11 Mistakes that take you away from wealth; some ways to avoid these mistakes
Money is important and everyone among us struggle to get but one should gain money by using right means and if we are working hard and getting reward in form of money than losing your reward of hark work really hurts, here today i want to share some simple things to avoid that we all do sometimes, i hope these will be helpful for all of us:
Money Mistake#1: Never borrow money wit interest to start to start a business
That means never borrow money to start a business hoping that the business will generate income to repay the borrowed plus interest. Borrow when you want to increase production in a business, when you want to upgrade.
Money Mistake#2: Never spend money you haven't received
Don't even promise someone money based on a promise you have from someone else. If he doesn't keep his promises as promised that will leave you in trouble with your creditors.
Money Mistake#3: Not Saving
If you want to save, every time you receive money, don't start spending hoping you'll save what's left. Normally, what's left is zero because as long as money to spend is available, many things you can spend it on are also available.
When the money to spend is not available, we naturally find a way. That's why you have to save with the method that suits you. Once you spend money there, you assume you don't have it anymore. before you spend money, put your savings aside and spend what's left after you save.
Money Mistake#4:Asking rich people for money instead of advice
When you have the opportunity to meet a very wealthy and economically successful person, never ask for money nor ask for loan, Ask them for ideas and advices on how to make money. They may give you best ideas that you will work upon and become successful.
Money Mistake#5:Not investing your savings
Many peoples stop at savings. It's very difficult to save and have everything you need to maintain your lifestyle, especially after retirement. ****When you save, your savings are seeds, plant them.****
****When you just keep the seeds, some seeds start to die(eaten by inflation and such)****
This is why I recommend that you read about the different types of investments available(real estate, agriculture etc)
Money Mistake#6:Never lend money to someone you don't want t lose
The moment you lend someone money, be at peace because if the person does not pay, you will not die. You shouldn't even lose that person's friendship if they fail to repay the money you lend them. If you think the person might not pay you, and it won't affect your relationship with them, then lend them some money. If not paying back later will make you hate that person then it's better to refuse
****I'm adding this point because I have seen many peoples forget their relationships just in sake of money, although it's a really bad thing but sometimes nature can't be changed so it's better to avoid and keep relations with loved ones safe****
Money Mistake#7:To vouch for others in bad conditions
Never add your signature to guarantee someone on a financial matter if you are not willing or able to pay the money on their behalf.
Money Mistake#8:Having too much money on you
Means that don't walk around with too much money in your pocket. Because there are always expenses available to gobble up all the money that is at hand, so if you don't want to lose it, store it in safe place.
Money Mistake#9:Unnecessary expenses
Spending money yon something you can do without(at least for now)
These days, when you take money out of your pocket or wallet, as yourself: what if i don't buy this? If you find you can live without this thing, smile and walk away because buying unnecessary things is just a waste f money, what's the purpose of taking a thing that you don't need.
Money Mistake#10: Buying without arguing the price.
In other words always discuss the prices on the items offered t you and seek to obtain the actual price because sometimes you were deceives by telling extra prices.
Money Mistake#11: Thinking short term only and forgetting the long term or thinking long term and forgetting the short term.
To achieve success you have to work when everyone is working and work when everyone is sleeping. If you have a business opportunity or a desire to undertake, get started!
But be patient and learn the process gradually and relentlessly, even if it takes you several years to succeed in the system, because when the profit starts flowing, you will not be the same person.
*****THE ACCOMPLISHMENT OF YOUR LIFE IS THE KEY TO YOUR HAPPINESS.*****
***THESE ALL ARE MY THOUGHTS FEEL FREE TO TELL YOUR OWN THOUGHTS, DO TELL YOUR OPINION ABOUT THIS, AND IF YOU HAVE ANY OTHER SUGGESTION RELATED TO THIS TOPIC DO SHARE WITH ME***
THANKS FOR READING!
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A Bouquet for your Enemy
Are you tired of stretching your cheeks in smile when you don't feel like it? I have literally ruined my teeth by grinding them while putting on a fake smile for the society's favorite's. After thinking for some time, i though ca we give a bouquet to our enemies too means a special bouquet, collection of flowers that are made for enemies and haters only? as they have hearted you. I found a solution to this dilemma that you can try too, i found some special flowers after research for such peoples as it's the good way to avoid hatred...lol.
giving someone flowers and and using different flowers in customs has been widely used since ancient times. Even if Greek mythology, flowers were given meaning, some flowers means love and admiration, some means friendship and respect but their are some flowers that are more known for their disappointing meanings.
So here is the list of flowers to hide your true feeling of disdain and displeasure while giving to an enemy.
Yellow Carnation:
Don't be deceived by the beauty of this flower or by the reputation of it's sisters, yellow carnations are not the flower to give someone you love. They mean disdain, disappointment, and rejection. So maybe give them to a not-so-favorite boss or colleague to hide your scoff of disdain and disinterest.
Snapdragon:
These hold beautiful flowers live up to their name. The name snapdragon doesn't usually conveys something delicate and rightfully, the flowers means deception. So these will be perfect gift for someone who deceived you, who is always friendly in front but talks shit behind your back, we all have such persons i think if not then you are soo lucky as world is full of both good and bad peoples. Present this flower to them with a sweet smile to give them a piece of their own medicine.
Buttercup:
No matter how beautiful and delicate they are, do not give them to a close friend and family. Buttercups mean childishness and immaturity. So these may be better suited for that friend who drifted apart because of some silly grudge from years ago, who left you saying that you are not mature and sensible. And maybe ironically, they'll come around after receiving these.
Orange lilies:
These bold and eccentric flowers would be great for a person just as bold and confident. But orange lilies symbolize hatred and disdain. Thus giving them to loved one, ones who care for you is a big NO. Maybe if you have an archenemy or one who hates you, who have done bad with you, this flower might just make them happy, all at the same time giving you the satisfaction of laughing.
Petunia:
This flower reminds me of Harry Potter's Aunt Petunia. Well, J.K Rowling did her research, no doubt about that, as these pretty flowers mean Anger and Resentment. So gather some of these up, wrap them in a bouquet that we are making and give them to someone who makes you want to tear off your hairs. Or maybe to someone who you know absolutely resents you.
Rhododendron:
This is the fun one, these beautiful flower scream 'beware' because they are quite poisonous! The whole plant is lethal , so , it seems a bit extreme choice to give to someone I'm only giving a knowledge about these, don't give these to someone as we should never harm someone whether he/she is your bitter enemy.
Someone who doesn't know flower symbolism, it is easy to give flowers to loved ones that don't convey the true meaning of heart , al the time we present flowers to our loved ones, whereas sometimes, we are forced to show civilized appreciation for people we hardly stand. So remember this information and use it a bring a bit of amusement in life while smiling is a must. There's nothing more fun than being privy to a secret that not many peoples realize. I think it's a positive way to overcome hatred and frustration.
`These are only my random thoughts, you can have your own opinion , you can search by your own`
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LEAD IMAGE IS FROM UNSPLASH
THANK YOU FOR READING! KEEP SMILING!
When you choose to be a Sunflower in a world of Roses
In a world of roses, you choose to be a sunflower, how crazy are you? How unusual you are?
SUNFLOWERS:
To be honest i think sunflowers are quite beautiful to be behold. The way their leaves spread exquisitely, flashing their beauty for the eyes to see dancing magnanimously to the beat of wind. You sure would be tempted to pick one of those beauties for yourself.
It is beautiful, they are very beautiful.
More than their stunning beauty, what strikes me also the sunflower is the name" **SUNFLOWER**" . It is too specific. The poor sunflower was never made to to survive or exist without the sun, and as beautiful as it is, all its beauty is connected to the sun.
**What i hear is that all the beauty of sunflower, the young painful years of growing, or enduring the boisterous winds would be allocated to the sun.**
It makes me think the sun flower is never self-made.
However, more than the tag , the sunflower actually derives all its nutrients from the sun and somehow, the sunflower reflects the complexity of mankind. The sunflower represents man literally, how man honestly finds life by constantly facing the sun.
ROSES:)
Now roses are beautiful flowers and heck, they don't need the sun to grow and i admire them. Honestly, Roses are the friend that don't give a hoot about god and are making millions and hundred's if thousands per job. Everyone love roses, I mean you want to get surprised with rosses on your work table, or even spread the petals on the bed with sweet scented candles on the tables, some soft and scented, i hear your heart say "That's so Romantic" .
WHY BE A SUNFLOWER:
The sunflower life is life of surrender, of reckless abandons to god, the maker of the world. The world is a feeble place, too crazy and turbulent a place to not have an anchor. The news is bad, security is poor kidnapping is the norm, the world is crazy and we gradually wear ourselves out wit the endless pursuit. ***I think it only makes sense to submit and surrender our lives to god but not to the peoples.***
***What is the point of working endlessly to be on top of the table when he owns the table, when he gave the wood, when he gave the tree, when he created the soil for the tree?***
I honestly wish I had the ultimate guide to why you should be the sunflower, the one who submits and surrenders to god. All I have and all i know is that the sunflower has hope and hope never dies, never disappoints, so if i talk about humans they should have full hope on the creator of this universe, the god.
If not anything come and walk in a life of hope, one where you don't have to strive.
Now being a sunflower is not an easy thing to do or even become. Being a sunflower in simplest form is deciding to lean on the part of the sun to get life, nutrients, fulfilment and joy no matter how competitive the world gets.
Closing thoughts:
After writing all that and thinking about being like a sunflower i concluded that it's really good t remain humble and surrender each and everything in front of your creator but never ever depend on peoples do your hard work with full concentration and never depend on anyone except you hard work and your God.
Stay humble and hopeful just like sunflower and keep shining just like the sun.
Talk with My Inner Child
The Inner Child:
The childlike usually hidden part of a person's personality that is characterized by playfulness, and creativity.
The inner child here isn't a mystical or mysterious being neither is it a deep or a mundane concept. It's about You, who you were in your years of innocence, while you were younger, the thing you loved during the period of innocence when you were not plagued with the cruelty, injustice or unending problems of the world.
It's about how you liked painting or reading stories. It's about the things that made you happy and how you felt you could express yourself with these things. ***How you could truly and authentically you.***
*****Today I was sitting alone in my garden and I have a talk with my inner child after a long long time so I want to share our conversation with all my friends here. so let's begin:*****
I knew something was finally getting right again. It started last night when I began to have vivid dreams about who I was years before you.
You are the one present now, here and in this moment. I see you scattered all over the place trying to figure out what is you are really doing. This is why I always come to you with questions. Questions inside of you keep you awake at night. Questions that are supposed to make you uncomfortable with being too comfortable.
I asked you " are you truly happy with where you are now? you thought happiness meant the flow of money at the time, so you hurriedly said yes because you are making an income.
I was troubled because I knew this happiness was short lived and you would soon come to realize that this wasn't what I meant when I asked if you were happy. So I came again and I asked "Are you truly happy with where you are now?" you were finally getting enlightened but still you thought happiness meant staying busy; having a lot on your plate without truly achieving that which means something to you, which would in turn be of value to the life of others. It was quite comforting to see you were happy though; as long as you were now doing something that made you feel worthy and accepted in a busy world.
The change started yesterday when you came to me instead YOU asked me "what does it mean for me to be truly happy" I told you to remember who you were years ago and remember the things you did. I told you to reflect on what brought joy to me, your inner child when you were not distracted with defining your worth to the world.
I asked you to think about those things you did when you did not know the intensity of feelings yet, while you didn't even know the depth of emotions , when your heart was still tender and your infant heart, innocent.
Finally thanks to my Inner Child...
Now I say, thanks to you, your questions and frequent nudging; I finally found you, my inner child. I stopped doing things for validity neither do i do them to prove my worth. I began to paint in between the lines until I found where my heart was. My soul is artistic and it is only in this that I find true happiness.
***My inner child smiles at me so it came again today "are you truly happy with where you are now? , with my confidence fully restored and my heart ready to share all the goodness within, waiting to be born, I said yes. Yes, I'm happy because I finally reconciled with my inner child.***
FINAL NOTE:
*Your inner child is always trying to connect with you but you get lost in the noise and busyness of our ever developing world. Your inner child just wants to be seen, recognized and heard. The best part of you has already been born but you forget about it while you are on the look for the next big thing. Evolve.*
****I want to ask all of you to do talk with your inner child you feel soo good, so light, you will get a feeling that you ever noticed****
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1st Blog... Writers Don't cry ,They Bleed on Papers
Hello everyone! How are you all doing?
I have recently created an account on this platform and it's my first blog here, I hope that i will learn much more here from all of you and will try my best to write interesting blogs for you all. So let's start my first blog here on read cash.
Whenever i get sad or have something that I can't share with anyone I open my notepad and start writing all on it, after that I feel so relaxed and easy so writing can help to get rid of tension and depression as I think.
I'm not commanding all of you from my title to start writing. I just want to tell you a simple way to heal yourself when you get sad, sick, angry, or whatever that that associated with your emotions. I've done this every time when I feel so. It's much cheaper than going to anywhere else. And yup this way of getting better and healed is called "writing".
There are multiple things that you can do to heal yourself. The way I do, is by writing. I think all of you here on read.cash also do so. In my opinion writing is one of the most independent instrument on this earth. Through this, you don't get interrupted from other living creatures, you don't need validations from other, you don't have to following a bunch of regulations, and so on.
It's just you, pen and paper . Actually that's what writers do when they got sad, happy or get any feeling. The most powerful words is the honest one and the best words is the flowing one. Quite simple, but trust me, the hardest thing to write is to be honest and to be flow.
I think humans are too shy to be honest with their feelings and emotions, they tend to deny all those shits. I don't know why. That's why they need an instrument to pour up their true expressions. A writer still could hand out with their friends to give them happiness and act like everything is okay while their heart is bleeding and only the pen and paper know their inner feelings, I myself has experienced this.
This is interesting about writers they don't cry but instead they bleed on paper they explode all their buried emotions through a paper and pen i.e. their life time partners.
The analogy is like like a surgeon. To cure a disease, a person must be dissected and the process will certainly cause a little bleeding. It's same when writers are getting sad. The doctors need a tool to do surgery and the the writers also need a tool and the tool of writers is pen and paper!
The interesting thing is that the surgical stitch marks will imprint on a person's body . While the scratch of honesty on the paper that you write will be an art that you will remember as long as you live and remember writing is free.... dear friends.
I hope you like the content. Thanks for your time. Do share your thoughts about this topic.
