@Winx1988 30 January 2023 edited more from that month

Not all people are friendly? Hello, I just came from school, and write one. The topic that I am writing today was based on my encounter with different kind of people here in my place this morning. Would you agree with my title? Well, share your comments below. This morning, I take my daughter to school. We ride a motorcycle with my husband. When we arrived in school, I saw a lot of kids playing and running outside and inside corridors. Every schooldays I have a habit of staying in school for a few minutes to log in with my socmed account, and also checking notifications here in read and my wallets. So, I sit for a while in a small hut, near the gate. ***First encounter*** ***The frown face*** woman At first, I was hesitant to get in the hut, because I saw a woman sitting there. But, I have no choice, and only the seats inside was vacant. I pause for a while and looking around, then I take courage to get in the small hut. I saw her face frowning, seems like she don't want me to get in( that was only my assumptions 🤔, not a fact, maybe?). She was sitting side view of me, and when I sat on the bench, she changed position and get her phone inside the bag, and she scroll and scroll. On my mind, I want to talk to her, but I was double-minded because she's not even looked on my face. She looked at me on my foot, and that's it. It added my strange kind of feeling. But, I don't leave the place, I stayed there, and write a content with the other site that I was grinding. I just ignore her, even if she don't talk to me. A few minutes lates her friends came( some mother's too take their kids in school). They talked a lot and laughed, but it seems that they don't see me. I feel out of place, because I am the only one who was there, who don't belong to their group of friends. I stayed, and finally published my drafts with the site that I was writing.One of them says that, they have a meeting, (I was thinking if that was there meeting place). But, the woman, who sat near with me, ( the frown face) says that", 'pabilin ta diri, nabuang'(only bisaya can understand). That was bisaya words, I will not translate in english, it's not a good expression for me. So, they walk and I was remained alone in the hut. **Life realities** Some people don't like us. So, never expect that if you smile, they also smile at you back. ***Second encounter*** After the first person, I proceed to the grocery store and buy some vegetables for our lunch today. Then, I have coins remained, so, I drop shortly to my daughter's room. Here's some kind of funny for me😊. While I was close to the classroom, one woman was smiling, ( I don't know why). She has a very nice smile, but when she saw me approaching, she closed her mouth immediately and turn her back on me.How would I explained that kind of action? idk On my way home, there's a lot of thoughts that was running through my mind. I was evaluating myself, that I have no close friends at all in real life. I also opened up to my husband about it, and he says, we are the only best friends. I know a lot of women, I have lots of friends too on fb, but I can still say, that I don't have a close woman friend. Lately, I feel that some people was avoiding me. Maybe because I have a strong personality, a straight forward person, I don't go with the flow, I always have my own opinion, I don't make "libre or treat?" All of this things floats in my mind. And I just said to myself, "that's life, humans will always be human, we have favorites, likes and dislikes. We can't forced people to like us or talk to us. But I can say, that I was closed to older women nowadays, and grand moms. I'm a little bit sad, when I tend to focus that it seems I'm alone. But, I was thinking, I am not, and I should take it seriously. On my way home, I was walking and I saw a friend who is an older woman, she smiled at me while riding a side car, and I feel glad about it. When I go to the canteen, the saleslady greeted me too, and talked for a short time. That was a consolation with my experienced in school. "Stay nice and be who you are, even if people don't". "Don't frown your face, even they do. " "Treasure your nice friends and keep them in your heart, because they are like gold. "( its hard to find one) Those are the lessons that I've for today. Lastly, your smile can ease someone's heaviness and extend positivity and good vibes with others, so give it away. Thanks and God bless you. Images from unsplash