My thoughts... Some people say that it's better to "forgive and forget." I agree with the "forgive" part, but I don't forget so easily. I believe it's best to forgive and learn from mistakes, and to try to not repeat these mistakes. I also learned to stay away from those who've hurt me. I guess I do hold grudges, which isn't good. 😔 ***My photo - This was a pretty cactus, but it died because of mealybugs. I forgot the ID too ❣️🌵