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Lying. People come up with anything to get out of a sticky situation. These times you can be a teenager, a young adult or even an old man and not have the grace to tell the truth. It’s worth nothing to have been raised in families with a lot of power, or in families with very little productive capacity. The fact is that the power to lie is so strong that the ability to tell a truth was totally lost. We don’t make simple lies, whenever people think and create a convoluted plot to get their way it becomes a problem, we don't think simple. If we just think about it calmly, not making up so many stories and actually trying to tell the truth brings more benefits. Making up complicated lies puts a lot of weight on your mind and your body feels heavier. When you tell the truth, you don't spend so many hours arranging in your mind a dozen chapters of strange stories to tell and convince others. Why are we so passionate about telling lies? Why don't we try to give our all and tell the truth even if it hurts? Even if we lose money, even if we lose time, even if we lose patience and many other things, we should not lose our most sacred thing: dignity! Dignity is something that cannot be bought, cannot be achieved, cannot be obtained with words or money. That is something earn in life with your attitude.
To be a person with dignity is to be a person of integrity. It's about feeling good about yourself for doing and saying things in the best possible way, without expecting someone to see or approve of what you say or do. It is feeling good with yourself and with your life, because you know for yourself that you have a good attitude and when you feel like a worthy person you don't need to tell lies. Because the lie weighs on your life and on your heart, because when you are a worthy person, a lie weighs more than your own weight in grams. When you are a person with dignity, you cannot handle a lie because even if it is small, it’s bigger than you. Why let evil win and not give rein to the goodness that is inside each one of us? Why not tell the truth even if many people don't like it? Does it make you happy to tell lies? How can that be? How it can make you happy to carry so much weight on your mind and heart for a long time instead of coming out of it with the truth? Don't you know that when you lie you have to make many changes in life so that they continue to believe your lie? Don't you know that when you tell lies at any moment you can fall into your own plot and make a mistake in what you say? And then you start to be an unbelievable person, you lose your dignity and not because others judge you but because you degrade yourself. Think wisely. Do you want to continue lying? Or do you go over to the side of the truth? This is a short life, let's not degrade it by taking difficult paths. Being able to live a full life without so many vices. The path of truth is a straight path, it has no curves. Living in the truth leaves you a longer margin of life. You feel more alive and above all you feel like a simpler person and more useful. Be of integrity, be worthy, tell no to lies... say yes to the truth!
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It's proved that even a 2-year-old lies. Children who are never punished, or punished for lying. This means lying is human and there's no honesty. Only a few speak the truth and out of the experience, I can tell you you are not liked if you do so. People do not like to hear the truth but lies that make them feel better. It's easy to fool people. It all has to do with your voice, expression. You can tell a big lie and they believe you, tell the truth and they say you lie, made it up. To stay safe you better stay away from people and live your own life and don't talk too much.
The child is learning if he does not receive advice he will grow up with lies. Body expression gives you away when you lie, whether it's a big or small lie, something in your body says otherwise. If you are not in the habit of observing people when they speak, you will never notice the changes. I like to say things as they are. My profession taught me to tell each one what is due, because if I keep something I forget. If the people around me lie, I allow them to speak but then it is my turn to speak. I am within a group of people who do They accept me for correcting lies is fine and if I am not to their liking I don't care because more and more always come people to my groups and among so many there are several that we get along well. We cannot go out and carry the word and carry lies with us. Sorry. People already know me! And if I have to talk a lot, the best thing is not to lie.
It is not said a child without advice grows up with lies. Many children if not most grow up with lies, brainwashed by teachers, parents, media, the government. The way we think and judge is influenced by the culture we grow up, the hate and intolerance to others. Religion that teaches us we own the only real God, et cetera. ☹
People don't like to hear the truth, yet the damage that lying does is so devastating. That's why I like to detach myself from people a bit and not get too close so that IU can tell them the truth without fearing for our relationship. The fact is that saying the truth is dangerous nowadays, so people choose the easy way out. But anything begun with lies must be maintained by lies.
I prefer to separate myself from lying people. People find lying a lot of fun. If you start with a lie you must keep it and at some point it will fall. I don't care who you are if I know you're lying I'll tell you. Thanks for the upvote!
You're welcome. Liars are never fun to have around because you'll get stuck in this paranoia of not knowing if you're hearing the truth or not.
It is true. It is not good to be aware if the person next to you is lying to you or not. The important thing is to know that he does not involve you in his lies. there are people who have their life around lies and want you to support them. It is not pleasant, I prefer not to be present to know that I am a witness to the lies and I can not do anything. It is a way of life, and people accept it very well. Too bad I can't stand that lifestyle.
It's a lot better if they don't make me corroborate with their lies