Life is full of first times
<In life there is always a first time but not always second chances>
The first times are undoubtedly full of magic wherever you look at it, they are situations or experiences that we undoubtedly experienced as children or even babies, our arrival in the world is unique and incomparable, they are always different stories, none of them resemble the other. Whether due to the context, time, place or space, each birth is unique and magical, therefore it is remembered even more for it because it was the first time we opened our eyes to see the world around us, perhaps in a hospital or in a room with people who helped our parents so that our arrival was in one way or another healthy without any setbacks, the first time we saw our parents, the first time we met the rest of the family. Life without a doubt is plagued by where you look at first times although some go unnoticed, people do not give it as much importance as other facts.
The first time does not only refer to sexual events on the contrary, we must be aware that throughout our lives, we have gone through events that we did for the first time, some leave a mark, others we simply do not want to remember, they do not generate as much happiness and That is why we leave them stored in the back of our memory and mind, because it is something healthy since they are facts that without a doubt just thinking about them and reliving them take away our peace, they generate a lot of troubles and feelings, such as uncertainty and sadness, which in one way or another we must leave there, because nothing compares to having a life full of love, peace, respect and empathy, although many times we have to be in places or go through not so pleasant memories but always choosing peace and calm in your heart you will be able to get out of these situations well. Always choose to feel GRATITUDE even for those unpleasant moments in life, because even deep down they happen to teach us something, somehow change the perspective with which we look at certain things, what we should never do is forget to thank God, life and the universe for rewarding experiences, these in one way or another have certain characteristics that make them completely different from the others since apart from leaving us teachings, they give us good memories and moments of happiness.
It is also absolutely gratifying to see how people who, even with disabilities that in one way or another prevent them from doing things normally, come out to fight even to take that step of doing something for the second time but at the same time it is the first time for them already that the circumstances of the situation have changed, such as people who have accidents, lose a limb. Two cases of people that I admire for this aforementioned condition are the former Colombian Queen Daniela Álvarez and the influencer Juan Pablo dos Santos, two people who are an example of resilience, struggle, perseverance, in a few words people pushed forward, who although they lost something very valuable, such as a part of their body, they did not allow themselves to be trapped by sadness, by loss, on the contrary, they decided to be spokespersons for the world, to deliver the beautiful message that although they suffered a very great loss, they decided to choose the path of happiness, of the first times, because walking again using a support that for the first time you do not know how to handle, is something hard, since they struggled a lot the first months to be able to learn to walk, never giving up and much less feeling less on the contrary, always eager and with the absolute certainty that at some point they would do much better, with practice and discipline.
Something that I believe and affirm is that you celebrate and appreciate the triumphs of the first times, although it seems to many that you are a little crazy for doing it, remember that it means much more to you than it does to them, that no one else than you has the power to know what makes you happy, what generates peace and security that you, these things are very favorable and incredible for the moments in which you feel that you can't take it anymore, where you faint because you will remember the celebration and the reason for said experience, of It will surely help you recharge your batteries to continue, so as not to faint in the process, to understand that although there are bad days there is always a ray of sunshine that illuminates it, that we must persist and never give up, you are forbidden to give up, although it is valid to give yourself space to think things through, to analyze if it is necessary to change and modify plans, because the path is not always straight, there are detours, curves, ups and downs, but it is up to you, your inner strength to achieve what you long for. s for your life, even with a single decision.
By the way, I forgot to mention the emotional field, in terms of love, the first love undoubtedly leaves a mark on our lives for life that is not erased with anything, but this is a topic that I will touch on in another blog.
Making mistakes is inevitable, don't give up
<It is wise to acknowledge mistakes but even more so to try to fix them>
By nature we always tend to make mistakes, not because we are poorly done or poorly designed, that is the way we learn best, making mistakes, failing will even bring us closer to becoming experts in that area, many are afraid of failing and it is natural, but that does not paralyze you, with the passage of time you must understand looking at things from the perspective of childhood, you remember the first time you did something new, like speaking for the first time, although you stammered words they were not perfect, this became moderately listenable thanks because your parents were there for you, correcting you with love and patience so that you could speak perfectly, or when you were riding a bicycle without the rear wheels that served to balance you, a bump or a crash could inevitably come, but the fall was the best way to train to be able to ride the bike perfectly, adults were not affected by the fact that the blow with due care disappeared in a few days ace, but the experience that I leave you no, it would serve you for life, one of the things from our childhood that we must keep forever is the resilience in those moments in which we inexorably know that we were wrong but that will bring us closer in return. one way or another to the wisdom of understanding and knowing things.
As we grow up, it is inevitable not to relate the error to negative emotions that we certainly do not want to do, much less feel, it is something that, as I explained before, is not an idea that is born with us, because when we are children we are willing to do anything in order to learn. and do things well, we find an example case when we want to walk, no matter how many times we fall, at no time do we feel bad, on the contrary, we always try until we reach a degree of expertise, as the years go by it is when they teach us and put us in the back of our minds that making mistakes is wrong, that being the one who makes mistakes is wrong, but making mistakes gives us in some other way the wisdom to know how to do it right, it is undoubtedly something that will remain engraved in our memory for the rest of our lives and will help us in other circumstances of it. Despite the above, many of the great discoveries of all of existence have been made under the formula of making mistakes, to learn and be able to find true answers that satisfy our curiosity and allow us to do things better.
In childhood we think that making mistakes is the most natural thing in the world, we are innocent beings who still do not know and understand what shame is or that entourage of emotions that make us feel bad for making mistakes, we know these as we get older , in our adolescent stage when we forget to do our homework and at school we are scolded for not doing it, from that moment we know that we do not want to feel those emotions, because they are no longer our parents correcting us with love, now it is our turn strange people who do it even in bad ways, creating and generating insecurity, sadness, we constantly repeat phrases like "I could do better" "I will not be able" burying our capacity for resilience, to know, understand and understand that it is not a problem as such that we can always improve, that in the next installment we will try to overcome it, it is also something that we should be taught at home, namely that a failure is not the end of the world against Rio is the opportunity to improve our skills for that situation.
Never fear, do not get carried away by unhealthy comments from anyone, I have particularly experienced this a lot from my teachers even since I was in elementary school, the goal of school is to learn, because we are like paintings, the teachers in each student have a new canvas where they will paint it with all the learning they impart, in very few cases the children are prodigies, that thanks to the divinity they have been granted a high coefficient, really pure magic, they are children so intelligent that even in opportunities they know more than the teachers, but in the end we are going to learn at school and even more in elementary school, when we were and are so innocent, for me a time when the internet was not the boom that it is today , therefore my research or homework I always looked for them through books, I remember it was in fourth grade when a teacher was very harsh, for children of that age, who still did not understand almost anything, it was when I got a phobia of making g mistakes I prayed, even a little to school, I was afraid to go and that the teacher would be so harsh again, it was a hard process that I overcame thanks to my parents, their love, their sympathy, their patience and their empathy .
Of course it was not the only experience of this nature that happened to me, then in my adolescence I ran into another teacher who this time taught classes but on a subject that was a bit strong, more than theoretical it was practical, but without theory you cannot get to practice, of course, like Chemistry, she was a teacher who explained little and wanted us to solve all the exercises, we couldn't ask her anything because she was upset, I decided to turn the negative situation into a positive one, because wanting is power, I had already failed a lot in this area, but that would take a turn, I started to motivate myself, to study more because I wanted to show him that even if he didn't impart much of his knowledge we could improve even on our own, I remember that I was the first student in my class to get the highest grade , my colleagues did not have the same luck back then because I took the vast majority of them to repair, all this only left me the great teaching that although he did not believe in me, he gave him I showed that great things could be achieved and not only did I show it to others, I showed it to myself, that you learn from mistakes and that it is not as bad as it seems, it is the natural way of learning, although on many occasions it frustrates us .
It was a week full of learning
<The respect you give to others is a clear reflection of your own>
A very busy week with many events, but I want to make special reference to a case that we saw worldwide, which loudly from all perspectives calls on humanity to put aside the signaling because we do not know how it will affect and will influence the self-esteem even in the mental health of said person, even if they are comments that are not intended to hurt, they do so automatically because they touch very sensitive fibers, such as the physical, some condition or disability that makes the person different, because it costs a world manage to accept us as we are and in a second that can be broken thanks to the actions or words of people, even perhaps the words more because they have the power to stay in your mind, it is something you do not control or do not know how to do , but nevertheless they wander negatively in our mind creating irreversible damage.
It is a fact that totally leads to reflection, I had not written or talked about it, because at the moment the facts are not scaled well, it is something so fresh that we stick to the stories or comments that we find out there, but the truth is that we must be able to see well beyond our noses, have a critical mind to be able to see the events and then whether to take sides for any of those affected, although personally I firmly believe that we should not get involved in people's lives, that includes the famous, because even behind those perfect people there is a life with ups and downs, we don't know if they laugh or cry like the song of the famous salsa singer, they are events that happen to learn from them, to set an example for all of us that we should change about leaving comments even if they had no intention to hurt, put violence aside, violence leads nowhere but hate and resentment.
There were five minutes where there were a lot of mixed feelings, such as laughter, anger, rage, tears and regret, a clear example of people who initially want to attract attention even at the expense of others, because none of them cared for the others more than for themselves. themselves, a clear example of the world, of what many are today, because it is good to think of ourselves first, to seek our happiness and our success, but it is better to do it without harming anyone, without taking others away, or hurt them in the process, because once again I reiterate and affirm even from personal experience that words hurt more than blows, because they stay in your mind and in one way or another transform, carrying in their wake a lifetime of security and a good self-esteem that has been built, they change everything good for feelings that are not good, such as hatred, insecurity, sadness and resentment.
A clear sign that people need to keep unhealthy comments to themselves that they even believe will not harm anyone, even more so if they point out something in their physique or some disability that makes them different, because today you point out but you don't know what could happen to your life. tomorrow, because that is karma, my grandmother always gave me advice that I will never forget to this day and that is that in my walk through life I saw what I saw, I should not point fingers or judge anyone, because our future It is the most uncertain there is, in the end we have nothing bought, nor will we know how the end will be. The most unfortunate thing is that we see that today the world is very superficial, people only care about the physical, not the beauty that lives inside people, they do not know what hurts and leave traces words that do not even have the intention to hurt , particularly it has happened to me, because I am a skinny person, we see in the world as people of normal build, they criticize many, but when they see someone fatter or skinnier, they do not take long to make comments like how more or just this person does not eat and therefore suffers from some disease or eating disorder, when this is not the case there are conditions of the human body, which even if you eat a lot prevent you from having a normal complexion, but that is not a reason for ridicule and it does not make us bad people me and us.
With this I am only on the side of doing or that our actions are always directed from love, thinking about how it can affect people, because many times we only know the outside but not the inside, nor what has been their struggle to be seen. so strong, much less will we know if it affected a little or caused their self-esteem to collapse creating many questions and doubts, that even if these things happen it is better to let others know that they are acting badly through good words than not to reach violence, violence only speaks of the person who is initiating it, let us be promoters of peace, union, love but above all empathy, putting ourselves in the place of the other person, all the effort he made to show himself as he is to the world, he really deserves applause, it is admirable because not everyone does it, it is admirable even to recognize that we have failed and we saw that clearly in all parts of this case, I just hope that we take this as an example example, although foreign n but that undoubtedly helps Change your perspective and open your mind.
April is a month to value life and take advantage of time
<The right time is always now, live>
Many believe that time is eternal, when in reality time is money, time is of the essence, but nevertheless each moment lived in this world under the rigorous finger of time, days, minutes and seconds are unique and incomparable, all the moments are unique and different, none has any comparison with another, each day for some reason or circumstance is special, they are unique for reasons that are even incomprehensible, or maybe yes, as we know deep down that they are unique moments that will not happen again happen as it is, that is why time is pressing, it is something that has no price or value, because it is something that we cannot recover, so allow yourself, feel, experience your feelings as you feel them, do not be afraid of feeling vulnerable, just the brave are not afraid to give love to the world.
Never feel guilty, do not let thoughts and feelings like "I felt like I wasted my time" overwhelm you, follow you and stay with you, because it is not like that, the mere fact of having moved a finger or devised an action plan become brave, regardless of the reasons or circumstances, you are a winner because you decided to take action to change something that you do not particularly like, not many are capable of making the decision and taking action, they generally stay in the decision making, so that's it open cattle even if they are just experiences, life is giving you a mirror, which may serve you in another process of your life later, it is better to do the impossible and what we can today than to leave it for later, that always represents courage for acting today and not tomorrow, the right moment is always today, the present.
The past only serves to instill fear in us, living anchored to what would have only made us truly waste time, this in turn is the most valuable thing we have, making the most of it is only our decision, each one decides which way to go, hopefully we always choose paths that lead us to transformation in a positive way, that we be like the butterfly, that although at first it was a rare and different animal, time transformed it into a beautiful creation, that although we go through thousands of slightly negative circumstances always Let's turn them to our advantage, to build a better version of ourselves, more and more I knew what would be defined as a beautiful soul. I hope you realize that time, life and health are incomparable things that have no cost and whoever has these three is synonymous with having a moderately happy life and can work to find changes to improve his life, "The tomorrow does not exist, the future is today and the present was yesterday” never forget this.
Manage time productively, this does not mean at any time that you do not include fun and entertainment, on the contrary, look for or better yet create and design good moments with your loved ones, do not let time take them away from you, create unparalleled moments with them, that when they have to leave in one way or another you feel pleased for having shared and created rewarding moments that will remain in your memory and heart when you remember them, because life gives us invaluable tools to make our days with our loved ones unique, different and fun, how to express our feelings towards them, nothing like taking advantage of the moments when they are alive to give them a hug, to help them in their process both in happy moments and in those that need to be motivated when something is not going well or advise them to solve the various problems, but above all let them know and understand that they are never alone and that they can always trust us and find unconditional support.
I express and write this so that we put aside hatred, fear, grudges, sorrows that do not allow us to go towards new horizons, such as love, new opportunities, forgiveness and empathy, in many ways, both in the personal, emotional, family, productive - work, friendships because many times we always think that we are eternal when in reality we do not have the slightest idea what tomorrow or even today in a few hours holds for us, repentance is one of the worst feelings that one can experience and it occurs mostly when we do not take advantage of the time and opportunity, many times in the work area when we want to do something, but without a doubt the impostor syndrome invades us, persuading us and telling us that we are not enough and that we will not achieve it, many times the most important battles that we must wage is with ourselves in the internal sphere, risking ourselves and giving everything to change what no longer works and has believe that if it works for our life, personally it happened to me in years prior to this when I wanted with all my might to undertake, because the situation in my country is not so good, I needed to do something that I liked and that would generate money for me to become independent until This year I finally opened my eyes and I am going to start my business, today I can say that I won a great battle. I have also witnessed in case of wasting time, or not dedicating time to our loved ones and unfortunately God, life and the universe take them from the earthly plane, thus leaving pending a lot of things that we could have done, with that I learned that he would not exist that if I want to see something, the best time to act is today, a few months ago a cousin finally decided to give his father a chance without thinking that the months they were sharing would be the father's last, months that they managed to change my cousin's perception of his father, months in which he realized that judging a book by its cover is not the best decision, that we must always learn to give people a chance to tell their part of the story, I can also say that it has happened to me with people very close to me, but today I give myself the opportunity to learn from them and to give myself the opportunity to learn more about others, we must allow ourselves to receive and give love.
March leaves us great teachings
(feedback from my march)
It is impossible that some month of the year does not surprise us and gives us new learning, also by nature March is a month full of important festivities for humanity and others that come from one moment to another, a surprise of life for us. learning from these circumstances, it was a month that has always had the task of teaching us to understand that women are powerful, that we are not the weaker sex, because despite not having some masculine qualities, we can and are capable of facing any thing, because if something that characterizes and identifies us women is that we are resolute, that we do not give up, as we say here in Venezuela they push us forward, adversity does not scare us, we do not hide from it, we are strong and we always give the face looking in one way or another for the creative solution to those problems.
March is the month of women, we are all celebrated regardless of whether we are big, small, tall or short, the important thing is that we are women, that we support each other in any circumstance and fight if necessary to help those who need it. that. need, there is no strength and power greater than that of a woman who knows what she wants and who seeks in a thousand ways to get there, I also particularly believe that both women and men should be celebrated all year round, because we are all warriors , March also taught us that there are heroes who do not necessarily wear a cape to save lives, doctors undoubtedly chose a very humble career where they must give everything to save lives, they took an oath that no matter the time or circumstance, your duty as doctors They will always be there to help others, even more so if you are in an emergency where your life is at risk, those are the true heroes of the world, we even saw how it shows that they did their worth fighting the pandemic, regardless of whether they were infected or its consequences, they were always there to help save lives.
It was also a month to celebrate the lives of our loved ones who arrived for another year of happy and pleasant existence in March, nothing like celebrating that we are still alive and even more so if it is the existence of those people who day by day contribute a grain of sand in our happiness, they are a fundamental part of our process, even more important because they are family and have always been and will be for us regardless of any adversity, their existence will always be a reason to thank the higher forces because it is a way that life shows that we are blessed to have people who support us and care about us when there are many lonely people, who feel that they do not belong somewhere and therefore are wanderers of the world, for that my eternal gratitude because there are people who give me unconditional love and in this month celebrate and celebrate the life of my goddaughter and my cousin, I hope that everything beautiful always comes to their lives and of course to the life of everything It's the ones who take the time to read my articles.
Another great event that is very relevant to expose is the day of the man that is celebrated in some countries, on March 19, we must be fair as well as the role of women is a pleasant celebration, we must also celebrate that there are still chivalrous men, delivered to their family, who undoubtedly deserve to be celebrated, because regardless of our sex or gender we are all worthy of celebration, love, loyalty and empathy. Just as it is also necessary to celebrate people who have capacities and qualities superior to ours, who more than a disability are a blessing and are light for the lives of their relatives, people with syndromes such as Down or others who are celebrated in March, they are the purest people who always teach us that we should treat them with the same love and respect with which they treat us, because there are many people who judge and point to these, even knowing that they did not choose to be like that, They are like this by the grace of God, something that we must respect and even more give them the love and affection that those children or adults always try to give us, because they are pure souls who know no hatred.
March is a month that calls us to awareness, in many ways, as first I want to talk to you about the planet and its care, we should understand that it is not a simple planet, it is our home, because we inhabit it and our loved ones inhabit it as well as we take care of our house we must take care of it too, because every day the planet deteriorates due to our mismanagement, perhaps it does not affect us today as such, but think and analyze that even if it did affect and the consequences will be seen by your future generations, For this reason, work for it, do not throw garbage in the street, try to reduce the use of plastic, because they are things that take millions of years to dissolve and therefore help the planet to become weaker, try little by little to change and include in your life good practices that help stop the deterioration of the planet do not pollute, do not throw garbage or into rivers, do not waste water because we must educate ourselves that water is life, imagine that or exists, the rivers dry up and therefore there would be no water on the planet, that is why March also calls us through the day of water to learn new habits that help our planet and eliminate the habits that are leading them to silent death .
Personally, I believe that it was a month that, through events that were known throughout the world, calls us to respect the awareness of not making fun of others, neither because of their physique nor because of any condition that they suffer from and unfortunately it is present in the exterior or in the physique of said person, regardless of whether it is for humor or not, it should be a golden rule, we recently saw it in celebrities, that although we all think that they have life resolved and do not have problems, not everything is shown on a screen, there is very little percentage of those who truly show their real life through the media, it was a situation that showed us that aggressiveness can be reached even because it is understandable that you would not like them to mess with you or your relatives because they suffer from some condition or because their physique is different, respect is something that many do not understand, they are not able to put themselves in the place of the other or how they would feel, but in the end We must also cultivate control so as not to become aggressive because they are reprehensible things that cannot be erased. Pointing fingers, judging or reaching extremes of violence are the things that are wrong in the world and they are the ones that we should repudiate and push these people to open their minds, so that they unlearn these defects and turn them into virtues. Without a doubt, Jada Pinket deserves to be respected even with defects or disabilities, she is still a beautiful and talented woman who is worth more than her physique, let's open our minds with respect to it and think that even mental consequences such as insecurity, anxiety or depression you would bring them with a simple comment to someone by their exterior.
A form of self-love is to take care of ourselves, value ourselves and protect ourselves
Yesterday I was a little absent because I decided or made the decision to give myself one day a week, to take care of myself, because many times we say that we love and value each other but we do nothing for ourselves, because just like the relationships that by nature Let's establish with others the most important and relevant should be love for you, self-love, take care of ourselves, take the time to reflect to analyze ourselves, to try to improve, pamper ourselves, because a form of self-love is personal self-care, as make yourself pretty, dress up for yourself, not to please others, because that will only generate emotional dependence on others and that is precisely what we must free ourselves from, it is those things that do not allow us to be, that our essence flows and becomes unique because dependencies only make us live according to the parameters and expectations of others, it only distances us from self-esteem and this means that we fall into a gap of security, shame, where we even feel that we are worthless, that we deserve little.
That is why we must learn to have a balance between what we are, what we would like to be, our virtues and limitations, that we understand that even if you do not have the physique of a magazine, you are beautiful just the way you are, because we come to create and design our lives as Let's hope that's why always try to look for changes if you don't feel good, if you think you'll look good but above all you'll feel better by changing the tone of your hair, do it, because you're acting for your happiness even if the rest of the world doesn't understand it, that If you think that with shorter hair or with a new haircut you will look better, do it because you came to this plane to try to be happy and if you are not hurting or harming anyone, you cannot feel bad, if you decide that you want see a psychologist because you feel that you want to seek to understand things that you simply cannot find the answers yourself, go because both physical and mental health should always be our priority, because health is synonymous with life, full and happy, do not get carried away by the remarks of people who still do not understand that mental health is truly important and therefore demonize psychologists and all the people who work to help us improve, do what makes you happy, do what you think is convenient and best for you.
It is something that I know from personal experience that it is not easy to digest and understand, it takes time, but when we understand that it is the best path we can choose, because self-love even helps us to heal what others have broken, through their actions and unhealthy words expressed in order to bring us down and turn off our light, because many want to see us good but not better than them, it bothers them that others shine, when the main objective for everyone should be to focus on us, on our process, on our happiness and therefore the general well-being, many things that we do even very simple that generate satisfaction or well-being, both physical, mental or emotional, are those things that even being so small generate happiness that we must do constantly, because instead of deprive ourselves of those things we should do them because we ourselves are responsible for our happiness or unhappiness, it is only up to you to choose the path or redirection make it for the better.
We must be clear and aware that we must take care of our interior, cultivate what is beautiful from within so that the best flourishes outside or in our exterior, therefore, learn to give priority to our emotions, let them be as they are, not deprive ourselves of them and their express them because that is what makes us more human, accepting that we are not perfect, that there are situations that we cannot control and we must let them be as they are, knowing and understanding that asking for help is not wrong, that what is wrong is being silent because little by little what we keep silent is slowly and silently killing us, give yourself space and time to understand any reason or circumstance that is stealing your peace after this aspect if we should worry about our exterior, because surely it will have helped a lot to be calm with our interior, we must do sports that will make us get out and cultivate discipline, sleep long enough, go to the doctor if we do not feel well, as well as ta Also fix our hair, be aware of our face, buy nice things that give us satisfaction, read books, watch a movie, get away from the toxic, whether it is people or situations, because we must always give rise to what generates peace, love and tranquillity.
For this reason, yesterday, as I was telling you, I decided to give myself a day, both for my personal care and for my external personal care, such as painting my nails, it is something that gives me satisfaction, as well as getting ready even if it is not a special occasion, I did it for me, to please myself alone, regardless of the opinions of others, because we must always follow what our hearts tell us, we must always follow our intuition, another thing that gives me particular satisfaction is making masks that help my skin, to make it look more radiant even knowing that I am not perfect, that I have both virtues and defects, I decided to accept and love myself as God, life and the universe made me, always trying to change and improve what I can and accept what I can't, assuming that even if it is so, it is not a reason to throw myself to die, much less enjoy what I already have in my life, because it is impossible not to be grateful for everything I have in my life because in one way or another they make me happy. Today I want you to do yourself and me a favor, commit yourself to be better, to enjoy what you have, to let go of what was not and much less will not be, live in the present and do not live from what would have been, that will only make you feel helpless and unhappy, make a pact with yourself to always look for moments, experiences, people and things that contribute to your happiness and self-love is one of those ways.
(By the way, see how my nails turned out and I did them)
<Work on yourself, on loving and accepting yourself even knowing that you have flaws and virtues but that is what makes you imperfectly perfect>
Resilience is a strength that life gives us
<From adversity, sadness and suffering emerge the strongest souls>
Undoubtedly as we grow we are exposed to both good, productive and flattering events, there are also those that make us go through bad times, situations that ultimately make us stronger beings, situations that are not rosy, but as happen we are cultivating resilience, it is something that we all possess but not all of us cultivate in the same way, some more than others, it is a strength that life gives us, one of the many tools that we have at our fingertips to face any kind of crisis that comes our way in this process called LIFE and, in turn, emerge stronger from these situations, since it is a value that injects us with strength, will, desire to always get ahead, creativity to solve any altercation that comes our way, it is a quality that to include it in our life we must develop it but above all choose to do it, the most resilient people are those who, with their example Even if they failed or had unfortunate situations in their lives, they decided to acquire it, because it undoubtedly makes us stronger in the face of any adversity, but it also gives us the certainty that problems will not be eternal, they always have a solution and it also transforms us, transforms our soul and makes us better. people.
Resilience is like a habit, that we must strengthen day by day to be able to acquire it in our lives, it is in us, in the values and qualities that we want to have in our lives, many times we make the decision to do so because we have gone through countless and numerous experiences not so pleasant that life has made us or even when we see people close to us, our environment being so, it happens even more when we are younger or younger because our mirror will always be our parents and relatives, in one way or another we mold ourselves To this, we want to be like them or also because we are understanding that even though they go through thousands of adverse circumstances, they never give up and always keep going, which is one of the main characteristics that characterize resilient people, others of these qualities what differentiates these people from the rest is that they are creative, always eager to solve any problem, they never get discouraged to anything or anyone, they always try to fix everything and if they cannot, they try to get the most useful learning to put it into practice in the next opportunity, they are highly aware people, of everything and nothing, that is to say of its positive and negative aspects, they know that people are an accumulation of nuances, they are not afraid to show themselves to anyone as they are, with their imperfections or perfections because they learned to love and love themselves as they are.
It is impossible not to have or run into a resilient person in the world and in our lives and not learn from them, from their drive and desire to succeed, regardless of whether they are facing complete adversity at that moment, because one of their mottos is that we are and we are made of failures, since we would not do something well without having failed, there are very few times that something works out for us at the first good time, they are people who only inspire because they always trust in themselves and their abilities, first of all, To succeed in any aspect of our life, we must first do this, because even if no one else believes in us, we only need that we ourselves never give up and always, regardless of accusations, accusations or discrimination from others, believe in us, let us not lose faith, nor the north, because we undoubtedly know where we come from but we also know where we are going and that makes us unstoppable, this quality makes us understand that we have to detach ourselves a little from everything, for that in life the only sure thing is change, in each and every one of the things that inhabit it, the transformation even of people, we are like butterflies, we make any change that we believe convenient and positive for our lives, without fear because we only seek that they favor us.
In my personal experience, I can only tell you not to get discouraged if you are having a bad time at this moment in your life, think of the best person who will turn you after the sky clears up for you after there was so much storm, for that I I invite you to transform and cultivate resilience, apart from everything, it always helps us to face our fears, concerns, in short, problems even with a sense of humor, it teaches us that we should not lose our way, because we will always be creative and we will be able to overcome any obstacle that life gets in the way, that if you are going through some negative roll in your life that your main objective is to overcome it and get the best out of it and learn from the situation, become an expert in always turning the roulette wheel in your favor, never think that you are alone, because many times we blind ourselves and open our eyes late because there will always be someone to help you get out of unfortunate situations, there will always be an open door because just like one closes another opens, just don't let it be too late to see that the open one has always been there, because we are focused on looking at the one that is closed that we don't look at the ones that are open, don't close yourself off to anything, remember that you are powerful and you can handle anything that comes into your life because you are brave.
Do you know someone resilient? Or is it you?
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Women who inspire me daily in my adult life
<I always admire people but especially women who choose to always shine despite all the storms they have been through>
It is impossible for us not to have in our lives one or several characters who have inspired us, inspire us and continue to inspire us, either for x or reason, such as identifying ourselves with their life circumstances and what they achieve despite this, their passion is very similar to ours or their philosophy of life has taught us and left great learning, they are characters who show us daily that dreams come true and become a reality if you constantly work for them, that the secret is always to insist, persist and be grateful to each and every one of the things that surround us, that if you feel dissatisfied with something or someone in your life, you have the tools to put it aside and change it in your favor because you are powerful and you can easily do that where there was or is darkness between a light. Many times these people to whom we admire and are linked in one way or another say more about us to the world than anyone can imagine, because even if we do not know them as such and completely, they are characters that guide us, because many times in them are the keys to many of our personal unknowns, it is as if we had had the answer in front of us for a long time and we simply ignored it, like spending a lot of time questioning ourselves about what we want to do with our life and what our passion is, when the answer is right up front because in one way or another we feel attracted by what we are passionate about and that ignites our soul.
Ironically they are our source of inspiration because they have something, some characteristic that we undoubtedly want to have in our life or add to it, but many times we don't know how, we admire them, we want to be like them but we don't act to make our own improved version with what they inspire us and one of the main factors is fear, it influences too much since it injects us with insecurities such as that we are not going to achieve, that we will never do and even we will not even have skills as good as those of these people, it is fine we will never be the same because we do not seek to copy and do the same thing, they are our source of inspiration to do things our way, to give them a twist with our label, because it is impossible for someone to copy someone else and do exactly the same thing and the end result is the same , because it will never be like that, the main idea can never be copied exactly, you can be inspired and do things your way, because they will never be the same or, that is why we must educate ourselves and say no to plagiarism, because there is nothing more beautiful than everything you do, do it with originality and the seal is your essence, you must promise yourself fidelity to your essence and to what you do because it is the best way to show the world your abilities and potential, because even if you try to cover the sun with a finger you cannot give your life to something that you are not passionate about, it does not motivate you to get ahead, something in which you do not see yourself in the future because it is clear that you will sink and your false dreams will sink, seek and propitiate what truly lights up your soul.
Never let envy blind you, allow yourself to admire healthily and wish those people that they always succeed because if they are where they are it is because they have lived through a process full of nuances, sometimes beautiful things and others not so much, do not let yourself be invaded by it hatred and that entourage of harmful feelings, be grateful because in one way or another these people come into your life to give you an example through their experiences or so that you simply understand and realize that you can only reach the top by swallowing hard, that falling asleep and thinking that everything will come to your bed by magic is the worst lie you can tell yourself, that it is better that once and for all you get out of that bed to fight for yourself, for a better future, for your dreams and desires because it is the best way to improve ourselves and it does not matter how old you are, because you have something that is invaluable and that is life, it is the most beautiful gift that has been given to you and you decide whether to take advantage of it or malga star it because there are no more years coming each time there are fewer years but it is up to us to create the life of our dreams regardless of whether we die trying or let ourselves be carried away by a life full of dissatisfaction and these people have been a source of inspiration for me because of One way or another they have taught me that by working we go far, that for our skills to become the best we must practice them, that it is better to jump into the water than to die without having swum at least once, that if it is necessary to rethink many beliefs that we limit daily we must do it because that is the objective of life, to come to learn and unlearn, for this reason I leave here some of the super women whom I admire in my adult life who have taught me that wanting is power;
-Frida Kahlo is the somewhat older woman that I admire and that is that even in her time she did not care about social standards, on the contrary I always seek to break the mold in search of promoting her ability in art and her happiness, regardless According to the indications of the time, she was a woman of arms, and despite having suffered a lot, she always fought for the equality of women and to deliver and leave a beautiful legacy to women through her paintings.
-Martha Higareda, I must confess that she is a woman who made me see that we judge by appearance, that we do not take the time to see what is behind the cover and the façade that we see of people on a daily basis, she teaches me daily that I see your videos, publications and movies that if I can and I want to, I do it, that dreams are not impossible if we believe in ourselves and always bet on our potential.
-Ángela Blones, a super woman who doesn't care what they say and who stands out even more every day in the world of design and marketing for her brilliant ideas and contributions to the world, who has taught me that we must always promote our skills and dreams because For a person who knows what he wants and wants from life, nothing is impossible and the sky is the limit.
-Ailisn Derbez, another brilliant actress who made me see the world from another perspective with her slogan that we come to this world to learn but also to unlearn customs rooted in us that only bind us and chain us to unhappiness, that love must be free , that we can not pretend to tie anyone on the contrary to love without ties.
-Ana Salazar is another designer who is a source of inspiration because she is unstoppable, she inspires me to be a hard-working and ambitious woman who should not settle for the first thing she has that aims higher and higher, because we must set an example that women are powerful and we can with everything.
For them only my thanks for existing and for not depriving the world of that beautiful message that they give daily and that leave a legacy in all those who have received the message that will undoubtedly remain and that in one way or another we will try to postpone. . Do not stop depriving yourself and being inspired by others, it is a privilege that these people exist and that above all on a daily basis they fill our lives with beautiful and positive things to continue and not throw in the towel.
And does someone inspire you?
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The power dwells within you
<You are powerful because you have the guts and the ability to change anything, person, circumstance from negative to positive>
There are words, people, moments, experiences, circumstances that at first have the ability to destabilize us, but this is something that happens only if you give permission for that to happen, because you have the ability to control any area of your life at will. , but for this to happen you must work on yourself, on your interior, on strengthening our emotions, on getting to know each other, on setting limits regarding the things that we would not accept from certain situations and people, maybe you do not know what you want and desire but It is very relevant that you know that you do not want in the different planes such as love, family and friendship because we are multifaceted people, we are extremely powerful, although at certain times you do not realize it, but the power lives within you, you just have to cultivate it, water it daily so that it flourishes, power is very similar to creativity, personally I am a faithful believer that they go hand in hand, because without creativity power would not make sense, so n a formula that has no comparison.
We are powerful because we are capable of providing love, joy, empathy, respect, trust, loyalty, fellowship, generosity to others, we are powerful because we are capable of building and fulfilling our dreams, we are all powerful even if we do not know it, because even if we are not aware in one way or another we illuminate wherever we go, we always leave beautiful footprints. What makes us particularly powerful is that each of us are beings that are different, unique and irreverent, that we come with the mission of being happy and in that process making those around us happy, so do not be afraid to express everything you feel , because it is the best way to drain, to feel light, without burdens, do not fear love, it is the best feeling in the world in any of its presentations, whether family, never stop saying I love you to your parents or grandparents, we will never know when it will be the last, the sentimental love of a couple, allow yourself to love as many times as you think necessary, do not rule your life to what society says, if it is necessary to love 20 times do it, if it is necessary to leave someone because it constantly makes you more harm than good do it, because it is only robbing you of energy, it is taking away valuable time, because they are relationships that are always in conflict and not in harmony.
You are powerful, because you are capable and life has given you tools to design the life of your dreams, do not be afraid to erase and put aside the bad vibes, the harmful feelings, the people and experiences that take away from you and steal your peace. mentally, value your tranquility, calm and serenity above anything else, the right people will add more than subtract, always keep it in mind, listen to yourself, listen to your emotions, love the inner child that still lives in you, do not lose it for anything in the world, lose it it would mean losing a large part of your essence and joy, never allow yourself to reach the point of being a person who only throws hate, points, discriminates and lives his life bitter, because you have the ability to change, with desire everything is possible, eliminate fears that at this point in your life are unnecessary, do not allow you to move forward and fill you with peace, such as the fear of getting old, remember that we are here to live to the fullest and in that process be happy and if you know how to live your life 1000% , a life will be enough, the first step to a better life is to know and understand for ourselves that you need changes, that nobody tells you that only you realize it and undertake a beautiful process, of divine improvement to be better, but not better than the one next door to be your best version, better than yesterday and better than today for the future.
Personally, I want you to be a person who always seeks happiness, who would never get tired of it, and who also seeks to have a harmonious life, with peace, serenity and calm where, above all and anything else, love and conciliation reign, a person who knows set limits and make them respect for their health, because we always deserve the best, a person who is like a butterfly that always pursues their dreams and when the time is right, it transforms to always be better, that you know that the power is in you as long as you believe in him, even in adversity, that you be someone who is not daunted by anything or anyone, that allows you to free yourself from fear that is a chain that we always drag and that only we have the key to free ourselves from its ties and live a full life, but above all that you do not live for what they will say or for the approval of others, if someone you have to please in this world, that person is you, live for yourself, live to seek your dreams and your happiness and Then you can collaborate in the happiness of others.
Create your own castle even with the bricks that others threw at you just to see you fall, never give them that satisfaction, always look for a way to get ahead!
A week full of learning
<Learning is a constant process or it is nothing>
You know that it was a fruitful week when you join the constant process of learning something new every day, it is something that I personally think and believe that we should do to enrich ourselves daily, enrich our life of knowledge and learning that leave the experiences to which we are exposed daily. , no day can be compared to another, everyone has something that makes a difference, sometimes positive and sometimes negative, but that is the beauty of life, that it is a constant ups and downs, that although not everything is pink all the time, we know and we understand that what is bad is not eternal, that just as the day has its end, so do problems, of course it is up to us to take advantage or not of each situation that life puts us, it is up to us to find what is in one way or another, life wants us to learn in a few words to turn the situation around until it is in our favor, everything that happens in our lives happens because one way or another or form we had to live that situation, although we avoid many things there are those that cannot be because they find a way to reach us.v
In the end, I particularly love learning something new every day, it is a way of enriching my culture, although it is clear that it is almost impossible to learn all the knowledge in the world, because every day there are new discoveries, as a very important sage said "I only know that I know nothing". But this week, it has been to acquire both new knowledge and new convictions, in addition to realizing that in the XXI century there are still people who discriminate against others for anything, but especially because of their condition, I had not referred to this before but I thought it was very important to do it and encompass various issues that I think go hand in hand, starting the week on Monday 03/21, World Down Syndrome Day was celebrated, along with the International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination, although they are a little different anniversaries I think they go hand in hand because it is impossible to believe that there are still people discriminating and putting others down just because they have a different condition or because their skin color is not ideal for x and y person, when everyone in this society we deserve the same respect, because we are all worth the same, absolutely all of us should enjoy the same benefits and privileges.
It is in these times that we should be more aware, where we should raise our voices, to support these people, because they are not different from us, they are not aliens, because absolutely all of us are still human, although unfortunately some lack a little more reasoning to understand this, instead of pointing out, discriminating and excluding, we should INCLUDE, because they are people who even come to teach us to give us a lesson, because they are people who, regardless of their condition, somehow seek the form and manner of "creating and living a normal life” trying to include themselves in activities that we do on a daily basis such as studying and working, but unfortunately many still do not have the mental capacity to add them instead of subtracting them because they are discriminated against just for being different, they are people who are a complete source of inspiration because despite all the hate that many are in charge of throwing at them, they only return love, they are unique people that I saw They teach us that living with hatred, envy, resentment and evil in our hearts only contaminates us and leads us down the wrong path.
I felt that I had to write this article, praising and supporting people who have these conditions such as Down Syndrome or who simply feel excluded by a circle of people for being different and belonging to another race, either because of their color of skin or any other condition, but especially I see that even people put thousands of obstacles especially to people with Down syndrome, it is very sad to see that many things have evolved but there are still minds so retrograde that they do not accept that these people deserve the same respect, love, generosity, companionship, loyalty, tranquility, and empathy that is given to any other person because we are all human, no one is more perfect than another and being "normal" does not give us the right to harm their life to people who have conditions, on the contrary we should help them to feel the same as us, not to feel out of place, normalizing this is everyone's business but I wish we would and We change hate for love, for empathy for helping anyone who needs it without pointing fingers or discriminating because it has something that makes it different and unique.
This week's message was very clear, let's make love and not war, let's change and help others to do so because everyone, no matter what, deserves respect and to be treated with dignity.
And of course it's never too late to celebrate the lives of those people who come into the world to give us an extra love!
Habits that rob you of energy, peace and tranquility
<Good habits are difficult to acquire but it is the best decision you will make and they will accompany you for the rest of your life>
As we grow both in age and in personal and mental maturity, we realize that habits are everything to improve and change our lives, but just as what we do or our actions defines us, what we do or our actions also represents us even a little more. that we stop doing, because over the years we become more aware when it comes to analyzing everything that surrounds us but also our interior, our thoughts, our actions, in short, how we conduct ourselves in the world, what we cling to and what in some way it causes us to become destabilized by thinking about it or doing it, that is why we must become more aware and make it fashionable to self-analyse, because our happiness only depends on yourself, on no one else, even if it sounds crazy and everything, but never forget this 50% It absolutely depends on your personality which was inherited, molded or in a few words is a reflection of your parents and your family, the other remaining 50% comes from and depends only on you, on things that you can control, such as physical and mental health, your emotional, friendship, family relationships, as well as your life purpose and the different goals you want to achieve. In a few words, your happiness is something of yours, that many factors can influencing is clear but it is a personal decision and it is yours, analyzing ourselves thoroughly, questioning ourselves only brings multiple benefits to us because we ourselves are the ones who know ourselves best, so we must be alert to identify any habit that is only mortifying us, that in Instead of letting us move forward, it's holding us back.
They are such harmful habits that they take their toll on us later, in the long term, because they are like silent diseases that settle in our minds without us knowing and realizing it, they only bring extremely negative things to our lives, because they steal our peace, calm, serenity and tranquility to settle uncertainty and a whole entourage of negative emotions that even wreak havoc on our health, because one of the main causes and propitiators of diseases is stress, unfortunately there are habits that go hand in hand with stress, for We must be able to reorganize this, take out of our lives as much as necessary because they are things that do not contribute to the good, of course there are situations that get out of hand, which are inevitable that they do not happen because more than coincidences they are causalities , they are experiences that life brings with it and that it is impossible to escape from them because somehow they reach us, the only thing we must have cl aro, is to trust that these are issues that come into our lives so that we learn, to make us strong and give us strength to move forward and face any adversity, because in any circumstance we are warriors, we characterize ourselves because we are not scared simply because we fight with all our strength to always get ahead, understanding that they are situations that we do not like but what meaning would life have if it did not have those situations to strengthen us, I summarize some habits that are harmful to our lives below:
-Control everything, worry less, because we are not perfect, we are human and it is not in our control to control everything, it is okay for us to make mistakes because they are undoubtedly things that help us grow and be perfectly imperfect.
-Working or dedicating your life to something that you do not love and that therefore you are not passionate about, do not tie your life to this, do not become a frustrated being, because you can be anything you want, as long as it makes you happy. yourself and not others, always look for your happiness not that of others, remember that you can contribute to the happiness of others as long as you are happy with yourself and everything that is part of your life.
-Allow yourself to be imperfect and not feel guilty about it, because it is something that we must make fashionable, because we were not born to be perfect, because we are the sum of the mistakes we make and that is what makes us unique, irreverent and undoubtedly magical.
-Worry less about what others think of you and worry more about how you see yourself, start doing what satisfies you the most because you should never stop until you feel proud of yourself, that is the goal.
-We are not gold coin to be liked by everyone, so do not waste energy trying to please everyone.
-Allow yourself to take breaks because it is the only way to renew energy and try again, it will undoubtedly be better.
-Your priority is you, spend as much or more time than you invest in others, invest in yourself because you are your best project.
Although I know there are many more to go, I leave you with one that seems to me personally to be a priority, because we must work on ourselves, because we are our best project, therefore we must do whatever is necessary for our peace and happiness because if you do not for you no one will come to do it, that you are not afraid to take the step to put aside, situations, people and things that steal energy, because you do it because you feel better, because you are following your intuition and because surely you will flow much better, in this life we must eliminate certain things from our environment, create voids so that new things arrive to fill them, things that perhaps you thought would not reach you, much less that you needed but that you should take advantage of it and get the most out of it for as long as they last, no fear change because life is synonymous with it, everything changes, mutates and we must flow with it.
Get out of your life every habit that robs you of peace and cultivate what generates a retinue of positive emotions.
You put the limits
<Limitations only exist in your head, because not even the sky is the limit when you want to, you feel like doing something, never forget that you are powerful>
To be born is to accept the best adventure in which we could embark, because life is a journey which is full of thousands of experiences, some good, others not so much, but nevertheless everything we can experience and live is profit because success is made up of the sum of mistakes or failures that we have committed at some point, nobody is a scholar therefore nobody is born learned, we all embark on this journey learning even from the simplest things such as going to the bathroom, speaking or using our senses essential, because without parents or people who lead us, guide us, we would not be what we are today, life is a great teacher or in short, a great university that holds millions of surprises for us just so that we learn from each one of them. these, prepares us little by little for the events that will even happen in the long term, many times we falsely believe that there are many coincidences when they are really causalities caused by life and her goal that we learn with every step we take while we are in it, it is undeniable to say that she is an excellent teacher and par excellence one of the best we will have, but it is impossible to live a life without something that we are passionate about, without something that makes us a little crazy, without something that every day helps us to improve ourselves both personally and professionally, the passion for what we decide to do in this life is what will make us understand that the limit only lives in our mind that if we fight to break those imaginary barriers we can have everything we want in our hands.
The first step to achieve anything we set out to do is to be aware that we are capable as long as we put our mind, soul, heart and above all will and overcoming, because working every day on our goals requires that we are 100% focused, in addition to being clear about what to evolve. It requires leaving attitudes that are toxic, we must undertake the best fight to be able to reach the desired goal and it is the internal one, many times our worst enemy lives in our mind, because it is this that puts limitations on us that, although they are invisible, we usually continue at the foot of the letter, we live falsely deceived that we cannot do this or that, but if we can, we can do whatever we want, because we are powerful, capable and we must never lose faith in ourselves, that is the key, believe in us although sometimes the circumstances are not in our favor, in those moments where we must be clear that these are passing moments ind Depending on the problem to which we are tied at that moment, we are creative beings capable of solving any situation, which is why we must focus on educating our minds, or better said, restoring them from the factory and reestablishing behaviors, thoughts, and patterns that, instead of letting us evolve and grow, are holding back, the moment we unlearn those behaviors and learn new ones that make sense and best of all help us evolve is a total win for us, we will have already won a battle that will serve us positively for the rest of our existence.
Be the architect, the architect of your own happiness and success, do not let the limits consume you, for this reason I invite you to accept the best challenge of your life, to do so you must clearly mold it to you, to your needs, to your tastes but above all whatever you want and not what others tell you to do, please yourself, because you must live for the rest of your life with what you decide to do, others have already made their lives the best they wanted and that they It was convenient, now it's your turn, design it best suits you, design it from the heart, do not be afraid to be what you want to be because the passion for it will lead us without a doubt to be successful, do not care about anyone's remarks because we are not here to judge ourselves, we are here to LIVE something that many forget and prefer to live poking their noses into other people's lives, when they really want to live their life their life has gone because they are wasting time, time is a valuable instrument friend things that we cannot recover, that more than having time, time is running out, every year, every second and minute that passes, because it is one more year or one less? It is not to alarm you, on the contrary, it is so that you put the feet on the ground and accept that you must start doing something for yourself, something that you are passionate about and brings you more benefits than discouraging things, because no one is more than anyone else we are all equal and deserving of the same respect, so do not be afraid to do anything that makes you happy because we come to this world in total search for everything that ignites our soul and in turn makes us happier. Erase the word "No" and "I can't" from your mind and vocabulary, convince yourself that if you can, as I mentioned before we must unlearn many things from our mind, but if we manage to conquer the mind we will undoubtedly have already won, because at the beginning they will have few people who bet on you, so you must blindly believe in yourself, because that is the key to achieving what we want in this life.
We all have stories, some deeper than others but without a doubt at some point there was a special one, there was a rupture that at the time perhaps the person, or the experience that led to it, only wanted it to go badly for us, that it be something negative but without a doubt We have to thank him, because he wanted to throw poison at us and ended up motivating us to be better, to seek a better life, to seek to be better in whatever we set out to do. This is a story that I have had the pleasure of writing and telling you in my previous publications. I do it because it is something that I will never be able to erase from my brain, because it was what made me leave the limits aside and bet on me, even at that moment. no one else did and that is when my university process began. It was a process full of curves to deny it, but today I thank God, life and the universe for having done it that way, because those curves that at times even brought tears to my eyes today have made me a wiser person, who discovered and thanks to those who at some point even only take care of throwing hate because they are conducive to changing our lives, in short I will tell you again it was my first week of classes in graphic design, as I have mentioned I also decided to study it at last minute because my family was really going through a critical situation and at that time we did not have the means to go to study outside my state, I admit that at first I felt frustrated, I wanted to stop studying and try it on a whim , but it took me a short time to understand that if I did it it would only hurt me, so I tried to do something that I liked and that was when coincidence or causality led me to run into g design rafically, in short, this career had absolutely nothing to do with the one I wanted to study, therefore I was entering a totally new world for me, but that first week in one of the first classes I saw, a teacher very discouragingly told us to the whole group that we had to be there already learned, if you analyze it is impossible that at first you go somewhere being wise, on the contrary you learn along the way, that is why many people felt like me, lost and even They withdrew but if I love something, it's the challenges, I never let myself be daunted, on the contrary I undertook one of the best paths and without a doubt the goal was better than I expected.
Never let anyone tell you that you can't because YES you can, you are capable and powerful, turn the negative into positive, change it only depends on you, don't be afraid to take the first step!
Believe in yourself because not even the sky is the limit.
happiness and meaning of life
<Happiness is very similar and works like a butterfly, the more you chase it the more it will evade you but if you stay still and let yourself go, it will come to you>
We are all so unique that happiness does not work or does not mean the same thing for everyone, on the contrary like everything that is part of our life, we give it our personal touch, because what makes me happy may not be the same as what makes you happy works just like success, it is diverse and it is good, it is valid to look at life from our perspective because it is a reflection of our essence of what we are as human beings. Beatitude is such a different word for everyone, because not everyone gives it the same meaning, although the meaning of life and the aforementioned are experiences that we came to face that go hand in hand, since the first is basically the that we always look for, even if it is for moments, since it gives us a positive emotional state and the second is the fullness that we have with our life, with our body and with everything that surrounds us, for this reason we should be more aware, because it is clear that although the life is incredibly wonderful it always comes full of nuances, although we would like every day to be full of happy and incredible moments, there will always be those that completely lower our spirits, but this is not synonymous that life will always be like that on the contrary those moments they come to us to strengthen us, to fill us with vitality but above all so that we learn, they bring us lessons that perhaps at the time we could not see but the v ida is always in charge of giving us reasons and explanations that we did not understand at the time.
The best way to find happiness, what makes us happy and gives meaning to our lives, is to venture out on the best trip of our lives, it is to give ourselves the opportunity to get to know each other, even if it seems easy, it is not such a difficult path. easy, because we must become more aware of our actions, what motivates them, about our tastes, but above all what we would never do and much less would like to be done to us, take a trip to the root of our being, our inner self, know each other but above all respect ourselves, our beliefs, tastes and indistinct way of doing anything, not stopping doing everything that makes us happy just to please others, always being faithful to us, putting ourselves first, because We come to this world to make ourselves happy, to seek happiness, to be well with ourselves, so that later in this process and to the extent that we can collaborate in the happiness of others, always trying to be light in their lives. days before darkness, but to get to that point at some point in our life, worth the redundancy, we will come to the conclusion that we want to change certain aspects that are not good for us and do not contribute to our happy or positive life, much less to that of others. For this reason, the rest of us must take a break from the world, to give ourselves and allow ourselves the pleasure of changing everything that robs us of serenity, everything is a matter of us, of doing first what makes us happy but above all makes us live a full life.
All opinions are valid, but for that reason we will not give ourselves the task of judging the neighbor because he thinks and acts differently, we must give ourselves the freedom to live together, respect but above all learn from everyone who is in our life, because nothing is coincidence , everything has a reason, as well as a cause and effect, we always do our actions from love, empathy and not hate, hate only attracts more negative things to our lives, we must be able to love in complete freedom, not holding back, much less making that love forceful and not pure and reciprocal, because there is nothing more beautiful than that which occurs naturally, that which flows like the waves of the sea, gives happiness but also gives satisfaction, serenity, peace and calm to know and understand that it is true but above all it is sincere and pure because we will never find something better than what is sincere, from the experiences, things, and people that life puts us on the road. We must take advantage of today, the present is all we have as well as we only have one life but if we decide to live it to the fullest, leaving aside grudges living every day to look for what even gives us a moment of happiness and directionality to our life it is more than enough, never stop valuing things, because there are more times that we take many things for granted and do not value what we have, the people who are constantly giving us their love and their valuable time, do not let time disappear of your hands, because many times time is a euphemism, we say that we have a lot of time and we take for granted that we are and those around us are eternal, when it is not so, we are all human and at some point we must say goodbye for dare to say I love you, to give a hug, to support someone in your environment who always does it with you and now needs the same from you because in those actions that seem like little to many, they are l so they give us more and above all satisfaction.
If you ask me what happiness is and what gives meaning to my life, I can translate it into a single word, my family, the love that those people who are there for me at every moment of my life give me every day. , that even if I have a tremendous problem they would never leave me alone, their support is proof that if love exists, regardless of any condition, the second thing that gives meaning to my life is myself, the experiences that I allow myself daily living makes me grow but above all I strengthen myself as a person, definitely today I could not agree more with that phrase that says that "self-love cures everything", it erases the traces of those who at some point hurt us as well as it also gives us love, trust, serenity, peace, calm, but above all security and full confidence in ourselves, it is something that since I began to cultivate it I have not tired of feeding it daily, it allows me to see life in other perspectives, to give myself count things many times they are not what you see at first sight, that there is much more than a facade, the clear example is when we choose a book or not only because of the beauty of its "cover" it taught me that judging is never the solution, the solution It lies in being part of those who solve and look for options to any problem that comes across, self-esteem gave me the strength I needed to understand that happiness lives within me and it is only up to me to find it and live constantly in it, never forget that it is something that depends only on you and no one else, that you can be happy with someone else as long as you first discover that happiness has always inhabited you and you took the step to always be.
In conclusion, the meaning of life for me is my family and my happiness has a lot to do with self-esteem and with myself. For you, what is your happiness and what is the meaning of your life?
Accepting the unacceptable only brings us positive things
<May life always grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference>
Our priority in life is to fight, to fight for ourselves, for our happiness, to run for our dreams if necessary, but as we grow up, life puts us in front of many experiences, some of which we won't even know how to face, but we must always be clear about it. that God puts his best battles to his best warriors, warriors that he knows are capable of fighting, that he knows will not give up, that they will be able to get out of these situations unscathed, we must not allow ourselves to be intimidated by anything, even if it often hurts, we must not always let ourselves be carried away by negative things because we have to learn to get something good and productive out of every situation that life puts us, because not everything is always bad even if it seems so, that is why we must raise and cultivate our consciousness to know how to differentiate when something really is very bad thing when something only comes into our life to teach us something positive, it is those things that make us stronger, the ones that great people, great warriors, what we can never let happen is that some situations rob us of our joy, peace, calm, tranquility and love for life and everything that inhabits it.
Accepting the divine and life designs costs a lot, but for our own good, for our physical and mental health, we must do it, we must let ourselves flow, learn and try to enjoy those mysterious processes that life puts us in front of our lives. noses, we must be able to give ourselves a chance to analyze our life, our thoughts, our actions with a cool head, although it is very cool that we love, respect and have ourselves on a pedestal, we must be able to have control of everything that happens in our lives, of questioning ourselves when we know that we did something wrong, as well as having the ability and desire to be better every day and change and get rid of the negative, which has us stuck and does not allow us to move forward . The power that we have ourselves is great, we can achieve whatever we want, as long as we work for it, focusing on ourselves, always believing in ourselves regardless of the opinions of others, because when you want something and work towards achieving it day by day Today it is impossible not to meet this objective, because we are capable, absolutely all of us, we just need to get our act together, create an action plan that guides us and if it is necessary to change it a thousand times to make it work better, we must do it, we must always listen to our intuition It is something that will never fail us.
The first great battle of our life is to conquer ourselves, to accept ourselves, as we are, with defects, virtues, even physically, to love ourselves as God sent us to the world, as well as our decisions, the failed ones and the right ones, because we came to learn but above all everything to unlearn, limiting behaviors and thoughts, which only distance us from our essence, always accept things as they come into our lives, many times even if they don't turn out as planned, but we must have something clear and that is that God, life and the universe does not remove or put something but has a good purpose, a purpose that many times even keeps us away from any evil or danger, or in many others it only brings us closer and puts in our path what has to be in our life, let us never forget that the best moment is today, not the past and much less the future, it is today because it is the only sure thing we have, let's try to live always and enjoy everything that the present gives, the p Little or how much we have, because accepting to enjoy and be grateful for what you have today will surely allow you in the future that the magic of life will grant you more, but we must always practice gratitude for today, for the people we have in our lives. life and that we know that they will always be there, that they support us regardless of anything else, gratitude gives us peace, serenity and tranquility, besides that it is something magical that life puts in everyone's hands and it is up to each one of us to cultivate it for that always bring beautiful things to our life.
Today I tell you to never get discouraged by things that were not or things that hurt you, then life will let you know the reason for the things that happen daily as well as the positive ones that occurred and flowed naturally. and magical like the ones that don't, the ones that only brought peace to your life and negative things. I ask you as a special favor for me and much more for you that you never stop shining, never let yourself be daunted by adversity because you are capable of anything that happens in your life, even if you think not, you will realize it along the way. that you get energy and desire from even where you didn't know you had it, don't cling to anything, because everything changes, everything mutates, many times we falsely think that something is forever but it only comes to leave us a beautiful lesson and we must let it go because although we want it to stay and be forever, it won't be, but what we can never lose is the faith that incredible things will come to our lives, that if we always work we will achieve the unimaginable, just don't be afraid to let go, accept that not everything is forever.
Never stop moving forward because all is never lost, better things always come to your life.
Why judge or point? When can we support
<It is better to be part of the solution than part of the problem>
Judging, pointing, criticizing unfortunately has become the favorite sport or the habit of many people, many times they are even things that we do unconsciously, therefore we should take responsibility for our actions and identify those that lead us adrift, that only hurt us. because they steal our energy, energy that in one way or another we could be investing in positive things in order to improve our lives instead of being aware of what the person next door does or does not do, we do not realize that we it does more damage to us because we stop living our lives, to be aware of others, time is the most valuable thing that the human being has, therefore we should be responsible when using it and always invest it in productive things that we help improve, in all areas of our lives as well as that every day promote actions that put us closer to our goals. We should not get carried away by someone else's judgment, we should cultivate and use our own criteria because each person has different experiences, similar but different and unique, not everyone has the same opinion of something or someone because that goes according to their experience , but it is up to us to venture to live that experience with something or someone before giving a final verdict.
Many times feelings such as envy cloud us whenever we see people from our environment or strangers, we think very wrongly that we deserve the same success, that it is we who deserve it and said person does not, but we do not stop, nor do we analyze that person to get to where he is today, he had a process full of sacrifices, discipline, perseverance, perseverance, that he never gave up and always gave up, that if our goal is the same or different from his, we should take that person as an inspiration because he always You need an action plan, because nothing comes from the sky, we must work every day to improve ourselves, in addition to the decisions and actions we take are always in favor of getting closer to those stated objectives. Therefore, instead of envying how beautiful it would be to change that bad feeling for inspiration, let's take these people more than as something negative as a source of inspiration, as a kind of gasoline, because if they could only mean one thing that you can too, because nobody can stop a person who knows what he wants and who also strives every day to work and be better, we must also always wish nice things to those people, because what you wish your neighbor will return, if it is hate, Harmful feelings or feelings charged with positivism will return doubly charged, but in the end you decide if you want to live a life full of hatred or on the contrary full of positive gasoline that inspires you every day to be better.
Let us never forget that what we criticize speaks more about us than what we criticize, that's why think well, become analytical with your thoughts, with your behavior because they are things that we do unconsciously but that with effort and desire we can remedy, because being a better person It is possible as long as we want to be, so consent to stop and analyze your actions that you are or are not doing well, create a plan to leave that behind by centralizing and changing bad actions for good ones and creating habits that help you improve, We must even be aware that we must manage our time better, because we inadvertently spend time looking at others and criticizing them when we should be focused on ourselves, on being better, looking for solutions and alternatives that allow us to always move, not stay stagnant, because we are not the architects of other people's lives but if we are the architect of our lives, we can do and undo what we want in our lives, because we should not be afraid of leaving behind things that anchor us to a past that unfortunately has no future, we should do things that make us feel good about ourselves and not about others, of course this is not It implies doing things that harm others because you would not be changing, you would be stagnating otherwise.
My Sunday advice to you is that you do not let yourself be carried away by prejudice or what they say about you and do not please turn against others by doing what they did to you, set an example to the world through your actions, let's not let that the unhealthy comments of people get in the way of our happiness, instead of judging strangers, your friends, your family, support them because we are all living our own process and many times some more than others have difficulties to continue floating and many times we can act in those lives in a positive way being an anchor to the outside through support and empathy or we can sink them through our meaningless actions based on hatred and envy that instead of affecting those people more they end up billing us. Do not let your envy or the accusations imposed by other people deprive you of meeting incredible people who will only help your life in a positive way, do not let the false prototypes imposed by society blind you because when you realize it may be too late, do not stop supporting all your friends and family in any decision, project or undertaking they make because there is no more sincere support than that of those who you supported and now they return it to you.
Live and let live, live and don't let other people's assumptions cloud your judgment, create your own conclusions through actions, don't judge anyone because then they can do the same to you, remember that life is like a boomerang, if you do evil, it will return to you and more charged, if you do good there can only be positive things in your life.
There are idols who don't wear capes and don't have super powers but are able to go down to the moon
<Men are also an example of struggle, dedication, perseverance, love, for being better every day for those around them>
Today I celebrate the lives of all the men who inhabit the world, especially those around me, those who undoubtedly are always there for me, especially those in my family, my grandfather, my father and my brothers, their lives for I am invaluable, they always fill me with strength, love, to always go forward regardless of the situations that life throws at me, there is no way to describe my gratitude for having them in my life, because they are men who have taught me what I want and the things that I can or cannot allow the man I choose for my life, they are a constant example for me, especially my grandfather, to whom I will always be infinitely grateful for all the things he did and continues to do for our family but especially for teaching me that You can achieve any goal or objective that you set for yourself with a lot of discipline, work, dedication and, above all, love for what you do.
Without men the world would not be the same, full of magic, unique and irreverent, it is a date that not all countries have adopted to celebrate, but many parts of Venezuela, Colombia and other countries did, due to the Catholic religion specifically in honor of Saint Joseph, the adoptive father of Jesus, although the central day is in November specifically on the 19th, it was established for the first time in the US, with the main objective that the positive role played by the man in the day to day of the world, in addition to promoting gender equality, because just as all the qualities of women are celebrated, it should also be done with men, because we are all equally relevant and deserve to celebrate it, because the majority of people, regardless of who they are, seek to improve their lives in many aspects, both personally, financially and, of course, emotionally, things that are done on a daily basis, always working to be part of the group of those who add and not of those who subtract. Although there are many men who are part of the problem every day and not the solution, there are more who, through their example, teach us that there are still men with values, with chivalry capable of doing anything for the people they love, even bring down the moon, the sun and the stars because they are more than heroes, they are valuable people.
It is impossible not to join this festivity, which celebrates good men, valuable men who fight every day for family integration, men who are as susceptible as women, men who deserve to be applauded for their successes and to be accompanied when feel that they are not enough, when something does not go wrong, men also like that people support them, are aware of them, because after all we all deserve love, it is a world where there are many stipulations given by one society where it always says that men don't cry and they always have to be strong but at the end of the day regardless of whether we are men or women, we all suffer equally, we all deserve human warmth, we deserve the love of our family or the sense of belonging that it offers us the sentimental love of a person who is always there, who, regardless of having seen us at our worst, stays and decides to fight alongside us to try to make us better c Every day, the meaning of life revolves around simple things, simple things that we have in front of us and we do not value them because we think about material things, about the physical and not about feelings, that is why we must stop stigmatizing that men they have to be strong, we all have moments of weakness that make us stronger, they are things that make us imperfectly perfect.
Happy day to you if you are a man, you also deserve to be celebrated, applauded for your good times and supported when you feel like you can't take it anymore. But especially happy day to the men who give meaning to my life, without you my world and the world would not be the same, full of love, companionship, guidance, struggle, dedication, empathy and unconditional support, you are my heroes without capes, thank you for so much love and I hope that I never miss you.
Perfection doesn't exist, we can't like everyone and that's okay
<Never forget that what makes you authentic and different are your imperfections>
Unfortunately, the world has imposed parameters where we must all be perfect where it is not worth getting out of them because we are automatically rare, defective, people who have a mind that is too square, they are stereotypes that distance us from our essence, they are nonsense things that do not allow us to be . People who do not allow their minds to expand to new horizons, accept that each person who inhabits this planet is different, that is precisely what makes it interesting, fun, that we are all beings that are made of mistakes, failures that are like wounds of wars that help us learn, that make our journey more interesting, that if the world were perfect and everything was straight, nothing would be the same, nothing would be so magical in one way or another. It is a mark that in one way or another will identify us for the rest of our lives, they cannot erase it, being imperfect is not giving up, it is not defeating, accepting that we are imperfect is valuing ourselves, it is being ourselves, at our best. essence, with mistakes, failures, achievements and successes, is to accept that although we made thousands of mistakes we must even forgive ourselves, being imperfect is liberating, being imperfect is a form of self-love for ourselves.
Being imperfect is accepting ourselves as we are, accepting our physique, our way of thinking about life, without trying to change ourselves for wanting to please others, on the contrary, that is a square form of perfection that if we do not put a stop it can bring us great consequences, it would rob us of valuable time, trying to carry out an idea that will not exist and that will never be authentic, because in one way or another imperfection is what makes us authentic, different, many may want to be like You, they will try but they will never be able to match you, because each one came with something special, which must be exploited, cultivated, known every day, we are our own treasure, an adventure that we must undertake every day to get to know each other better, to know what we will be able to accept and that others would never accept, life is a journey of self-discovery, towards our interior and of course to the outside, always trying to find places, people that generate us peace, that they add and not that they subtract, we come to learn new things, to learn daily through the experiences that life brings but we also come here to unlearn customs that instead of filling us with life take it away every second that we put them into practice At some point in our existence, hopefully sooner rather than later, we discover that we come with a purpose, but not to be perfect, because in some way perfection is a collection of errors, because no one is born knowing them all.
You become wiser by putting things into practice, it doesn't matter if everything is a mistake at first, because as long as you don't stop practicing you will achieve great results, but although many want to cover the sun with a finger, what lies behind of someone's success in any area of their life is error, in fact trial and error is a very solid base and is known by most of the people who inhabit the earth. One of the biggest mistakes we make is letting ourselves be carried away by unhealthy comments from people who even claim to be close to us, people who basically don't deserve to be in our lives because they are people who are more negativity than good, people who through their actions only sink us, because there are many who still do not have barriers so that these comments do not hurt them, actions that bring disastrous consequences mainly in reference to mental health, peace and tranquility, because we begin to get involved in the fact that we are not enough , that we are not and will not be capable, things in which we have to be very focused, because letting ourselves be carried away by that and not getting out of that circle only brings us negative consequences, such as loss of valuable time and energy that we could be putting into our goals and goals.
Mainly I advise you that we must above all things, understand that we are enough, valuable, that we can with anything that God and life put in our hands because even with so many imperfections we are capable of achieving anything because we do not let ourselves be intimidated by the defeat, hatred, tiredness, or any similar feeling, on the contrary, we are people with drive, who are not afraid of adversity because we have confidence in ourselves in our knowledge and skills, because perfection cannot be achieved except by in the midst of imperfection making mistakes that will make us wiser. A mistake does not define you, if you do not see it that way, give yourself a space and look around everyone around you and even those who are famous and that you admire so much to reach their goals made mistakes that did not define them because it is even an opportunity , opportunity to take new paths or do things differently, we should not make ourselves less for it, on the contrary, we should have patience, treat ourselves with the same or more love and respect with which you treat others, because in us it is in one way or another the secret to success, one of the secrets is to enjoy the process, because there will never be a more interesting journey than the transformation we have day by day, in addition to not letting ourselves be daunted by actions full of bad vibes we must let them become insignificant giving value to what is and never, ever stop believing in ourselves because even with mistakes and thousands of defects we are perfect.
Never let anyone tell you that you can't, let that serve as gasoline to draw up an action plan to achieve it, an experience that I never forget was when someone who is now past and of course is forgiven said that I would not be able to finish my studies, that I would be a failure for the simple fact of not knowing much about a subject at first, when I was starting university now I can understand that they were unhealthy comments sent directly to me to give up the idea of wanting to study but it was the opposite I used it as gasoline to become little by little, with patience and slow but sure steps in my best version. Always believing in me.
Believe in yourself and not even the sky will be your limit.
Closing cycles is a form of self-love and the healthiest thing you can do for yourself
<Living tied and anchored to a past will only deprive us of living and enjoying our present>
As we grow it is inevitable at certain points of our existence to feel nostalgia for things lived over the years, it is something normal that will undoubtedly accompany us throughout our lives, it is inevitable not to feel longing and mixed feelings for the moments, situations, circumstances and people that little by little we are leaving behind, those events are even like the basis of us through them we have had the opportunity to grow in all possible aspects of our lives, they have an influence on our life like nothing else the negative is not remembering the past from time to time, remembering the good or the bad but not always living in it, because it keeps us static anchored to what was, think about it, think about what would have been and could not, in the decisions we make, prevent us from focusing our energy on the present, on things that are of vital importance to us, when it crosses the line of something merely healthy to something toxic such as reliving the past 24/7 even distances us from our goals and ourselves, it prevents us from enjoying what we have and working for what we want but still don't have.
They are things that happen if we allow it, they even happen when we don't even plan it, so we must be able to control and stop those emotions that only take us out of line, emotions that are like an interference come to mind at times where we are having an incredible time and they only come to make us sad or put us in a bad mood, so we must be clear that the past is something that has already happened, that in one way or another what happened in that time happened because that is how it had to be, God does not set too difficult tasks if he knew that we are not capable of carrying them but we must be aware that we are in the present, that we must allow ourselves to live to the fullest each experience that life presents us without feeling doubts or emotions that simply anchor us to the past. . Bringing emotions from situations experienced in the past will not only make us remember those moments, it will also bring back those feelings that harm us more than good, such as guilt, resentment, discomfort, hatred, envy, and will only make us relive those feelings. emotions as much or more than in the past, we must create awareness and put aside everything that does not add to our lives, we must try to design a life where peace, calm, tranquility, love, empathy, respect but above all things peace of mind, if your mind is calm in peace you will reflect it on the outside, remember that what you have inside will inevitably be reflected outside, that we must work to improve our lives.
The goal is never to feel competition or envy for the one next door, the goal is to be better than our yesterday self, every day to work towards improving attitudes that are sinking us, that are unconsciously anchoring us in a spiral where if not we put a stop we will not be able to get out of it, which can even bring us disastrous consequences for our mental health such as anxiety, sadness and even depression, which are things that make us fall into the blinding lie that we are not worthy of anything, that our life will always be destined for failure, therefore we must be able to accept first of all what we feel, hide and make the world see that we are fine only sinks us a little more for that reason we must accept that in addition to being clear that the past is something that we cannot change, that there is not yet a clock to turn back time but instead we can learn from it, to manage our life and redirect it along better paths, way s where we will undoubtedly find new adventures, which will be full of people who will provide us with incredible moments, some temporary and others who in one way or another will accompany us throughout our process, we are blinded and are not even able to distinguish that the Fear of the unknown is what terrifies us, fear even of good things because we tend to have as a flag in our minds that we are not worthy of absolutely anything, so we must accept what we feel and always work towards changing negative slogans for the positive ones, we even suffer more for what we imagine, for what our mind tells us that in reality, we make our brain work against it when it should be working towards how to be better every day, forgiving ourselves is a very important step , at times we are our worst judges, we judge ourselves so much that it is impossible for us to understand that what we did cannot be undone, but we can work so that what soon happens in our life we do it in a better way.
Personally, I would add that forgiving everyone who at some point did us any harm does not free them, it frees us, from a life where pride, contempt, hatred always reign, let's change that, we must be able to allow ourselves to let go and forgive to everyone who at some point hurt us, I always think that there were many people who criticized my physique at the time but did not see themselves, that they lacked more awareness because if their lives were led by love, empathy, generosity and respect would not make ill-intentioned comments to anyone for anything, much less for their appearance because people continually look at themselves in mirrors at home and are very aware of how they see themselves, so that others come to point out their defects when they are not even capable of seeing themselves, the only thing they gain is to feed an unhealthy feeling such as the ego that definitely will not lead them to anything good. I also advise you not to be afraid to start over, let's learn that it is a wild card that God gave us life, the universe, that more than something bad is something positive, maybe you like your new story more than the previous one, do not have fear of letting go, from my own experience I tell you that living clinging to stories that could not materialize will make us live hopeful because the impossible will happen, things that already were and that will not return, it happened to me at a point in the plane of love, I did not know how to let go of a love that was not for me, that I thought that I could not live without that person and that I never thought like a square mind, but once you learn to let go, you only realize and understand that new things that come into your life, they are better, more beautiful, they come loaded with good vibes with the aim of making us happy so it only lasts a short time.
PS: It is very hard to let go, it is very hard to close cycles but it is harder to lose ourselves, our essence in the process of not wanting to let go of that past that inevitably has no future in our lives, that we are just wasting time on something that you get more green gray hair than you imagine.
Toxic friendships, are they worth it?
<A friend is not someone who wants to listen to your problems, it is someone who wants to help you solve them>
Since we are little we naturally seek to relate to others, always seeking to create links that in one way or another make us feel much better, as I said, these are things that our parents instilled in us when we were little, such as companionship, generosity, respect and empathy for others, are such basic aspects but that undoubtedly differentiate good people from those who are not, good people or now also called vitamin people because they are always there for you helping in whatever they can to solve and solve any reason or circumstance that afflicts us instead of not so good or toxic people, which is also a new name that has been imposed today because some are characterized by not hiding their bad intentions towards us and others but also there are those who are like wolves hidden in the form of sheep, whose desire will always be to see us badly or rather well but never better than them, they are personal Some people who, with a very subtle and even affectionate language, tell us that we cannot, that we are not capable or deserving, that instead of helping us raise our spirits and emerge they want to sink us, people who only put impediments and excuses to our solutions in a few words people who are part of the problem and not part of the solution.
With the passing of time, one only discovers and makes it a priority to put drama out of our lives, to always keep it at a distance, instead seeking peace and tranquility, in turn people who generate calm, instead of having exhaustive conflicts to because of those people who only steal our energy that we could well be putting into our personal projects instead of drama, just as there are friendships that fill our existence with happiness, joy, tranquility, calm, and peace of mind, there are those who, due to their toxicity they are not made to last forever in our lives, although on many occasions people only talk that things are going wrong for them in matters related to love and their sentimental situation, we can also find psychological abuse in friendly relationships, which only cause us emotional damage , because some are people we have known for a lifetime but with maturity we must face that they are relationships that we must cut healthily because that instead of flowing positively, it is doing it the other way around and, incidentally, negatively.
It is very easy to discover this type of friendship because they always live in victim mode and complaining about everything and nothing, they are always part of the problem, they never see solutions, and they even take everything very personally to heart that everything that happens is always for them. , with the aim of making you feel bad, can also be referred to as a form of emotional manipulation. Always instead of helping you overcome any insecurities you have, they point them out, inevitably tearing you to shreds and obviously making you feel bad for their out of place comments, which they do only with the intention of hurting, as well as constantly and even when the occasion warrants it. A very common one is that they always want to spend time with you when they need something from you, it is a sign that should make us alert, because friendships are like a plant that must be constantly cultivated taking care of it and even with mutual support, because what is not Mutual does not deserve to have a place in our life, or both parties put their 100% so that things work or not work that way. On many occasions we seek the company of our friends when we feel out of the loop, when we are low in spirits, because they are like a pain pill, which in addition to curing said illness has the plus of making us feel happy like a drug. but that without a doubt does not do us much harm but on the contrary heals us and puts us in a state of maximum happiness.
Personally, I am not in favor of maintaining romantic or friendship relationships, so it is not worth spending our time with people who only hurt us, I think that it does not allow us to flow, it does not stagnate, although many times letting go is painful and cost is better than losing our essence by trying to keep afloat something that has been sinking for a long time, with people who only made us feel bad through their actions and comments committed only to hurt are people who don't even speak and expose who are hurting us change, they put themselves in victim mode, when it is the other way around, people who only think of themselves, it is their own comforts before that of others, where there is only room for their affairs, in that type of person and relationships there is no reciprocity, of course a friendship can last a long time without seeing each other, without speaking, but even with distance and time when there is a reunion we always feel that there is a balance where both parties s seek to solve problems that are affecting the other, where there is genuine concern for the other, where that friendship always wants the best for their friend, these are the friendships that are truly worthwhile, so if you have people like this in your entourage of friends , toxic and negative first encourage dialogue, let them know how they are acting because if you have always behaved well with them you deserve the same treatment in return, if they do not change you need to take extreme measures even because your peace and tranquility is worth more than being in toxic circles.
PS: It's hard to accept that there are loving and friendly relationships that don't give for more, because many times people are like shooting stars that come to teach us for a short period of our lives but they are not forever, that others will come in the future that they are eternal and that the best of all is that they always do us good.
4 months and counting
<Faith is taking the first step even when you can't see the whole ladder>
It has been 4 months around 120 days since I decided to embark on this adventure in Read.Cash, a platform that has opened many doors for me, it has helped me grow both personally and professionally, although I have to admit that at first I did not understand much about it. driving, it was hard for me to grab the peanut as they say here in my land and you can even see in my activity that I was inactive for many days, since I thought I was not doing it right, something natural that happens to us, but we should not stop that scares us of what we want to do, fear is even our worst enemy, we stop doing many things for the simple fact of fear of failing or losing, when in this life we have to allow ourselves to do it in order to learn and do things much better to future. Today I am very grateful not only to the people who continually support me and take the time to read my posts, but also to the person who let me know that this platform existed, where I have been able to express myself through my articles.
I came to this platform, by chance, one day in November of last year, I came across a YouTube video where said YouTuber talked about this platform, which in addition to being like a social network where one could create article-type content, with the plus that they encouraged us with cryptocurrencies that in some way would serve us as savings or as a help to our lives. Creating content at first scared me, for many reasons one of many was that no one was interested, of course one is not a gold coin to be liked by everyone but if you are starting do not let this cloud you, do not let may you win because there will always be someone who helps you, collaborates with you, guides you but this has to be reciprocal, give to receive, like everything in life, support new and old users, you will learn a lot from the old ones because they do it daily articles that serve as a guide for newcomers and from newcomers you can learn a lot because here at Read.Cash you will always find a platform where you can read about various topics, about people's daily lives, about the economy, about events and special dates that They happen every day in world events.
It is a platform to which I owe a lot, it has served as an incentive because through it, I have cultivated habits that if I had not entered it I would never have done, such as reading and writing, I became passionate about writing good articles with added value that they serve everyone, the objective of my articles is always to leave them something beautiful through my writing, such as fighting for themselves, for dreams, cultivating self-love, always being aware of our health, both physical and mental because both are so important in our lives that if one of them is a little wrong the other would not work, also always try through my example to tell or communicate to everyone who reads me that fear is our worst enemy, the one that does not let us move forward, that we have to try to put it aside for our emotional well-being because we learn from mistakes, but we must learn to control them and that it is not the other way around that they do not or control us because even if we are afraid we do things with fear, it is better to have lost trying than to have lost by not doing it.
In my beginnings, fear undoubtedly blinded me for a while, being a novice in any aspect of our lives is not an easy task, the difficult thing is to fight against many things that in the first moments we have against and one of those many times is our mind , which tells us that we cannot, but nevertheless we must contradict it, educate it and cultivate from the depths of our being and mind that we can, that we are very powerful and that we can achieve everything we set out to do, by working unquestionably hard. For this reason, because good things take time, we must not let ourselves be devastated because many times we want to arrive and be the first, we must start from the bottom, enjoy the process, that is what will make us wiser, as I said being a novice It is not easy and learning and knowing each other at first is not either, but by working on it daily we can achieve great things, to improve ourselves is our task, do not stay in the same place because a future you will regret not having done more to improve.
Undoubtedly I thank daily all those who accompany me in this adventure and who also join me daily, from the bottom of my heart I can only say THANK YOU, thank you for your support, for your comments, although we are still few, they are too much for me, no let themselves be carried away by fear, or by anything that does not make them arise, the incredible and good things in life cost, in the beginning, even sharing the first article costs, because it is at that moment when insecurities flourish, that if nobody you will read, that if no one is going to like it but be sure that being you, always being faithful to your essence, you will achieve great things, do not be daunted, really, what a beautiful coincidence to have found this page at a time in my life where I was loaded with negative things, aspects that I could improve with the passing of the days, always focusing on myself in doing and looking for the best for my life, do not be afraid to take that first step, perhaps many doors will close but n that journey many doors will open.
How nice to be part of this platform! Thank you for always supporting me!
Thank you Read.Cash for giving us a chance in the midst of so much darkness!
I am taking slow but sure turtle steps, always with faith!
People who become family
<Blood creates family bonds automatically, but it is loyalty that creates true family, it is where not only our close blood family is but also those friends who have become family>
Life is so blessed that it always takes care of putting the right people in our lives, some who are just passing through like shooting stars and others instead are eternal and more than just friends become part of the family, family that many Sometimes we have the ability to choose, people who inevitably become people close to us because they are always there for us, their affection, their respect, but above all their unconditional support towards us always make them more than just friends, the most important thing in the family is not that they live together but that they are always united, regardless of time, distance changes nothing, on the contrary, bonds are created that make them always prevail in the face of any adversity.
Many have the belief that we should always be tied to people who, even being direct family members, have hurt us, or with whom we simply do not fit in, but those are the people that in one way or another we should keep a little away from our existence because with their bad vibes always steal our good energy, they monopolize it and do not let us arise, for this reason we must allow ourselves to create links with people who offer us love, respect, empathy, support and unconditional dedication, also clearly that LOYALTY, we all deserve to have people who Without a doubt, they always give us their company, time and support, although we do not come into this world with a manual on how to do things, much less how to care for and support a family, time and the same people are in charge of showing us how always make things work but above all that the family is based on love, forgiveness, respect, loyalty, empathy and support.
Nothing like knowing that we will always have people to return with, with whom we will always feel safe, in short, they are our safe place, even if they do not have luxuries, as long as one is close and united, they will give us and comfort us more than having all the money in the world, Having a family like this, whether we have built it ourselves or with the people we have blood ties with, we will always be millionaires for the simple reason of having them in our lives, knowing that they are fine even if we do not live in the same place, that love, respect, loyalty, will be eternal feelings thanks to the bonds we have formed, which without a doubt will always be in us, even if the distance or simply are not on this plane but his memory will always accompany us in every step we take in life. . The family, despite being where life begins and ends, are the people who undoubtedly provide us with support throughout our lives, they are the people who in one way or another always encourage us to seek our dreams, to build always our best version of ourselves.
Authentic people are those who will always be there for you, regardless of how you are physically, with your bad and good times, with your beautiful and different way of seeing the world, they are the ones who always want to see you flow, that you lead the life you you always dreamed, that when you go through bad times they are always there, that they never abandon you, that on the contrary with love and respect they help you improve, they are the ones that without a doubt give and do not expect currency, because there is nothing more beautiful than having in our life people who always recognize that reciprocity is based on recognition and loyalty not on a power game, do not feel bad if you choose to distance yourself from people who hurt you, who are absent and who simply did not do their part well with you but with others yes, that in our existence there is no room for hatred, on the contrary, that we always have love and forgiveness in our hearts to understand that many times people are fleeting, that they have to give us a lesson and they leave, they simply no longer dance to the same rhythm of our lives and that's fine, it's acceptable, but not for that reason we should hate, we should always keep in our hearts the best moments shared and make room for the people who, without a doubt, some the future will bring.
Today I want to talk to you about someone whom I chose as part of my family, that although he does not carry my blood, he will always be like my little sister or like my daughter, there are stronger ties than those of sharing blood ties, there are the ties we create from feelings as beautiful as love, respect, support, but above all loyalty, it is a bond that is very strong and unbreakable, she means a lot to me, I always want her to shine in her life, that when she grows up she fights for herself, to please her own desires always, that her path is plagued with much happiness and beautiful things, coincidences exist, with her it was like that, definitely life has incredible ways for us to meet people who go from being complete unknown to part of our closest circle, to be family.
My little princess
Blessed is the place and the reason for being there, blessed is the coincidence that made us meet in a world full of so many people, coincidence was only the work and grace of God, meeting my little princess, with whom in such a short time I learned a lot, she taught me unconditional love even for people you barely know, she taught me to look at the world from another perspective, today she is turning 4 years old, I still remember when it was something minimal and I was afraid to carry, now that you are learning, growing can only ask that your path is full of more positive moments than negative, that it is always there for you, to help and guide you when you need it most, thank you for being a great teacher in my life, definitely some strange people even become FAMILY and although in these moments we are not together I always carry you in my heart and I ask you to be a healthy and happy girl.
In 2017 I received one of the best gifts that life could give me and it was to meet you, today I celebrate your life by sending you the best vibes even if we are not together love will always be the same, happy birthday princess Ivy
Crisis is also synonymous with opportunity
<Problems can often lead to positive and productive changes in our lives>
In life there will always be moments where control inevitably gets out of our hands, moments where not everything is positive, also called moments of crisis, they are inevitable for our personal growth, they are moments where ironically we think they will last forever sometimes because of the complexity of the matter also because undoubtedly it comes to take us out of our comfort zone, they are even messages of life, so that we start to analyze the course if it is doing us good or it is necessary to deviate from the path to be able to reach our objectives, many it's scary to start from 0, but that's better than staying stagnant for a lifetime and realizing it too late, when in one way or another time ran out and unfortunately we didn't know how to take advantage of it, reasoning and thinking about things is fine but there are times when we must follow our intuition because many opportunities that life presents us require that we decide quickly and quickly, because thinking As for a long time they will only make them no longer available at the precise moment in which we decide, for this reason there is no later, we must cultivate the ability to analyze the pros and cons of situations in record time, because many times the answer it's inside us we just don't want to accept it.
Many times what is serious is not what happens but how we react to adversity, that is what defines us after all, we must be aware that there will always be moments that are out of our control, but that life always in charge of putting them in our way so that we learn but above all so that we take advantage of these situations, many times these crises arise because we do not make decisions on time, we cling so much to our comfort zone that fear of the unknown and even because deep down we know that we can overcome ourselves, it consumes us, it is even clear in the meaning of the word "CRISIS" since it is an ancient word that comes from the Greek and in turn its origins have different meanings such as deciding or separating , and even in other languages it even means "OPPORTUNITY" because it is in our reaction to those circumstances and how we perceive it and act towards it. that defines us as winners or losers, is something that many have not understood, many simply lie down to mourn their losses and watch life pass before their eyes, because while you are busy mourning the world continues in action, with this I say that it is not bad to be sorry, it is bad to spend your whole life doing it, because that is already part of the past, fortunately you have another day that is synonymous with a new opportunity for you to get up and try to find solutions.
And even the solutions only require our complete focus, the energy we waste regretting and thinking about the past, about things that have already happened and that there is no way or way to change them, we can use that energy to find solutions, naturally we are creative beings that our mission is always to seek solutions to any of our problems and God, life, the universe endowed us with tools to do so, the main one being our brain, which is what makes us stand out from any other race that lives on this earth because We are aware, we have decision-making power to think and act as we please in favor of our goals, but it is up to us to use it correctly and not simply waste it, even if you think that there are no more solutions for you, there is always a ray of sunshine if we decide to fight for ourselves, to improve our personal life as well as to fight every day through our actions, try to to be part of the solution in many problems that plague the world and that are the responsibility of all of us who make life in it.
We experienced a clear example about two years ago when the pandemic, unfortunately, the lives of all of us who inhabit this planet took a 360º turn with isolation, with practically the entire world closed, many were fired from their jobs or simply their income was reduced, at the same time that this was happening people with the ability to foresee what would happen were already attentive looking for solutions and not letting anything in the world deter them in the face of adversity, because it is always an opportunity both for personal growth and in the field work, because it was a stage in which, with many things against them, many decided to jump into the water and start a business, even if they knew how to do it, they decided to leave fear and sorrow aside and opened their ventures, because in times of difficulty they will always mark the differences those warriors who did not allow themselves to be daunted, much less put on the mask of victims, on the contrary they fought tirelessly for find a place in any branch in which they decided to undertake, even many without knowing anything about the digital field because they were particular moments where everything moved through a screen, for them we must always cultivate that ability to be versatile, foresee things before that they are in front of us and not be afraid of adversity or change because they are synonymous with opportunity and this in turn is synonymous with success.
I always believe that even when we are experiencing the worst moments of our lives we can always take advantage, seek that things take a turn so that they always conspire in our favor. In particular, I have gone through many moments when I have thought about throwing in the towel, undoubtedly it takes a while to get to the point where instead of thinking that it is a complete failure, adversity is an opportunity because it takes a while to get there until you see what It is true that those moments could be taken advantage of, that regretting my whole life for my past would not help one bit to build the success that I want to live in my future and near present.
PS: If you are going through a bitter time, keep in mind that it is just that, that you can even take advantage of those moments, that it is not bad to cry for what has been lost, but if it is bad to do it all your life and waste energy, well we can use in finding solutions to improve
Is attachment good or bad?
<A happy and healthy person is one who balances attachment and detachment so that their happiness is maximized>
Dear readers: Today there are many people who still do not find an answer to this question, people who are searching with the aim of creating a unique essence since clearly no one in this world is the same as anyone else, the magic of being human lies in the fact that each one is different, each one of us is a unique universe in particular, now well many do not manage to respond to themselves even if the attachment is not good or bad because there are many opinions that exist, many definitions, many philosophies, that make us not know how to distinguish well, or at times our minds are clouded, because deep down we know that answer. As I said, there are many even the contradictions of those philosophies, some say that attachment is healthy, others that not so much, but in the end only you can decide what your philosophy is, your life is about that, even finding your own truths, it is valid to be, act and think differently, do not let unhealthy comments distance you from your own essence, you must always stay true to yourself and your beliefs, which of course do not harm anyone, but many even in the XXI century are unaware the practice and meaning of a value as important as respect.
As I said before, there are many currents that have carried out studies or have expressed their perspective, definition by attachment, in particular two psychological ones stand out, which says that attachment is healthy, even more so when it is established from childhood since when these people grow up will generate more self-confidence, it will also serve as a guide, to know how to face any circumstance that life throws at you, such as goodbyes or knowing when it is time to get away from things that simply steal your peace, of course this happens specifically when a healthy attachment is built from childhood, because we all deserve and must develop bonds with our caregivers in a healthy way, that is to say that they have been aware of the way they behave towards us, in addition to always responding to our needs, but above all everything through a conscious upbringing therefore it will always help because since we were little we always seek to copy the behaviors According to our parents, because they are our maximum authority figure and therefore our first example to follow, developing in environments with secure attachment, brings us more benefits than disadvantages since we will always feel safe, both in the world we inhabit and in the people that inhabit it, we will always feel worthy of deserving, deserving love and affection that we and others can give us, so we will also feel safe with dependence and independence, because we will know how to set limits and understand to what extent each of these is favorable or not for us.
So there are also slightly religious or spiritual points of view, which basically say or they state that they believe that attachment is not healthy, that we as human beings should practice detachment instead of attachment by practicing compassion towards others as for ourselves, through acceptance using their tools such as meditation, of course this point of view does not mean that we should always be alone in the world, on the contrary they also practice pure and unconditional love only that they are against those desires that we cling to that bring us pure negativity such as restlessness, sadness and anxiety, it is a philosophy that seeks that people do not control and much less have expectations for something, or for people who are not possessive and much less that his happiness only has a cavity when he is with someone, if it is within each one of us, well, they are very different points of view, but despite being so, they are related more than you think or we can combine them both, although there are still many discrepancies between the two as mentioned above, today both are more united than ever because they are now handled in psychology as practical exercises meditation and so there are also spiritual guides who use many psychological studies to seek new conclusions on many aspects.
Personally, I think that we should believe in what represents us the most, we should not seek to be something that only turns off our essence, on the contrary, we should always look for answers in things that make us feel more alive, that light up our soul, that's how I am too faithful believer that it is not bad to miss something or someone, but if I am a believer that we must be aware to what extent that feeling is good for our health, as well as learn to let go when more than good it does the opposite, that we do not let Anxiety arrives and it blinds us, I am also a faithful believer that attachment is not bad as long as it is healthy, because ironically this is what will make us more independent and aware, it is also necessary that we seek to understand each other, seek our own philosophy Copying others is not healthy, trying to be someone you are not will only lead you down the path of insecurity, because just as we need ourselves In the same way we need to have people in our lives, in short, be connected with others, so if you want to combine two philosophies, do it, you are the one who has to impose, create and design your own beliefs and if that makes you happy, both emotional , spiritual means that even your health in general will be fine, because as we are inside we will reflect it outside.
P.S; Although many times attachment causes suffering, you have in your possession many tools that different philosophies give and if it is necessary to use and combine them so that you are healthy, do it, do what makes you happy and always ignites your soul.
Drain negative emotions to give birth to many positive emotions
<Life will be so magical depending on the glasses you put on it, it can be positive or negative, it only depends on you but choose well>
Our body is a born storer, we are storers and hoarders, of positive emotions, of good moments, of places, of songs, in short, many more beautiful things, but without a doubt we also store the bad and unpleasant moments that life has given us without doubt for us to learn and be wiser, but many times we are our worst enemy because we use those moments to sabotage ourselves, because we do not have the courage to put a stop even knowing that those moments only cause us negative emotions that if we do not we pay attention and try to drain them or help ourselves to do it ourselves or with the help of a professional they can cause severe problems in our mental health.
Draining the bad things is similar to purging a suitcase where there are only unnecessary things, doing so only gives way to the things that are really a priority, but just as we are compassionate with others, we help them with love, affection, and patience. do it with ourselves, they call it self-love, although for many this sounds a bit self-centered or envious, we have to think of ourselves as the first priority, the person who will always be with you is you, the one who will always drive you to follow your dreams is you yourself, so you should put yourself at the top of the list so that later when you feel strong in every way mentally and physically you can offer many more things to the rest of the world.
When we grow up we always find pieces that will help us to complete our essence, or our personality, adolescence is one of the most beautiful processes that the human being has, it is where we strengthen our essence where we decide that we want to be at that stage at which we are close like adulthood, it is a process that is not the same for everyone, that is why we should not compare our process with the one next door, because everyone flows at their own pace, walks even slowly but leaving traces, it is where the teachings of the experiences we live in those moments build us daily and inevitably force us to make decisions so that we can move forward in life, it is where we must learn to give things their fair value, in addition to trying to cultivate self-esteem that is the one that makes us value ourselves more, besides that it is a tool that God placed us that helps us to know how to differentiate the things that we truly deserve and decline all situations. ion that only serves to destabilize us.
It is a stage in which we learn, where in addition to cultivating self-esteem we should cultivate forgiveness, that many times in moments sadness, anger, revenge blinds us in terms of situations that do not necessarily have to take us to the brink of Feeling those emotions we should be able to forgive and always wish the best to anyone who at some point took away the positivism of our lives, wishing well without looking at those who only show that we are excellent people both inside and out, we are souls that we know how to leave the baggage that does not allow us to take off, that ties us to things that have already happened, of which, without a doubt, we must also forgive ourselves because the would-be does not exist, what happened happened so that we could learn and put aside that to make room for it to new experiences that will surely be more positive and better.
It is difficult for many to drain emotions, it is not an easy process, although doing it is also easy, but it is valid that it only happens when the person feels ready to express their feelings, there will always be family or friends who will not judge you, they will listen to you and they will try to give you an intermediate point of view but always correct and to help you leave what you feel behind, also if you are not one of those who does not feel comfortable talking about your feelings with other people you can write it, writing or writing without doubt often saves lives, one of the most beautiful and rewarding ways to drain everything that weighs us down. Releasing the bad is synonymous with tranquility, peace, harmony with ourselves, everything is a matter of us taking the step of leaving that at this point in the road because many times until we leave that aside, new stops do not come, new adventures that are at the door of our life waiting for you to finally leave the past and start working to build your perfect present.
Writing has been a great help especially for me, before I didn't write a single paragraph, now I am pleasantly surprised because thanks to the baggage that weighed me down I was able to discover the universe of writing from reading, because they go hand in hand, because writing what happens is synonymous with peace and peace in turn is synonymous with tranquility, later I understood that living our dream life only depends on us, on working on all aspects of my life to be able to create my dream present, what to dream It doesn't cost anything but to fulfill dreams if possible and that is only up to us, as soon as we really want that to be fulfilled, understand that regretting and clinging to a past that no longer has head or tail, than staying in bed in a bed just sank me, I thank life because many times it screams at us that we need changes but it is we who mainly play blind, thanks to that day I finally woke up, I was able to put aside my past that weighed so much and start working on me, on building my dream future and present, that only then could I provide more love, better company to anyone who wants to accompany me on this journey called LIFE.
What are you waiting for to drain-transform the negative into positive?
There are heroes who don't necessarily wear a cape, Happy day to the doctors!
<Where the art of medicine is loved, the life of all people is also loved>
Our health, both physical and mental, depends on us and on the doctors who treat any pathology that we suffer from, they are basically heroes who, although they do not fly and do not wear a red cape, even perform miracles when they save the lives of people who are on the verge of death. death, that is his goal and his greatest satisfaction, that his patients are cured and can live a life that generates peace and tranquility knowing that they are well, in short, healthy.
Here in my country Venezuela is commemorated today March 10, the day of those who always want to give their all, so that those who are their patients live with the peace of mind of knowing that they are completely cured, which is synonymous with good health, basically This day was chosen here in Venezuela because it commemorates the birth of a great doctor who was an example of dedication, delivery, sacrifice, in addition to always wanting to ensure the health of those who need it most "Dr José María Vargas" who was also pioneer in many aspects regarding the medicine of that time, in addition to founding the Venezuelan medical society, in order to always support each other, even to teach their studies with other doctors from that area and from other regions, who perhaps at that time At the time, their studies were not as innovative as those of this great doctor and person.
As they realized, he was an example of a doctor but above all things of human quality, who did not feel envy, nor resentment for teaching and leading others towards good practices, imparting knowledge, in addition to being a key piece in the evolution of this branch in our country, that is how time passed until years later another great illustrious in the medical branch wrote the fundamental bases (constitution) for the Venezuelan medical academy and college of doctors, like these great doctors many others are thanked who with total humility have given their lives to social welfare regardless of social class, with immense generosity, humility, love for their branch and total dedication to saving lives.
An example of a Venezuelan doctor who is currently recognized by the Catholic Church as blessed is Dr. José Gregorio Hernández, a great example for any Venezuelan doctor who even died serving the Venezuelan population, trying to give all his knowledge to save a person who he had no money, a great example of man, of human warmth, in addition to being a great doctor and pioneer of Venezuelan medicine because his studies were carried out abroad and with total humility he decided to return to his country to serve even the most needy , an example of struggle and service to society, today, despite the fact that so many years have passed, he is recognized and will continue to be so for his great work, an example without a doubt.
The congratulations today extend to the doctors who are in the exercise of their beautiful profession, as well as those who have already retired because they completed their years of service, also to those who are studying for one day to be a good doctor at the service. of all those who need it, thanks to you, to those who were the past, for your beautiful teachings, thanks to you today there is a very compromising present and future for the branch of Venezuelan medicine, to those who are the future because every day they put effort into it despite the adversities that the country is going through and of course to the doctors who are the present who are exercising their profession, always trying to save lives, you are pure inspiration and have the admiration of many, thank you for saving how many lives can do it.
In particular, it is a day that I remember with great emotion, life has plagued me with many stories to tell and especially one that happened two years ago today, when the pandemic began, my mother had a tragic accident one night where, as usual, here there was light, as the pandemic started it was almost impossible to operate on her at once and in particular I thank my family doctor, my cousin, for fighting for my mother so that she could have her operation and return to normal, walk again now who had a fracture in one of his toes and it was impossible for him to support him, thanks to him it was possible to do it on a day like today, without a doubt he is an example of help, perseverance and dedication to his patients, he is also It is a pleasure to thank him because thanks to him, an uncle was able to obtain a cancer diagnosis in time and today he can say that his cancer has partially disappeared from his body, for which I thank him, without a doubt, he is one of the best doctors. On the other hand, do not leave your health aside, not even your physical health, much less your mental health. An early diagnosis can save many lives, friends. Just as we are aware of superficial things, it is fair to be more aware of our health.
Happy day to all doctors, you are certainly an inspiration!
Turning the negative into positive only depends on us
Many times life is in charge of giving us lessons through other people, they are divine signs, which I am infinitely grateful for because the person we least expect to receive is the one we do the most, even if it is just simple teachings that enrich our lives more than things materials. They are people we don't even know personally but through a screen, with their life story, they are pure inspiration, to always move forward, above all they are lifesavers at times when the only thing we want is to sink, or as they say here in Venezuela throw the towel, they are people who, even if they don't know it, save and change lives, they are inspiring people of those who are more part of the solution than of the problem, people of those who should abound more in the world, but I am infinitely grateful to God, to the life and the universe for putting them in my path as a ray of light, hope or as a divine sign.
Why am I going to lie to you, there are times when we all have downturns, good days but also days when the sun does not appear for anything in the world if we do not intervene, if we are not aware that our days can change, that our mood can change, that we can change sadness or happiness because it is a decision, because whenever we are low in spirits, self-esteem, happiness it is because something happens, but we must give ourselves to the task of always working on ourselves, investigating, informing ourselves, filling ourselves with knowledge that our happiness only depends on us, on our limiting beliefs, that we can change that small detail of our state of mind with a simple decision, with saying I don't feel good feeling x and y emotion, I'm going to start working on that, because any problem has a solution, it is valid to lay down for a while to regret things but it is necessary for our own good that it is not healthy to feel negative emotions for more than you time of what is necessary, living dissatisfied, sad, as if we were always missing something is not healthy, but the step to change that only depends on you, that you want to evolve as a person, that you leave behind that negative and want to take advantage of it by turning it into a positive.
Life gives us the necessary tools to lead our lives in every way and it is up to us to take them or not, to know how to handle them or to learn because it is valid to make mistakes because we are not born learned, life is plagued by first times, which in turn make completely enjoyable and MAGICAL life, are experiences that mark us for life, leave us full of stories to tell our family, friends and future generations, enriching experiences, more than collecting material things my main goal in this life is to collect experiences, moments, making the most of time, taking advantage of my present, in one of those random experiences that life put in my destiny, was meeting people who may not know who I am but with their example, philosophy and life story they contribute grains of sand to my life, they help me understand many things, simply telling their life experiences and giving advice, my grandmother was a woman He is very particular and he always told me to take advice, that the one who takes it becomes old, many will not do it because they prefer to have their own experiences and learn from their own mistakes, it is valid, but how enriching it is to take advice, anyway These days I came across an interview, I am a very curious person, I love learning from the experiences of others, seeing these interviews has made me understand that many are those who judge a book by its cover, thus denying themselves a paradise contained between so much written the same thing it happens in real life, we mistakenly think that the lives of others are rosy when it is not, we all suffer, regardless of whether you are rich or poor, but in the end, I was continuously listening to an interview with an actress, who said that since she was a child she had lived firsthand the domestic abuse of her father to her mother, that in some way she had manifested that for her life and was currently in a relationship where her boyfriend she acted hurting her, she didn't care that she was a woman but in the end she said that she had forgiven so many people she would have hurt her, but that she had sought help to put a stop to manifesting what she lived as a child, that time was a great teacher who had taught him to always turn the negative into something positive, always keeping rewarding experiences for his life.
And just like her, many more people who by chance come into my life to be participants in my process even though they don't even know who I am, but I certainly thank them for not being selfish and telling their stories, many people are the ones who decide stay with inspiring stories just out of pity, today I call on you so that you don't feel it, nor can you imagine how many people your story will help, knowing that they went through a similar process, that with acceptance, seeking help, wanting to kick out Go ahead, overcome each day, they managed to turn any negative thing into something completely positive, today for me is one of those days of low spirits, where I didn't even want to get out of bed or do my daily article, but I didn't let myself be discouraged, on the contrary I had my time to regret but I was aware that this is something negative for my health in general, that I have to try to go even against the current to try to improve myself every day, so I took the reins of the situation and said YES I can, I can get up, get pretty, do my article, to let off steam a bit and maybe my story will inspire someone, if I was able to transform my moods into positive, you You can also, find out, seek help even from friends, just by listening to you they do something positive for you, do not be daunted by adversity, because we are the most creative human beings that exist and by using our mind we can create creative solutions to any problem that we have, because the only thing without a solution is death.
And you will begin to transform the negative into positive?
PS: Do not wait for life to make decisions for you that only correspond to you and that later you did not like and you would have preferred to make them yourself, the power is in taking action, do not forget it.
Being a woman is an adventure all and my greatest strength
<Behind every woman there is a story and a process that made her a warrior and a being of light>
Being a woman has no definition, it is completely an experience full of virtues that God has put on our path, it is a day that we should celebrate every day of the year, because we are beings who do not let ourselves be daunted by anything, we always have the energy a thousand accepting every challenge that life puts us to overcome ourselves, from those warriors of past times who gave their grain of sand so that today we were free, equality existed, we could wear anything that simply makes us feel beautiful, to these women should be this day, a complete tribute to them who were, are and will continue to be a tireless example of pure and hard work, that women will never be nor are we the weaker sex, on the contrary we can and are capable of achieving anything we set out to do and we feel like it.
This is a date to always remember, analyze and take as an example of those women who made it possible and who also made equality possible in many aspects, in being treated with respect, economically, in the working hours worked, those women today they are heroines because some gave even their lives to demonstrate their perspective and show that those people who had power at that time should open their minds more, today we can only THANK THEM, they were pioneers for today our role as women in society, because we are not only mothers, wives, girlfriends, sisters, daughters, granddaughters, cousins, sisters-in-law, friends, we are tireless workers to always achieve our dreams and goals, because we are an example that we are capable of doing various roles at the time and we don't die trying, even if we are exhausted we always seek to move forward every day, always trying to improve ourselves.
We are beings full of pure magic and we do magic in everything we set out to do, we are sublime, dedicated, loving, we are multifaceted, we can create life, we are intelligent, capable, we are fighters, in a few words we are a bomb, we are irresistible, particularly before I thought it was easier to be a man and more beautiful, but going out into the world is verifying that the most beautiful thing that God gave me was to be a woman, because we are so different, full of mystery, we are capable of conquering even the moon if we set our minds to it, and although many want to stop us, our desire to improve ourselves and make ourselves happy is stronger than the desire to simply satisfy others.
We have no definition but if we are INCREDIBLE, I am unable to have mixed emotions every day because we are more remarkable every day, more capable of thinking, sustaining and creating totally different things with a unique stamp that characterizes us, we are even capable of making HISTORY, for fighters, for not being conformists and only settling for crumbs, because we change the world as we please to be able to meet our goals but above all do it at our own pace or in a few words walking at our own pace, for me today it is a great PRIDE to be woman, to be able to walk and find on that path powerful women with always bright eyes full of dreams who only focus on surpassing her, who put envy aside, to accompany other powerful women on their path, bringing them great things without envy, without jealousy , without grudges, a powerful woman knows that she is unique and that there will never be someone like her, she does not let herself be intimidated by negative emotions h towards other women, on the contrary, she always seeks to bring positivism to others. Let's stay united, pushing each other every day to be better because together we are more powerful and unstoppable.
As Frida Kahlo used to say, a woman whom I admire for her courage "I want feet for if I have wings to fly" we are invincible even if only we ourselves initially bet on our ideas, on our dreams, because the most important thing is that we never stop believing in ourselves, that we are intelligent and very capable of meeting goals and being an inspiration to others, being a woman is so rich, being a woman is creating and cultivating self-love every day, that love that heals even what others they did wrong, what others rejected, self-esteem even becomes one of our greatest strengths as women, because it allows us to value ourselves more, because we are big women, it allows us to know what we deserve, it also gives us love and acceptance for what we are knowing that every day we can improve more and improve ourselves. Today with all my heart I celebrate with the most powerful group in the world, women, I praise us because we are magical, capable and powerful together, happy day to you lady who reads me because you are a super special woman, unique and capable of achieving what you know. propose and if no one has told you, I believe in you and your abilities.
The women of my life
It is inevitable that it will not be a day full of nostalgia because many of our influence on what we are today we owe to the women around us, to the first women we saw and with whom we shared, yes friends, indeed women of our life, for me it is inevitable not to feel a little nostalgic but what I am today I owe in part to a particular woman, my grandmother, my greatest example, my heroine, that woman who in times of machismo and married, She was still working to fight for herself to buy her things without wanting to always depend on my grandfather, an independent woman who, with her example, only conveyed to me that working tirelessly to meet goals leaves us with a satisfaction that is unmatched by anything in the world. Grandma, thank you very much, I hope that today you celebrate your day in heaven a lot because without a doubt you fought too much, you are my greatest example to follow.
Also to my mom, who even with many obstacles I always seek to overcome, to my sisters, who fight every day, to my cousins, my aunts and all my friends, because together we are powerful women, I hope that her fighting flame never goes out tirelessly to achieve and meet goals, my admiration for all of them, because they are unique, because each one shines in a different way because without the need to turn off others we are powerful, I love you, happy day, never stop shining.
From my
For me
Happy day, because you never get tired of working on yourself and for you, to make yourself happy first to be able to contribute to the happiness of the rest of the world, you are magical and vibrant, I hope to see you achieve goals, do not be daunted by bad comments because without a doubt I know that you will be successful in any area that you propose, you are beautiful just the way you are. Don't forget that every day is an opportunity to be your best version.
Today, just as you write something nice for the other powerful women, write something for yourself because you also need it, because you need it even more if it comes from you and is addressed to you.
The planet is much more than a simple planet, it is our home
<Let's become aware and help others to do it, we are destroying ourselves exterminating and continuously damaging the environment>
Dear readers; Although many are tired of hearing and reading that we must take care of the planet, really if you were to analyze the situation it is something that really requires our full attention and our maximum dedication, because every day that passes the beautiful planet, healthy that it was, becomes completely the opposite. and all for the ignorant and unconscious human being, who thinks that the world will always be the same, that the world does not deteriorate with his actions, actions that lead the planet to a slow and certain death if we do not become aware and make others too they do it.
Unfortunately and tragically, the planet is not the same one that our ancestors, grandparents, inhabited before, every day that passes, many are in charge of helping but in the process of wear and tear on the planet, in the contamination of the water, "throwing waste, garbage in rivers , beaches and seas is like suicide because you poison them and they will do the same to you”, because human beings always have to be hydrated and you must drink water daily, if you analyze those same waters you drink them, but unfortunately The point will come when not even applying certain chemicals to them will make these waters crystal clear and drinkable, they will become a poison that we ourselves have created through ignorance, so get your batteries, instead of throwing things in those places, take them where if can do, also contribute with your example so that when you see another do it you can tell him that what he does is going to kill him and his future generations very slowly.
As we all know, the earth is a complete paradise, which has been in the universe for many years, it is also one of the largest planets that exist, which revolves around the sun and is capable of hosting human life, because as I mentioned earlier it has large amounts of water, in addition to covering many of the needs of human beings, in short, there are many species that inhabit it, including ours, which is perhaps one of the most harmful for the planet, because even with reason, knowing the good, the bad, being the strong race we have taken care with our actions to deteriorate our home, something we should think about, analyze more realize the damage we cause, today we see more effects given by that erroneous behavior such as climate change, than before It was mainly due to completely natural causes, but it changed a few years ago when experts in the field determined that we are the species that is negatively contributing to this process. Advance.
It is something that we can mitigate if we wish, if the big industries, which work with coal, with gases, with oil and others, look for alternative plans to take care of our home because it is everyone's task, not just a few, it is something that affects to any area of the world. Unfortunately there are few who care about the house where our home is located, there are many more who prefer to ignore the problem than be part of the solution, we see many forest fires due to the high temperatures that kill trees that the only thing that keeps us they give people oxygen to be able to breathe, just as we see that other unconscious people prefer to cut down trees even just for simple vanity, I wish it were the other way around and we would take charge and consider ourselves and our relatives as a habit at least plant a tree for each one, perhaps we would not see the positive effects immediately but future generations would and I am sure they would thank us because we took the time to contribute something truly good to our home, I wish we would become more aware and let of being such consumerist generations and little concerned about pollution, I wish we would raise awareness.
Particularly some will wonder why you decided to do this article, my main reason is so that everyone who reads it at least has a little more interest in these issues that really need our attention and concern us all, also today that I am more aware of these changes that occur mainly due to global warming and human beings as the main cause of today being an even faster and more degenerative process for the earth. It is something that we have right in front of our noses because even here in Venezuela these damages are beginning to be noticed, with high and low temperatures that change radically from one moment to another when, before, it was not like that or at least where I live. In my moments of reflection, I always wonder why people are so ignorant that they avoid even the problems that are right under their noses and do nothing to be part of the change, part of the solution, that throwing garbage in the street only makes us ignorant beings with a lack of conscience even worse than animals, that polluting is synonymous with damaging OUR HOME.
And you already reflected, are you part of the solution?
Let's make love fashionable and not war
<May our motto always be love, peace, respect and empathy, let us put aside wars, hatred and ambition, which are only cowardly solutions to meaningless conflicts>
Dear readers: Perhaps many are familiar with a famous motto that says "LET'S MAKE LOVE AND NOT WAR" many are those who use it but few are those who truly dare to put it into practice, we see a clear example today, people who only move them harmful emotions that consume the human being, bringing out pure rot, such as hatred, ambition, desire for power, creating wars, taking away the peace of people who are innocent and have nothing to do with so many wars by proxy. Although it is clear that it is not only they who are moved by hatred, a large part of the world population prefer these harmful and chaotic emotions that end up consuming even their own body than love, the happiness that this brings, but above all they choose the storm before that calm prefers to live in constant war than peace.
There are many who simply confuse the word LOVE, this goes beyond the physical, the carnal, it is an emotion that, like a package, brings with it many emotions contained within it, such as peace, respect, empathy, generosity, commitment and dedication, understanding, affection, allows us to give our existence an almost 360º turn, turning our gray days into days full of color, sunny days that can only bring us true happiness. The peace that love generates cannot be compared to anything else, it is incomparable, "love and affection, authentic and true, cannot be bought or sold" loving freely without ties and chains allows us to live without grudges, without hatred, without prejudices, in a few words without emotions that lead us to ruin, it is time to accept and leave false ideas that with hatred, power, greed is what will make us evolve because it is a completely wrong thought, that will only make us live blinded, blinded by a false idea, which will always deprive us in one way or another of being free, of loving without ties and consideration.
Love is synonymous with FREEDOM, with freedom to leave hatred, blasphemies, violet acts that only distance us from our most human side and in a nutshell turns us into monsters, love allows the world to evolve, improve day after day, that the people who convert to this almost that their religion are capable of being TOLERANT, of accepting us all knowing that nobody is perfect, that we all have defects and virtues of which we are aware, that we always seek to improve and change, that together we can do the greatest act of love in the world that is to RESPECT each other, it is time to put aside those ideas that in a nutshell are the most lethal and dangerous weapons, they are those ideas that fill us with evil, hate and enjoy every moment plagued with love, that God gives us, enjoy everything that surrounds us, enjoy the diversity of thoughts, of people always take advantage of everything for the positive.
"Make love and not war" there are people who when this slogan is said only think about the sexual act, their minds have not yet opened, they have not evolved to give themselves or take the time to see that it goes far beyond that , that love is the most beautiful feeling, that it is what moves the world, that loving anyone only makes us better human beings, that loving what is around us only contributes to that love flourishing, that loving others animals, nature can only cultivate more pure love. That sometimes we are so hollow that we are not able to discern certain aspects, that there are emotions that go beyond what we can see and touch, that the intangible is even what makes us better people, that it is okay to lose a little balance for love
It is a slogan that is very old but hopefully today it would become fashionable and reach especially powerful people, especially certain presidents, who put into practice the slogan of love, who change hate, power for love. I wish they would become more aware of all the lives that are affected by their decisions, decisions that only suit them and make them happier, that their goal is to ensure the integrity of the entire society, that it only takes a second to analyze and make good decisions that favor everyone as a nation, that love and not hate be the best movement for which they fight, it also goes to all those who only feel, resentment, hatred, who seek conflict with anyone, who are emotions that are only responsible for destroying, destroying even our physical and mental integrity, that it is better to live a life in peace full of love, forgiveness, forgetfulness, empathy, generosity, understanding than a life full of destruction and self-destruction just because we are blind.
I hope with all my heart that the conflicts that are plaguing the world today cease and that peace reigns again in homes, that people who had to go and leave their homes, their lives, for the mere idea of war return to their lands, that no one suffers by emotions that only destroy. LET'S MAKE LOVE FASHIONABLE.
Did you change love for hate?
Your best and most important project is you
<Invest in yourself, in your mental and physical health, in your knowledge, learn and create incredible moments because you are and will always be your best project>
Dear readers: Life is plagued by stages or seasons, in the first we are inexperienced, until now we are knowing ourselves and defining what we will be in the future, but precisely those are the ones that will mark the rest of our lives, it also depends a lot on what our parents instill in us, but also from us, from the decisions we make along the way, from the values we acquire, from the value we place on negative things to change them for strengths.
Not always staying with knowing only one side of the coin, discovering that the world has many facets, that although there are many of them that are negative, always staying with the good, the beautiful, the positive that each one can offer us, venturing into to know, the unknown, to open doors, perhaps in one of those we will stay because that is life, first we have to make mistakes to learn from those mistakes and be able to have the wisdom to choose well, of course we will never be sure of knowing if we knew do it, there will always be doubts, or what would have happened if, but we must put them aside without any guilt because at some point along the way we make those decisions with all the conviction in the world, do not feel guilty if a door closes, it is God speaking to you or giving you a sign in some way because it is not that way, that path will only bring negativity into your life and tea is taking away pain, we must be clear that much better things always come.
In a way, being alive is waking up from a very deep sleep in which our soul is calm, without knowledge and when it wakes up it wants to learn more, but above all to give itself body and soul to LIVE, it is to recognize, to praise all those who surrounds everything we have because whoever is not happy with what they have will be less happy with what they think they think they lack. That is why I want to give you some advice, work on yourselves, do not be afraid of CHANGE, the only sure thing in this life is change, everything changes, mutates, flows, so you are free to change, fly high, leave fear aside, this only chains you, do not be afraid or ashamed to face your flaws, because we are all made of them, even so we do not stop even being imperfectly perfect, take them and turn them into your greatest strength, no one has the power to point out or judge them more than you, no one is a judge in anyone's life, you are your own judge, change for the better, to improve your life, to be stronger and make decisions that only lead to your own success.
Success is a word that does not mean the same for everyone, what for me personally may be success, for you it is not, for the one next to you it is not, nobody is wrong, we all have our own own truth, although it is inevitable that people evoke their opinion, it is necessary that they do so consciously from RESPECT, from kindness, from empathy, because hate only poisons our lives, throwing bad comments unconsciously can even damage the mental health of That's why people, friends, must be PRUDENT, not all of us have the ability to take bad things and turn them into positive ones, this can only be gained by working for ourselves, for our mental health, because a healthy mind is synonymous with a healthy body.
Work on our self-esteem, love ourselves in all our facets, in all our periods, love each person we were in the different stages of our lives, because if you analyze you are not the same as yesterday, much less the one you were a year ago. the experiences, learning experiences change you, or you decide to change yourself, because you simply want to be better and to be better you must change, your thoughts and your way of acting, never forget this YOU can change your life, when you change your thoughts think positive only attract positive things, thinking about abundance can only bring abundance to your life, thinking about hate and negative things only bring bad and horrible situations to your life, the power is in your hands and you have to take action because otherwise life will end. It will take care of making decisions for you that you might not like and it will be too late even when you realize it.
THANK all of our versions, because all of them have undoubtedly contributed something, even the most mediocre one that did not know anything but thanks to that at that precise moment that I took the initiative to take action, learn new things, things that in the long run only they would come back wiser, to thank even for the decisions that at the time we later regret, thanks to ALL that today I am a better person, who every day seeks change, in any way thoughts and actions that ADD and not that REMAIN, but above all I I forgive and free myself from any bondage in the past, because to enjoy and live 100% in the present I have to let go of the past in order to make room for the good and beautiful things that come to my life, stop planning so much for my future without do anything to create a great present, because if we wait for the famous right moment we can lose a lot of time, in which we would have worked for many more opportunities, live grateful, live today, be grateful for everything or what you have and value it many people would like what you have and you are the lucky one to have it.
I love all my versions and I thank each one of them because without them I would not have made the best decision of my life, which is to work on myself and in all my processes.
And have you already started working on yourself, on your self-esteem, on your physical and mental health?
@milaagrosramirez
