@foryoubtc09 25 August 2022

Sit crooked and speak straight There is an idiom; *let's sit crooked and speak the truth!* And there is another saying; *whoever tells the truth is chased out of nine villages!*

image source https://pixabay.com/nl/photos/smiley-emoticon-woede-boos-angst-2979107/ Are people really brave enough to speak the truth? Or are the environments where they can speak the truth prepared for them? We know that those who chase the truth tellers out of the village are everywhere. When people from whom we expect honesty show it, punishing them directly or indirectly can be hurtful at the end of their courageous step. It may also be doubted that they will ever behave honestly again. If there is a mistake, it can be shared between the parties, as the environment provided will be directly reflected in the behaviour. No one will accept the mistake and see themselves as white as milk. Therefore, the responsibility for the mistake to be shared is equal whether it is accepted or not.

image source https://pixabay.com/nl/photos/spelen-steen-veelkleurig-smilies-1744790/ Our behaviour becomes permanent after a while. Lying becomes permanent over time, or telling the truth in all circumstances becomes a natural habit. In both cases, the environment and the people we are in contact with contribute in one way or another. While some behaviours push the other party to lie and some behaviours push the other party to tell the truth, the influence of the environment and the people one is in contact with is decisive. Of course, there will be exceptions. No matter what kind of environment and trust you provide, there will always be those who impose their own truth and read what they know. Saying that exceptions do not break the rule, ignoring them and not allowing them to affect generalisation provides a more realistic reflection of statistical information. Displaying ethical behaviour positively shows the possible results of projecting oneself correctly and behaving as one should. The impression and impression given ensures a winning start to every match. It will be valid as long as the approach is free from prejudiced behaviours. Whatever you do to someone who is already prejudiced, you can't do good.

image source https://pixabay.com/nl/photos/verschillende-nationaliteiten-1743392/ Whether you are always on the side of the truth in ethical behaviour or constantly make mistakes without any consistency, the results will affect you first with positive or negative repercussions. Just as a liar deceives others in the short term but himself/herself in the long term, our behaviour will determine whether we are on the losing/winning side. And our behaviour will have an absolute impact on our personality. Whether life is long or short also depends on the perspective we take. We are not misleading anyone by saying that it is short in some places and long in others. It really is so because determining the standard of living does not depend only on material values. In fact, on the invisible side of life, our spiritual values are more dominant and determine whether life is short or long. I don't know about the other worlds, but evaluating life in this world as true or false is as simple as choosing to drink soup with or without sauce. When you live your life in this world correctly, life and the world are real, but when you build it on lies, the world is both a lie and temporary. When you leave a trace of your life, it is permanent.