#Women Empowerment
As you can see there are two photos above. The first one is a photo of the two famous celebrities in the Philippines, Kathryn Bernardo and Nadine Lustre wearing a sexy but classy outfits. On the other hand, a photo of an anonymous girl who accepted a viral challenge in the internet which is the #NiyogChallenge.
The society accentuated the issue about Women empowerment. Almost all of us advocates Women to be empowered. That women should live in dignity and in freedom from want and from fear. In simplest word, women should live the way they wanted to be (same with the opposite gender of course, but women is the focus of my article). No one should deprive and judge a girl/ woman because of how she dress, talk, how she socialize, how she live her life as a human being.
Going back to the photos above, people in the social media did some bias and considered to be a stereotype in the Society. Why? If you are gorgeously beautiful and sexy woman, you should be empowered. You are automatically be praised and glorified by the people. Regardless with how you dressed up. You'll receive some enormous compliments about you. Even if you're almost completely naked with your clothes some people in the society will not judge you because of that. But, on the second photo, there is one guy who commented the girl's photo. "Ka resperespeto ba ang babaeng ganyan?" The girl is just showing her confidence through this creative and unique viral challenge from the social media. What's wrong with that? Now, look at the difference. All girls/women are born to be respected as I've said. Who the hell he is to question that girl if she is respectable. Where is the women empowerment here? People like these are the reason of some girls/ women to be ashamed of theirselves. Did you know that developing confidence towards a person is not a joke? Its a quite harder than you think. That is why some people try to lift their confidence by trying something new and unique, like the girl in the photo above. So, why not give her a compliment rather than throwing up some negative thoughts about her photo. Is that too hard?
Ganun pala yung feeling na magkaroon ng heart-to-heart talk with your Mom. Feel ko ang clear ng soul ko na matutulog ngayon. Crying in front of her is not bad after all. Share ko lang guys!
Dumating na ba kayo sa isang point ng buhay niyo na iniyak mo nalang lahat ng problema sa buhay mo hanggang sa nakatulog ka na lang? Tapos pagkagising mo, bangon ka. Okay kana. Start ulit ng life. Laban ulit ganern!
Do Standards Really Matter?
Do Standards really matter?- Well, almost all of the girls/women wants to have an almost perfect guy (Am I right? Coz’ I’m one of those). Rich, smart, tall, good-looking, kind, sweet and talented one? I dreamed of it, I admit. I used to read ebooks and wattpads before. Fictional characters are deemed close to perfection. But, if a guy is close to perfection, traits and attitude matters the most. What will you do with a good-looking guy but has an asshole attitude? To bluster around? Doesn’t make any sense. Remember, looks may fade, but good traits and manner last. Hence, you’re a lucky girl if you found a guy who is fitted to your standards. But for me, even if you set your standards for your ideal man, when Cupid shot you, your manly standards will just fade away, neglected and disappear. And if you really love the person, you will just love him for being himself. You accept him as he accepted you. And that’s what we called, “LOVE”
Let me share to you my story.
I do have a crush way back when I was in high school. He is way too far to my ideal guy. I used to dream of having a good-boy type of a guy (You know what I mean). But, he is completely opposite. However, I just love everything about him. The way he looks, talk, smile and many more. Many of my friends were shocked and dismayed. I didn’t mind them. Perhaps, it’s my life. I fell in love with a man who's a total opposite of my type. I fell in love with him because I saw values I never thought he has. His acts of spontaneity gave butterflies on my stomach. That's when I realized that if you're inlove, standard won't matter anymore.
By the way, my crush is now my man! Good-looking? Yes! Good son? Definitely,yes! I’m proud to say that he is a mama’s Boy. Responsible? Yes! Rich? No, that is why he is studying so hard to become succesful someday. I’m one of the luckiest!
So girls, lower down your standards. It should be the heart to speak not the eyes.
Don’t marry a rich man, get rich together!
Spread love everyone. God bless us always.
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What if?
Out of nowhere you came and it scares the hell out of me. What if you're just like him? You would let me fall for you and leave me in the middle where I no longer know how to go back or to move forward.
You would let me fall for you and let me die inside each and every day as I don't know how to live my life the way it was.
You would let me fall for you and let me face alone the dark side of loving too much and giving too much.
You would let me fall for you and let me taste the bitterness of expecting a lot from someone who just told me a lot of times that he loved me but has the guts to leave me when I already fell hard.
So, I'm sorry if I'm scared because what if you're just like him?
A tragedy.
Fledged charity
I used to have a lot of friends where I considered them to be my brothers and sisters not by blood, but by heart. And then, as I realized that, the more I become outspoken to everyone, the more that they would desire to use you for anything that they want and need. The lesser people you're with, the more chances of having a true and solid circle of friends. After all, number doesn't matter the most. The adage:"The more the merrier" doesn't matter. And those people who you chose to be with could have a great impact for your growth and development as a person, as a better human being. Remember, there's nothing wrong with having small groups as long as they are healthy for your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual embodiment.
@clandestine
