From Grace To Grass
If anyone told me that I'll become a poor person, I would just laugh it off. I was once a wealthy business tycoon. The fact that I was the wealthiest man in the city could not be overemphasized. I married many wives and had lots of children, Although everyone detested my unruly behaviours, I care less.
One fateful day, I was on a business trip to Canada when I was robbed and left empty-handed. Before then, a man of God had warned me against going to Canada but I ignored the man.
Everyone in town knew me to be a very proud, arrogant, disrespectful and boastful man.
I insulted different people, young and old, poor and rich. I ate whatever I liked and did whatever I felt like doing. Before I became so popular and wealthy, I had only one wife and two children. Her name was Aduke, she stood by me in my problems only for me to disappoint her when I became rich by marrying more women and had a lot of children.
As I sat and thought of my ordeals, I remembered when I abused a young girl in college. Shade became pregnant and gave birth to a boy. I ran away and far away, but Shade's friend exposed me to her parents after seeing me in another town. So Shade's parents traced me and gave the child to me leaving me speechless and hopeless. After thinking of what to do, I decided to hand over my son to the motherless baby home.
Even my dearest wife, Aduke didn't know if my son, Ade and I didn't care to tell her because she might divorce me.
Years after I became wealthy. I married seven wives and had seventeen children. In addition, the children Shade, Qduk and Chioma gave me making all my children twenty-seven.
I continued weeping as I thought of myself. Now all my children and wives had left me. My mansions, cars, companies and friend had deserted me, I was hopeless. I am Adebusuyi Akande, A man of average height bein, at the age of 67, I knew I was getting old and there was no hope of building another family and career.
I now live in an uncompleted building by the stream. I work on a building site (at least) daily and collect a meagre amount of money that can feed me alone. All my clothes are torn, I don't even have a good pair of slippers.
As I stood up from the block I sat on. I looked up to the cloud and ask for God's mercy. I went in, changed my clothes and went out. As I trekked on a lonely path. I met an old friend. Although I was ashamed, I managed to get across to myself. I begged him to forgive me but washed me off with an insult.
" Chief Adebusuyi Akande Aremu, a one-time business tycoon, Said Nice meeting you again, I heard everything that happened to you and I am so sorry for you. Now that you are poor, you cannot insult anybody. You wretched man, look at yourself, so you can apologize, isn't it, after all, you did to everyone. Well, I cannot be of any help for you so take your leave" my friend thundered
I stood transfixed to a spot, not knowing what to do next. At the sound of the horn, I moved swiftly away from the road to avoid being hit. I weep bitterly. Had I known I would have been nice to all my friends, but it's too late.
I strolled down the stream not far from my house, I regretted all my actions and promised to tell what has happened to me to people around me and the work at large. I will tell them that it is not good to be wicked to people and we should ensure to give when we have. I will tell them to always try by all means to help the needy.
Road To Forgiveness
Janet is a beautiful girl who has the power to change things except to her lover. She was burn with this power and at a time wanted to get ride of this power until she met a man called haggai. This man was like a man sent to help her guard against her power. A man who is able to make her control her power instead of either not knowing how to use it or misusing it. So,before the arrival of Haggai, she was fed up of her life without knowing how to control her power, she became weird and was just roaming from one point to the other. Janet can change any object to anything of her choice.
One day, Janet was on her way to fetch water where she met a guy with a **malicious** mind, and immediately, he began to chase her and she could not be able to fetch the water. She guesses the man has powers and could not make any attempt to hurt him. So, while running, she became angry and anger can change her mood to bring out the very power she has within her. She did not know how to control the power but can harm anyone who attempts to harm her.. Out of anger, her power to change any object came into her. She stopped without running, with her eyes red, her hair standing separated and some sought of strange voice which came over her.
Immediately, she turned back and indeed the guy chasing her was surprised to see how weird she was and stopped chasing her instead he began to run. He ran as fast as possible to save his life, but could not instead, Janet transformed him to an old man who happened to be frailty.
After the transformation, she became calm and was feeling sober for what she had done. She does not know how to avert what she has changed. The guy she changed to an old man began to roam about since no one would be able to save or recognize him, **he was so weak and delicate without much strength**. The frailty caused his loss of the power he had. One woman who was living in a small hurt saw him and helped him out where he was living with her. He was not able to go back home as no one would recognize him. He narrated what happened to the woman who agreed to let him stay in her house.
At this junction, Haggai came in who happened to be someone who can help her control her powers. She was later taught how to control her power and when to make use of it. It took time for her to understand Haggai, but she later got all that she was taught.
The young guy who she converted to an old man later came back for revenge and filled with the realm of **malicious** mind and furry, after being cooked by the old woman he was staying with. The old woman only has power to cook him, but does not have power to change him back to the normal being he was before. So, he was greatly cooked and prepared to wage war against the one who has extra power and even more than the woman who prepared him. The woman who prepared him made a mistake for not finding out the kind of person she was before diluting the mind of the guy with furry revenge.
So, since she has the power to change things, in the place she was seated, she got the feelings that someone would come after her. She was restless and decided to stand to get herself prepared. Meanwhile, she told Haggai about the feelings she is having, and he believed her. Where she was seated, she became angered just of a sudden with great heat ands sweat running out of her. Haggai, after seeing her, knew something is going to happen. He was trying to calm her but then, it was too late just because the anger has gotten to its peak. This was just as a result of the discord between the one who she transformed into an old man and herself. When the transformed man came around, immediately he saw the kind of fire coming out of Janet's eyes and hand, so he was about to strike when he got a second thought of apologising to Janet to transform him back to normal person. So, he knelt down with passion and with the look of remorse on his face, Janet later got the apology and indeed transformed Jim to the very person he was. He was so happy and indeed Haggai was happy that she completed his job of teaching her how to have passion and also to calm down whenever she is angry.
Laziness Can Kill Careers
Being lazy cannot help you but will make you the worst you can ever think of. Laziness is not what we all want, but striving hard to do something better instead of sitting at a spot can help us.
If you are the type that does not have a focus, then you can remain lazy. This means the word Laziness is just for you and you alone. To every human being on earth, there exists within us a focus that can make us push forward in life. There are many people today who love sitting at a spot without disturbing themselves in doing some jobs or finding some jobs for themselves.
Many people depend on people to survive. This cannot help you because that person you are depending on has his or her problems to tackle. There is a saying that every day is not Christmas. Yes, I so much believed in this saying. People can be dependent and can go the extra mile to commit all their lives to the person whom they have tagged as their helpers. We are just having the same mind and are equal in all ways, Laziness has overtaken our minds and brought us into the wrong aspect of life.
We need to be agile in all our doings and try as much as we can to take up something for ourselves or our lives. Don't you think that you have sat too much in a spot? Yes... You are just sitting without finding yourself something small to get involved with. Do not remain dormant, but just try hard to do something to keep you busy.
People who are not ready to work always get themselves involved with overnight making money. They always get themselves quick money and this involves rituals. They call them Yahoo boys who cannot work or do not want to find something to do but want to get themselves killed by their fellows. What does it profit you if you stain your hands with innocent blood? I don't think you have any gain in it. In as far as there is no gain in it, then you just need to deviate from these kinds of characters or actors.
You cannot make it in life when you are lazy. A boy once said he cannot read because God has told him to relax. He said God said to him that even when he did not read, he will still pass his exams at distinction level. So, he kept on remaining in the house without reading his books. He was so adamant despite the numerous pieces of advice we have for him, he did not back out. He was so much believing in himself that he was going to make it even without reading. Most people do not believe they can read and have seen reading as a stressful thing, So as this guy. Many people kept on telling him of the character he has put in him, but could not just listen to anyone and decided to follow his mind stupidly just because he was too lazy to read his books.
Exams were over and waiting for results to come out. This guy was in his final year level. He was so happy going to the notice board to check his results. Those who were close to him followed him to see if the miracles he had seen would truly manifest, but it was the opposite. He did not make any paper and failed woefully. It was at that moment his eyes became clear and he was so full of pain but was unable to show it forth. This is what laziness has caused him. He was so lazy to read his books and during the period of his exams, he never cared to leave the house but was enjoying himself staying at home dormant.
Laziness can come in different types. Most people do not want to continue the work they are doing just because of being lazy. They are not ready to get up even when they are called to do something, they will remain at that particular spot without getting up. This is laziness which no one wants to get involved with.
If you are lazy or the lazy type, try your best to cast such laziness from you and do what you are doing. This is because you can lose focus when you are being lazy. You may not want to do what you are told to do at the right time which may cause failures in your path.
There are times for resting which can never be seen as Laziness and sometimes where you don't have to rest but to work and when you relax at that moment, it becomes laziness.
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Overnight Millionaire
Ben was a poor guy who came from a poor home. His parents were not just too poor to the extent of not providing three square meals. They managed to feed just because of the menial job the father is doing and the mum on the other hand always fetches firewood and sells it to those roadside hotels called bilateral. This also brings some little money to carry the house on track.
Ben was the first son out of four kids the parents gave birth to. He was able to manage to train himself through secondary school and then stopped since there was no money to continue. Ben at the time was following people to clear some pieces of land to make little savings since he was still passionate about education. He loves to continue his education to the last breath. He kept on struggling hard and hard to make sure that he saved some money which he can use to obtain the form.
He has an uncle who he does run to anytime it's a holiday. His uncle is somehow rich, but stingy. He is not ready to help anyone and not ready to even send them a little assistance to feed. When Ben obtained the form, he went to his uncle's house as instructed by his father, but upon all, all his efforts were proved abortive. His uncle kept on complaining and making one excuse upon the other. It is because of the talk that his father did not assist him when he was still young and so, will be unable to help any of the family.
Ben forfeited the admission form and went on in pursuit of how he can make it and even when it is a little to cater for his family. He kept on working so hard and applied more effort to make things happen. Upon his hard work, it was still proven as if he has not done anything. His parents kept on encouraging him to apply more effort and with their prayers, he shall make it great in life. After much work, he struggled to buy an Android which he wanted to use to surf the internet.
It was just as if the time for his success has arrived after buying the phone. He was using the phone to browse through the internet when he saw a site for mining a Crypto token and quickly he registered. He began to mine and the mining was done every week. There was an avenue for referrals. After mining for almost three months, he got about ten (10) of the token, but yet without benefits. This same token has not been listed and accepted. This means it was a young and evolving token. He never gives up on this token just because he has feelings that this token is going to increase to its peak. He kept on mining and even went to the extent of buying the ones his friends acquired for a little amount which was affordable. He knew vividly that he was taking a risk, but yet he concluded that life is all about risks.
He was still following people to the farm to make money for his family. His friends on the other hand always follow him whenever he is going to the farm to also make some savings. While going to the farm, his younger brother doesn't want to stay at home and so decided to follow him to the farm to make some money for the house.
It came to pass on a fateful day, his friends began to laugh at him unknowingly, but to his surprise, the token which he had bought was not listed and not recognised as part of cryptocurrency. So, this weakened him a bit but he concluded that he is not going to let that account out but will still leave it to the very end. He abandoned the account for some time and still kept the password intact. He kept on striving hard and yet not making any good income and was somehow frustrated with his life.
He was wearing one cloth day in, day out, but managed to buy one new cloth which he used for only Sunday or when he is invited for any occasion. This was as a result of always going to the farm. Ben was seen all over the village as a farmer, and yet his farming was not bringing anything to him except for feeding.
One faithful day, he had to check through his wallet after putting on his internet network and found the unexpected. The last time he checked his wallet was two years ago and now what he saw became so much surprising to him. In his wallet, he has about ten (10) of the tokens he mined from which hit him with nothing and even wasted his money in buying some of the tokens. Now the **eagle has landed**. One of the tokens with what he saw was reading $10,000 and he has 10 of the tokens, making a total of $100,000. This is overnight riches. He became rich overnight...he became Millionaire overnight… What great riches. He was short of words and at a time refused to come out of his room. Ben became rich and the richest in his Community.
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Freedom
To be free is something everyone wants in life. Many people today are caged and restricted from doing something they feel like doing. The truth is that when you are caged without freedom, you may not be able to do things that can make you Excel in life. Human beings need to be free instead of being caged so that they can have countless reasons to break out of their shells for them to have total freedom. Let's take, for instance, students who are supposed to choose the course of their choice will be deprived of choosing what they want to study, but rather their parents will choose a course for them. This means the students are not free to express themselves but are being deprived by their parents. Parents should always know that their children have choices to select whatever course they are good at. Subjecting them to the course of your choice can make them disorganized. A man forced the child to read medicine which he did instead of going for his choice, law. He truly went for medicine and surgery and was successful. This young man still needs to pass through school to go for law. He did so well in his field and indeed dropped the medical certificate to the parents.
Freedom is very much essential to all human beings and in all facets of life. I can still remember back then when I was still a boy, my dad would always try to stop me from seeing my schoolmates. He caged me and never allowed me to have a friend. I only managed to have one out of frustration and indeed he has no choice other than to accept him as my friend. I was not free to do certain things and so, when I'm doing things that can make me excel, I always do it with fear of my dad, not until I was admitted into the higher institution where I had to be freed out of the cage.
**So, to me, freedom is the act of doing what you love doing at your own convenience time without someone or some people disturbing or interrupting you**. We have freedom of speech, which is the right to speak our minds Nigeria today is experiencing democracy which gives us the freedom to speak freely and indeed, there are still limitations to the way we speak, unlike some other countries where people have the right to speak freely.
We also have the freedom to move freely which is indeed happening in a democratic system of government. The only period we were not allowed to move about was the period of covid-19 where the whole world was held, hostage. Everyone was made to remain indoors. So, to me right here and right now, I can move freely at any time any day without someone questioning me of where I'm going.
**Freedom mean a lot to me** as I will be able to free myself to do certain things instead of being instructed. There is something I do have in me which can never change. When I'm told to give a speech or to talk to someone, I do not need anyone's advice but will do it in my way. This is the only way I can be at my best, but when I'm told what to do, one may not be able to appreciate me for what I have done. This means, I'm not free and so will not get results. Freedom means a lot to me.
My wife who is pregnant always complains about the time she will be free because she does not seem free. So, to pregnant women, it always looks great whenever they are free which means when they have delivered. I told my wife that one day I will also be free because I'm one way or the other affected and will be affected when she gives birth. This will be the period where I have to remain sleepless throughout the night. So, until the baby is at least six months, then I will be able to rest to my satisfaction.
Freedom can be coined in different ways and we have different ways of viewing freedom.
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The Fate Of An Orphan
As Richard grew up, he became stronger, more intelligent and handsome. The matron, Mrs Elliott loved him greatly from the day of orphanage homes.
His father and mother had died in a plane crash leaving behind three children. The relatives from both parents were so wicked and heartless that they could not take care of the children instead they were left to fend for themselves. Out of Mercy and compassion, Grandma Catherine housed the children. When the responsibility was too much for her, she took Richard to "soane's orphanage home" when he was three years old.
One sunny day, a flashy car drives into Soane's orphanage home. The orphans kept staring at the unfamiliar object.
Matron Elliot came out of her office to welcome the unknown visitors.
A young woman and her husband came out of the car and greeted Matron Elliot. They all went into the office. After much discussion and deliberation, the couple went home with Richard. The matron was so sad to part with Richard.
Richard was so happy to be in a new environment, his new Parents Mr and Mrs Bungay treated him like their own son. At the age of seven, Richard started schooling, he was in grade one. He portrayed intelligence, brilliance, peculiarity. He competed with students in grade five. His teacher loved him greatly. Mr and Mrs Bungay were very Happy and were anxious about what awaited their son's future. They visited the soreness orphanage home once in a while with several gifts. Mrs Elliott was very happy with Richard.
It was like Richard's destiny was terminated, Mrs Bungay gave birth to a boy. They named him Simone Bungay. Mr and Mrs Bungay's attitude towards Richard changed in Earnest. They scolded and treated him so poorly. They treated him as a slave. He began to wash clothes, dishes and cars. He had no time to read his books. They neglected him and staved him. This was the beginning of Richard suffering.
Simone Bungay grew to be a very spoilt brat. He was severely pampered like an egg. Mrs Elliott no longer heard from Richard. She missed him greatly. Three years later Mrs Bungay sold Richard to Miss Scot, her friend. When Richard got to miss Scots house he met a big structure, very beautiful and Large.
Grandma Catherine died at the age of one hundred and seven. Mandy and Abel, Richard's siblings started working in a hotel as cleaners. They earned 70 dollars monthly. They wished their brother was still with them.
The determination to be educated was still in Richard but the next opportunity was not there. He never knew miss Scot's occupation until one day. Her three friends visited her as they had done in the past week.
They discussed in a language which he never seemed to understand. They showed Scot different skimpy dresses from which she chose one.
Later that day, Richard met himself in a very expensive club…
To be continued...
You Are You
You Are You
You are beautiful, strong and confident. These are the three major factors I can use to qualify who you are.
Beautiful: You are beautiful means deep in you have to be beautiful despite being ugly outside. The outside look is the deceiving look but deep down inside of you is the true you. This means you must possess a good character. Characters that make you be you instead of impersonating someone else or taking you as the opposite of you. You are beautiful and awesome. You have what it takes to make you beautiful. You have the quality that can qualify you to be you. You have the look of beauty deep inside you and deep down in you. So do not let people deceive you, but just be you and believe in yourself.
Strong: sometimes you might be thinking that you are not strong enough or not having the capacity to make things happen where do you are the strongest only if you believe in yourself. Nobody can be used to compare the way you are because you are you and only you. This means that you are strong and even stronger than that one who is deceiving you by telling you that you are weak. Nobody is born weak, but the way you place yourself can make people take you as a weak fellow. Make sure you never sit idle but find yourself something to keep you busy. Laziness is not the way out and can never show people that you are strong. Being lazy is a sign of weakness instead of being strong.
Confidence: do you know that you have full confidence in yourself? Remember that fear can remove confidence from you. So endeavour to be strong and confident in whatever you are doing. Being confident means you must always believe in yourself and do not let people look down on you. Be confident enough to make things happen instead of looking at things sleeping off from you. Be confident in whatever you are doing so that life can be easier for you. When you like the idea of confidence you will not be able to make it great in life. Greatness lies in the hands of confidence but not in the hands of those who are just too lazy and are covered with fears. The confidence in your words and never speaking in fear.
**Now, let face reality**
When you are down and dejected don't forget that you have glorious tasks ahead of you. You are just wonderful, you are unique, that is why you are different from others. Just be yourself, do not try to copy someone else's lifestyle and live up to yourself. You are more beautiful and precious than the sun and stars in the sky. You are wonderfully and fearfully made by your creator. No one is like you. You are just too good to be true.
If you think you are worthless or useless then think of those that have died. When there is life there is hope. Hope for a better and a better life. Life is sweet only if you make it so, but sadly only if you want it to be sad for you. So, live your life well and be beautiful. Many people are out there suffering and have seen life to be useless instead of being beautiful. Do not make the statement that life does not worth living.
Make your creator proud of you. God is always with you at all costs. He is the one who can always stand by you when people or friends reject you. Make yourself worth living and don't feel intimidated, be confident in yourself and do not let anyone tell you what you are not. Many people can deceive you which will make you weary of life, but when you stop listening to them, you shall. live your life to have full enjoyment. Do not be pressured, always remain humble and humble yourself. When you are humble, your personality will always remain intact without someone looking down at you. Be of good conduct. Now that you are who you are, live for God.
It's Hard To Forget But Forgiving Is Easy
It's Hard To Forget But Forgiven
I have written related topic on noise.cash and I gave some points on this topic and I decided to bring the related topic to read.cash, but in a different face.
Life is full of challenges and when one faces challenges, one will one day overcome them or let them slip over you. I just know that challenge does not last forever and indeed has a specific time which it will finally come to reality. People do think that can make them grow annoyed or angry and when you are in pain, you will find it difficult to forgive and forget.
Who Do You Forgive?
We were made to understand that forgiveness comes from God and through him, we were told and were made to forgive anyone who offends us. When you are offended, you can do anything that can make you wicked, whereas you are not.
Human beings are made to forgive anybody and indeed everybody who has offended you. There are no restrictions to the person you must forgive. Even after making you suffer from numerous pains, you just have to forgive because our creator has forgiven us several times. We might have sinned against him in many ways and after pleading for forgiveness, without hesitation, he forgives us of our sins. So, do find it possible and necessary to forgive the one who has wronged you to the fullest.
Another question ran over my mind again:
**After forgiving, must we forget?
Hm mmm... This is a difficult aspect of life. Let me take you to a scene that happened recently to a family.
The family is just a family of three which entails the man, wife and child. They have a neighbour which they have been doing things together. They have been good to each other and do pay each other visits where necessary. The neighbour has a boy who almost equates to the age of the couple's daughter. One day, their daughter went out to play in their neighbour's house. Something happened where the neighbour's child mistakenly used rubber in the form of the catapult to blind one eye. of the little girl. This made the parents grow angry been their only children. The boy's parents were arrested and when they were back from the police station, they had to go to their neighbour's house to beg for forgiveness. Their neighbour forgave them truly.
Anytime the parents see the son of their neighbour, they always remember their daughter's eye.
So, tell me, do you think this parent can forget what their neighbour's child did to their daughter? They have forgiven the family, but can never forget.
It is easy to forgive, but hard to forget. We are humans, and we all have feelings and blood running over our veins. So, it will be difficult to forget the pains someone has inflicted on you no matter what. When people always say that, we should forgive and forget, I still kept on wondering if it is possible to have the mind of forgetting.
I think you may have a different opinion about this topic. So let see in the comment section.
Bake Yourself To A Better Person
When asked what we bake in life, we can all converge together to speak in one voice to say that bread, cake and other food items which they normally bake. Without a doubt, we have all those items, most especially food items that we always bake but to coin it all they are baked from raw to eatable items. No one can eat cake without it being baked. This means when raw, they are not fit to be taken. This is exactly how some human beings behave. There is every tendency to have many out there who cannot think straight but have the thinking of a child. When you still think childishly it shows that you are just like real food items that needed to be baked.
Do you know that there are processes attached to everything in life? Yes, it is a fact which we all know and also needs to know. A child when then given bet tip steak process to promote from being a child that is always crawling to a child that can learn how to work after graduating from that level the child will begin to talk and so the process begins until the child gets to maturity age. When you are still thinking just like a child you have several processes which you will pass through to be baked into a better person in life.
Life is full of struggles and coupled with ups and downs so the way we place ourselves is how people will see us be. Your life is not yet baked when you are someone who still holds a grudge. Your life is not just being when you are someone who never believes in God. Your life Is yet to be baked when you cage hatred within you Hunter it is not yet baked when you see someone as your enemy. It is not yet baked when you live a wasteful life. It is not baked properly when you have pride in yourself. You are yet to be baked when people see you as a child. It is yet to be baked when you look down on your elder and also anyone around you.
Be wise enough to make choices for yourself but not align someone to make it for you. You are not going to remain the way you are since you are advancing as a day passes. Make yourself to your taste because many people are trying to become just like you. They want to become you by studying your character and habits. Your behaviour in the society you lived in can't determine if they will like you and indeed call you for any form of opportunity that surfaces. Opportunity comes but once and this also depends on how you relate with people and how people see you be.
Do you know that when you bake yourself opportunities shall run after you? Yes, you heard me right, opportunity shall run after you.
If you are ready to pick yourself there are some steps you must follow which are:
Listen to the words of elders and your parents. This means you must obey your parents and the elders.
Obey the words of God by following his commandments. God is awesome and miraculous. His words are full of truth and we must follow him if we want to be saved.
Remove fears out of your life. You should know that fear can kill and can kill your career. Do not inculcate the habit of fears as these can take you to a level you never expect.
Learn how to move with your friends wisely. This is because we have some friends out there who can ruin your life. This means some bad friends do not want your progress. They only want to find means to deprive you of being who you are.
You are a better person and a person to be recon with. So, try hard to bake yourself into a better person.
Before Dawn
Before Dawn.
Adesua came back from her aunt's place in the middle of the night only to find out that the six members were dead. She could not cry nor wail, she just stood still hoping it was all a dream but it wasn't.
She moved to her next neighbor's house to call for help but they were also dead!!. She tried the third house but everyone there were also dead. Then it dawned on her that everyone in the village was dead. She wondered who killed them all. When she got to the end of the village, it was already morning so she could clearly see the damage done to her village but nobody told her that there was going to be war. She decided to leave the village, she went back to her house and started packing her belongings including the valuable things that were not her own. Since she could not dig a burial ground she left the village heartbroken not knowing particularly where to head to.when she got to the forest,she saw an empty hut, cleaned it up and arranged her belongings there .There and then the beginning of her room was now clear to her,no food, no money,no education,she cried because she has once decided to become a lawyer.
Adesua locked her house and started looking for what to eat,luckily for her she saw a pawpaw and coconut trees.she plucked as many as she could get and headed back home.she ate and ate to her satisfaction then she drank the little water she got back at her village .when it was in the evening,she prayed and slept.
It was until the sun shone through the little window that Adesua knew that it was morning. She prayed, spread her bed, the bed she found on the house moved out. She looked for lots of fire wood and set it up she scliced pawpaw and coconut pounded it and put it on the bed, thinking. She thought of where to start her life from,her education, where to make money from.
To start with,she planted cass*ava,banana and yam,they were part of the things she brought from the village. Adesua used all her strength to dig the ground in other to get water. After successfully digging the ground she watered her plants and had her bath . She was pleased with herself after washing her dirty clothes, she went out. After trekking for two hours she found a village, full of activities . she saw children in school uniform, they were going to school, she thought she also saw women selling different goods. Adesua was so happy.she knew she could still continue schooling if she was hard-working.After sighting where the school was .she went back home satisfied with herself.*
*Six months later,Adesua started harvested bananas,yam and cassava.she also plucked different fruits like pawpaw cassava,mangoes,oranges,etc. She was so happy. After properly arranging her goods she went to a village known as "peace village". She sold everything making a sum of ten thousand naira, she was overjoyous. She went back home thinking of how to start spending the money. After one month, Adesua started schooling and she was in grade 9, what modern days call Senior class 1 art. She studied her books very well even though she was a farmer and also a trader. Before the end of the year, Adesua had sixty thousand naira, she was very rich . She bought new clothes and footwear.*
*During Christmas, Adesua relocated to the village. She lived a comfortable life. Being in the Senior class 3 she studied even harder since she would soon write an exam. After the exam, she was awarded a scholarship to study law in America. Adesua went to the university at the age of seventeen.*
*After six years of studying law, she graduated as the student in her department. In the university, she met ifeoluwa George became a very diligent and just lawyer who dealth in crime cases like rape, murder, and arson.*
*She gave birth to two lovely kids and lived happily ever after. From that day, lawyer Adesua George remained in the mouths of everyone.*
Married To A Virgin
Ben is a man who loves flexing with women and truly he is a handsome guy which made women love hanging around him. He was with a girl who love feeling so proud and pompous. She is the type who does not dress anyhow but try to dress to kill. Whenever she dress, anyone around must surely turn around to observe her beauty. She has a car of her own and a house which she took as her own as well. They called her a big girl and a girl who is ready to follow any man that comes her way. She got her money through following me and then she failed to change and also failed to settle with a particular man. Her name is Queen.
Ben on the other hand has always long to get married to a virgin. This was his big dream which no one can stop him and even his parents. He is the kind of guy who loves going to bar. Ben has two friends who always lure him to drink in the bar and also brought in women for him which he truly refused to accept. He only has one mission which is to get married to a virgin. How will he achieve his aim or getting married to a virgin? He kept on contemplating without coming to conclusions.
One faithful day, a girl came as if she was a virgin and indeed pretended to be a virgin. She told him about how she has been harassed but escaped. She came as a saint but deeply has a spoilt mind of coming to destroy Ben by taking away his wealth. The girl came as a deceiver and the friends were not aware of this girl. Ben on the day told the friends to come to his house to dine with him as she has seen what he was looking for. Without hesitations, they ran down to see their friend Ben who invited them to have a look at his wife. It was just like a coincidence for the girl. Ben's friend happened to be a humanizer who loves women and can go out with the most beautiful woman of his choice. He is a handsome guy who everyone wants to be with. So, without hesitation, the girl came out to serve them good where she was shocked on seeing Ben's friend. Ben was on the other hand shorty off words as who he thought was a virgin happened to be his friend's formal girlfriend. It was then he was made to realize that she aimed to siphon his money.
He regretted knowing the girl and had a second thought of going to the village to have a virgin as he has placed within him right from the onset. He went to the village finally to marry a village virgin who truly was a virgin and also a typical village girl. She is called Anna. Anna has been told by her mother that she must not be allowed any man to see her underwear which she did stick to. She never allowed any man to touch her including her husband. So, she began staying in her husband's house without giving him what he wanted. She kept on with her virginity for up to two years and indeed the husband, Ben was tolerating her because it was what he wanted. So, he never complained.
The other girl who wanted to dup Ben came across Ben's friend who she later told to help her with marrying Ben. The truth remains that she later develop an interest in Ben. Ben's friend replied that the only girl Ben wanted to marry in life has some qualities which she is not having. She turned around and showed him her body. To her surprised, Ben told. Ben's friend told her that the quality his friend needed. in a girl is virginity. Immediately she heard virginity, she could not make a statement other than to leave because she lack that quality.
In the long run, after some time, Anna later accepted to give her husband what he wanted, because she has observed Ben and has seen that he is a man and a man to be respected.
When you need something so strong, do not remove your mind from that which you wanted, but keep on fighting hard to get it. Ben gotta what he wanted because he was not in a rush
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First Hand Secret
John has been working for so long in a company which his pay was nothing to write home about. He was paid meagre money for the kids he is doing. He has no wife and he is of age which got him so worried and also his parents. He is a hard-working man and a man who is filled with respect. The good thing about him is that he respects anyone who comes his way and he is also a brave man. He is illiterate and wanted to go to school by all means. He kept on considering the meagre amount off salary he was collecting and fed up with his life.
John was living in a room and a parlour but decided to shift his luggage to one side of the room and decided to stay in the parlour. He has just a few clothes and to be precise, three shirts and two pairs of trousers. In John's room, there is no carpet and the floor is not tiled. John has a mat that he always sleeps on because it was hard for him to get a foam with the amount he is receiving. He is tired of life but has no choice other than to keep forging ahead until it will be better. He just has faith within him that things shall normalize in due time and in time not far from now.
His mother calls him to come home to choose from the village girls if he can select one out of them, which he did. He saw a girl which he truly liked, but he told his parents who then helped him to proceed to the girl's parents house to ask for her hand in marriage. The parents did not object, because they knew John was coming from the City which they thought had come with lots of money. To people in the village, there is always money in the City. So, they spoke on a date for the marriage where John had to travel back to the City. He was so excited to have carried out a step of getting himself a wife.
One faithful day, the girl called that he was coming to visit him to see what he is doing in the City to which he had granted her permission to come. She came to John's house and saw the opposite of what he thought John was. Without wasting time, she opened up to John that how can she marry a wretched man like John that has only two pots, a stove, a mat and not even a foam, and three shirts and two trousers. It was a hell of begging for John that day. He begged the girl to his last breath that everything would normalise and come back to shape. The girl said not to listen, but instead, took her luggage and went back to the village the next morning.
The whole villagers heard about how John was so wretched and had nothing in his house. The mother whom people were respecting became the talk of the moment. The girl destroyed John's mother's personality in the village and told her friend that she will not marry someone poor just like John.
John on the other hand keep on working hard to make it great in life, but all his efforts kept on moving backwards instead of forward. This was as a result of the school he did not go to. So, in his office, there was a lady who is the secretary to his manager. She is a typist who was so perfect in this job. He told the lady named Mariam to teach him how to type using a typewriter which she accepted. So, Mariam has been teaching him how to type. He was so determined to learn from Mariam since this may be.his breakthrough towards making it in life.
One faithful day, the mother in the village puts a call to him telling him that she has spoken to a lady who has accepted to marry him the way he was. The lady was a hard-working type and the type who can manage when there is nothing. The father of John gave the lady some amount of money which she used to travel to see John in the City. On reaching John's house, what she saw was just too poor, but She just has to manage just because she is the type who does not demand and does not have lots of passion for high things. So, that night she managed with what John was having.
When he went to work, this girl, named Hannah, gave his best to make the house look palatable and also made sure to prepare food in the house with the little she was having. This made John have full faith in her and trusted her to the fullest. Although, he was still having a little doubt on her just like the formal one who only came to mock him. They both lived together happily in one room without commotion.
One faithful day, Mariam, who has been teaching him how to type, was down with sickness when his boss needed someone to help him out in typing shorthand in a meeting he will be going to. The boss was racking his head to invite someone but all effort proved abortive. A worker in the office later told the manager that John can handle the job perfectly, but the manager was shocked to hear that as he only knew John as a cleaner in the office. So, he sent for him and tried him which he did pass the test the boss gave to him. The boss took him along to the meeting and indeed after the meeting, John interpreted the shorthand in English and sent it to his boss. It was a happy day for the boss as he even did better than Mariam. So, his position was elevated as a second secretary to his boss. He was given a car and his salary was increased beyond his imagination. On getting him, he still pretended to be poor without revealing all the good news to Hannah.
They were leaving happily, but with John keeping secrets. He later went. for another exam in his working place called promotional exams which he performed brilliantly. His position again was elevated and again kept it as a secret from his wife to be and the one with who they have been living together for two years. He was given a bigger car making two cars and yet refused to tell Hannah about it.
After two years, he arranged for Hannah's full marriage ceremony. This time, John told Hannah to be going to the village to prepare all things before his arrival, which she did as instructed. On D-Day, when the ceremony was on, John began to spend money like never before. Hannah was surprised after seeing John spending money like never before. It was like a shock to her and then she kept on reminding her husband about the way he was spending the money and also asking him where he got the money from. John lied to her by telling her he got the money from his working place.
When they got to the City, John had already packed the two cars in the compound before he travelled to the village for the marriage ceremony. So, when they were black from the village, the wife, Hannah, asked him to tell her the truth about the money he was spending. To her surprise, John lied again saying that the money was given to him from his working place. It was so serious that the woman got frustrated. After some hours of returning, the man took her to the eatery, but to the wife's surprise, John opened the vehicle door for her to enter. This kept on making her have a second thought whether to quit the marriage or to remain. She said to herself that this is a read of choices and indeed she concluded to quit the marriage as she can't live under the roof of someone who is not trustworthy. In the eatery they went to, she was unable to eat, but the man was eating comfortably.
When they got home, she asked him to tell her everything about his sudden wealth. The husband, John, quickly called his relatives who were close to him to his house. He later opened up by telling her everything about his wealth starting from the beginning and the reason he decided to hide it. While pouring out his mind, he was crying bitterly and concluded to never hide anything from her and never again. So, after revealing the secrets, she told the husband that she has decided to leave the marriage for good instead of living on lies. So, their family members kept on pleading including the husband, John. Finally, she accepted to stay as his wife forever, but without lies.
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The Truth About Life
The Truth About Life
Life is full of wonders so beautiful and full of lovely creatures. There are lots of trees, humans and animals but my question is after acquiring all the riches in this world, do we take them to heaven? This is why life is indeed vanity. We saw life to be beautiful and awesome which indeed is. We saw life to be full of sadness and also sweetness which indeed is taking over those qualities.
Life is vanity upon vanity. We came to this world empty and so we will leave empty. Life is full of hustle and bustle, everyone working endlessly day and night to make a living. Making a living now turns to hell for many, why some are out there cheating others. Some are out there making money through dubious ways. Many are out there trying to make their money into true rituals. Can't you see that all is vanity?. A man who has lots of money that can feed his generation died uselessly. He was buried just like a fowl. This is because, we can never take whatever we have with us, but will go back the same way we came.
Even the great Nelson mandala left this world with nothing. People refuse to believe that there is life After Life which is called eternity. After death, we will begin another journey either in hell or heaven. The way we have lived our lives will determine where we spend our eternity. Work hard but do not work yourself up. Work hard to get something out of life but stressing yourself out can cause you lots of problems. So be careful with the way you stress yourself and also remember to rest after much work or hard work. Enjoy life, do not be greedy trying to have everything in this world. Eating well and exercising makes people smile.
Ensure to help people why you have it or why you have the opportunity to do so. Feed people since the resources are available and do not deny anybody that comes your way for help, because helping them is like helping yourself. Put a smile on their faces. Be happy and love yourself the way you are, because God never created you twice. He created you a uniqueness I and you must maintain that uniqueness instead of treating hair for yourself. Always be happy. You are who you are. You are what you think you are not what others think you are. Do not feel intimidated. Be confident in yourself by loving yourself to the brim. Do good to others so that you can leave this world as a happy person.
The world is full of many people who are blessed and others who are wicked trying to make people leave just like hell. Which parts do you choose to follow? Which part do you think you can be involved in to make you great in life? Do you wish to be a killer? Do you wish to be a saver of lives? The choice is yours but just make sure to choose wisely.
Remember that you cannot have an inch to your height so do not worry about what you will eat, know what you will because God will provide for you. God loves you and cannot forsake you when in distress or trouble. God cannot bless an idle man so be hard-working because an idle man as they say is the devil's workshop.
Self Help
Self Help
This is a topic I have seen that inspired me so much. I just hope you will all find it interesting because it is going to help our children if not us. It can help us as if we have not made a mistake from the beginning. So, stay tuned and enjoy more of this and also read on to have more knowledge.
Self-help is the kind of help you will render to yourself that can bring you out of the very thing you are looking for. It can serve as either a plan B or the other way round. So, self-help is just the act or the measure taken to elevate you from being poor to being making what we all want in life.
Many people today are helpless just because of the help they failed to help themselves back then. They are in the dark and even suffering trying hard to come out of it. This mistake we have made should not be inflicted on our children. But we should try by all means to make them do handiwork whilin school. They shouldn't just be going to school just for going sake but should be going to school to learn and to learn handiwork after school. This will make them improve in several ways and will also help them in future if and not only if they did not see a job. They can help themselves to gather and make money while searching for jobs whenever they have graduated from their respective schools.
So, the fact remains that, I have seen many people today who are graduates but are not making use of their certificates, rather making use of what they have learnt as handiwork. They are making it big out there and even more than someone who is working in the office. They have branches in their respective talents and trade they have learnt and are ready to make more.
Many people today are blaming their respective countries for not providing jobs for the masses, which is supposed not to be so. Do you know how many graduates are graduating this year? Do you know the number of graduates who are going to work under the government? Perhaps you don't know. but I can tell you right now that even though we have that in our mind that our government is failing, we are also failing as individuals. We have failed because we refused to learn trades and also refused to do business.
Some people always feel shy about learning a trade not knowing how good it is. Learning a trade or trading is the best because when you are not seeing. a job out there, you must have something to call back to.
Trading is also very good instead of wasting time searching for a job which is not visible. Jobs out there are not sure and even when you are been promised by someone, is still not too sure. Do not trust anybody out there who promised to give you a job. Just do what you have to do at the right time. Do it now before it is too late. Do is not shy in what you are doing or in what you have thought of which you want to do.
Distraction
As she ran down the stairs running to school she could hear her mum telling her not to forget her food case. "Ok.. mom's". I have heard you!!!. Not waiting for a reply she ran to the kitchen took her food case and stormed out of the kitchen as though. She was being pursued by a fairy lion.
Kiara a lovely Pearl of average height,fair skin, dimpled cheeks and curly hair was the only daughter and child of her parents. Being quite a huge girl,she looked older than the students in her class, grade 5. She resided in the United kingdom with her parents .
As her dad zoomed off to drop her at the college, Kiara pressured her dad to drive faster. "C'mon dad, for god sake drive faster, we aren't gonna sleep on the road, are we ?" Kiara screamed.
"Calm down dear,I don't want to get caught by the cops" he replied rather calmly.
As her dad kissed her goodbye, she raced towards the door of the pinnacle of college success. She caught up with her friend Brianne
"Xup girl" Brianne greeted
"I'm cool" Kiara breathed heavily "I actually thought I was late" Kiara chipped in
" Guess what!!!" Brianne shouted
" You surely know I'm poor at guessing , so do me a favour by spilling it"
" I checked how many viewers I had on my YouTube dance videos, I was dumbstruck to find twelve thousand, seven hundred and ninety two viewers"
" Oh my world, sweet Jesus save me, I can't be less happy for you sis "
" Thanks "
As they were walking to the classroom, they saw Mr. Grumpy, their chemistry tutor and raced softly to their class. Forty minutes later, almost at the end of the lesson, a new boy walked majestically into the classroom.
"He is so handsome, '' Kiara thought. Fine chin, lovely jaw, curly hair, blue eyes, straight legs, oh my world.
"What's your name, young man" Mr Grumpy asked
"Skywalkers, sir" sky answered
"And smooth voice too, he looks like a good" crazy Kiara thought.
Immediately, the school bell rang,all the pupils picked their bags and left the class, bringing Kiara to the real world. Throughout the school hours, Kiara could not think straight. During maths class, sky had tried to talk to Kiara asking for her note but she just kept looking at me . After the school hours, Kiara could find no other topic to talk about than sky Walker.
"Oh my world, Brianne, he's the most handsome guy I have ever seen"
" Yes he's cute but do you mind if we change the topic, am getting bored here"
After ceaseless minutes of discussion , Brianne boarded a train to her house leaving Kiara at the park waiting for her dad
Days after days ,months after months Kiara and sky became extremely close. Brianne tried every possible means to Wade her friend off the so-called friendship but she won't just bulge. The situation became so terrible that Kiara's education deteriorated and her parents unavoidably noticed this. Kiara spent less time studying and most of her time hanging out with sky.
" Kiara, what's wrong with you these days? I am not gonna tolerate your unruly behaviors any longer. You dress provocatively, pinging always. I don't want to see you in the sky again, are you listening to me? '' Kiara's mom raged.
" Mom, I'm sincerely sick and tired of your ranting. I'm a grown up now, I'm no longer the kid you could boss around any longer. Right now, I'm in grade 9, very soon I'll go to the institution and leave you alone " Kiara cried and ran upstairs. Kiara's mom sank in the chair and sobbed silently. All her toil and hard work over her only child for seventeen years has been wasted. When Mr Jones, Kiara's dad came back, he was very upset when he heard what happened. He scolded Kiara the most. After the incident, Kiara's dad seized all her gadgets and asked various teachers to monitor her.
All these didn't stop Kiara and sky from being together.
Seven years later, Sky and Kiara were out of college and we're now working. For two months, Sky went on a business appointment in Texas. All Kiara expected from the sky was for him to come back and propose to her. Long before Kiara had abandoned her parents and had rented an apartment in London.
Finally, the sky came back from Texas and Kiara was overjoyed. Some days after he arrived, sky began to display weird attitudes towards Kiara and this bothered her a great deal. During break at work, Sky invited Kiara over for lunch and Kiara had expected nothing than a romantic proposal. It hadn't been easy at all, a 17 years relationship !! Kiara thought happily .when they got to the restaurant, Sky told Kiara he would love to tell her something crucial " Kiara , I appreciate you for staying with me for over 17 years…." Kiara was happy, almost stretching her hands so that the ring could slide in even though she didn't see anything. " My relationship with you almost destroyed my life, so now that I'm back on my feet, I can't continue this useless relationship. I got married to your friend Brianne, she's nice and disciplined, so don't call me again, I'll be going back to Texas today. Bye"
That very moment, Kiara slumped and was rushed to the hospital. Kiara Jones later died on getting to the hospital.
The End.
Goal Setting/ My Potentials
You have got to have a dream no matter what it takes in life. There is no human being without a goal or dreams. It may not be the same but you have a dream which one must work towards another point to come to pass. If you don't have a dream how are you going to have a dream come true since we have our respective dreams coming true question mark a goal is something that you inspire to achieve. Part of succeeding is being able to believe that you can succeed. Setting realistic goals can boost our self-esteem. This means that there are some dreams which can never comes to reality and also some which will only dream to exist but yet are not existing. The best is the one that exists and at the end can take your self-esteem to the greatest level. Remember that you will face various obstacles in achieving your goal. obstacle
Speaking with a trusted adult may help you decide on how to respond to this . Know your potential because they can lift you on high and can take you to your greatest height. Most men and women never realise their full potential because they do not understand the keys so a fultilled, effective life. It is important we understand the deposit Amos and intentionally dig into it so we can actually achieve our potential. It is essential that you understand the natural composition and consistency of your source, For this is the key to understanding the potency of your potential.
If you don't activate your potential and take necessary actions to bring it to fulfillment, then your case will be like that of those great talents that died without exploring their potential. And these potentials are buried forever. This is not the best but we can always try to make sure that our potential is used in a right way. Leaving your talent to waste Away is not the best option because people whom you have seen before such as your friends can Excel more than you. In another way when you have it in mind to bring forth your potential you shall be very much grateful to yourself and shall be happy to leave on this earth.
Believe in yourself and go a step at the time and you are likely to find success. Goal setting is as a means of clarifying what is most meaningful to you to help you keep your eyes on the ball. It is a way to reach your dreams. Think about a specific milestone you can achieve that will help you reach that goal of yours. A popular model for setting goals that are clear and help you keep on track is called **smart goals**. We all have passion for one thing or the other and the route to achieve our passion should be our watchword.
Do not leave your passion alone or allow it to suffer. There is one without passion and goals, the only thing you just need to do to learn how to make your goals a reality. You are special and precious so as yourself and only you. The truth is that you are the only one. one who can make you great and can make your goal a successful one. Be sure to do it alone and never allow side talk or side attractions to take away what your plans are. Remember that you plan it alone and you must learn how to actualize it alone. Letting people know. about your plans may render it useless, because no one is made to be trusted except you and you alone. Trust no one as a friend, trust only your creator, because only him can set you to your greatness.
Endeavour to come out of your shell and create exploits because the zeal to make it in life is in you and you alone. Keep on trying because to your knowledge you have failed before and we keep on failing. This shouldn't be your thought but have the mind of achieving something great and also have the mind of making it better even after failing. Failure is not the end but what you are going to achieve in future is what you should be pursuing after.
Safe journey to your greatness and happy successful life.
Do You Keep Grudge With Each other
Keeping Grudge is the act of avoiding someone after fight or argument. When you fight with people, sometimes the result is keeping malice with the one whom you have fought with. It has been said that having grudge with people is common among the women which I have found to be true. Women are the chief keeper of grudge. They know how to keep people malice even after a little fight with their friends or anyone around. Their fight can be for a very long periods of time and can hardly forgive except on rare cases.
Some guys on the other hand are just like women who can keep grudge for a long period of time. Their behaviors are just like the women and are not ready to have settlement. Don't pray to meet such set of guys or else, you will have yourself to be blamed. When they are keeping Grudge with people, they will also want their friends to follow suite or else they will turn the whole story to face their friends. I'm speaking from experience, because I have a friend who is just like this. The one who he is fighting with must also turn out to be my enemy which I most of the time avoid. I love making friends and don't like keeping people malice or keep grudge with people. So, even if he question me for talking to those whom he has gotten faceoff with, I don't always agree with him.
There are so many things which may cause grudge and can lead to so many havock.
**What can grudge cause in one's life**
It can make you loose opportunities: The one you are having faceoff with may be the one who can help you out in life. It may be that due to the grudge you have with him, he as taken what he supposed to giver to you to someone else. Keeping Grudge is very dangerous and can always be avoided so that any kind of opportunities that comes they way of the one whom you are keeping Grudge with can easily be passed to you. The one you are keeping grudging mind with might.have a great opportunity which he or she may wanted to fix you in, but due to the grudge you have with him or her such opportunity will just slip off you.
It will make you go hunger: The fact remains that you may not be buoyant enough to buy somethings, but the one you are keeping grudging mind with may be in the best position to help you out. So , when that one happens, it may be difficult for you to meet up with h or her to release help to you.
It can cause misunderstanding at homes: When two brothers or a couple is having a grudge among themselves, it will make the two fighters miss a lot among each other.
As a Christian, you don't need to keep grudge or malice as this can tannish your personality and image. So, you should learn how to Always make friends and stop the having grudge with people. A Christian suppose to remain calm and cool headed instead of keeping Grudge. Which picture are you painting yourself with? You are not just doing yourself but making people to have doubt on the Christians. They will assume that you can never preach the gospel to them if you can misbehave. God created everyone equal and with one voice. He created us unique and without fault not until we invite the devil into our lives. Do you think that having grudge with people can make you progress? The answer is typically NO. You cannot progress when you are having faceoff with people.
Change in your character because you may pass it to your children. Your children are very special and do not want to be like you who always fight with people. You should be in the best position to caution your children not to have this kind of character instead of you having it all.
The Word "I Believe"
The word I believe is very powerful and even strong enough to create an exploit. Believing in something is just like having fun and total trust in that thing. It has a different dimension and indeed different questions in the word, I Believe. This is a statement we all need to coin many questions from. I believe it means having total confidence in something or rendering something true. When you render something real and perfect then such thing is said to be believed. Someone might come to you today and say you shall be healed. This statement demands two answers, which is he there yet I believe or no I do not believe. When you do not believe means you do not have faith or total trust in that statement or you do not have full confidence in that person. So when you answer yes I believe it means you have full confidence and her friend is such words true. We might have been in the dark believing things we were supposed not to believe but once we come out of the dark shows that we do not have full confidence in that thing we were believing in.
Who do you believe in? You just need to ask yourself critically this question. Most of us have full faith in something that cannot talk about. Some have beliefs or something that cannot bring Glory and blessings into one's path. When you believe in the devil it means you are also a devil. The devil has ways of training someone's mind and when he succeeds, your life will become shattered. This is because the devil is in you and has made you have total faith in him. There should be a sign why trying to Believe in something you have not seen or something that does not glorify god.
In another way, we all need to have full faith in our God because he is the only one who can save. He can save us from any form of iniquities. He can save us from any form of distress. His way is always pure. When will believe in our God it means we must serve him to the very end and in return we shall be blessed bountifully. This is why we must have total belief in our God but not the God that cannot talk and not the god That can never bless you. When our God blesses you it comes with surprise and also comes with a handful of blessings. When he blesses you he does not take back unlike the devil Who takes something in return for what he has given to you.
Two people might come to you to tell you some stories about something that is happening in your life. One thing I will be seeing is something that is real and the other may be saying something that is somehow corny. So all you need to do is to believe in the one whom your heart longs for. Another person comes to you and proclaims a prophecy that you will make your exam, I am pretty sure that you are going to believe but not all do believe in prophecies.
Some people will have full belief in that person who will later fail them. They will call them their best friends whereas he or she is killing them softly outside. These kinds of people are very dangerous. They can sell you unknowingly. So, to deal with them, you don't need to have total faith in them. Although, some friends are very much nice and can take you to where you have always dreamt of. They are the kind of friends we should have total confidence in. The ones who cannot run away from distress or during commotion or during the time you have one problem or the other are truly your friend. The truth is that one needs to have full confidence and full belief in such friends.
I have seen something that what you believed in shall come to pass. When you believe that something will have happened and you have trust in that thing, bet you it shall come to pass. A boy once believed that his God would make the mountain in his backyard fall flat. Surely, it came to pass without a doubt.
That thing you believed in may take time to come to reality, but one day, it shall come to a past. What you believe in is from your mind. Believe does not go with doubt. Whenever there is doubt, then you do not have confidence in such a thing.
There are so many out there who are ready to give you fake promises and when you fall for them, you shall not come out of it. Meeting these kinds of people for help will be difficult if they are not to be trusted. Although, some out there are ready to put all their minds in then as they have no choice. I have seen someone that said "I will buy you something that can change your world for good", but in the end, he failed. He allowed his friend to put all trust in him.
Sometimes when you tell someone "I believe in you", can serve as a word of encouragement. Let's say you have a club you are supporting, telling them that you believe in them will make them have total confidence to win the race. As a teacher, you can believe in your students who are ready to work hard. When your students go in for exams, the very first word you will have to tell them is "I believe in you". This means after remembering your words, it will make them sort right and indeed clear the exams by making you proud.
The Great And Good Things About Parents And Children
There are many parents out there who are ready to die because of their children and to be sincere, I'm not exceptional.
- **Unforgettable memories**: As kids, they always have good memories and does not forget things that easily. When you tell them something, it will stick to their brain and will keep on reminding you of the words you have spoken to them. I observed this from my kids. Anything I tell them thinking they will not remember, but they will be the ones remembering me in the long run. When I told my daughter that I will buy her a school bag, she was so happy and kept on remembering me almost every day until I bought her the bag.
- They quickly adapt to any place they find themselves: Children are very much quick to know anybody they see around, which means they make friends easily. This can always happen when they love most, such as toys or any playing materials. Once they see you playing with toys, it will be an opportunity for them to play with their new friend to the brim.
- They hate someone who promises them something and later fail them: The truth is that children love those who promise them and never fail them. They are always around that one who buys them anything that can make them smile and can also tend to pour out their love for that very person. If there is any kind of secret, they will love to open up to you just because of the promises you always keep to them.
- They love that person who always takes them for outings: This is the very thing kids love most. Taking them to put to a place where they will have fun is what they prefer. This is why parents must always try their best to take their children for outings which will make them take you are a hero.
- Anyone who always buys them what they want is their friend. A woman who always goes to the market every day happened to be coming back home in the evening. She is always passing by the children around without looking at their faces, and the children on the other hand do not want someone who does not buy them something. So, one faithful day, when this woman came back, she went to a nearby shop to buy something where some children were present. She bought biscuits for those around and immediately, they shouted thank you ma. Others came around, and she bought biscuits for them as well. This made all the kids develop likeness towards her. So, with what she did, anytime she is coming from the market, the children always ran to her and embrace her. She always buys them biscuits anytime she is coming from the market. So, when kids develop a love for you, it will be real and true.
**Five Amazing Things About Parents**
- Parents have great feelings for their children: This means they can never joke with their children, as there is a great bond between them. Parents do not allow anything to happen to their children as there is love between the parents and the children.
- The Man has taken the female child as his favourite while the woman will always have the male as her favourite. This is what they always do to keep the family on track. I'm speaking from experience as I love my daughter more than my sons, I will never allow them to know neither will she know about it. I do treat them equally.
- Parents can never allow their children to go to hunger without finding food for them. They must allow their kids to be feds first before they sought themselves out. This is how a good parent is supposed to behave, except those greedy ones who want to satisfy their stomach first before their children. I can never eat from outside when my kids are yet to be fed. I love them so much.
- They pray for their children always: Parents are always backing their kids with prayers. They support them with the tangible prayers necessary. This is while they are called parents.
- They protect their children at all costs: This happened mostly when their children are sick. Wow...see the way they will run from pillar to post to ensure that they make their children calm and well again. They are always there to protect their kids at all costs because it is not easy to give birth to a child. Giving birth to a child will pass through countless processes, not even talking of when they have grown up a bit.
These are the five great and good things about the kids and the parents.
Back To The Drawing Board
We might have done something in the past which may affect us in the long run. Many people today are suffering from something they have done in the past but are unable to detect where the fault is coming from. What you are today is not by your power but by the power of our God almighty. So, you need to check up with your life and do ensure to go back to back in the days to see if you have done something wrong or if someone cursed you.
You might have gotten married, but either not productive or productive but having miscarriages. Or you might be a man who cannot impregnate a woman which supposes not to be. To you, you might have the ability to produce, but don't know what suddenly happened. You need to check up with your life and make sure to make findings back in the day. A man who was so in love with a girl back in the days broke up with the girl after destroying her life. This made the girl pour out causes to the man which tired out to be affecting him. He has gone to several places to check up on what was the problem but was not told the exact thing that is happening to him.
When he went to church one faithful day, the pastor told him that he saw a revelation for his lack of a child. He was so interested in knowing what this revelation was, not until the pastor revealed to him that the cause of his childlessness is as a result of what he has done in the past. He further explained that he disappointed a lady who sworn to him that he shall not have the ability to impregnate a girl. He saw it to be a joke back then, but now coming to reality. The pastor told him to look for the lady and apologize to her. If she forgives him, then he shall be able to be capable of impregnating a girl.
We should all try to check up with our lives in all ways. Sometimes we may not be making it in life where the one depriving you of making it is the countless curse you have done in the past. So, we should always try hard to check our past because this can make us free from all forms of troubles and problems. A man has been finding it difficult to make it in life. He was so much hardworking and ready to do any form of hard work to make it great in life, and yet, luck and what has happened to him in the past deprived him of making it great in life. It was found that the curse that the parents laid on him was the one following him even up till when he became an adult.
Parents should learn how to play safe and should learn how to speak greatly to their children. Do not lay curses on your children but always pray for them. Pray for them to be great in life even when they did something wrong to you.
The words of the tongue are very much powerful and so we must not use them wrongly. Many people today are great in life just because their parents spoke out good words to them. Their parents never for once alter wrong words to them.
Luck Turned Out To Be Wickedness
Luck Turned Out To Be Wickedness
A couple who has stayed for many years went out to be without child. The name of the man is Mr., Kelly. He has been seen to many people in his area as someone who can do good to people. He is a hard-working man, and the luck of not having children just fell on him. The wife, Mrs Kelly, is a wonderful woman who has the mind of rendering help to people just like the husband. It has been a very long time now that he has been looking for a child without getting one. Anytime he sees people maltreating their children, he always feels so bad and also feeling as if he has one. This also happened to the wife.
The couples were always visiting the orphanage homes to donate items such as food, clothes and money to the children. They became known generally and also known for charity. It hot to a stage where they were organizing Sunday evening service for children in their surroundings. Every child would love to attend this service, as they will laugh home with their hands filled with items. This has been their habit and their nature of living with people just because of their inability to have one.
The man was around the age of 65 while the wife was around the age of 58. This was their actual age, but after many consultations, they came into conclusions that they will have to adopt a child in the orphanage home. They got a girl who was at the age of 13 years. They took care of this child and also pampered her just like their own, although, she is their adopted. So, they sent her to secondary school, as she has attended primary school before. While in the school, she was cool-headed and calm. She is someone who does not feel shy and also has the ability to cope in any environment. She is a grown-up girl who deserves to be taken proper care of. The couple, her parents, promise her that they will take good care of her and train her to wherever she wished for. She was given a name called Mary.
Mary has been a faithful girl who her father love so much. Just because of Mary, Will always come back home early just to prove his love for his daughter. Even after adopting a child, they were not relenting on their normal and usual tasks on helping people. The Sundays service which they always organized for the students was still on going. They are kind people and well-behaved, being ever seen.
Just because of the way they always help people and also the orphanage homes, their prayers were answered and indeed it is what you are thinking. The woman got pregnant after the age of 67. There was happiness all over the Community and people were so much in joy when they heard she is pregnant. She was so much happy.
After some months, she delivered a baby boy. Things began to change gradually since when the baby was born. The woman who was seen as one great woman began to develop a character that no one would understand. So, she was not the woman they used to know before. She developed a different character that people we fear her. The husband on the other hand remain being a good man and was surprised saying his wife misbehaving after the delivery of the baby. The one who brought them luck which happens to be the orphan that's the adopted was now treated badly. She was not taken care of any longer and somehow tried to abandon the payment of her school fees of which the husband tried as much as we can to pay up her school fees as at when due just as promised. The children she always entertained during Sundays were abandoned. Pride sometimes starts from the very moment you achieve what you have not achieved before.
This character of hers kept on increasing until she began to develop a character of giving out her adopted daughter to men. The girl kept on rejecting and wanting to tell her adopted gather, but one way she was deprived as the woman threatened her to pack her out if she tells her husband. It kept on going until God that never sleeps answered the prayer of the orphan, who is a one way or the other, opened the way to her giving birth to a child. His revealed himself to the orphan and made the woman's baby to die after little sickness. After the death of her child, she was ashamed of herself and do not know what to do any longer other than having the thought of killing herself. The orphan began to console her and gave her hope again.
Sometimes, one will not show forth his or her character just because of poverty, but once there is money, pride will show begin to manifest. Be you, and never have the habit of pride in you when you are buoyant enough?
You Are The Magic To Your Success
You Are The Magic To Your Success
Do you want to remain the same or maintain your trust in yourself? Then be sure to make your dreams come to reality.
To make progress, you need to step up and start building yourself because you are the one who will make yourself grow. What will make you grow in greatness is in you. You own the magic that can make you the greatest and can take you to your peak.
If you are ready to make headway to your dreams means you have started building up yourself to your taste. Before you can build up yourself to acquire your dreams, you need to ask yourself these questions:
Who are mine? Yes, before you start on the quest to your greatness, you need to identify yourself to know who you is. Many people today do not know their WORTH. They don't know that they have the greatest talents in them and are just there wasting what they have without investigating options for discovering themselves. There is always time to discover who you are to make headway into becoming your dream being. So, do know the kind of thing you can do to bring out what you want. Do not let such talents go to sleep or be wasted. If you are the lazy type, you need to discover what you can do and wake up from been lazy to be able to make something called success. Remember that success is not easy to make and when you have the opportunity to make one, just do not waste it.
What am I looking for in life? We are all in this life trying hard to make something out of nothing. Life is so simple, but many people saw it to be tough. It is something that we are all learning from one another. So, the very thing we are looking for in life is for us to grow weight to make something tangible and to make headway to success. The one question that can keep on ringing in your mind is the very thing you are looking for, which is to make you successful. We are all on earth to make names and to become big and great in life.
How do I climb to my greatness? To climb to your greatness is not easy and at the same time easy if and only if you work towards your goal. Everyone is created to make success and to be great in life. No one is born poor but born great. Many people do say they are born with a silver spoon, but do you know that sometimes, those in this position useless their opportunities?
Where do I start from? You can always start from somewhere. Nothing is too small for you to lay your hands on. In as far that you have talent, you can be able to make use of your talent to make. success. Despite the little you have, success is not a day job, but can always take some time to come to fulfilment. So, you can always start from what your hands can reach. All fingers are not equal, but you can always make yours great by staring from somewhere.
Is there anything I can do to make me the very person I wished for? The answer is just yes… You are the magic behind your growth and success. You can be the very person you wished to be if and only if you work hard towards being great. What you just need to do is to rebuild yourself into the shape you would love to see. The truth is that never worry about who is ahead of you or what you are starting with, but keep on doing what you suppose to do at the right time. Put yourself together to achieve whatever you wished to achieve.
Is this success compulsory? Success to be sincere is not compulsory, but necessary. We just need to be successful in life to meet up our dreams. There are so many today who are so lazy. They are not ready to make headway into becoming successful. They are just sitting in one place begging their mate's money. You should be ashamed of yourself while begging. When you know that success is not compulsory, then you are not living.
So, to crown it all, you are the magic that can make yourself the best in life. Comport yourself and do not relent in achieving what you wished to achieve. If you want to succeed, try your best to rebrand yourself because you are the only magic to your success.
At Last We Arrived Safely
It was a cloudy experience when I told my dad I wanted to become a politician. He said joining politics is like losing my only son, as politics is seen as a death game. It's a game of doing or die and a game where the sharpest and clever survive. He had this idea because he lost his father, my grandfather, in the hands of politics. Although, his reasons were valid. I still choose to become a politician anyway.
Moreover, the moment I choose that path was the day my life challenges started as I had to go against my father's words and wishes. I studied political science and that was because I was given a scholarship award. It was difficult for me throughout my years of stay at the university. I once thought but not even once but severally. I thought was giving up and deciding to work in my father's company, but my determination and persistence kept me moving. Sometimes, when you are derailed, you need to keep on moving and be determined to face the challenges that come your way. Once you can be able to face this, all shall come out to be great.
However, I struggled in my final year, the difficult year in my university. My dad helped me though because I went to him. I honestly don't bother about my mum because she abandoned me and my dad and whereas, my dad does not care and this was because my dad was destitute. He was pleased because I never gave up on my dreams. To God be the glory, I graduated with a first-class grade in political science.
It was more stressful to me as my dad used all his connections in getting me into the political party but to no avail. No political party wanted me, I was already losing hope because my dream is about to be shattered and crashed. My dad lent me some money to go to open my party. Now, very surprising because my dad who was initially against me joining politics is now the person who is my backbone. Establishing my party was a great idea because it will serve as a means of introducing young blood into the government
Due to godfatherism in politics, it will be really difficult for an upcoming political party to jump into a high governmental position. We were only 15 members in the party, then we decided to help the local government one after the other to boost our popularity. It started working very fine as everyone was now loving us. Forgive me, I should have mentioned the name of the party earlier, the name is YOUNG PEOPLE'S PARTY (YPP). I sent one of my subordinates to go for a local government position and to our beliefs, we won by a large number of votes. After some time, we became a topic for the media. As our popularity rise, other opposition parties ruling the country were already working for multiple ways to crash our party. It was then I understood the death game my dad was talking about.
Notwithstanding, we aimed to visit another local government, but this time, with tight securities. During our visit, we were bashed and lost some of my subordinates, two of them. It was a sad day and a sad experience for us all at the office. The media didn't take this case up. I wondered why. This politics is indeed a dirty game.
The more we took risks, the more our voters are voting for us. The presidential election was kicking in, I told my dad to lend me some money to purchase the presidential election form, I just can't believe that I Was going for the Presidential election. It will.be exciting off I win. My party went on campaigns, did rallies across the country. As our members increased, their families kept on dying ungraceful death, their families were threatened, but still, the sacrifice was with it if we win. Our manifestos were accepted by the public.
Finally, the D-Day came, voters caster their votes, elections were rigged in some areas. We all thought we had lost the election as I knew it wouldn't favour us with the way we saw things, yet my father believed in us. The votes were counted, and we were losing pretty badly. In few minutes, we were improving until we came back, we were already winning until the counting of the votes ended.
Despite all our falls, the obstacles we came across, all the lives and properties lost, we emerged as winners of the election.
Yes... We arrived safely…
Never give up on whatever you are doing or found yourself in that can bring your success. Success is very hard to get, unlike the way some foolish people thought it to be a cheap article. It is only the foolish ones that say success is cheap to get. If it is cheap, then why can't you go grab it? When you found success that is coming your way, do not hesitate to work hard towards it. Work hard to ensure you **arrive safely to grab that which is yours**.
Pride
Pride is the act of feeling pompous in the sight of people. Pride can take you down and can take you to a level you wouldn't want to be. It can make you look just like a fool and someone who does not have a passion for people.
Ada was a girl who initially had human feelings. She does not look down on people while still in secondary school. This was because her parents were just normal salary earners and average people. She loves to mingle with people and do make friends easily.
The father, Mr Johnson, on the other hand, has some friends who he once loved with. One of them is now I'm a better place to help him out. He is the head of an oil company and seeing him on Facebook after searching for his name, made him put calls across to him. Sometimes friends are the best ones should be glad to make. He called Mr Johnson to pay him a visit to his office which got Mr Johnson so much happy since he is going to use this as an opportunity to get work that he has been searching for all these days. God was so kind, he went to his friend's office as he instructed and at the particular time. On getting there, his friend took him for an outing where they had a lot been discussed.
They discussed a lot and about how he can be placed in a position. So, he was given a job in which he was receiving a tangible amount of money. This made him invest his money after spending some years in the work. Mr Johnson began to make money to his peak just because of the business strategy he has. He never wanted to relent in the quest of looking for money. So, he made his family the best and raised his family from been seen as one average family to a family that can be called rich. He was rich and so, his daughter began to put up a character that was so strange to everyone. The person who was so much friendly now turned to be someone who is a terror.
Mr Johnson built a mansion and bought a fancy car for his daughter, Ada. This increased the level of pride in her. She was no longer playing with anyone and does not want to have a friend who does not fall on the same level as her. So, she stylishly pursues all the friends she had but is left with just one who was the Mastermind of her recent behaviour. She became someone who many always see as a wicked being. Ada became so dreadful to the extent that men began to run away from her. She has never, for once, have a guy and not even a man chased after her since she began her madness of pride.
Sometimes, when you don't have money, no one will see your true character. People may be wicked inside after seeing money, while some may be so kind after passing through hardship to have made their money.
A guy who mistakenly spoke to her was disgraced. She poured the guy the bottle of water with her. Ada told the guy that he is not of her standard, and so guys have been running away from her. This means she has been finding it so difficult to have a boyfriend. Her dad told to take over one of his company that he so much invested on, and so she was so much happy to have accepted the offer. Now, she became more and stronger in her attitude of pride. She never allowed anyone who is of low class or anyone who is in her office to rest. She was tormenting all her workers until the dad witnessed it by himself. He talked to her to the brim and even to the extent of letting her know that if she continues with this habit of her, she will find it difficult to see a man who she can call her husband. She was shocked after hearing what the dad said and could not say a word.
After some days, a guy disguises himself just like a rich guy. He pretended to be rich and rented a car and a large apartment. The guy's aim is just to show her that her pride can be cut short by a mere poor guy just like him. He dressed to the brim and walked to her office as someone ready to give her company contract. After calling for him, the guy used her and came back, showing her his true identity. Ada after knowing this was shocking and could not say anything other than crying. Can cry solve the problem? The answer is NO. The deed has been done, and her pride was taken away by a mere poor guy. What a disgrace!!!
Pride can bring you down and can make you look like idiots in the sight of many.
Who Do We Give Honor To?
Who Do We Give Honor To
There are many people we do honour in life. When you honour means you give reverence to some set of people or someone. There is a saying that **gives honour to those whose honour is**. Many people today are celebrated just because of their records, while something is honoured just because of what they are doing right now or presently.
**Let's go**
The first person and being I have in mind to give honour to is our Creator, who is our God almighty. He has given us reasons to honour him. He made us who we are today and gave us life. Many are in the hospital spending lots of money on oxygen, but here we are enjoying the gift of nature which is the surrounding air. He gave us oxygen, through which we breathe in and out. Talking about your enemies, he devises a means through which your enemies will be chased away and very far away from you. Don't you think he is worthy to be honoured? Now, let's try our best to give him honour and praise him by singing songs of praise to him. This alone can awaken him to send down his blessings to you. Honour him at all costs. Also, tell people what he has done for you.
Heroes and Heroines: Yes... We truly need to honour our past heroes and Heroines, for they have given us the lead to follow. They have given us every reason to be great and tried certainly to make names in other for us to follow their leads. They have taught us all about their successful lives and how to follow those guidelines. The truth remains that, successful people are always successful because they are following the way and road to success. We have many of whom we can learn from because they have learned from some past heroes as well. Do you know that by following their leads, we can make headway to success? Although many people are not ready to rise to make success, we should always ignore those kinds of people and fight hard to make success a reality.
There is one woman whom I can always live to remember. She has taught our women how to inculcate the spirit of not relenting, but having the mind to push further. She has taught the women around them that their duties are not just to end in the kitchen in moving their careers to a point of reality. Likewise, she taught them to remain strong by fighting hard to without relenting. This is the kind of woman we all needed to push other relenting women forward. She is by name Dr Nngozi Okonjo well. She needs to be celebrated and honoured. Furthermore, she has single-handedly given the women strength to forge ahead and also made them understand that they have a future.
How then would she not be honoured?
- Parents: Your parents are to be honoured because they have made you who you are today. Your mother carried you from her womb up till your present status. Our mothers carried us for nine months in her womb and then take special care of us until we are men and women that is the adult stage. This is the major reason why no one would joke with his or her mother. Our father on the other hand will always go out to work for daily bread and how the family will live a better life. He gives out even when there is rain or sun. He doesn't care, but to be sure that his families are well-fed and taken care of. Our parents are our pride and the greatest and biggest ones to be celebrated and honoured. Remember that, it has been written in the Bible that we should honour our parents so that our days will belong.
- Pastor: Our pastors are the ones through which God speak to us. They are the servants of God, and they are trying their best to bring God to our doorsteps. Pastors are to be celebrated and honoured. They have made us understand the Bible to some extent and also have made us draw close to God. Knowing the good and the bad and whom to follow have been their priorities. Pastors are God's way of reaching the masses. So, they should be honoured because when you abuse them meaning you are abusing God. The fact remains that, we do not know the mind of men and so, we are not in the right place to judge people.
Causes Of Misunderstanding In A Relationship
Causes Of Misunderstanding In A Relationship
There is no relationship that is perfect on earth. This means there is always one problem or the other in a relationship, but one just need to use wisdom to make it a perfect one or to make it work. I have seen a relationship today which are seen to be perfect outside but fire inside. You will be thinking they are better mere looking at the way they behave, but when you draw close to them, their relationship is a crying type. They say that if you do not stay with a fowl, you will not know if it is breathing.
I'm another way, some relationship is always having great problem which the couples always voice out for help. They always cry to people who are ready to help and sometimes, when you take your issues outside, it becomes a problem to either the man or the woman.
Jealousy:
A man who is always playing with people, including the women and men. His wife has been observing him playing with these sets of people without complaining, but keeping it as secret. One faithful day, she went to meet her neighbor after seeing her husband playing with her neighbor. She questioned the neighbor and ask her not for her life to play or allow her husband to play with her. She did maintain her stand and was earnest about it. The husband was very furious for he has no intention of playing with people, most, especially the women. He is just free with everyone. This truly caused problem and misunderstanding I'm their house.
Sometimes, been jealous is not the best, but can make you feel uneasy. You can one way or the other develop hypertension while thinking of what is not happening. Even if it is happening, the best is to talk to your partner about it, and you will fine-tune the problem and become one again instead of making a problem with your neighbors.
- Lack of trust:
Trust in relationship is very much Paramount and important. If there is love in between a couple, they should be able to trust each other to the brim. Many women, when asked, will say I don't trust my husband, or I don't trust my boyfriend or girlfriend. In most cases, the men are not always trusting their women, most, especially Before marriage. After marriage, the woman will turn out to lose trust in her husband. This should not be so, as marriage is complicated and an institution where we learn every day.
So, learn how to trust your partner and also as a man or woman, what are you looking for outside when what you are looking for is inside? You should not have the mind of hunting for something you are seeing all the time. Some men will tell you that they would love to change oil, which suppose not to be so. Which oil do you want to change, when what is out there is of no difference.
Not Contented With What You Have:
Many women are always not satisfied with what they have, but are ready to make their husbands go the extra mile to hustle and even to the point of borrowing from people. This kind of problem can cause misunderstanding in the house. Be contented with what you have so that your family will not go to hunger. A woman who has the passion for high things can make her husband go bankrupt and can cause serious problem to their relationship. An average man who got married to a woman who has high demand will not continue with such relationship.
Not giving attention to your partner:
Many women today lack character and are not ready to give their husbands' attention. This is equally to the men as well. Many men today are carried away by work and when they are back from work, they will always feel tired which will make the to feel weak on bed. When this is happening, there will be complications in the relationship. After this, misunderstanding will be introduced.
Taking your issues to a third party:
Most of the time we do have issues with our partners. It may be a normal issue that can be solved within minutes and within your partners. So, taking your issues to a third party can cause misunderstanding in your relationship. When I wanted to get married, I was advised to always solved any issue at home with my wife instead of letting someone solve it for me. My relationship is moving smoothly just because of that advice I had from someone. In another way, I heard a pastor advising his member who was ready to get married to always settle his issue with his wife in the house and with the wife, but must not for ones take their issues to a third party. Third parties can cause troubles in the homes most of the time because there are some people out there who do not want your relationship to hold. So, you should not take your matter outside, but learn how to settle it within. Do not get your in-laws involves when there is a quarrel between you and your partner.
So, be wise and do not do things that does not go in line with your partner. Understand each other and do know what each of you needs, which is in form of your likes. There may be something I don't like, and you must find certainly to avoid doing those things.
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Break Away From Deceivers
Being wicked is not the best, but will some days tarnish your personality. There are many people out there who are ready to receive you at all cost. They are not thee type one should listen to or make friends with. They don't want your progress and do not want you to mingle with people that can make you succeed in life.
A man who was so nice and great in the community has two friends who he seriously cherished. He never, for once, allow people to say bad of them in their stay together. He is just an average man but has the mind of helping anyone who comes his way. Furthermore, he never joked with his Community members.
One day, he went to his friend's house just as usual to play and to do things together. The other of his friends came over as well, as they have been happy to be together. The one they went to meet, decided to prepare a dish for all of them to eat, which they have been doing to each other. They never wanted to stay apart, as they are no longer children who will go out looking for jobs. They are well known in the community and believed to have no grudge among themselves.
The three have been together, and many people truly envy them to the brim. Now, the first one was making progress despite being an average being. He has helped so many people and has helped even his friends to grow. They have grown together as one good friend. People no longer call them friends, but brothers.
There is a wicked man in us called the devil, which is always in the heart of men. People are being wicked and people around later told his two friends that why on Earth should one person among them be growing and expanding in business whereas, the rest of you are not doing anything. They initially ignored those words being said, as they called the one who told them this word the devil's advocate. According to them, they are inseparable as they have been together for years without problems. So, they detested that fellow who came to spoil their minds.
Meanwhile, the other two are also doing fine in their respective businesses. So, searching for someone's downfall wouldn't be their priority. So, they decided to let it go without telling their friend about it. Meanwhile, when one out of them got home, he had a deep thought about what they were told. He reasoned those words out and become groomed in the devil's path. The fact remains that when someone is having a devilish thought, no other thoughts will enter. And without carrying out his or her plans, he or she will not be peaceful.
The one who has been deceived by the voice of the devil decided to move away from the other friends just because one is making it while they are not making it. He decided to stay on his own without having anything to do with them. It has been weeks, and they have not been seeing him, and they decided to visit him. To their surprise, they did not meet him at home but met his wife. They tried to explain to the wife that they have not been seeing her husband. The woman was surprised to hear that because the husband never mentioned that they have not been together for a long time now. So, she decided to wait until her husband was back. To some women, they would love to deceive their husbands not to mingle with their friends any longer, since there is no benefit among them.
Immediately, she related the issue to her husband why he is moving away from his friends. She asked his husband to explain why he made such a decision to move away from his friends. He said it without telling any lies or missing words. He told his wife about his friend making it without him and the other one making it. The wife told him not to sway away from them, but to always stay with them at all times. She asked him to go ahead to meet up with them and to make them see reasons why you were away from them. He did just that, and indeed the three friends lived happily together and without quarrel among them. They made it just because of the union among them all. They were good friends and will never run away from each other. Furthermore, they helped each other out in all ways and then, they became rich.
This means they put the devil to shame. When the devil wants to enter you, it will come in form of humans and then, torment you to break away from the ones who can make you the best in life. The devil is always there to break homes, to break families, to break relationships, to make things hard for humanity, but when you reject him, I bet you, you shall be great and see reasons to always run away from him.
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