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Boys Don't Cry?
Good afternoon, it's me, Bheng again, lol, happy wednesday afternoon to all, weather's good out here now, sun's up and bright, an idea came out of my mind again because i remember something and made me wrote, share and publish it here at read.cash and going to share something from my fb page here again that's kinda related to this article now, below's that link, lol, hope you will like the song :) https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=702103147401198&id=100028045580752
They say, boys don't cry? I wonder why is that? Don't they feel sadness, loneliness or emptiness? Do they just hide their feelings or what they really feel? Are they just afraid to show it or let someone know that they also cry? If they do cry, what makes them cry? Is crying that bad that they aren't or didn't do it? Is crying just for girls? Do crying makes them weak or feel weak? I wonder why i wonder, lol, hopefully, those questions here would be answered eventually by boys or men here on read.cash, lol
I never saw my father, my brother cried or they just hide it to us, same thing with my male workmate, guess, boys are really good in hiding their pain, loneliness or sadness and what they really feel to someone or to other people or to the one they love.
Like i said, i never knew or met or learned or saw boys that cry, but that changes when i met my boyfriend and all those questions that i included here was answered and it made me believed that boys are just like girls at some point somehow, the only difference's they are not that showy when it comes to crying or showing their emotion to other or someone else.
I met and known my boyfriend last february of this year, since i met him, we had argued many times as there are no perfect relationship and most of the time, he cried when we argued or had a fight or misunderstanding, he was the one who cried many times because of it and seeing him crying like that makes me think and believe and understand that somehow boys or men do cry and when they cry means they really cared and loved you and that you are that important to them, that they can't lose you or afford to lose you nor they can't live without you anymore, remember asking my boyfriend why he cry and why he cried like that and why he always cry when we fight or argue, he said, what do you think, woman? I cried because i never thought that i would love you this much and can't really believed that i fell in love with someone who lives very far from me nor i can't believed that i will have this kind of relationship now, feel a little jealous, feel unsecure or uncertain of some things especially before and what you and your x-friend have been before, if you two are still talking, because he talks and told me something and he still knew what's happening there, he added, i cried because you taught me things that i didn't knew and felt before and made me cried again, the feelings i had for you is so strong that it made me cried many times, sometimes because you surprised me unexpectedly and sometimes because we argued and you didn't understand and get what i've been trying to say to you and didn't do or follow the things i want you to do and also because you are the most hard headed women that i have met and learned to love.
Now and finally, i fully understand why boys or men cry. They are not weak, they are not that showy and they know how to deal with emotion or to how they are feeling, but if they do cry especially to the one they love means a good, really good one or thing 'coz boys nor men won't be crying that much or like that if it doesn't mean anything or if they didn't cared or loved that someone, how 'bout you, do you know a boy or a men who cried? Or if you are a boy or a men, have you cried and why did you cried? As for me, seeing my boyfriend cried many time's a good thing, a good feeling, it touches my heart and also made me cried as well 'coz i felt how he really feels, his emotions, his fears, his doubt, his jealousy, how afraid he was when i told him that goodbye before, his insecurities, everything he really feels was shown or show up when he cries, felt bad as well 'coz i always made him cry, he is so emotional when it comes to me, mixed emotion everytime i saw and made him cry, lol, Bheng again, saying, good afternoon again, feel free to share your thoughts or opinion or experienced if you do have this too or same thing down below, coffee time for me here now, lol, have a good day, God bless and be safe to all and hope you like this one again and oh, just an addition to this one, kinda like how Justin of my love from another star cried, he reminded or same with my boyfriend, lol, ngayon, nahook-up o naadik na ako sa palabas na yun, kapag tapos na yun, pinanonood ko pa sa youtube, lol, maybe because i can relate to it or to them and their lovestory, lol
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@Alther, thank u for the upvote :)
@Alther, thank u for the upvote :)
Ang tunay na lalaki umiiyak.. 😊😊 mas admire ko yung umiiyak kesa sa tinatago ang tunay na emotion..
Opo, aq din po n nung nkilala q po ung bf q, ntuwa n lalo q po xng ngustuhan ndi po dhil sa naiyak po xa lgi kundi po, pinakita nya po ung totoo n tlgang nraramdaman nya po n mrming bses na po un, sbi nya nga po, lgi q daw po xng pinapaiyak, lol, salamat po sa upvote nyo 🙂😊
Haha.. Sincere ang ganyan...minsan lng my bf na iyakin.... True love yan 😊😊
Tlga po, actually ung x-gf nya, ung dlawang nging asawa nya eh puro patay na po, prang months n year lng po pgitan, ung x-lady friend nlng po nya ang buhay kya sbi po sa akin ng nanay n mga kwork n kaibigan q po na dapat aq na ang pumutol o mhinto na po un sa akin n sna daw ndi un mngyri po sa akin dhil prang ndi daw po mgandang senyales un
Asawa? So married na siya dati? Goosebumps ako dun ah.. Wag naman sna mangyari syo (knock on wood) ..
Opo, ang kwento nya po eh, nmatay ung gf nya nung knasal po xa sa first wife nya, tpos ilng taon lng pgkapanganak sa unang anak nya, nmatay sa cancer ung wife nya, so ng-asawa po xa ulit, ung kababata nya nman ung nging 2nd wife nya, dalawa nging anak nla tpos ntulog lng daw ung asawa nya, ndi na po ngising, that time, mliliit plng po ung mga anak nya, kya xa po ngpalaki nun ksma ung unang anak nya n puro babae po anak nya, kya sbi po ng nanay q, mg ingat aq n sna wag daw mgyri un sa akin, nkakatkot po kya ngtnong po aq sa albularyo n mnggagamot po d2 n sbi nya po, pwde nya putulin un po bgo po kmi ikasal pro kylngn nya po pmnta d2 n dalawa po kming pupunta dun sa manggagamot o albularyo po
So parang may sumpa sa kanya? Kakakilabot honestly.. So ano dapat gawin pra maputok yun?
Opo, prang mron nga po, sbi po ng albularyo o mnggamot po d2 na kilala n nkausap q po, dpat po dlhin q xa sknya pra mputol na po ung kng anumang mron sknya o ngyri dun sa mga babaeng nkrelasyon nya na nmatay po, nloko n biniro q pa nga po xa nun, sbi q, who knows, i might die first again or i die ahead of u like what your x-gf n 2 deceased wifes had or been, he said, no no no, i won't let that happen, not to u, i am going to die first 'coz i won't like that to happen anymore or to experienced that same thing again
Pro kakatakot sumugal kpg ganyan 🤣🤣 kung love naman.. Eh di ipaglaban haha. Charot lng
Hahaha, oo nga po, isusugal q na po 2, lol, let's see po kng ano po mngyri, if aq po ang mkakaputol po nung kng ano mn po un na nandun po, lol, ika nga po, life's gamble, so i will gamble in it po, lol
True. So kelan nyo balak mag asawa? 😅
Of course, they cried too but not often like the way us girls do. When the load is heavy they will cry silently or secretly.
I see po, so it means, u saw your husband cry na po before? Yes, they would cry silently nga po
Yes, of course, I saw him cry.. hahaha I remember before we agreed to break up because of family issues we were both crying nasa Luneta park kami pinagtitinginan kami nang mga tao hahaha
Gnun po ba, lol, so how does it makes u feel po na he's crying po kasi u two r going to break up that time po? Maybe that time po the people there r curious po y both of u r crying that time po, lol
@Laica, thank u po for the upvote
@Laica n @RaemaKhan, thank u po for the upvote :)
My pleasure. Dear,
🙂😊
I also think that boys are good at hiding their pain because they are also human, they also suffer, most of the people throughout the day often feel bad but they show themselves to be strong. I think some of them cry alone or in front of someone special. Thanks for sharing your Nice thoughts about the"boys don't cry".
Yes, also thinks of it too n u r welcome, since i met my bf, i now know that boys or men do cry, maybe secretly n silently n doesn't show how they really feel but they also will show u or cry in front of u to show u how he really feels
Yes It also shows their love
Yes, i agree
No..this myth should be debunked, boys are human also and they get hurt as well
Yes, i agree, human, either boy or girl can be hurt n cry too n it what makes us unique to other living creations of God,
All in all we need to consider the fact that we are all humans and we feel the different emotions one can feel
I agree n u r right about that one
Thanks!
Welcome, so r u a boy or men? Hope u don't mind me asking that
Sana all may boyflend 😭😭. Will men are really not showy when it comes to emotion, they kike to hide it because they don't want to be called weak, some think that way i'm sure. Some are too proud to cry because of pride? But seriously one thing is for sure, when a man cry because of you then he truly loves you.... Or so we thought, I know some who cry ahmmm, let say a teaspoon just kidding. I witness some of that, a man crying for their loveones, they cam cry for us but, we can't really be sure that this man who vry because of is is the one who we will end up.
I see po, y, don't have boyfriend po? Dba po my nrereto po yta sa inyo, lol, joke lng po, i get n understand what u r saying po n yes, men or boys aren't showy n i agree with u po though like my bf who's older than me, guess he wanted me to see, knew n feel that what he says or telling or feeling's true po, mtnda na po xa pra mag-inarte po, lol
Wala saka di naman ako nagahanap haha. Hahaha natawa ako sa mag inarte haha
Yes of course boys don't really cry try to maintain again anything
I really love this article since I am a man. I can say that your boyfriend is really and truly love you ate bheng😊 nasasabi ko po yan dahil lalaki din ako and bihira sa lalaki ang ganan na iniiyakan ang babae (in a positive perspective)😊
Yes n thank u po, so, u mean, u also cried before po? Yes, that's what he told me before po, when i saw him crying, it touches my heart, mixed emotions po though we used to argue before kc ndi nya maintindihan n because of jealousy n when i told him things or like goodbye, he cried n still now, he still is, never taught that i made him cried n nkakatuwa in a positive or good way n learn n saw that men can cried like that po
Yes po hehe nakakahiya mang aminin na sa mura kong edad ay umiyak na ako dahil sa babae. Siguro pala hindi ko dapat ikahiya yon dahil I can say that I really love that person. So we need to appreciate those man who cried for their girl becaue they are rare I think.
Yes po, it's rare po to have a men or boys who cried for u,okay lng po yan, bata pa po u n yes po, ndi po dpat ikahiya na umyak kau dti sa girl n bta pa po u, mrami pa po ung mkilala, mg-aral lng po mna u maigi n wag mgmadali sa pag-ibig, darating at darating din po ung pra sau, in the perfect place n time n in God's timing din po so just trust Him lng po 🙂
Yes po I learned that lesson because of her. Mas madami pang tao ang dadating sa buhay ko. But hoping that she'll be my girl, soon.
Opo, think positive n believe lng po, who knows, mngyri po yang iniisip nyo po
Huhuhu sana nga pooo🤧❤ gusto ko pong mangyari yan talaga❤
Believe n tiwala n dasal lng po
Oo nga po always ko pong ginagawa 'yan
I still think that men who cry are not weak, I think they're cool! They're cool for being able to show their emotion and not being afraid of criticism. Sanaol na lang po may jowa na iiniyakan ka 😂
Opo, same here po, ms iyakin pa nga po kysa sa akin, tuloy prang aq po ung lalaki sa aming dalawa, tnanong q pa nga po dati kng gnyan xa sa mga nging gf, asawa n ung x-lady friend nya, sbi nya, sa akin lng daw xa umiyak n aq lng daw ngpapaiyak sa akin, he also added that i'm also a pain in the ass daw, lol
hahaha nice, congrats! Sana forever na po yan 💙
Sna nga po n salamat po
You're welcome. Patikim na lang po ng lumpia kung sakali hahahaa
Hahaha, cge po, message o kontakin q po kau via telegram kng maitatali q na po xa, lol
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