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So kanina, may nag-cha-chat sa akin na classmate ko about sa major quiz namin sa acc. Medyo nagiging mabait ako, but I decided na hindi siya replayan. Not because madamot ako, but I think I already gave the tulong I can conditionally give. Tinuruan ko na siya nung isang araw tapos mag-D-DM siya ngayon two minutes before the quiz. Hindi ko siya dinirect to the point, hindi ko lang siya pinansin. Wala akong pake kung bumagsak siya ngayon, it's not my fault though. Yung tulong ko na pumasa siya is voluntarily kong binigay. However, yung kulang na lang, ispoonfeed ko siya, I think it's not actually considered as help. Balak ko talagang hindi yon tignan hanggang matapos yung deadline for the quiz. She acted like walang nangyari and for sure, hindi ko na kasalanan if she failed. I think yung help ko sa kaniya is enough na (helping her to understand the topic) but medyo off talaga yung approach niya sa akin. Kaya nung nakita ko pa lang na nag-chat siya, hindi ko na kaagad pinansin eh. I should think na hindi ko obligation na tulungan siya mismo. Medyo napahaba yung rant kasi hindi ko talaga siya pinansin and medyo naging rude ako. Bawi ako sa final exam (although hindi naman ganon kababa score ko) Edit: I pasted my post in ChatGPT and thank you for giving me this advice. Yeah, we should always know our boundaries.

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