@Yokzy 20 April 2022 more from that month

Used by friends Are you often used ? Maybe you are often despised and needed less well, sometimes people can even be rude and judgmental of you, and maybe you feel as if they don't respect and appreciate you. It's not always fun to hang out with those who don't value us, there are regrets in us and maybe if the opportunity arises, maybe we should just walk away and not hang out with them. especially when we see there is a different treatment between our friends and other friends. but actually they are not at fault, maybe there is something that must be improved in our lives in order to get respect from our friends. When we are able to improve ourselves into mature human beings, then other people will start to respect us. #There are some tips so that friends can appreciate it more : ~You don't respect yourself. learning to love yourself is the main thing, how can people respect us if we can't respect our own self. often we are too hard on ourselves, do not enjoy and do not always feel safe. Practice our self-esteem, because by practicing it, our way of thinking will become higher and we will enjoy the process. ~You set no limits. It is important that we set boundaries in a clear way, between ourselves and other people. Do it in a good way to discuss it and of course consider it from their point of view too. Because basically humans can understand each other. ~Understand, we don't have to be nice all the time. You might think that, if you don't do every good thing your friends ask of you, they'll think they don't like us anymore. But if they do, they're not really good friends. You may feel guilty if you don't accept our friend's invitation to hangout, even though you yourself want to enjoy music in your room because you are lazy to leave the house. maybe you want your friend to always smile but sacrifice your own smile.

You don't have to be in a certain mood for anyone, letting guilt overwhelm us can allow us to negotiate what used to be fun becomes forced and uncomfortable. Practice convincing yourself and don't feel guilty because your smile is more important than someone else's smile. ~Maybe you apologize too often. Apologizing is good, but if you apologize too often, even for things that are not your fault, there may be something wrong with you. You might say that so you won't be judged bad by other people. but of course sorry there is value and weight. Excessive apologies can sometimes give the impression to others that we are submissive people. sooner or later, they will assume that we are very easy to blame.there are some things we usually don't need to apologize for. If you don't want to do good, don't apologize, say sorry when sorry is really needed. but realize that we don't need to apologize to others moreover it's not fault. ~ Body language that does not cause self-confidence. Confidence is the key, that's what we often hear and it's very true and still appropriate today. If we want to gain respect, the best way is to improve our body language, show people that we really can't be forced. Literally, a strong attitude and good posture will not make you easy to fall, get hit if you pass by other people. maintain good eye contact when listening to other people talk. crossing your arms is often seen as a defensive trait, so it's best to just relax. Hold your head high and look ahead. Observe the surroundings, don't be afraid to look at other people, improve your appearance. Even though there is a saying "don't judge the book by the cover", but in reality people are always the first to judge us from our appearance.Learn to make your body language confident. So, do you often feel unappreciated ? Try using the tips above, who knows it might be useful. maybe you also have other tips to get respect and respect from others. #Thank you for reading.