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Our final decision. It's really painful I have experienced a lot of pain in the past but the pain I am experiencing right now is not like the other pain that I have felt before. It's been 3 days since I cried almost everyday. I even had no decent sleep as I always find myself crying in the middle of night. The heavy tears in my eyes that makes my eyes sore and I never thought that this decision will be quick as soon as possible. Last night when my husband talked to my father about living on my in-laws house. At the start of the conversation I started crying and crying while my husband was talking to my father and my sister. My sister was just silent last night and we didn't heard any words from her. It's really painful to leave this house knowing our family situation but I have no choice because my husband already let me stay here for a couple of years to take good care of my niece and our house and now he is asking me it's his turn because we never know how long the life of my mother in law will be. As an eldest daughter I want to support and help my siblings but I also have my family and I don't want it to be the reason of the misunderstanding of my husband. I also don't want to be the one who always make a decision because I know how kind is my husband is and this decision is not easy for him. I am crying until now because I can't manage to be okay thinking that we will leave my sister and my niece here. My Aunt is the one who will take good care of my niece once we live in my in-laws house. I am at ease knowing it because I know she will treat my niece well. My husband promise me that we will visit every weekend so that we will see my father. Tomorrow when my son go to school I will asked her teacher about the transfering stuff. My Aunt will be available next month that's why I asked my husband if we can move by September 30 so that everything will be settled before we live on my in-laws house. I never thought that it will be very painful. Right now I am crying again because it really hurts. I just hope and pray that someday everything will be okay. I know even if we're apart we are still a family and even if I am living in my in-laws house I will always be here for them no matter what.
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It's okay lang miss yen. Wag kang masyadong damdamin miss yen kasi nakakasama din sayo. Trust lang kay God everything will be fine miss yen.
Thank you. Hirap lang kasi
Hugs sis. sana maging okay na din si MIL mo para kahit papano makauwi uwi din kayo sa inyo ulit.
84 na Yun e. Ulyanin na . I mean need ko na talaga tanggapin kapalaran ko
I can understand your feelings, but I appreciate your decision as you don't want to disobey your husband. I wish you all the happiness in your life.
Thank you friend
Go girl. You can do it. All is well 😊
Sobrang hirap Mel pero kasi ayaw ko underin lang decision ng asawa ko Kasi Alam ko napakabait non. Siguro Tama sya hayaan ko muna gumawa ng paraan Yung kapatid ko kung ano gagawin nya. As for papa di Naman namin sya pababayaan. Na extend ko Naman pag stay namin Dito hanggang katapusan
Gets ko nmn gusto ni julius. Ang winoworry ko ikaw kasi lam ko na nag aalangan k nga. But anyway I just hope that you're strong enough to endure what ever the consequences of your decision😊
Sabi nila sa una lang Naman mahirap . Sana nga everything will be okay .
Laht nmn s simula lng mhirap. Aja
Aigoooo, madam wag na ma sad. Everythinf will be okay.
You don't have to cry but trust God for the best. Since your husband has promised to be visiting every weekend, I believe he will fulfill his promise. Though it's hard leaving your own family to live with your mother-in-law which you barely understand their attitude.
Ito pala yun, haay kaloka...alam mo mahirap din talaga makipag argue sa asawa, kahit nga ako gusto ko na talaga bumukod pero ang daming kailangan e consider din. Yung asawa ko din kasi ramdam ko ayaw nya muna iwan parents nya lalo na mama nya kasi sakitin na rin talaga to.. lagi nya sinasabi sakin “Konting panahon na lang na makakasama natin mga magulang ko kasi matatanda na sila.” kaya kahit hirap sa kalooban ko iniintindi ko na lang din..pag nag dada ako minsan na ganito ganyan, di na naimik yan minsan hinahayaan nya lang ako para lang di magka problema. Kaya kahit hirap sa kalooban natin kakayanin na lang natin pinili natin yung asawa natin .. sabi nga nung kinasal kami di lang yung asawa ko pinakasalan ko daw pati pamilya nya 🤣🤣 parang sinasabi ba na dapat makisama ahhahahaha
Totoo Yan Kaya scam Yung sinasabi nila na asawa mo Naman pakikisamahan mo josko di totoo yon 😂 Ngayon medyo maluwag luwag Naman na Kasi pinangako Naman nya na Di namin pababayaan si papa. Goodluck nalang din sakin Kasi medyo ekis ako sa pakikisama sa maldita Kong to
Hahahaha kaya nga. Kaya mo yan...ako nga din eh yaan na lang basta importante kumikita tayo pa konti konti 🤣
Ayon panga. Finances pa pala haha. Wala nako maririciv from papa Saka sa kapatid ko 🤣