@Zcharina22 9 April 2022 more from that month

Its not easy to ask stanger lol!

Hello! What usually are your reactions when you don't understand what you heard from your Colleague, family, and strangers? Sometimes I don't know what to react lol. But did you know what I did, I asked my friends, some member of my family and because I want to boost my self confidence I have asked one stranger lol. (ofcourse huwag ko masyadong ipush ang sarili ko baka mapahiya pa ako at the end lol) I did this because I want to know if I am the only one who just keep quiet and nagmaang-mangan na lang when I don't understand what people are saying to me. First I asked is my friend I asked her "What usually she do when she don't understand someone?" This is how she explain her answer! "You know what girl, there were times na I was shy to ask the person na she need to say it again what she is saying because you know one of my teacher in elementary humiliates me in the class before. I just asked my teacher ng " , Ma'am kindly repeat the question po"? And she said stupid ka your not listening, I don't want you in the class, naiirita ako sayo. Go out" Until then I make sure na I am really attentive to all people who are talking to me. But you know Im just a human im not perfect. I am practicing myself now to ask properly when I don't understand something. There were times na I am shy pa rin but more nakakahiya if you're not going to answer when someone is talking to you. You know I am also inquiring in the internet on how to communicate properly in times of uncertainty or when Im in doubt sa sarili ko na wala akong naintindihan talaga. You know I always say to you na be true to yourself. If you don't understand something feel free to ask because mahirap manghula. You know hindi naman yan exam na kailangan mong sagutan in writing kundi verbally. (That was my bestfriend answer, she studied communication kaya siguro ganyan sumagot lol very serious sagot kala ko babarahin ako haha). Lets move on to my brother! Hi Brother what you usually do when you don't understand what I am saying? -oh if wala akong naintindihan sa sinabi mo I just keep quiet until na you're going to repeat it haha sometimes until mainis ka, na kailangan mo akong yugyugin haha but when it comes to someone ofcourse nag aask ed na ako to repeat what he is saying because you know tatawanan ka nila kapag you answer the question na out of the blue just like what happen to Leni Robredo hahaha (Oh so bastusan pala ito kapatid) Lastly to the stranger! Ang hirap palang maging feeling close sa stranger lol! Hi po Sir pogi! I just want to ask kung anong reactions niyo or ginagawa niyo pag hindi niyo po naintindihan sinasabi ng kausap niyo? Stranger: When I am already close with the person whose talking with me ofcourse madali lang yan if nahihiya akong magtanong nagmaang-mangan lang ako kahit narinig ko naman na may sinasabi siya sa akin ganun lang. I know naman na hindi siya magagalit eh pero usually ang word ginagamit ko is iyong "may sinasabi ka?" medyo pagalit pa ha. Pero kapag sa iba ofcourse mabait ako sa kanila very gentle din iyong pag-aasked ko ng questions ganito na "Sorry Miss, Sir, ano po iyon" may pa sorry-sorry na lol but it depends din sa sitwasyon and person eh. Diyan talaga ako nagbebase. I am not the only one pala whose nagmaang-mangan kapag hindi narinig or naintindihan iyong sinasabi ng kausap but over all its not bad to ask if you don't understand what people are saying to you because we are just humans. Kahit my times na napagsasabihan ka ng bingi or lutang what important is you are being true to your kausap. Hi to Miss @Amy05thank you very much sa walang sawa mong pag sponsor kay Zcharina. Godbless you and more blessings to come to you😊. This is my first time to ask stranger lol. Job well done self!