A gift given at the age of 21
Let me share you my own story. After I've graduated college, I also started to work for a well-known fast food chain for 5 months. I'd enjoy working and being part of the team. And as I just started to enjoy being an employee, I never had an idea that I also started to develop a relationship with one of my co-worker. We've been known for 5 months at work. And as I had my end of contract he started to court me. And after a month we commited to be together. But suddenly, I've got pregnant unexpectedly. At first we started to argue on how we could handle things that's totally complicated. Both our parents dissappointed when we told them about my situation. I'd cried my times of my life that time because I was just 21 at my age and not ready to become a mom. My mom was so devastated and my dad gets mad at me. I understand and also expected all of that reactions came from them. Me, myself that time I felt that I wish I've never been born at all. I felt that it was the worst part of my life which I failed to be their daughter.
But this weaknesses and situation made me more to be strong and brave . Although I feel weak, I know I had to stand up for my child which depends on me. I realize that I should not make him feel that I don't want him rather I had to gone throught this circumstances because I had no control on everything. I was lucky that time because the father of my son supported me all the way until I delivered our son. But unfortunately, after 2 months when I gave birth to our son, we ended up our relationship and he stop supporting,even his own son. I'd so many questions in my mind after that but one thing is for sure I should not depend to anyone, On this dat onwards I should be a mom and a dad at the same time.
Now, I raised my child single handedly for almost 6 years. I know I'm not perfect but I will do all my best to support the needs of my son. Life is tough as it can be but it's our choice when to fight or not. Being a mom is not a tough job rather a noble thing to do. As time goes by me and my son grew at the same time. And being a mother and father at the same time is not easy. And I salute all the mothers out there especially single moms who supported their child single handedly without expecting in return. And lastly I'm so grateful I have my family whose always at my back to support me especially my parents whose there throught my ups and down. God blessed me a wonderful family which I could not ask for more.
Great gifts comes in any form and I can say I've got the great gift in my life, whom is my son that I will love for the rest of my life.
📷October 5,2014
📷 October 5,2020
What a cruel life!
Have you been experienced being criticized?. Life is not that easy specially in this world full of cruel people and no one is exempted to be criticize. I, myself experienced being criticize many times in my life and this made me to live uncomfortably. From my school, from my family, friends and even the one you love.
Good or bad people will talk about us. They will always have a never-ending point of views from the way we dress, the way we talk,and the way we act.
But never forget that you don't need to pretend and you just have to be yourself. You don't need someone's approval to meet their standards just to fit in this cruel world. Life will never be as perfect as what we thought it will be. But it is in our hands to change the life we are living.
Choose someone who will makes you cry because of joy and not because of sorrow.
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Every single day I felt that life gets hard for me. And i felt like an empty nutshell 😂 (haha ✌️) But I know one of this days I'll overcome this, It's hard but I know I have to endure the pain for me to move on emotionally. I'll just let this all wounds be healed someday.
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I'm getting a hard time to sort things out this past few days. It really doesn't matter how big or small your problem is. *I just realize we cannot prevent nor change what was already tend to happen.*
When the waves of life crash down on you,pick yourself up get ready for the next one and ride it like you own it. Don't stress yourself up. Just go with the flow.
Goodnight fellas🤗 ! (just random thought here)
Have a great day ahead !
Start focusing on the things that let us grow physically,mentally and emotionally. Just be yourself and do what you really want.
Don't hold back 💪
Don't be depress if someone leaves you,never ever feel that it is now the end for everything. Never feel empty.You don't deserve to be treated like a trash. Don't be with someone whose hurting and making you cry over and over again just doing thier childish act and always upbringing of the past. Stop chasing someone who doesn't deserve even an inch of you. Make him realize that he was wrong of hurting and leaving you.
Know your worth. Know what your heart really desires. It's not necessary that you can find your happiness by depending on someone that never really cares for you thus only cares with themselves.
Focus on your family ,be thankful because you always have them when you needed them. Life is too short for all the dramas in life. Make your self busy in finding on what makes you really happy. Set your goals. Live life positively.
Never Lose Your Self by Loving Someone
It's ok to love and feel loved but sometimes it's normal to be hurt,just make sure it will never came to a point that hurt will always be on top of it. Don't give them the right to deplete you. Don't forget to respect,appreciate and love what you have and never focus and settle only for what you've lost.
What's keeping you from moving on?
There are things in life that we can't understand. We have so many questions that we don't know the answers.Like, why do I feel empty? Why do I feel useless? Why do I feel unworthy? Why do I feel broke? Why do I feel unlucky? Why these things are happening? Why now? And we can't help but notice that there were those sleepless nights that keeping you in pain and feel miserable.
Sometimes we blame ourselves for everything that's happening around us and we forget that there is God. When you feel like the world left you behind and you want to find the answers to all your questions, just kneel down,pray and have conversations with God. Give all your worries to Him. Ask for His guidance and tell what you feel. If you want cry, just do it. He will always ready to listen. Don't let the pain drown you and stopping you to live the life you want. You have to let it all out for you to move forward. Sometimes God breaks down our plans before it breaks us. He wants us to realize and learn something from it. There are reasons why things meant to happen but I know for sure that what we feel or what is happening right now is temporary. I know it will never be easy ,life is never easy but be strong and brave. Know your own battle and know how to fight. Move out to you comfort zone. Trust God and walk with His own ways. He won't gave you more than you can handle. He knows what's the best for us.
*Deuteronomy 31:6*
*"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."*
Know your worth
Love is unconditional. Love is respect. Love is affection. Love is contentment. If one of those things were missing in your relationship then you have to think twice or more.
Remember that love is a commitment of two individuals. Life is not always rainbows and butterflies and loving too much could destroy oneself. Don't be a victim of verbal abuse. Never beg for someone to stay because if they want too, they will.
It's better to choose someone whom you can be with until the end. Someone who will never choose to leave you when life gets hard. Someone who will choose you over and over again.
*"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." 1 Corinthians 13:4-5*
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