate me to be a good woman who was on the right track, so today I feel very lucky to have her by my side, of simply being able to express how much I love her and appreciate her presence in me, that without a doubt if I were to be born again I would choose her as a mother because she is an exceptional being who is undoubtedly a powerful woman who has shown me that with love, patience and discipline you can log rare great things.
Without a doubt I hope to have her in my life for many long years, that if it were within my reach to spend an eternity by her side I would do it without thinking about it with my eyes closed, because her guidance and her love made me a person very similar to her, with many values and always striving to create a better present and future, always improving. I hope that life and the universe grant her many more years celebrating them together with the rest of our family, because without a doubt she is the super woman and favorite hero of my life.
one day with my partner crime and me
“Do it even with fear, lose or win, the only way to know is to take the step, even with both you learn, one leaves you with the taste of success and the other will undoubtedly leave you full of experiences which translates into learning that They will certainly serve you well in the near future.”
First of all, you should know that it is a very exciting day for me and for my sister, who in a few words is my partner in crime, I can trust her for many things, in short, because we both joined forces to create a business, business that in part has left me without savings but without a doubt very happy because I am completely sure that it will be a great stage in my life full of many successes that I am cultivating right now to collect them in the future, it was not easy to make the decision and take the step , is something that had been haunting my head for some time, I did not dare because of many circumstances, although I must admit that mainly fear, which is undoubtedly the greatest paralyzing for human beings, since it makes our minds hover such pessimistic and fateful thoughts as the one that we are going to fail, when before reaching it we must begin, we must begin and that only the days bring, but with conviction I say that I will not fail because it's something I'm working hard to make successful.
Although my savings are now invested in my new venture, I must fully thank this Read.Cash platform, without a doubt, a large part of them came to the cryptos that are earned daily as rewards for being active on the platform, I hope very soon with effort have my savings back to the point where they were and even more, likewise I want through my story and example to encourage you not to lose faith and much less hope, although I am without a penny I do not regret having put everything in my small business because in the future I am sure that I will reap thousands of successes, think about your future in what can help you by creating businesses that generate various monetary income in one way or another, in short, that is one of my great goals to be able to be completely independent , trying to achieve everything by my own means, it is not selfishness, it is self-improvement, I want and wish to be able to say this I obtained it because I am a hard-working woman Because you don't get tired of fighting daily to change your current reality to make it the one of your dreams, believe me that although I know firsthand that the situation in my country Venezuela is not ideal, it starts for a reason, I can see that in a The future will be a valuable undertaking that will bring me great fruits, so I only tell you to go ahead and try to do it even with fear, do not remain in doubt.
Creating a business is not easy, it is not easy even to choose your partner, because society is a marriage, therefore you must choose correctly, you have to trust your instinct but above all seek and find someone who complements you, with whom you will always get along well and form a great team, where it helps you not only economically, it is very easy to give money but undoubtedly a venture is not something that is put together in five minutes, it takes time, effort, dedication but above all planning and organization, we must to be able to organize ourselves, to agree on both parties regarding decisions that must be made as a couple, such as the name of the enterprise, because today everything has to have a meaning to humanize the brand, to let the public see the brands like a robot, because if you give brands and give them values, meaning, they can have a soul, precisely that is what makes the consumer fall in love, that is why in my case and the d and my sister spent days trying to find a name, first with which we both felt comfortable, that was not the one they commonly use, that was something totally different, because that is one of our main objectives, to make an impression on our clients of a diverse brand, with meaning, soul and heart that came to revolutionize.
As I explained, the name is part of a set of characteristics that the brand can have, such as branding, which today is a very important tool when it comes to creating or redesigning ventures, because branding is what adds soul. to entrepreneurship, the one that gives it a different, magical touch, which without a doubt through all its tool options makes it unique in the eyes of people, the one that makes it magnetic and helps it grow and even position itself in the market In short, very soon I want to delve into these issues, because as many will know I am a designer and thanks to these skills I have been able to give more value to my business when creating my visual identity as well as its background, adding value, color and life.
Deciding even what type of venture to do is difficult, because it definitely has to be something that pleases both your partner and you, rather than please both parties, it has to be passionate about it, it is a crucial factor for performance, because without a doubt you will put more love and heart to something that catches your attention, something that more than a job you see as a passion, that's why my sister and I wanted to invest in the field of fashion, specifically referring to women, clothing, bags , shoes, accessories and even gifts, because if something characterizes the entire female community it is that we are extremely detailed, we wanted to add this as a plus, a new option that will help women find the perfect gift for their loved ones regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, but without a doubt it is different and authentic that makes them feel unique. In short, today our first material for sale arrived, some very special bags, for powerful women, materials that would not have been possible without the help of this platform and of course my sister, who without her help and support would not have been able to take this important step. I certainly hope that it will come up, in other blogs I will be telling you more about the creation as such of everything that has to do with my brand.
Expressing feelings is therapeutic and liberating for our soul
Many times our greatest enemy, we are ourselves, our mind by not acting, to get stuck with words and feelings, that by not expressing them consume us, even slowly without us noticing, things that only give room and encourage bad feelings, such as sadness, hatred or fill us with doubts and insecurities, at that moment our mind collapses with the word would, thinking about the different scenarios to these situations, saturating our mind points that only hurt us. Although there are many who falsely believe that expressing or feeling emotions or feelings only makes them seem weak or is for weak, they are wrong, people who daily let their feelings out are even the strongest, because even without thinking about consequences or the What will others say, they prefer to drain emotions, because they are able to observe in the panorama that it is better to express and let the feelings float, converted either into words or actions, because it frees our soul.
It is something supremely normal, only that in recent times it has become a kind of taboo subject, if we analyze since ancient times any human action is practically based due to a feeling or emotion, without a doubt before, people were not afraid to express how they felt, on the contrary it was a therapy, a completely liberating therapy that only gives way to calm, peace and serenity for our lives, the mistake is in thinking and trying to repress feelings, feelings that only make us more human because we all absolutely have feelings only that there are people who know how to manage them, or channel them like a river, perhaps hiding them and only letting them be appreciated by certain people or like others who know what to express their feelings since they are aware that it is something positive that will only generate peace, therefore do not be ashamed to express your feelings or thoughts, because it is much worse to keep them, since they consume us even Going to extremes that come to the fore through physical discomfort, which is a disastrous consequence for all our health.
It is something that I have experienced in my own life or as they popularly say "in my own flesh", the stress of not expressing or showing feelings can do us a lot of damage, as I said, it is something that I have to live with in order to change, To know, understand and understand that it is necessary to manage emotions, to know how to express them properly, regardless of the situation or the context in which I find myself, I always have to somehow find a way to let those around me know how I feel. It is something that happened to me because I particularly thought that strong people should not appear weak when in fact the strongest people are the ones who in one way or another bring their feelings to the surface in a responsible way and consent to them, before they poison them, make them damage, because yes, I reached extremes of stress so strong at home in many situations that I did not find a way to manage and redirect correctly to suffer serious health problems, the worst thing about the case in question was that it was in my adolescent moments when I was just 14 years old around, I had to be hospitalized on several occasions for many days, due to great stomach pains that turned into gastritis or even ulcers, also lung and kidney problems that in one way or another a One of the main sources and causes of these pathologies in me was not knowing how to manage my feelings responsibly.
That is why I hope you become aware, even if it is through my example, today thank God I am a healthy person, one of the main reasons for this to be so is because I took responsibility for myself, my actions, my feelings and everything how beautiful and not so beautiful that human beings have, I understand and being aware that we are full of nuances and even so we continue to be beautiful souls full of much light and love to give to others, always being patient because they are processes full of learning, where although we want them to be super fast and be able to overcome them like shooting stars we cannot, they take their time, time to heal us, heal our physical body from all the accumulated stress but even more so to heal and strengthen mental health, which is a very important factor. important for our mind to be at 100%, always try to listen to you, analyze yourself as it will be of great help to channel emotions because you can express whatever you are feeling to the world. What surrounds you, of course, is that in good manners it tries to help you overcome any fear of expressing yourself, because undoubtedly you will be removing an incredible weight from your shoulders and there is nothing better than going through the process of life lightly with all the willingness to learn and take advantage of any situation.
By the way, I was absent because I needed days for myself, to recharge my batteries and return to give my best because when you give your best it always comes back multiplied and even more blessed.
Does infatuation last forever or does it end?
<Love and infatuation, although they are similar feelings, but they are very different>
Today we are rich in multiple aspects and I am not talking about matter, I am talking about the fact that there are many theories and answers that before in other centuries had not been, nor had they been created, perhaps yes, but they were not given the merit and importance that we should or there is even more freedom to express ourselves openly referring to certain topics such as love, that in past times something totally different from what we see today was experienced, we can know that new theories and tools exist and are being developed in reference to love, such as the affective responsibility, perhaps it is something that perhaps many do not know, because as I said they are tools that have emerged today but that undoubtedly contribute more to the way in which we love others as well as ourselves, as well as contributes to our happiness since it allows us to take responsibility for our actions and emotions with respect to our love and sentimental relationships, drawing limits especially in relationships referring to what we would not tolerate from the other person in a relationship, creating a communication where everything is expressed through words in a good way without offending anyone, much less reaching violence and also taking responsibility and assimilating the consequences of our actions, assuming our actions and the questioning that these actions do not affect the other, in short, there are many tools that are within our reach today, that we could even include in our lives, in the process of relationships that we live to love responsibly, however, if you don't want to include them in your life, it is really nice that you know them, because it makes us more cultured and wise, because if they don't serve us, someone around us can, and you can in some way. help them by providing the key to the solution to their process.
As I explained, previously there were few answers and solid tools for love, we felt confused, because many are the lucky ones who, when they are of mature age, want to meet someone and it turns out to be their forever or the great love of their life, really very lucky people, in a nutshell true love since there are many who have been looking for someone who understands and understands them for a long time, thus giving everything of themselves in relationships that last up to a certain limit for that reason I want to inform you of a topic that we all should know what falling in love is, it is a word that many misunderstand, much less take the time to truly know what it means and how it affects our lives, in certain relationships. Falling in love is a stage that many confuse with love, it should be clarified that both are very similar emotions but nevertheless different, when you love someone you love because you know them deeply and it is even inevitable not to love and accept them with their positive and negative aspects. Falling in love, on the other hand, is the initial state, or in a few words, the path or highway that is taken to consolidate the feeling of love, it is the specific moment where people do not yet know each other thoroughly but nevertheless feel the need to do so, for For this, the only way to call a relationship with love is having passed and overcome a period where, apart from knowing what is beautiful, what is superficial, you have taken the time to get to know that person thoroughly, giving steps to emotions that are a little more moderate than those they feel at the beginning of relationships in the stage of falling in love.
As I said falling in love, the initial stage of any relationship, is one that is plagued by numerous sensations or unbridled feelings where our mind releases a series of substances commonly called or called the biochemistry of love, since at the precise moment that we meet someone who, due to his physique or his way of thinking and calls our attention, our body automatically begins to secrete serotonin, which is known as the hormone of happiness, and we can even reach levels such as feeling euphoria, here the most The interesting thing is that the brain gets used to these levels until they reach a new normality with respect to their feelings for that person, it is at that moment where we will realize if love exists, if said infatuation truly transformed and gave way to love, since they are somewhat normal levels but it is the crucial stage of any relationship is where they show if they are forever or if their relationship had a date d e expiration and both learned something from each other in their time, nothing is lost even in those moments because while their love or infatuation lasted they were moments of happiness, of course love is something mutual, where both create a bond that unites them, where it is understood that although they have different things, both made the decision to share their lives, mutually collaborating in the happiness of both, loving freely without ties or false expectations.
The initial stage that gives way to love is basically plagued by thinking too much about said person, it is something inevitable in the human being, because he is a person who totally captures our attention, as well as it is difficult to avoid the feeling of wanting to have physical contact with the person thus reaching intimacy, to give the other a piece of his soul, another great characteristic of this stage is that we fear rejection, it is inevitable not to do it since it is a stage where we want the object of our desires and longings feel the same as us also put the same effort that you are putting into the relationship, another very frequent in the majority is the forgetfulness love makes certain daily chores be overlooked. The saddest thing is that it is a stage that has an expiration date, of course, not all couples can be compared because not all of them go through the same process or the same, we are all different, therefore each process is unique and irreverent, and it can last for months. or maybe years, but if it lasts a short time or lasts a lifetime, enjoy it to the fullest, they are experiences that we must experience and live before the right person arrives and if instead you did not have to do much and you already have your love, value it because It is very difficult to find someone who loved you and accepts you as you are.
Tell me how you lived the stage of falling in love, did it become love? In any case, any experience is enriching.
Interviews that leave lessons part one
Dear readers, I want to write to you telling you about my experience watching a series of random interviews, meeting people who are recognized by the public a little beyond what they usually show the world, they are people that one particularly from this side of life being their admirer or his fan at some point always incorrectly thinks that they live perfect lives, that basically what they have and have achieved is by magic and it happened once when the truth is that you have to accept that they are people who have worked hard to have everything that they have today, that their achievements were not from today to tomorrow, on the contrary, it was even the sum of a series of falls, but although these happened, the desire to move forward to seek and find a better future was stronger, besides, they are human, who feel, have feelings and suffer just like you or me.
One of my favorite pastimes while I'm busy or working is to watch series or interviews with well-known or famous people, because they are examples of overcoming, they are examples that nothing is a gift in life, everything has its effort and struggle, while we don't let's give up and always insist, success will be assured, never forget today's work is tomorrow's reward. Anyway, as I said, I don't consume interviews from a single branch, I do a little of everything, that way I learn a little more about the world through other eyes, another perspective and they are even great characters because they don't limit themselves to saying just four things , even through their experience they give us advice, advice that in one way or another we must keep in mind because perhaps at some point we need to put it into practice.
ADAMARI LOPEZ
Yesterday I had the pleasure of seeing an interview that Adamari López granted to a well-known YouTube channel, in fact it was not an interview as such, it was an in-depth conversation about some aspects of her life and clearly her perspective for these situations, thus beginning an podcast series called JEFA, as its name explains, is focused on women, women who in one way or another are in the public eye and have been exemplary women in the sense that they have worked for their goals, not only they are presenters, they fulfill other roles in life, such as businesswomen and even the strongest and most beautiful role of all, that of being a mother, they are people who, through a conversation, tell how their process and their passage through life have been, as I said before we thought very badly, because we did not even take the time to know what is behind the facade that is shown to the world, what was its history, how did it get to what it is today, because it is not a process where ita the wand and that's it, they were years and days of complete sacrifice.
Adamaria Lopez is an example of this, sacrifice, perseverance and perseverance, with examples like this we can really see that the saying "he who perseveres achieves" is a reality, with hard work even making sacrifices, because he had to move very young man from his country far from his family, his roots, his customs and everything he knew, in search of new opportunities, opportunities to emerge to have a better quality of life and thus be able to offer it to his family, in short, a great example, more than she was initially working as an actress, thus achieving a great career, in well-known novels making her characters endearing, in short leading an incredible professional life, making the world see how incredible she is professionally and of course the budget is not can leave behind how beautiful and incredible person she is in her daily life, although not everything is rosy as in the plots of her novels, because she lived through very hard things, even more so when she is e is a recognized character, who is clearly exposed and having to deal with criticism, some of it in a good way but others that are really too much.
A person with great virtues, who wants to give through her history a great example of self-love, self-respect, patience, but above all empathy, because she has gone through devastating moments like everyone else, today we must to be clear that this slogan that celebrities have perfect lives is false, absolutely all of us are human, we suffer and suffer equally, Adamari is a great example of it, even an example of life, because she is a woman who had to suffer a a disease as serious as cancer, who fought with all his soul to achieve an encouraging diagnosis, a person who in his personal-love life has not gone so well but still continues to bet on beautiful stories, a person who shows that self-love can heal everything, self-love is one of the best perspectives you can acquire in your life. A person who demonstrated through his story that when you don't like something, whether it be in your life, such as situations, people or even your body, you can change it because that's why you came to this world, you came to seek happiness, you came to make yourself happy to you and in that same process collaborate with the happiness of others.
In short, I invite you to get to know her more, each week I will tell you a different life story, but which undoubtedly make us change the perspective we have of people, especially those who are recognized in the world. Because it is easy to judge but very difficult to understand, that they are people of flesh and blood who also have feelings, that like everyone else they have problems, that if they have a lighter life because they have earned it through their effort and dedication to the work they do.
Attachment and detachment, help us to be freer?
<We must learn to balance attachment together with detachment in our lives, without a doubt it will bring us positive aspects such as a healthy physical and mental life>
Undoubtedly since we are born we are dependent people, attached to our parents and family in general, since we are so small and defenseless that we cannot take care of ourselves, we are beings in constant learning, because it is impossible to be born learned or with certain skills as basic as talking and walking, are things that we learn over time thanks to our parents, their love, their undoubted sympathy and empathy when it comes to teaching us with infinite patience, they don't mind teaching us a million times as long as Let's perfect it. In short, attachment in childhood and adolescence is good and necessary, since it nourishes us in every way, makes us more secure, trusting people, makes us develop self-love, an undoubted quality that will serve as a cornerstone in our adulthood, when we have to think, balance and choose wisely about people and situations that may not be so good or, on the contrary, if they contribute positively to our lives.
Although in the first years of our life it is something necessary, because it guides us, instructs us to acquire a retinue of highly effective virtues for our life and growth, attachment to a certain part of our existence such as adulthood can be highly negative, which instead of helping us to be independent, to know, understand and comprehend that happiness and personal well-being only depend solely and exclusively on you, now the attachment becomes completely negative for our process when instead of transforming into security, independence, self-love becomes a need, a need for certain people, things and situations, which generates anxiety, fear, because we begin to depend even emotionally on these circumstances, we begin to feel that they are essential things in our lives, that even without them we would not we can live, when on the contrary we must seek freedom to feel free, well above whether we love someone n, always choose to love from freedom, not from control, not from what the other aspires to be, because we must understand and make others understand that loving freely means loving the other as he is, without wanting to change something of itself, love it with its virtues and defects.
We must understand at a certain point that attachment gives space in our life for detachment, that when the time comes, we must undertake this journey alone, even at some point in our life our parents will not be there, since they in a way made their life, they have already studied, created memories, in a few words they have already made their choice, they have already gone through stages that now correspond to you and only you, where it is valid to have them as support, as a safe space to go to, as long as you have to renew your energies, to be able to continue living and making your own decisions, as you see fit because for better or for worse, you are here to design your life as best suits you, of course you can listen to advice from your parents, family and friends, but the person who in the end must make your choices is you, detachment is not as negative as many have made it seem, practicing it or including it in your daily life does not mean that you should cut ties with anyone die, on the contrary, means that even if these people or situations have to leave your process at some point along the way in life, you will not die, sadness will not kill you, you will know that it fulfilled its mission in your life and like everything in this life that comes and goes, you have to let it go, always recognizing that although it is no longer here, your happiness did not depend on it, although it contributed to this process, other people and circumstances will come that will also bring happiness and positivity to your life.
Detachment even goes hand in hand with gratitude, because it is valid to want better things for our lives, such as wanting a better phone, but you need to start by appreciating the one you already have, gratitude will always bring better things to your life even the ones you have dreamed of for yourself, but before that, without a doubt, you must begin to be more grateful, because when you have gratitude in your life you begin to see things from a more beautiful perspective, appreciating what you have, because many, even if you don't believe it, would like being in your place, understanding that happiness does not depend on material things as marketing has made us believe, on the contrary, happiness is a decision that lives within us, that goes hand in hand with self-love, giving of receiving, of respect, sympathy and empathy that we give and receive from others, the beautiful and positive thing about detachment is that we do not stop wanting things, nor aspiring to be better, it is that it makes us know, understand and Understand that even if we want these things, our life does not revolve around them, our happiness is only a decision and a state that we choose, not anyone else, nor things, much less experiences.
To conclude, I personally think that attachment and detachment are aspects that we must balance to be happy, like everything in life, we must not exceed ourselves, but just as little less, we must seek our midpoint, in both aspects, always understanding that attachment It is very necessary to grow and be a secure person capable of loving oneself, but at a certain point it is necessary to include detachment because our happiness does not depend on people, material things and much less on experiences, on the contrary, happiness lives within us, it is a decision that you must make every day, of course that people, things and experiences help in the process to intensify it but always understanding that even if they are not there all the time, it is not the end of the world, because our decision of happiness prevails above all.
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