@Winx1988 27 November 2021 more from that month

Define love ,once more!

Is love can be transactional,if a person can't receive what he/she wants is a reason to break a relationship.If you do this ,or that,for me,I will love you back.I doubt if it is with love. What if a husband or wife has an illness,is love will still be there,even if it means as act of service to a partner? I have a friend who is sick and her husband have committed sin against her,because of the lust of the flesh ,and it really gave her sadness. Is love can be possible despite of all physical changes that a person can every have in her life.But I think one of the main reason why we enter into relationship is because of love,but in the marriage life there are some changes that will happen that may change on it's mind about being in love. **Love can make your spouse feel happy and smile.** A person who is in love with his spouse can have a smile on her face,and also spread happiness around him.It can be contagious and affect towards the family and especially with the kids,when they have children at home.I knew some people say,that there life is incomplete without the feeling of being in love.Why do they say like that? More than love of a family and friends,being in love with a special someone can gives us different kind of motivation,and the reason to keep going in our life,even if it's hard,and full of struggles ,we can still continue.I can't explain it perfectly,but it will add more flavor in our daily living and inspiration to accept life battles. https://youtu.be/shcddseMS3k I just like this song,"to grow old with you,the way they take care for each other,even when they were getting old.I just hope that a love like this will still alive and continue to exist even in the mellennial time of the year,that everything will happen for an instant,and high technology and a lot more changes may happen. The definition of love may never be change,but it will take time to really understand it,and be applied in our life.It will be tested like gold in the fire,if it is really authentic and pure intention in both person involve. **Love is more than affection , where we can be true and never be ashamed with each other to show our real character.** Love can lasts,endure through times despite of each other differences and revealed character. In my 11 years of being married,sometimes I feel like I'm out of love when my husband shows his bad character on me.I felt discouraged and will say that,"I should have never married with this kind of man".But I realized that each of us has its own weaknesses that we kept on dealing with everytime or sometimes ,we can't handle it for some reason. Love is accepting each others positive and negative side of personality.if my husband have undesirable character,me too have the same thing.But he embraced it,and still love me,and I have no reason to never love him back. Love is not just in the first sight ,but it will always be,when it's real.As we have always hear,the words,"love at first sight,"it's possible,but it's impossible to survive when we just fall in love with what we see.Within a relationship ,there is a revelation that will happen,some flaws,in character of in physicality,where love can be tested and will definitely show it's real character. Love couldn't afford to hurt someone intentionally. I always believe that when love exists,there is peace, harmony,and honesty in a relationship.it doesn't give a surprised mistake or acts of sinful things that can be discovered in a few days ,months or year. Love is about giving the best we have,just as it is. Loved needs to be nurture all the time.Just like a plant ,it will grow soon to become a big tree,but it's starts from all,but with consistent rays of the sun,and water it becomes bigger as it is. Love will grow even more if we will take care of it and embraced it with ourselves . By the way,we were celebrating our 11th Wedding Anniversary with my husband last November 24,and I'm really amazed with what love is in our life.Though we have ups and downs almost everyday,hehe but we still have each other until today.Its was never an an easy ride in our marriage for the past few years we've been together,but everything have go smoothly,with God's faithfulness and grace everyday. 11 years is still not enough,to be strong with love,but it will takes eternity to fully understand it.Everyday is always a new day to renew and review on how love is going on in the family.Is love still don't have any conditions?Is love still patient? Is love doesn't lose its flame within our hearts? Love can be a strongest bond of two hearts together, love endlessly !

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