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My realization after being married for more than 2 years
Blog 56-5th Date :April 13,2022 Time :3:33pm Marriage life is tough as we know. It's not happy always. Marriage couples tend to experience struggles.
First of all, I was a single mom for 13 years before I got married. It was a big adjustment for me when I got married. First, I have to consult or ask my husband first in every decision I will make which I am not used to. Just like when I have to buy things for the family even if I don't ask for any money from him to pay for it but still had to inform him as my sign of respect for him. Second, my daughter used to ask permission whenever she wanted to go out somewhere and she only used to ask me my husband found it weird when my daughter didn't ask his permission. Of course to remind my daughter to ask permission also to her Papa. Lol, it's just hard for her to ask permission since don't use to ask me whenever he wants to go somewhere. If he wants my daughter to respect him he should be the one to show a good example as being the head of the family. 3rd, having a pasaway or sometimes immature husband is giving me stress. Sometimes I just wish I live as a single mom. Better that way I only think for my kids. It's like I have an eldest son hahaha. Just like when didn't know how to organize his stuff at home and I am the one who keeps cleaning his mess. I was like? I train my daughter to be independent and responsible for her things and arrange her stuff now that I have a husband I have to train him also but it's like it's just the way he is when he was still living with his parents and I don't like it. Sometimes I feel tired of reminding him over and over again 4th it's also about the expenses at home. When I was living with my Daughter I'm used to stocking stuff that we use every day because I hate buying every now and then like shampoo etc. I want to stock goods for a week but he likes buying every now and then. I think it's way better to buy in bulk than in pieces. What do you think? Well of course it depends on our budget. **Final thoughts** I think it will take time for us couples to adjust to our marriage life. Well, nothing I can do now but extend my patience to my husband and I will try my best to understand him. Anyway, my husband and I are doing well this time it's just that sometimes he's giving me stress. I hope that hubby will be more mature as time goes by so I can't be stressed because of him. `Photos used in this article are all owned by yours truly unless it is stated.` `Lead Image edited using Canva` `To my ever-dearest daily readers, upvoters, and likers. thank you for your precious time and for your efforts. I love you all.` `To my amazing and generous sponsors who have been supporting me since from the start thank you so much for inspiring me to do better each day.` Shoutout to my sissy @BCH_LOVER thanks for the renewal of your sponsorship on me. May God will bless you with more blessings in life
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when I was 23 I got married. Now 10 years running of my marriage. I am happy to get someone special she was my GF and Now she is my wife. we respect each other.
I am happy for you sir Shawon
As for me it is better to do the buying at a time, i mean having stocks so you don't need to keep on buying, every now and then. It will save money and your time too.
yeah, that's my point sis.better that way
According to some people, first 10 years of married life is an adjustment period and is full of trials to test their relationship.
I hope it won't last that long to adjust.it's stressing me already
Really. We stay for more than four years but a little adjustment only as of now.
Hindi ako nahirapan sa asawa ko sis kasi alam mo na mas matured sa akin😅Siya nag aadjust ,pero respect to each others decision is always there.
good for you sis at di ka naging stressful
Haruy truth yan sis for some couple. May iba talaga na hubby na dapat i titrain hahaha. Pero laban lang. Matututo din yang si hubby mo
kaumay din lagi nalang magreremind.hehehe
Ganyan talaga pag marriage life sis. May mga adjustments mangyayari. May mga struggles. May mga worries. May mga challenges. It's part talaga sis. The important kahit ano mangyari still go on and at the end i-settle parin at magkaintindihan at magtutulungan.
Yes sis. We still try to adjust and still trying to stay strong
Yes sis that's the important sis. Stay strong parin sis at may understanding.
*Mas nindot jud ng naa'y stock na groceries sis kaysa taud² palit. Akong partner kung naa na siya'y kwarta, mag grocery jud na siya. Ang akoa lang kasamukan Usahay niya kay kanang magyawyaw pag Dili dayon gibuhat ang iyang gisugo pero overall ok naman siya. Responsable siya sa among pamilya*
Maayo sis. Swerte ka sa imong pares
Mao na I prefer a guy who is older than me kay ako ang ibaby. Mao sad ni iya reklamo bag. O pa ko dinhi katong hinay pa ko sa home chores. Pero karon okz na ko.
At least nag improve and Naka adjust na mo sis
sige gehapon kog adjust sis
Pasaway. Buti pa daughter mo sis hehe pero,bago palang Naman kaya siguro sa tagal matuto din at masasanay sa nakagawian mo. Oo mas okay Ang bulk kesa pieces kung ako lang din Ang masusunod ganun gusto ko Kaso may mga kasmaa na kami sa bahay at mahirap din talaga kapag madami kayong aggamit Yung pang 1 week na budget para dun Hindi talaga nangyayari. Kung kami lang sana Kaso itong partner ko TILA Wala Ng balak magbukod.🤦
Yes nasanay kasi ako na well trained na ang anak ko tas ayun back to training na naman ako sa hubby ko. Hirap talaga pag my iba kayong kasama sis, dati nakikitira din kami sa parents niya ang hirap magbudget kasi madami siyang kapatid
nakatawa ko sis sa mura ka ug naay panganay na lalake..hehe
Mao jud ny tinuod.. Mkastress pud usahay Mao ng di malikayan makaingon ko mypag wa ko nagmenjo ky dugang ra ug stress ning badlongon nga Bana
Hahaha mao man sis...
To the last one, I find it more better to buy in bulk than buying in pieces. The pieces are more costly compared to bulk and also, the bulky buying saves time and stress
Yes that's my point
Marriage life isn't easy talaga. Kaya I always tell my boyfriend wag magmadali and take it easy lang. Ayaw kong makasala n hindi pa talaga totally ready. Ayaw ko magsisi ate. Yun yung kinatatakutan kong mangyari.
tama yan sis.get married when you are both ready
I hope he will fine the man in him and stand as areal man sis. Same happens to me to remind my husband about the arrangements of the things inside the house especially the laundry. I agree with you on buying things in bulk sis, that way it is much cheaper and costs us less time to go to the store. Lost time means lost money
Yes Tama sis