@Winx1988 2 January 2022 more from that month

Why we need to be faithful in marriage? This article is my way of releasing my thoughts and burden with a person who shared his problem to me on New year's day.Last January 1,when I posted a happy new year ,someone chat on me to share his problem about his personal life.Although it's a little bit private but I will not mention his name.He has many questions about ,"why".Why did her wife cheated on her?So,it's a bad news for me,because the girl is close to us. He said ,that he gave his all,his life ,his love and everything that he has.He don't even hurt her ,even a little pinch on her skin but still she did a painful thing. I was speechless,and don't know how to react.This is some sort of unfaithful woman again,whose cheating on her husband .I'm not a good adviser but I'm always been the person who always receive such kind of problem from a friend or a relative. So what I want to talk about this time is all about faithfulness in marriage nowadays were getting fragile,easily broken,unsure and always threatened. But if you were a wife or husband who has a faithful spouse ,you should be thankful and happy,treasure it and take care of it because not all marriages were going strong lately. Faithfulness in our marriage vows is priceless,yes it is!Such a great legacy for our family to be left behind with our children,and grand daughters in the future.When everything in this world becomes an instant,instant noodles,instant coffee,marriages should not be in instant break up.Its just like,when he wake up in the morning,he find out that there's another man on her wife's shoulder,ouch that's something like a knife cuts his heart into pieces. Some aspects that affects their relationships , friends ,social media exposure (specifically fb),discontented. Be faithful in marriage 1.Faithfulness is focusing to your spouse only,on how to establish the relationship and make it grow as the years goes by. 2.Faithfulness is a choice As a human being,we are always have given a choice,if we dig into temptation of we have to fight at it.Before someone who can commit mistake , it's always been clear if we are somehow fall into a sin,we always have a choice if it is a yes or a no. We have our own free will as a human being but if we will do something that is against the right thing to do,we can suffer consequences in the end . A sinful decision is just like stepping into a quicksand in which you cannot easily get out over it. Faithfulness is a commitment Commitment is a firm stand and decision that our faithfulness is only for our husband or wife.If a person is committed to nurture and grow their marriage life,they will commit their relationships to last. Commitment in marriages expresses exclusivity of yourself for one person only,for your wife or for your husband.It doesn't involve any people to enter in the middle of the marriage couple.To speak **frankly,"if a man or a woman doesn't want to become exclusive ,he or she should not commit on a relationship".** If a person become tired of a spouse,it's better to tell him/her honestly and not to surprised with a bad news. Unfaithfulness in marriage destroys a person as a while being,dignity ,respect from others,and even darkened one's heart and sould.It was against the law of God and of man,it will affect the relationship among the family in both sides. But what is more alarming is that,unfaithfulness brings diseases physically , affects our focus,our positivity in life and even in our daily living. The reward of faithfulness 1.Respect The people in the society and everyone around you will admire and give their respect to a person who is faithful.But he/she committed cheating,the people will mocked,curse,and even disrespect. But if you were faithful,your spouse will love you even more and makes you look a real macho and sexy. 2.Happiness If a married couple were faithful they will faithful by the law and by their hearts ,they will live happily together with their family.And it's very rewarding life if we can say that our marriage is good and okay.Happiness is what we always want in our life especially in the family. 3.Safe You can feel safe,that your in good arms,that your spouse is faithful to you,and for sure your always guarded with loved. 4.Blessings If we want blessing with marriage life,the first step is obedience to what the Lord's says,and that is to submit and loved our spouse and to be faithful in him/her. 5.Peaceful It can avoid the couple to fight,argue and even meet in court or in jail.As we all know,cheating is deadly.So,if a person is faithful,their home will also in peace. This year 2022 it's a good #goals for everyone to be faithful in marriage especially if you are already married and committed.But if your not able to make yourself exclusive for one,it's better not to commit,as I have said earlier. Lastly,I'm just glad that the man who tell his story to me is now moving on to his new life.He said that,when he felt too much devastated ,he run into God in prayer and reading his words ,and there he finds peace in his heart. By the way,for me it's better to have a mediator in a relationship and that is "God",the best of all.

Thanks for reading this,I'm grateful to all of you.For this year,my sponsor box is filled again,with amazing people.Me too,hoping to sponsor few writers this year. Have a good day .https://unsplash.com/photos/N1CZNuM_Fd8 Lead image