CRYING SHOULDER: A friend in time of need. **FOR SURE** you already experience this thing. Being other people's crying shoulder when they are sad, broke, depressed, anxious, down and such. And when we feel the same, we can't find those people who will help us fight the struggle we are experiencing. That's really sad, but because we love to help, even when they are not there to help us in time of need, we still help them. That is because of love.
***Dave Willis once said, "It's not our job to fix people, It's our job to love them even while they are broken."*** I agree with this qoute. It is not our job to fix them because they themselves will be the one who can fix them. They're the one who knows there true self. Also, God, He is our creator, He know us and He's the only one who could really help fixing our self. For me, He is the only one who knows us and the perfect one who knows how to fix us and He will fix us. And since it is not our job to fix them, it is our job to love them while they are broken. What you are doing to your friend as your mean of helping, encouraging and motivating, continue doing it because it's love. Don't get tired of doing it even we don't receive the same. And for you guys who loves helping, I want to encourage you that no matter what happen, don't lose hope. Fight the battles, keep moving, keep standing. If you feel so tired, have a rest, it's okay to rest, it's normal to rest because resting doesn't mean you lose the battle. It is because or it means that you are a fighter, you are strong!! See! YOU ARE STRONG! Say it straight to your heart! I AM A FIGHTER, I AM STRONG! Sadness, problems, failures are just temporary, what is permanent is the heart that is brave, a lover, an encourager, a helper. Continue loving, continue helping because even when we don't see what's happening after we show our love to others, someday we will understand it, we will reap it because it's the seed that we planted, It's the time we spend worth to other people. Enjoyyy and have a great day! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! _________________________________________________ Feel free to visit my account and read more motivational words plus free encouraging minimalist wallpaper for youu!! See you there! Disclaimer: The picture in the lead image as well as in the article are credited to respectful owner as stated in the bottom of the picture. Thank you!
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Truly this is deep. God is the only one who can fix us, we are the only one who can appreciate and feel His existence and receive the comfort we really need. Maybe that’s why loving is one of the most important in human traits, because that is how we can survive, we can do something good and help others. Thanks for this touching article
you nailed it! you summarize it all. Thank you for sharing your insights and you're right, that is how we can survive.
ack thank you so much for your wonderful ideas, how your mind works really is such a help for others
The world is suffering, we need people who motivates haha and I want to become one of these.
you were born to be like that talaga
i don't think so ahahhha but lifting others make the world better but lumulubog ako madalas pero kaya naman
because we are all humans who are all equal to Him. it’s just that we have the unique way of how to be strong when we are drowning
youre right and what your eyes see when your drowning is trust hope and faith
yes!!! that’s how Jesus showed His love and grace to all of us. cheers hoomans!
cheeers to us, Jesus never left us and He will never leave us nor forsake us
yes yes! what a wonderful name it is!!!
i love that soonggg, i really i love ittt waaaahhh