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Your Mental Health Is Your Priority No one can be held accountable but yourself, how you feel is totally up to you, and no one else. Yes the love of your life cannot be blamed for your insanity or out of control attitude. Even after a breakup and you feel the world come crumbling down, it's still your Priority to set your mind straight and make things right. Even after that public embarrassment and you feel like the humiliation was just too much, you need time off to get over it, its your call to do the needful, all that matters is to ensure you can you're alright, what matters is your ability to get up from the emotions and still act rationally. I had previously wondered deeply about the suicide cases, the younger me could not see any reason why someone would want to end his or her life. I'm like this world is already beautiful enough, why then would someone think it's high time they left. What bad can things get to result to that extent, well until I grew up and understood how frustrating situations can force people into, I have seen how issues makes people depressed. I have seen a chubby person get slim, in fact get thin not cause he doesn't eat anymore, or his fasting but his mind is not at peace, you can say their mental health has been tampered with. It's a reason we get so jealous we dive into hate, it's more of a natural human feeling no doubt but it has got to be put in check before it puts you in trouble. It's always best issues are resolved from the early stages, before they get down rooted and more difficult to remove. Like the aspect of not able to handle your jealous emotions. It would be as if you're all alone, it's you handling all the stress and hated by the world, while the world smiles on that person you envy, you get to see more and believe more and more why you need to be jealous. Already we all are jealous but there are most of us, who can shun it and act better. Caring for your mental health is by far the most profitable self care you can undergo for yourself. From time to time there is a life check, a check that cut across all areas of life, bringing it out and seeing if it's good to pass or if not, what can be done. It may not be able to do the assessment all by yourself and so a well trusted friend is advised. One who has your back and has no reason whatsoever to make things go wrong for you. All for your mental health, today being world mental health day is a day we appreciate the sanity we have and how we can still make the right choices in life, as well as adjust from the wrong as soon as possible. Sadly there are quite a lot of people who have lost their sanity, there are so many ways people get mentally derailed, one has to careful with his or her everyday actions as well as everyday people, these so we can keep balance. Remember the goal is to ensure our mental health is taken carefully and seriously, where it may seem as though your mental standing is being threatened, especially in the area of self love but it's not enough to relent. We have to carefully assess the wrongs and situations, so we can find a way around it for the better. Guys, absolutely nothing is worthy enough to steal your joy and mental rationality. Today is a day to support those who can't help their selves too. Not only those going through some emotional issues, not only those who cry at every break up. No no no, there are others who have it as a medical problem and they can do nothing about it, the day too was also created for these people, they too need to be loved and taken care of, so today go get something for and help them smile again. Happy worlds mental health day and pay more attention to guarding your sanity. Be careful guys.. As little as smoking and alcohol, it can cause a mental downslide. Building the right attitude and character would help us ensure we are being rooted in the better. So many young men are roaming the streets, in fact they habe no where else to go, most of the young prople roaming mad were people out of the streets. People who matters a lot to family and friends, but the addiction to these alcohol and hard drugs have caused their brains to go crazy. It's a life of choice even Some people are fragile at heart, some are stronger no doubt, but it's never a end to who can truly love. Mental health is our most valuable issues to br careful about. Anything trying to steal your sanity is not your friend. No matter what happened, your mental health is your Priority, so keep it guarded and untamed. Thanks For Reading.

A Trip With BitcoinCash Come on guys, let's take a trip with BitcoinCash, It's a ride you never want to get over with. A ride with ease. You know the saying "When the use of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable", similarly BitcoinCash has been a great coin option to the Cryptocurrency world and a better choice to have, but sadly only quite a number of us are fully benefiting from what it has in store. Funny how few others still deal in the dark, still being ripped off great benefits and think they are doing the best they can. They are yet living in a world without BitcoinCash to ease the experience. I bet many are just not aware of the opportunities open to us all, no one who gets a better offer would or prefer to stick to a lesser one, BCH is the better offer. A delight I got last week when I was chatting with my friend who was planning to but the dip, without saying any convincing words, he told me this exacts words "no one should be buying coins which are already neck breaking, and he's looking for a better option to buy, of course leave the rest for me, he got to buy BCH definitely followed by ripple, litecoin and few other coins A world without BitcoinCash is a word without low network fee prototype. After the highly esteemed bitcoin keeps being the choice of option, mainly owing to the fact that it was the first ever Cryptocurrency. When the world got to hear of the tremendous pumps and how it has a tendency to make people wealthy, just buy, everyone of course hope in because of FOMO, this was right but as at that time, talking about the 2018-2010, but as time keep going and the value kept increasing, no one can really be a bag holder anymore, and also how much profit should you be expecting from it. Well, people thought of it after looking and studying btc, brought out its excesses and places it needs repairs and then repaired it ofcourse thereby coming up with a better coin that's BCH. If the creation process was to improve the already existing, isn't that enough to let us know that BCH is the one we should be rooting for. So many benefits in a world with BCH in it. A higher number of transactions limit, so be rest assured that your pending transaction is not extended till a longer time before being successful. In no time y'all would have your pending transaction successful, you never truly know the importance of a fast transaction rate until you're in urgent need but can't do anything to speed up the rate as you just sit and await, constantly checking up on ur phone. Well its blockchain and no one can reedit after it's been inputted so its better we seek a Cryptocurrency that's was made to solve this issues and more. Have you made a transaction with BCH ever, how much did you send, how much did you remit for transfer charges, oh there you go, now imagine now having BCH to show that the block chain can collect a lesser fee charge on transactions, and all we have is just the likes of btc, how many of y'all would keep transacting till date, almost certain that most would have gone back to the old traditional banking system and only apply Cryptocurrency when they want to use the trade market, this too we all would be managing to get what we can after the transfer fee charge. BCH nevertheless offers the public not just a better comfort but also earning privileges, with the awesome organizers of this platform as well as noise cash to help active lovers of BCH earn even as they work. We all working hand in hand to promote and publicize BCH. No doubt its putting a lot of joy out there, on faces and families alike, imagining a world without BitcoinCash is rather impossible now, as BCH is here to stay and take over. Without BCH most new coins which are Also having similar qualities might not be idealistic enough to get their coins to offer such applaudable features to its users. Now, stop imagining a world without BitcoinCash and rather be grateful that we are here now, and seize every opportunity to make awareness to everyone, a better option do exist to feed us all a better experience in the Cryptocurrency space. We sound it till is spread around like wild fire. We do this because its good. #BCH. Thanks for reading guys!

A True Story Of Delay Isn't Denial How time Flies, I'm not getting any younger, moreover all my friends are getting theirs, why is mine taking so much longer, I really don't like this. So many are having so thoughts, even at the moment. I was earlier chatting with a friend of mine and she went on and on about how she's tired of being home and idle, she wish she could get something working for herself, something, anything to push away from home. It seems as though every passing day is a reminder of how miserable she is getting, especially when her friends are always on her face showing off their successes, what do I say to her, how do I tell her to calm down and stay in the right process. "You won't understand will" is one word she kept telling me, and I understand why she would feel that way, after high school the next plan is to go after your Bsc and it was the next big step for every student. I happen to get mine at my first sitting, it was a narrow escape back then, so you don't think I'm that brilliant though I try, but she's gone for it and it didn't work out so well, so yes, "will you can't possibly feel what I'm feeling", but you're that one person I feel I can talk to. Now I'm here trying to make her know I understand perfectly how she feels, being left behind. So I got into my past trying to remember. Maybe I'll get an stories of turn arounds including personal stories and if I keep sharing this article could turn into a full book novel. Over time y'all would keep knowing. No jokes guys, enough pains has turned into testimonies, patience has brought forth accolades, even the mighty denials has produced better celebration, I'll dive into few details, but this I learnt, never to judge my race using another person's life as my anchor. Now whenever I feel like I'm being left behind I simply ask myself few questions to help me get by, questions like "is there a problem with me?, "I'm I the first to be going through this phase", "Have Others overcome too", "is it impossible for God to do", y'all know this answers I guess, the answers are already clear and with that I relax and act unbothered. While I was already on my final year in the university, my elder cousin got into her first her, well this my eldest cousin was way older than my older brother, so then you'll know the huge age margin between us, but that never stopped her flow, what do you expect her to do, act like she wasted her life. No rather the principle is happiness, we would benefit more with being happy than we would get anything from staying sad. People readily would give more in an happy environment, so with life, things works well and better in a happy environment. Haven't you notice how easy it is to win a dice game when you stay happy. Today she's happy with her decision and her life keeps speaking happiness. All is well you just need to know. Not for her to compare her life with and friends and see that she's better than most of them, so she'll feel better, true happiness shouldn't come from that, although we can't help it most times than to compare, but it ought not to be so. I wanted her happiness to birth from the fact that all would be well and ok, that you know what, God has her life in his hands and won't let her be put to shame. Its true that people's stories changes overnight, that person you never thought possible could get lifted by God all of a sudden, so we dont write anyone off. All that matters are what we do while we are waiting, all that matters are our attitudes while waiting, all that matters is how we keep growing even while we wait for better to surface. Yesterday I wrote on how so many people are in a maze currently, all trying to find their path, everyone isn't stuck by same reason, as she's stuck with trying to get into the university, another is stuck with trying to get a job, another is stuck by trying to get a child, another is stuck with trying to get his career started, and so on, and with this everyone feels the others needs are less important than theirs, but it isn't, we all feel the urge to get it over with. I can understand how she feels I'm better off compared to her, sometimes she'll say look at you, all doing well and fine for yourself and I just smile deep down, should I tell her the difficulties I'm face with currently, would it solve the issue, so I explain to her why she shouldn't pray to be in my shoes and just keep enjoying the luxurious life she has. Ok if not me, should I tell her about the few people we know and what they are going through, so she can accept her path and be grateful, wouldn't that make her relent and not put more effort into trying next time, so she doesn't say "at least I'm better ", well I won't do that. I'll look for a way to make you comfortable in your own skin without bringing others peoples business into it, unless it's best and would help to share, preferable someone who has already overcome ia challenges, not one still depressed by it. Well it's not a concluded story yet, we are still talking and she's still in the process. Of course I know all would be well, I'm only trying to help her see that all would be well, so be happy notwithstanding. Get your mind of comparism I say, if you are chatting with friends, do so because they are friends and don't bother what they are doing that you ought to be doing, don't bother about how far they have come that you're yet to come. Most Importantly, pray to be great, but don't wish they go down and you rise above them all, now that's evil, and jealousy sinking in. Pray for your success but don't wish another downfall. With God any delay is never a denial, he can turn things around with a twinkle of an eye. Believe God to help you win. Thanks For Reading.

Lost In A Dream It's a maze, a dream maze, we are many in number, all moving randomly but all finding a way out to a better life, I'm currently trying to find my way through. It's not the usual night time dream when my eyes are shut closed and my mind drift to the world beyond of imagination and divination, infact these night time dreams seems to be the only time I'm unbothered, the only time I'm free and careless. The moment I open my eyes, i become lost in the dream. It's a twist many of us are entangled in at the moment, we are without a compass, if not we would have navigated our way through. We have seen people find their way out of this dream maze, but they don't return to call out to us and share with us their story. Its not the night time dream, no it's not, rather we seek the night time to escape the moment, it's a daytime dream, it's reality. The dreams of "this is what I'm aiming at" but then you don't know the next right step to take. I'm gonna be great, I'm can't settle for less, the world would be amazed by me", this and that, that and this but yet I don't know the next leg to throw ahead. While yet in the dream I have seen others move so fast only to withdraw back and start all over again, the only difference is they are now more stressed out and frustrated, some have given up and decided not to dream again and so they left. Some others still go ahead even though they are tired and are still pushing. Some have successfully achieved the dream task and we can see them from afar but that's all, we have our own job to do, we all got our own path to find. Currently I'm writing from the dream land, I'm so lost in here I think I need help from anyone, someone who has been here like me and is willing to whisper the answers into my ears, "hey do this', and follow me through the process till I okay and successfull at last. But over here everyone seems to be pretty occupied with finding their own path, I don't blame anyone, it's an individual race, and that's more reason why I continue to appreciate everyone and anyone who goes out of their way to render me help, no matter how little it is, I know it's a sacrifice made. The greatest draw back to the dreamers has been not being sure of what to do. I have seen a lot of dreamers change course in no time. In the maze we stay, someone had once dreamt on becoming a doctor and while he was moving through, he overheard an engineer say how much he would be earning and decided to join that engineer. I saw another lady, who sang so beautifully, infact her voice helped us relax better after the stress of finding our path, but she has been cajoled into being an accountant, someone said to her, there's little money in music, all this has made the work load harder, as passion would make it bearable to an extent. Until recently we are being told about a young man from soeul south Korea named Hwang Dong-Hyuk, how he had a dream and was determined to see it happen, he wasn't a novice to the game per say, so he wasn't switching careers, he knew what he wanted and kept on it. He has been a movie producer for years, but there is this certain movie he wanted to air, and has gone to meet various studios and kept being rejected. I bet he had the same feeling as most of us "what do I do next", "do I just give up" no doubt the stress was too much and the expenses were getting overbearing that he had to sell off his laptop. Well after 1o years of consistently finding the way for that particular movie, it came out and is currently ranking about the top worldwide most watched movie, haven't you seen "Squid Game", he his the man behind it. Giving up is more risky than trying at least, I always say, what's the worst that can happen. In the world we live in, if you refuse to try you'll soon be blaming yourself, I don't think any of the people we are currently enjoying got to where they are by not trying, they all were in the dream maze, navigating their way through it day and night, sometimes frustrated and tired, all wishing it would get easier soon. Whenever we look and see the future ahead and picture what the dream offers and how much we are in love with the dream, we sure want to stay dreaming and pushing through, its the price we've got to pay. Someday would be Pay day. The dream maze I'm lost in is just us in our normal world searching for a better day, a time we would have all we've hope for, money, family, career , fame, as you wish, or should I say as you dream you get. The path is often not clear, the question of "I'm i making the right decision for myself, I don't want to fail, I don't want to fall. I sincerely hope I'm navigating the right path. Sometimes we hope someone from somewhere would be so nice to give us all the help we need, the right contact, the money, the comfort, someone appear like an angel and walk us through the path. More often than not, this isn't the case. Some say it's the fun of life, if we all had it rosy like how everything was made easy and simple like the garden of eden, life wouldn't have been interesting, well I doubt that, we are humans and humans are social beings who would find fun anywhere and anyhow. Moreover then money wouldn't be a factor and life would be purer, the love we find would be more genuine, the works and job we do, would be more of dedication and passion, time out with family would be a more frequent occurence. However now we are in the maze of dreams, finding our way to greatness and success, I really pray God help us all, cause at last only him knows the right path. Keep the energy my fellow soldiers. Thanks For Reading.

Writing Is Somewhat Powerful It's way beyond normal infact, This is something every good writer has experienced, that moment you sit down to write or type, silent in words but loud in thoughts andand as your begin to pour out from your mind directly into typing, in a little while and you're soaked in it, like you are already in a different world, like a portal has been open and you have transcended to a world beyond, words you've never said or used before starts coming to mind to better explain what you mean, like there's someone whispering it all to your ears and all you've got to do is be silent, listen, feel it and write. Patterns and signatures unique to you alone starts being jotted unknownly to you, at the end of the writing session, when you sit to review what you just written, you would be amazed at what you have done, things we never thought possible all falling in line via our hands, no one can convince me otherwise, this art of writing is definitely above the natural, there is an overtaking force in this, a journey we embark, for this we need no distractions. When the selected topic to write upon holds no meaning to you, it's often a war to write long, then we focus more on acquired knowledges and researches. We know there's a lag, a bridge in communication, almost like we are not being told what to do, just seated at a test all with question papers but no idea of what the answers might be. Really not an enjoyable journey, in fact its a waste of precious time. You don't want to write when you don't feel like it, its almost like you've been given a hard task to do, but when you want to write its a smooth ride. Writing as a craft should be enjoyed, it should be loved and not compelling. We often take up our writing materials to jot down striking revelations, the mind just struck a realm, a topic has originated, oh with this, it's going to be a sweet ride, can't wait to start pouring down all this numerous ideas running through my head, someone has to read this, I've got to share this article the world. And so let's write, however sometimes we need to write for the benefits, it doesn't mean we shouldn't enjoy the art, if you are working, then its expedient of you to enjoy what you're doing, that way we can be more effective. You perform better when you love your job. Where do we write is also as important as writing itself, oh how frustrating it is when you just got the right words to use then noise comes stealing it away, no offence to noise.cash though, its lincese to go crazy over there, but over here we need a serene environment. The quiet is a call to getting through the portal easily, just a few words into it and you're already swimming with ideas, so much to choose from, that's why sometimes we can skip what we're writing now to start of a new paragraph because we don't want to forget what we just got from the realm beyond, then we come back to complete off where we started. You've done this too right. Hahaha.. Its a sweet feeling, we need not to get scared of it, I know my choice of words calling it a supernatural force is sending a different kind a vibe to you, like you don't want to have anything to do with spirits, Hahahaha, I'm just meaning it literally. Its not demonic but rather angelic, its a God given gift, to write is truly a blessing, pouring out your mind and someone else picks out your material and is feeling every bit of what you meant, almost like he or she is feeding off it and at the end of the read, they confesses that it was awesome, remarks like I really needed this, or this was for me, or I really love this article is the best reward a writer can get, with the money of course. Writing is a weapon, it can be destructive as well as a healer, people who write well are very powerful people, you never know who is picking up your article and feeling every bit of you, you are capable of influencing someone else's life decisions just by putting your works out there, more reason why we must try to put the best we can put out there, the more we expand our knowledge the deeper we can be allowed into the supernatural world only unlocked to writers. There's is a deeper room, let's keep writing, we are all journeying to that amazing place. Thanks for reading guys.

How Powerful Is Mark Zuckerberg What did you do for the few hours you discovered Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp server was down, I was with some friends of mine and I saw the different response to the issue, and it made me realize how powerful the silent mark Zuckerberg is to the world at large, I also took to Twitter, since it was the next big social media platform where you can meet people and see what's going on, and there I saw how crazy the world went, in few minutes it was already top trending, that is to say, everyone collectively and simultaneously tweeted about the crash, all other topics had to take a back seat. A friend of mine, was supposed to send item to his friend in another country, and had gone to the courier service responsible for it, now there have been some adjustments and he needed to communicate as soon as possible to his friend so they can know the way forward, and unfortunately all server was down. I don't think you have your friends on your Twitter page, it's more likely you have them on your Facebook or Instagram but not Twitter, you get some no doubt but surely not as much as WhatsApp. So he couldn't communicate with her at all, until he had to call normally, not minding the extra tariff. You could see that he was stressed out just trying to communicate. Personally, I had rebooted my phone multiple times, I was waiting patiently for a text reply from someone I was having a conversation with, and like a twinkle, I couldn't connect anymore. Oh I was looking for the nearest possible solution, I thought it was my data connection and had to reboot my cell multiple times, just so I can keep connecting with everyone I seriously need to speak to. Infact someone told me he had wasted extra money trying to renew his connections, everyone needed to keep connecting and it was as if our hands were tied. No doubt mark has a strong hold on the youths currently. So many businesses no doubt didn't find it funny at all, as we have all learnt of the importance of taking our business online cause that way we are open to seeing more customers and at ease of relating at the same time. The platforms which helps us in doing this is no doubt Instagram Facebook and WhatsApp, yes Twitter also, but we rarely have a personal relationship with the vendors, so we prefer to go with those who we have a personal relationship with, and those are the people who has our cell numbers, so we see their daily posts and interact with often. So with the shut down of this social platform, a lot of business owners really did panic, many prayed it was only a dream and unrealistic, well thank God its back to normal. The level at which mark took control over the social affairs of the world is smart indeed, he's gradually taking monopoly over the social media, not many are frequent with other media platforms like telegram, snapchat, the widely and mostly used are no doubt those affiliated with mark. Smart business move you say. The world today is online, money is online too because the people are online too. The youth of today are more with their phones than they are with at any where else. The teenagers and children are not left out, they too are gradually being addicted to the social platform. And mark owns control of it all. Today the world saw the usefulness of mark Zuckerberg, I think he deserves a seat among the most influential people in the world today, already he is among the world's richest, but he deserves more no doubt. Where others may get angry at mark for allowing such a fault develop without preparing a counter measures to avert it, there would be other people who would see and learn a business trick or two. Indeed a move like this is worth learning in the business school. Monopolizing the most of his social media platforms and utilizing it better. Zuckerberg is truly a business guru and today the world saw it clearer. Imagine it took over a day or a week or even a month before the server gets back up and operating, do you know it'll be a world wide cause for concern, I'm pretty everyone would soon find another alternative, but before then they would have been some damages done no doubt, so many money would have been lost, those people who make money from being a social media influencers, those people who have their business online and their customers seated on their social platforms, all these people would have been heard it hotter than others, how about those friendly discussions and photos sharing, it'll really be a cause of concern. So I ask again, how powerful is mark Zuckerberg, very powerful right, maybe some would have argued that fact, but after the experience today, you may want to think twice before saying mark is not powerful. Hopefully the platforms doesn't crash anymore and keeps operating okay, hopefully also we could get another platform that would be as popular and widely used and not owned by one man so we can have another option if something like this happens again. What do you think about the Incident that happened earlier? How powerful do you think mark Zuckerberg is? Thanks For Reading.

Let's Talk About BitcoinCash That one coin that gets its users happy and grateful, then it has got to be BitcoinCash, it's amazing feature are so considerate, it may seem as though they created it cause they love you, the ease the swiftness, the transparency, the easy cheap rate, it's all working together to help us smile better while having a wonderful experience. Among all else, there's a particular coin that's made specially to better serve us both, it offers a more preffered option to carry out our intended use. Now what do we look out for in the crytpo world, although some uses my differ by the different people, but there are some certain uses that we know it just has to be, for example, some people are in search for very cheap coins, which they can invest in and await a pump for them to bag off their profit, some don't really look out for cheap coins as they just look for prospective coins that are sure to rise, like we see quite a numbers of people still buying bitcoin to store for a pump, so different people have got their various intended look for a prospective Cryptocurrency. However no one looks for a bad coin or a coin they investigate to be a shitcoin, money is precious to us and so if we are going to let go of our money it's got to be worth the shot. Any day and anytime bitcoin cash is worth the shot, it never goes wrong with Bitcoincash. BitcoinCash has every aspect cover, that individual area of expectancy, whatever is your special look out in a coin is already being sorted by the creators of BCH. This currency is truly a definition of democracy, it was made for us, by us. Volatility is the trademark of Cryptocurrency and this unpredictability is what make the market keep striving, in fact its what makes the trading platform still sure to make gain off their customers losses, so we can't really count the abilty for a coin to rise or fall as the main criteria for investing and hodling a coin, every coin moves, its never a straight graph, as long as people are involved the fluctuations never ends, so there are other aspects to make a decision from, other areas you can and should consider before your decision of which next coin to hodl. Looking out for swift transfers Here we go, have you been sending and it's taking so long for it to be received and while it has been received its taking another longer time to get the pending successful so you can finally own it. Well, such troubles are easily resolved just by dealing with BCH, it takes shorter time than the usual to get the coin transfer to the receiving end and all protocols observed in the swift of time, all making things easier and better, so looking out for a faster way to exchange your crypto coins then you probably want to make sure its BCH out there doing the work. Lower Fee Lost To Network I feel your pains too whenever you have no choice but to just send out the transaction knowing fully well this network fee is not being gained by any of the two people making the transaction however a remedy has been existing for a longer time now, probably you might have been hearing of it but didn't actively get started, then let's tell you a fact that a solution has been existing, you can send your BCH to another and the other send to you and the network charges a lesser than $0.02. This way you have your money to freely use as the true definition of democracy entails. Peer 2 Peer Reading through the first and second points, no doubt it is a better option for peer to peer. The fast rate of receiving and the low transaction fee is the call to narrowing everyone to the main and initial reason for Cryptocurrency in the first place, that is to carry out peer 2 peer. The world having a digital currency and be sure it can be spent and transfered anywhere and at anytime, the essence of Cryptocurrency is a currency, and as such much be good with the people. Work with BCH. The amazement of BCH is lovely and is a better option of you and I. Thanks For Reading. Lead image source from @Crypto.Maniac

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Learning To Celebrate My Small Wins Take a rest, and clap for yourself. That's what I just did, I know I have tried and I'm still trying and i dont have to feel proud about it, I'm not stepping on anyone's toes, it's my life and I'm just grateful for how far I've come. You know lately so much keep coming up, i had felt like i wasn't doing enough, I had felt like my impact was little or nothing compared to what I needed, and I can't lie to you all, it made me feel down. This can't be me, I had said to myself, everything should be working perfectly fine, I don't really deserve it, but i should be treated importantly, God has been good no doubt, but when would the whole struggle end, so just like my previous article, I'll have a comfortable life. You know, anytime I complain like this, my mind tries to remind me that I am better than some people out there, if not most, but I quickly shut that idea away from my head. I just don't see the need to be calm or feel happier because I may be better than some people outside. When I'm hungry and I mean really hungry, the crazy hunger doesn't go away cause it knows I'm better than some people. No it wouldn't, it's my cross and that I'll bear alone. Maybe another reason can help me bear longer but most certainly not because I am better than some people. Everyone is living their life, the comparism is only in my head, it's fake, no one feels what I'm feeling. I really hope someone feels me on this article, I know I titled it "Learning to Celebrate my little wins" but it seems like I'm only complaining out here, well I too hope I would be able to make sense of it before the close of the article, I'm only writing base on how I feel today. Maybe it's cause I'm not feeling too well and instead on resting, here I am trying to write again. You all would know why that is. Is the same reason that young man gets up as early as 5am when the sleep isn't cleared off his eyes, but he has no choice but to work any ways. You know the reason right. Yes it's the need for money, money seems to be very powerful. Maybe its cause I saw that series "Sqid game" and it made me see that this feelings I have about how life stressing me out and I wish it was easier, isn't a feeling for me alone, but everyone feels the same. I recommend you all see that movie, just saying on a lighter mood. It really speaks the reality of things, it speaks about the general living and crazy needs of life, just does it in a more exciting and concluding way, but you can sense this is slightly more than a drama, its not just about the game, this is real life being turn into a movie. With all the options to opt out and return back to their lifes, in order not to be killed, the players still decided to risk their life for the money. Cause their normal lifes too was unbearable. I want to specially appreciate every support partners out there, I don't mean my sponsors on this platform, of course I'm very grateful and may God continue to bless you all, however I mean everyone who is helping someone become better, rather than be a pain in the neck. Reason being that enough is already happening and its driving someone crazy already, people are really trying. Come outside and see the numbers of people working on the crazy sun so they can feed a family, now imagine that some of these guys goes home to return to a nagging wife, or complaining mother, forcing their daughters or son to bring more home, or forcing their husband to do more. This is a killer, Stop. At a junction of someone's life, if you can't be a motivation, if you can't assist or contribute to making the person better or help lighten the workload then you aren't doing well. What most people wants is that person who keeps believing and supporting, correcting rightly with love and not making it feel as though all efforts are worthless. We can motivate ourselves too no doubt, but it isn't that easy, the brain is constantly thinking, so it takes more practice and believe to really be self motivated and go as though your self motivation is all you need. Oh back to the topic, Celebrate your small wins, it gives a sense of accomplishment, it boost the pride a little. Life Is a phase, a transition, we all passing through, so as much as we want complain and go crazy demanding for a solution, calling for a better life asap, we must choose to be happy and be happy however, we lose when our joy is out. So celebrate your little wins too, it gives joy also. It reduces the urgency to do something crazy, whatever you get, never let's go of happiness. Let me apologize for these is not the regular article I write on every now and then, well its not because I'm not too well, it's just the feeling I'm getting and pouring down raw and undiluted. I did feel like changing the topic to a more compounding title, one that would make sense of the full write up, but still felt the need to leave everything as it were, from the beginning to where my head went other ways, I'm pretty sure someone out there can relate as it is, maybe not all, but certainly someone. Life isn't easy, but we are not weak too. We don't go down that easily. Thanks For Reading. Meanwhile what lead image can I add up, maybe I'll type "tired ". Sure to write again soon.

Quest For A Comfortable Life It's the reason we get up early in the morning and sleep late at night, all for a happy comfortable life. It's not easy no doubt, especially for those who have to strive for themselves without any back up whatsoever. Everyone wants comfort, I don't think there's anyone who wouldn't want to live a better and more comfortable life, however its often a journey, we have got to pursue after the comfort we so desire, and bet you, the chase is not a comfortable one. Everything around life is made in such a manner as to show everyone the need to go out of your will in order to get your will, the need to move out of your comfort zone in order to get the comfort we so desire. A farmer knows he needs crops to sell and eat too, and so he leaves his comfortable bed at that time when the sleep is just hitting us hard, and set out to start the planting process. Was it comfortable for him to do? Definitely not, it does get easier overtime but yet it'll never get comfortable, but at the end of the planting season, when the harvest are ripe and he has sold off to get money, then he would be happy for the actions he took, a smart choice to get up and work, leaving comfort to get a better comfort. The more we aim the more discomfort we should be willing to take, don't ever think its easy for the wealthy, they have money but as long as they still need more money, they must be willing to make the right moves to get what they desire. Well anyone can decide to relax and just keep wishing for comfort, thereby being comfortable while seeking comfort, these approaching is often unrewarding. We can't push effectively when we are still happy and comfortable with our Current state, no rather, that hunger and thirst is a necessary force, it keeps us on alert, knowing fully well we have somewhere to go as well as somethings we are aiming for. Its a deliberate action to really wanting to change somethings that need changes. Going out of your way because of something or someone, is a better way to drag in that someone or something to yourself. What changes do you crave for and yet you still treat comfortably? Many would feel it's only when you're home and Lazy, then you're not leaving the comfort zone. However its way more than that, there are a number of things in our life's and we just want to change it, maybe its a skill you wish you had, but you don't, maybe its a possession, whatever it is, the moment we get uncomfortable, we are just beginning the journey for a change, a hot pursuit for a better comfort. Everything can be taughts, but its not comfortable to learn. Remember how bad you felt some mornings when you were forced to get ready for schools but deep down what you really want is sleep, eat and play games. Basically every skill has a time set aside for learning "apprenticeship" this phase cannot be discarded, its as important as the actual work itself, its not expected to be a pleasant experience, we work now so we can be well equipped to get a better and comfortable life. Show me something amazing that was gotten from a place of comfort, because I don't think I know any, all I can think of took people going out of their way and comfort to make it possible. For instances, those sky scrappers, the amazing tall buildings wasn't just made because they wished it so, it took some workers into first learning how to do it, and finally going to the fields with irons, cranes and more hands to make it the finished work we amazed to see. Ever seen a throwback photo of a body builder, you'll be astonished, none of them were created fully body built, they had to hit the gym, watch their diet, time after time and then the results showed thereafter. Also take a look at yourself, at where you've come, did you get it by sleeping all day, your unique knowledge acquired today was from your discomfort of going to study, and paying your intentional attention so you can really be better. Every great and mighty person or thing surely has a beginning, and that beginning wasn't while we were still too relaxed, then we achieved nothing, it all began when we got uncomfortable at the present, when we started leaving our comfort zone to chase the comfort ahead. Forgo the comfort now for a better comfort tomorrow. Thanks for Reading!

Family isn't Blood Alone Often time you hear the saying 'Family First' and what comes to mind no doubt would be your father, mother, siblings then your partner and kids if you have any yet. To this we are not wrong, if I can remember this was what we learnt in school that a family are group of people related by blood. Even to the extended family there is a linking of same blood strain even if its the littlest of quantity. So we can't be wrong to think in that direction, however overtime we have seen the need to carry some people out of our circle of friends as they are worth more than that. Infact they deserve to be called our better half and the shocking revelation is that they aren't our twin, no they might not be your cousin either, nor from your extended family, just a friend. Do you have such people in your life currently, they know so much about you, they are always with you, infact they have a free entry into your home, your parents knows them to be your next pair, infact they are the people others would most likely call to ask about you should you be absent for a while. You'd agree with me that this is a lovely thing to have, someone who can accommodate your level of insanity and sanity and you both are enjoying the ride together. Would I be wrong if I called that guy my brother or my sister, oh would i be wrong to call him my family, because it sure feels wrong to call him a friend, even a best friend is okay but I know it's a more deeper connection. Its family. You're like a family to me. You know in our quest to make someone aware of how special they are to you, you can go deep in search of words, many words comes to mind but family is sacred and not open for everyone. For so many a friend has been that one person that turned their life around, they are so grateful and its logical reasoning that a friend has more potentials to help you. Reason being that if your immediate family were buoyant enough then you won't be needing help in the first place, as it would have been long taken care of. However if you're yet looking for help, it means all those close and related to you are either not able to help or are refusing to help, for which you need to get it else where from someone else. So most times it's an outsider that comes to the rescue via association. Someone not related to you by blood but is ready to make your life easier, Its more pleasant when that person is your friend, the bond becomes so strong. How many men who give birth today should be called fathers, or how many women who gave birth should be called mother, it isn't enough to bring someone into this world, and damage their living or not train them up well. Likewise how many children still deserves their parents care seeing how they have chosen to live their life, thereby bringing shame to the innocent parents. Family isn't blood alone guys, it's bond. Family is more bonding than it is blood, if it weren't so fathers and mothers won't disown their children, and children likewise, and some foster parents would have a peaceful home where love dwells because the child isn't related to them by blood. But the fact that blood and resemblances doesn't affect the relationship shows its has to deal more with their bonding level. For those people you've bonding with so well, those people who can go deep into your emotions and bring you to tears or joy, someone you've grow to love unconditionally, it would be unfair to your feelings that they can't be called family. Someone can choose to be your reason for hope when you're totally down and hopeless, someone can choose to shelter you when you had no place to lay your head. Remember how Jesus earned his way into our lives, that we knew he was the best man to accept and call us brothers (meaning we are now family), it was all from a place of love for us. If someone chooses to lay his life for you and I to be saved, such great love doesn't come from causal friendship, he has to be family to love us regardless. Oh yes he's family, I'm belong to the church, we are brethren soon to be his bride. Family it is right. Oh yes, so it isn't a must blood related before we can call family, it's the bond and its products that claims it family. Love and sacrifices are the fruits of a family, he who can have that for you is your family no jokes. Do you know how much I love my younger ones, I'm fully assured I can step in the gap for them, maybe i feel it's my responsibility but I know it's the love. When I have my kids, my wife, you all won't be angry cause I can literally give the world for them, however not my family alone. I understand that doing this for my family is logical than doing this for an outsider, but I have someone I cherish so much, I always want to ensure he is happy cause he has gone out of the line many times for me at his own disadvantage, I always pray for him. That guy to me is family. Not my blood line but sure he's family. Felt the need to relate this topic, cause as much as I want to be nice, I'm sure some outsiders have stand in gap for me more than some of my family members. Some don't even know my face or have hang out with me. However I'm pretty sure when life takes a new turn and things begin to go better, they would come around and call their self family and expect to be treated as family. Then maybe I'll recommend this article and help them know the meaning of family. Who is standing by you now, without any strings attached deserves your commitment and love too more than those who seeks to benefit the family rite only cause they are related by blood. Those true friends are your family, they are your true bonds. Now who are your family? Thanks For Reading.

How Bad Are Over-Excitements Have you ever been over excited, and took actions while you were over excited, what happened, how was the experience. Where your choices smart, did it make you do things you normally wouldn't do? A lot of things can indeed be learnt from Over excitements, it's one of those times you don't need to intoxicated with alcohol or hard drugs before you won't be in your right frame of mind, being over excited takes us away from our right state of mind too without drugs or alcohol, and this must also be looked into, it's hard to want to return to your right state of mind when you're already happy and joyful, does this mean we shouldn't be too happy, well no. Just don't make crucial decisions at that time, it's no ideal. Many times I've seen people make crazy decisions because they were too happy, especially making promises they couldn't keep and doing things they would regret later. After a good time with friends or family or after being hyped or congratulated, they get so head over heels, and as they feel on top of the world little they realize the earth is always rotating though we are walking, this times are dangerous times to talk and take actions, be calm, be calm. You're happy, but be calm. You just won a million dollars, do you dance on the streets to attract robbers or you hide even more. The more the good news the wiser our approach should be. Don't be shocked how many people have benefited and are still benefiting from this. It's a good strategy to exploit money off someone, especially a wealthy person. If the governor is coming for an occasion, you bet I would have already planned on how to make that day blow his mind. Do everything in my power to make his very excited, get the musicians to chant his name, get some good looking girls to sit close to him or usher him in with outmost utmost elegance, his wine and food would be well presented. You bet he would feel like he's in a palace. Just then the mc would say " let's call on our governor to donate for the successful execution of this program or project, you know what I mean, his advisor might want to call his attention to reduce the figure, but he wouldn't want to reduce that excitement, except he has learnt to deal with it. Ladies are expert in this field of exploiting our excitement. Its not an insult, as its not bad, it's a God given gift to them. Everything about them gets us excited, even when we are fighting with the one we love, we can still love the fight, it's that crazy. Now imagine your crush, someone who your heart truly beats for, treating you like a king, and just when you're on top of the world, she changes are mood and start feeling down. My brother, I bet you can kill a lion at that moment, if the lion was her problem. You don't want to see that happy face gone. Whatever demands is placed on the table at that moment of your excitement being tampered, you wouldn't mind giving it all. No wonder Herod had to kill the John the Baptist and offer his head to the dancer who please him so well. Oh no wonder esther was able to enter the court of a king and still found favour, oh no wonder Samson didn't care about his secret and told delilah anyways, no wonder Jezebel was able to convince her husband into doing her biddings. One thing is really common about this men, they were in a state of overexcirement with the woman, while so happy with them, they gave in to their wishes. What I'm I trying to say? As a lady, you can get that thing you want from him, just treat him as a king and see the magic, well unless he knows what's going on already and his prepared too. Lol. How many of our promises made when we were so happy have we been able to fulfill now, those times you said, don't worry I'll buy you a car, or you say I'll take you to that country, and the next day you are wondering what got over you. One time a friend of mine came around and we all had a nice time, then it was time to go home and the other friend didn't have enough to take a cab home, he too didn't have much but he has been so hyped and happy that he felt like he can't embarrass himself now, so he took his little and gave it to our other friend, who went his way, I too went my way, hoping our happy friend too would go his way, well my happy friend had to walk hours to his house. We got to know days later. It wasn't pride if I may say, Cause it wasn't the first time one of us wouldn't have enough and he would say I just have few to take me home, some times we just hiss and find a way out together, but that day he was so happy, so happy that he didn't want anything ruining the mood. Good guy right, well he paid for it . Think through your actions, don't let too much happiness lead you into actions that would cause sadness later. Use your head, same way you've got to be careful when drunk, also when you're too happy then you're intoxicated too and should be careful the actions you take then. Would it be easy, certainly not. Even I that is writing too is not guaranteed that I'll make the right choice when I'm so happy. Imagine I wake up to a huge some of money in my account, i may forget there's someone i need to correct or shout at, and just let it slide, then they feel I'm cool and keep trying it. Imagine waking up next to my sweetheart, I may forget my boss needs me at work and just call in sick in other to spend more time. So when you're too happy. Keep being happy, keep the blood pumping with joy, but then be careful of the actions you want to take then. More preferred wait and take actions later when you're calmer and thinking straight. Thanks For Reading.

What's Your Defense? Getting to understand that things would continue to happen whether we like it or not, your car would surely break down unexpectedly maybe until the makers finds a way to ensure otherwise, food might get scares leading to inflation, Bills may get hyped, unplanned expenses you need to cover, all this things in conjunction with the normal occurring events would happen and we wish to be ready for it. That's where the need for a defense plan comes up, for this type of events there are two major defense mechanisms we need, that is behavioural and money. Of course money is the most known defense, it assist and takes care of almost everything, with money comes lesser worries ofcourse. I'll highlight shortly, some defense we need to build. Money For events that might eat out of your savings or pocket at the time, we hope to have in store for the rainy days, signifying times when we this are different, not as easy as always, then we hope to have saved up. So having enough money is a defense that can help us in this given situation. When the car breaks down, with money it can get fixed so easily, when there's a urgent need in the family that has not been planned for, with enough money at hand that can be sorted out easily. Even the great book "The Bible" has clearly stated the fact that money is a defense. Well we all are chasing for the money. Behavioral Defense Humility Another defense we need to have no doubt is the defense of behavior, our attitude, our characters is one major area we need to work on, cause it would help us in situations that are way more than our capabilities. Behaviors like humility has often shown productive in this aspect. Already we can be humble naturally but we need to be humble to people who can help us. It's not faking that's why it's great humility is in your attitude normally, however if you are humble to the high standing in the society, when unforeseen situations happens that can cause you to tremble, be rest assured they can come to your resuce. This behavior too is a defense, one we must see to get. Resources Management Knowing how to manage resources is also a form of defense for us all. Its popularly said "cut your coat accordingly to your size" this is done so we don't incur more expenses than we can handle. It's no insult if someone tells you that you can't afford a costly car, maybe the pattern at which it was said is the issue, but the saying shouldn't be annoying, you're simply making wise choices. With this when situations get out of hand, you are sure you can try your best to settle it, because its within your range. Could it be the rent, car issue, appliances issue, whatever it is as long as it was done within your range, so when it develops issues, you can still take care of it. I know not being high class can be embarrassing but then its wise to avoid the real embarrassment, one you won't be able to solve. Savings And Investment Saving and investment needs to be considered as a defense too, I could have linked it to money, but then it won't be more elaborate, cause some people do many cash that's not saved or invested and this cash can take care of their problem anytime it arises, yet it's not so for everyone else, the regular guy has to save up to plan with, if anything be the issue then it can also be easily sorted out from there. Saving and investing are good qualities if you want to be defended against the financial frustrations of life. Just as the ants stored up in summer to have more than enough in winter when they can't work, we too need to save up for rainy days, investment is great too, a good investment multiples so why not. Helping Others Raising up others too is smart, oh yes, then you have positioned people who can help you too. One good turn deserves another right. However humans are very funny, that guy who has been faithful to you might suddenly disappear after he's has been helped, so you can't necessarily count on anymore, but that doesn't change the fact that this also is a defense. More wisely help your family first, family can't easily escape especially your wife, husband and kids, its one of the surest investment anyone can do, should incase you aren't buoyant today, then there's somebody here who can assist as quick as possible. Family first its said, but if you can try extending outside the family too, do it for love at least, but you never know which investments would be most profitable. Relationship With God Lastly and my most important defense is to keep a relationship with God. God can help in all, like he can easily settle every problem, we need not bother much anymore. Funny how walking with God would put all the highlighted points in place cause he teaches humility, wisdom for saving and investing, resources management as we learnt from the prodigal song and also the need for family first. So this is a very important defense. I know money Is the mostly recognized defense, but in God comes assurance. We never can tell when a need would be arising, unforeseen and unexpected, could be an important meeting with delegates and you dont want to embarrass yourself, could be a date and you need to make it work, could be mommy or dad calling for something, in any kind of matter arising, we need to be prepared with our brick wall of defense. This way it doesn't weigh us down and sad cause we prepared and can take care of it. Get your defense attitude on check. Thanks For Reading.

I'll Do It Later - Procrastination I'm so tired now, allow me a little bit of rest. I know time is going but I need to finish up this movie. It's almost time to write an article but I'm so tired, I don't even know what to write. Yes I'm still coming, but im still in bed, I'll get up soon. Everyone must be guilty of this issue of procrastination, and it's not because we have bad characters or are weak, we don't really feel like it. Like who wouldn't wish he or she could lazy around the whole day and things would still be set in place for him or her to enjoy, you wish right, in fact we enjoyed that at our childhood but with a little task, yet nothing compared to what we face now, now it's "how you lay your bed, you'll lie on it. However as quiet as this issue of Procrastination, we need to be loud about changing it. I have learnt how to pay more detailed attention to those matters that seems so hidden in us, they often create the most damages, same as this. Actually the issue of Procrastination exist across all stages, though we can't count the childhood as we were mostly dictated on what to do and forced into it, "go take your bath John, I mean now", "Go do your school assignment, go now" then you'll see us grumble, because its against our present feeling, we really want to Procrastinate. The older you wont grumble, you just won't do it, no one would spank you. We know however that we face a larger punishment than being spanked as adult, if we had to choose between the aftermath result of our little Procrastination and being spanked as before I'm sure we would go for the latter. For example, going a little late to work could likely slash our pay eventually for those firms that hold stricts to late coming. Do those chores a little later may lead to the work being more cumbersome and likely ignored completely till when your mood is alright, that's why we put on dirty clothes for a longer time. The movie you can find time to see again, but that work not done remains undone until its done. Adulthood is freedom no doubt, because we are now expected to have learnt and know how to control the situations. I grew up to seeing my dad wake up every morning as early as 5am so he could beat the heavy traffic, peradventure he took a went a little late then he would be getting to work later and maybe might lose few of his early customers, of course somedays he couldn't help but go later, sometimes he completely gets tired and stay off work, he's human after all, but he sure learnt to bring his mood and body under the subjection of the course, and more so for a personal business, not having a boss who forces it on him, indeed its discipline. However I dont think I had such discipline, I and my dad were two different personalities when it came to Procrastination, well until I sat up to learn otherwise. I had in my early school always being punished by my teachers, I rarely went to school early, if I gone early then maybe I couldn't solve the assignment, so I came early enough to spy the answers before the teacher comes. However the normal me couldn't come early, mom tried the early morning water trick and it worked sometime, but I still had the attitude of not being early, cause I Procrastinated getting up from bed. This continued till my second year in the university. Like who was going to force me to sleep early at night or wake up early in the morning. Absolutely no one, infact my brother I stayed with was no better than me, in fact he was only going to school for fun time not for lectures, so I tried, his full books were never having more than 3 pages written for the full session. Wonder how he managed the exams, though I feel he had an easier course unlike me dealing with all those chemical structures. I should have chosen dance instead and graduated in peace. Well, I had missed a few classes and practicals, and it were beginning to tell on my result, before I had a deep talk session were a speaker gave me the reason to adjust. God bless that man even if I can't remember his name anymore. Yes i truly benefitted from the character adjust, as it helped my result be better, I had began to hope i learnt earlier. It's all good though. Well of recent I found out that I had began exhibiting this lazy character again and I had to call myself to order. And I guess that's the way it works, from time to time as humans we are bound to feel lazy and the urge to Procrastinate, of which we truly could but as soon as we realize this it's good we call ourselves to order. Also knowing why it's bad in the first place would help in preparing the mind to kick against it, would shouldn't i rest, am I the president, even the president rest better with his comfy bed, so I need to rest, see how cajoling the mind works, so you can sleep some more. But knowing you have had enough rest already and are alone wasting the time now is key, knowing the Procrastination sets you behind time while it makes the work may cumbersome is good also. Knowing the time wasting can be better utilized to earn more or make you happy is also a great idea. So while the mind feeds you with sweet reasons to Procrastinate, you in turn feeds it with more logical reason why you mustn't. For a lot of people, going through this work alone can be unproductive as they can't control the urge, so I'd advice on the need for getting someone trust worthy to hold you accountable. we call it the 2 factor authentication, where someone is there to watch you, you say I'll be here by 5 tomorrow, if I don't make it by then, then maybe take a few cash off me, or do anything else that would make you seat up, is often work, it starts as a game, but it puts the mind prepared as you know I have a task to complete and that crazy friend would laugh at me today. In all guys, Procrastination is bad, it's not mere lazing, it actually steals from you, if at all it steals time, and time is the unit of life. Let's adjust. Thanks For Reading.

Depression Is Disallowed Yes, it's not allowed, it's highly prohibited from taking over our sanity. We know better than to let it steal the best out of us. Do you know that you operate better on a lighter mood, do you know that you those days you are down are likely to be bad days generally. The influence of our moods on our days are so much of effect. Great minds would always pay attention to how they feel and why they feel the way they feel. So they can adjust and quickly try to feel better. Most times you see them smiling a lot even in the face of pressure, they have learnt how to stay calm and healthy admits the hurdles. There are few people who has a way into your heart, oh and if they choose they can very well toil with your mood and your sanity in fact. As men, our wives are very learned at this task, they know how to get you over board even without saying a word. Well samw goes to the women too, as their husbands too can often make the full day so unbearable, they can't wait to get home and give him a piece of their minds. Now imagine a lady who has a lot to say as she's very angry but can't express it, maybe cause of distance, or she's being ignored, they could easily slide into depression and that is what we need to keep in check. Before now, it was said that women are emotional while men are logical, well I guess we are beginning to see that this selection of who's emotional and who is logical is not gender based, as some men are so emotional, and they aren't ashamed to express it, however the society tells them to shut up and bear the pain, yet we still see some burst down to tears and depressed. While we have seen some women handle situations like it doesn't get to them, we call them tough, some might say they are man like, but its just our individualistic personalities. Maybe how and where we grew up added, maybe our past experiences added, maybe we are just naturally emotional or bearing, it's not gender based, its personality. So keep your day in check, know how to deal with issues so they don't create a burden on you. For example, someone insults you, I could choose to let it slide and just overlook it, but later when I get home, I begin to ponder on what i should have done, i should have given him a piece of my mind, this over thinking can make me dislike that person eventually, so I let personality not to make matter take long, so I don't go home and start thinking. Now when you insult me, I'll most likely tell you not to ever do that again and see what your next response it before knowing how to continue. If I leave you then maybe it didn't get to me so much. Well that's me personally, others might not be the same, it's just my way I ensure I don't go to sleep feeling bad. No one is above being depressed, it doesn't come in one way only, it comes in differs ways, all that matters is how dare it is to you. For gamers, I'll notice they don't like to lose a game, having them constantly beaten could lead to a bad mood and more extreme depression. Its what they have given their soul into, coming in to defeat them makes it seem like they have been joking all along, well it's bad if this continues as they ought to learn to deal with it and rather use it as a tool to improve. Not just gamers alone, musicians, painters, actors in fact every field, as much as they have given their soul to that course, being defeated could lead to depression, they need to learn to disallow this feeling. Learning to deal with depression is a plus to the world in general, at least now you know, you could easily teach someone else to deal with theirs also. With the increasing rate of depression owing from the crimes, human rights violations, domestic violence, spouse fights, business downs, physical challenges, money and many other reasons, its no shocker everyone has to learn it. We are not happy forever, maybe you're happy now, but there was a time when you weren't, that should make us know there is someone else somewhere who is not happy too, infant there are people depressed at the moment and needs to be helped. Depression isn't mere thinking or feeling down, it creates a state of disappointment in oneself, it gets one thinking he or she doesn't matter in life, completely shatters the self esteem and reduce one to nothingness. So wrong right, we know we matter, how can we feel we don't, well that's what we all say when happy, but when things get out of hand, we forget all the good feelings we once had. It takes a lot to remember that we had enjoy goodness and are valuable in this world when things start getting bad, that's why one good therapeutic remedy is to remember the good times and forget the negative. It's a creepy deceiver, do well to keep your mind in check always, well are all priceless, nothing should make us feel otherwise. Depression is disallowed, when people make you feel bad, deal with it, you are very important, more than your president, more than your pastors, more than money, you're very important to yourself, it's you first before anyone or anything else, so keep your happiness coming, do what makes you happy, be with who gives you joy, and peradventure something got stolen from you that is creating this depression, then try reading up my previous article which talks on the fact that life is for a appointed time and we must take it easy as we ensure we are in right standing and in our right state of mind. Happiness is key guys, and happiness is free. Stay happy and shut the door completely against depression. Depression is Disallowed. Thanks For Reading.

None Would Live Forever Some short words as this are meant to do justice, imagine going through a lot and someone just walks up to you and tells you "none would live forever", I bet you'd be so scared, like that's some creepy words to tell someone, yet amidst that we can't take away the fact that it's very true, we all in our majesty and superiority can't and won't leave this world alive, I guess that fact should have been accepted by this time. Maybe as teenagers and children, we'll reject the saying but now we know better, all we have to do is pray for long life, in God's protection. Shortly, I'll be sharing with us, a few key notes, that this short words is meant to send to us, I mean what we should learn from the fact that we all have a finishing date. God in his infinite wisdom saw it best that we don't have a portal where we just walk and fall of living, or rather just disappear at a certain age, he saw it best that we all have different and unknown timing, when we would go and we signify this by depositing our bodies down the soil, as it has been said "dust ye were made, to dust ye return " creepy again. Well it is what it is. Now let's talk about the significant lessons to be learnt from this fact that none would make it out alive. 1. Take life Easy Already the demand and needs for life are paramount, you can't help but chase after them, like you don't work and you want to eat, there's no magic to that, work has to be done, luckily you've got someone doing the work for you to relax, still there are many other things to bother the mind as we live. Things like would I be happy, I'm so skinny, I'm so short, I'm so light skinned, I always get heart broken, health issues, psychological trauma, bad events, country issues, wars and crisis, natural disasters, bad home, physical challenges or defects, we can't possibly have it all rosey, we all signed up for the game as soon as we were born, however whenever we remember that we would die someday, it's a call to take it easy. To know that this challenges are part of lives course and rather than beat yourself each and every time, rather than swinging into depression, rather than shedding tears, we have to see ways of making life make us happy. A change of mindset perhaps, a deliberate effort to be happy since soon we all would be leaving soon. I've seen people you'd never think to be happy again, maybe because of physical conditions or financial issues, yet they appear happier and you'd begin to envy them. Quite a number have taken up the task of helping people with their problems be better and happier, like I said in my most previous articles, this are life's greatest gifts. 2. Bother Less When People Hurt Just like the parable of Lazarus and the rich man, well not saying that everyone who hurts us must go to hell, we just have to know that it all comes to an end so, shortly it wouldn't matter again, more reason to be at peace with everyone. Luckily for us, our good works would count for something, God sees all and would judge all, so when people genuinely hurts you and it's like you don't know how to get revenge or justice for yourself, especially when it's not a reportable crime to authorities, you could still be assured that God sees and all wouldn't matter much anymore soon. People tend to oppress a lot, and its saddening especially for the larger number of striving people, the economy however has more regards to the high and mighty, although they belong to the fewer sect, but their wealth and position places them high and fix so many below them, as to this we have seen them act like untouchable, we have seen them do enough and still go away with it, and we can only wonder, is there no justice for such wickedness. Well there is and soon it all won't matter. They can bribe their way through anything but never through death. They too would give it all up one day and dance to the beat of their deeds. This should make us calm and relaxed too. 3. Prepare For Tomorrow I greater reason for this is so we can prepare for tomorrow, if you have kids or family then try as much as possible to position them for better. Also our lifestyle must be in accordance because we are here for an appointed time, so we have to live right so we don't miss the bigger picture. Another thing to prepare for is the matter of the heart and affairs, we meet different people to whom we never know who we might be seeing again, so we must make each time count, tell those that matter that they do really matter to you. Say I love you as much as possible to those who you love. Ensure each day you're trying to be on track. However it's bad if we live with the fear of death, we shouldn't be thinking of that everytime, it would hinder a lot, rather be happy, just know we are many, everyone is in this together and laugh. It's fun, we all are in this road together, you'll be missing out of the fun if you're so bothered and afraid. Take it easy, you're not alone. Yet work for success cause you have a long time to go. In all serve God faithfully cause that is the big picture. We only have one life, so Enjoy. Thanks For Reading.

The World's Greatest Gift Every where we get to see more and more amazing people do amazing things, one thing I saw a guy drag on a mighty truck, and you'll only wonder how did he pull that off, infact there are so many gifts and so many talents, yet we dont know which is the greatest. Some singers I've heard got me so amazed, I felt like this talent has got to be the best, could this be the World's greatest gift? Shortly after I see someone dance so well and I feel like this has got to be it, then I come in here and read an amazing article that got me thinking too deep and I say to myself writing has to be another dimension entirely. It's one after another. To whom would I conclude to be the greatest gift. Maybe I have to stop thinking about the natural and try to consider the acts that are so out of this world, maybe the magicians, those people can do the unthinkable, what can beat that, oh wait, maybe it's the pastors? Moreover they help us get ready and prepared for the world after now, and that next world is more important than this one presently, so maybe being a priest or a pastor is the world's greatest gift, moreover it has to do with God himself. But then how about our parents too, they prepare us for everything too and play a active part in how our lives turns out to be Not long after I stepped out of the house,I have gotten an answer to what I can conclude to be the World's World's greatest gift, and without any shame I say it is the ability to help. Yes help someone else, is the greatest gift the world has and can ever have. So I stepped out to see a mother and her child on the streets asking for money to feed, and I thought to myself, what if I could sing, and I sang for this woman, hope it would be profitable, or maybe I'll dance, or maybe I'll only preach to her. But no matter how nice she is, she'll still be hopeful that you can help her condition, if not forever via fat cheque, then at least for the moment. Well money is not the only help option, although it's the major helping option but we can help and still be appreciated without money, our time also is a precious currency that must also be valued and used to judge the level at which someone wants to help. Most people don't have the luxury of wealth to pay off the problem away, but they can stand by you and help you fight it out, they are ready to support morally, prayerfully, and in every way they can. Thie people are also helpers, this act is non doubt the workds greatest gift. Never hold back from helping wherever and whenever you can. Indeed the person you're helping might not be able to pay back soon or ever, yet we must not stop. One major and beautiful thing about this task is the fact that any and everyone can pull it off, ot doesnt matter if you can do more or little at the moment, at long as you can do your bid and do it wholeheartedly. We are slowly getting to realize that no matter how hard we try, there would always be the lesser privileged masses, people who seek to either be where you are currently or maybe only hoping to have that stifff you have currently. and our task is simple, guide them through. It's their dreams and we could care less, but no, walk them through the process. Helping makes us better humans. There no better joy than being a source of a non to another. Being cajoled into helping or being forced against your wish into helping isn't recorded in this show of love. Oh we are not the main rewarders of this show of love, God is. Sometimes we get a good reward here, as those we have helped previously could bounce up quickly and help us bounce better than we ever bounce. Yes we would be happy and enjoy every benefits as they come, but we know there is more to the reward as God too has a gift in store for such selfless work of charity, remember he says "Anyone who can give to the poor, has given to him". "Anyone who clothes the poor, has clothed him too", so keep helping everywhere and anyway you can. Apparently the numbers of people seeking and hoping for a better day are numerous. Making a choice to extend some help more than just our immediate family or friends, and more into the world, help, help, help, help some one smile today, help someone stand today, help someone feed today, teach someone to fish for his or herself today, can you remember that you too were helped. Oh I don't need to be a soothsayer to know you were helped, no one and I mean no one can climb a ladder just by himself alone, we sure need people who have gone ahead, or people who are willing to push us from behind with enough motivation and boost. Everyone is deserving of this greater gift, the gift of being helped. Likewise, everyone should seek out ways to render help too. The best help comes from God not withstanding, so we have to learn to pray, cause he sure wouldn't fail no matter how hard the world gets, he would always help, and he need us to learn the act also, there are so many who you can help, not money alone, your motivation, your calls and checking up, your prayers, your advice all segmented into giving your sacred time, it wouldn't go unrewarded. Believe me when you also need help, you'll find it too. You have the world's greatest gift too. Help someone today. Thanks For Reading.

All For Love As much as it's the sweetest place to be, love is also the craziest place you can be, it can get you doing things you couldn't possibly imagine you would do and still feel like it's alright, it's the one place where you can put someone else first before yourself and still be happy, yes because that person makes you happy, and so making that person happy is an happiness to you also, can you imagine the twist. Like literally someone just did something wrong and you gave that person the insult of his life, infact it got your mood spoilt that you grumbled and grown badly, not quite long afterwards this person you so love does the same thing and what did you do huh? Indeed we would be lucky to have someone treat us with love, it would be lovely to see someone go crazy for us, like I'll just be home and there's a girl somewhere thinking of me, calling me up to check up on me, whenever I'm hungry she becomes restless till I eat, oh my God, hahahaha, it's no longer a fantasy for most people as they are presently enjoying their picture perfect relationship and possibly marriage, love is a beautiful thing, but the true beauty is enjoyed when we are with someone who can show he or she loves you truly, not just words. When we go truly deep in love, we would see the popular story of romeo and juliet as a true tale rather than a coined story, like for real such love exist, intact when you get to listen to more true events of love you'll see that the case of romeo and juliet are still very bearable, when we try to study the actions we take for love, many a times it'll make no sense, and I guess it was programmed that way by our creator, most times the human mind can't understand it fully, it'll only admit later to the fact that truly love is blind. We would want to leave it that way, I don't know why I love you, but I dont want to stop loving you. Its deep. Your parents are telling you, leave that boy alone, he's no good for you, or leave that girl alone she's no good for you, and the crazy twist when its your parents advising you about a decision is that they want the best for you and you know it. If it were our friends, then we could easily conclude its jealousy or they dont know her as well as you do, but when its your parents, you automatically know there is trouble somewhere for a fact, cause they have got to know why they are kicking against it, moreover they are more experienced and would probably be giving the best advice. Yet we stubbornly refuse. Whatever comes we are ready to face it, all I know is that I'm in love. Crazy right. I use to think there are extent to which love can blind a man, but overtime my theories keeps being updated as it keeps pushing boundaries, I thought infidelity was a done deal, once caught there's no going back, no matter how long you both have lasted, it's the end, but then I've begin to slowly adjust on that. Of course so many people would end it as soon as they discover the act, yet still many others would still forgive in a little while, they might have it rough at first, they might end it completely for a while, yet in this process the love can still grow more that they run back to each other, I can't explain it, all I can say is yes love makes us crazy, its one place everyone is vulnerable, and we don't mind, we still love loving. Well it's what love has to offer, it makes us feel alive, it gives more meaning to your living, ever wondered why the most interesting discussions you do have with your friends. aren't always talks on book, or science or Cryptocurrency as much as you love money, I bet Bill Gates too wouldn't be having his best gossips be about money while he was still young and chasing a relationship, it would no doubt be about love. You'll hear him say, so I bet this girl yesterday, well I might be wrong, but he would have to argue that with nature, money no doubts sends us a good feeling, but love makes us feel alive. More reason why I usually advice we go for people who are crazy about us too. Believe me it's not always a good feeling forcing the love to fall on you, it ought to flow naturally from the other unto you, however there are those who don't know how to be expressive, they might love you but don't know how to show it, maybe because of inexperience or background, but yet you'll hope for them to learn fast so too can feel every bit of the emotions and also feel very important. Well take it easy, moreover love doesn't bring conditions, so keep loving. Have you ever been so crazy in love that it got you acting crazy, probably you've done something so embarrassing that you feel like a fool, well you're not alone and you're not a fool, more than that you're very brave and not afraid to love. Our whole life has been built on love from the beginning, so that we can learn its importance and learn to reciprocate unto another, as this might just be the one secret the world truly need to be better than how it is presently. Dont forget our God has shown that he loves us first, therefore we too can love, it's now in our abilities. So dont hold back from loving. Love today. Thanks For Reading.

BCH For You & I Simply created to make transactions easier, in other words its created for you and I, What do you center your trade upon, what coin holds a larger percent of your Cryptocurrencies exploits, BCH I suppose, BCH is so palatable for use, you can't possibly go wrong with it, the general dip is no option to shift attention, rather is an opportunity to make the best off the moment again, already we have seen the capabilities of our very own BCH and we know its gonna hit a ATH as soon as it starts leaving the dip with a pump, well very few sadly would be positioned this time as many would sell, I hope you would be positioned too, if only BCH was at the back of your mind, you should most definetely be seeing the opportunity very clear. For quite a number of people who have been enlightened and expose to the right choice, most of out crypto activities has been using BCH, BCH has been more like our everyday crypto currency, we use it to buy, to sell, to earn, to send, and so on, cause its properties are making it very easy and good for use. The transactions are so fast, very swift and your funds secured and not ripped off by the sending fee, a very smoothen transaction, like you almost receive same value as you have deposited. BCH is now a lifestyle we can easily imbibe, the BCH culture is a well sustainable one at that, wake up to BCH, work to earn with BCH, spend with BCH, transact with BCH. And all these we get in a very self sustainable program, that'll keep on making your options a great choice to go with, you can't be wrong when BCH is your cultuhere. EARN WITH BCH Well if the money don't keep coming, what's the guarantee that we would remain in the crypto space for long, many are using of their daily jobs earnings and are still working hard to see they are having quite enough to buy the dip or trade. Yet BCH is coming through for each of its users with an amazing platform to earn, yes with BCH you stand with an opportunity to earn and earn right. Awesome opportunities are opened up in platforms like noise cash and read.cash, can't you see already, I suppose you have taken a tour around this platform to see the potentials residing here. With read.cash and noise.cash we can wake up to BCH, oh yes, start your day with a shout on noise.cash and keep making those noise and so pile up more BCH for noise making, well noise making has never been this productive. Off to read.cash to share with the world in written what you have going on in your head, whatever you are keen on writing be sure you have a fellow writer who would relate to it and hit the like for you as the system hopefully crowns your efforts with BCH. We can earn with BCH, and from our earnings work our way through starting off our journey in the Cryptocurrency world or rather use it as a support to continuing your crypto dealings as well as personal needs. TRANSACT WITH BCH Here you go, with BCH having a fast and reliable system, you can be rest assured that all transactions are well and successful, its low network fee is making it a top choice to go with day in and out. Unlike previous transitions where our funds has been slashed, with BCH you're sure all you'll be letting go of is little, very little, as little as $0.01 to $0.03. Truly considerate right. See why BCH is a top choice, totally representing In every areas you might be needing it to. The low network fee coupled with its fast processing has made it a better option for peer to peer usages, this is the main essence of Cryptocurrency, not to be held in your wallets alone, we might need to do a thing or two, so what then happens to our money stored in our wallets, are we going to be scared to use it, because we don't want to lose part of it off to network fee charge nor are we scared of taken a lot of time for it to be sent. Yet with BCH all these are already sorted after. Send BCH to your friends, let them get their wallets ready, from henceforth we would be transacting with BCH, a sweet and seemless transactions are experienced. Let them be aware of how they can earn to, its not enough to tell people to pick up a new habit, let them be aware of the marvelous opportunities opened up to them via BCH. BCH is a culture, we can surely imbibe it and be sure it'll be a sweet ride throughout. #BCH... Enjoy.

Different Kinds Of People We See As our faces are different so is our characters, also is the way we send different energy to different people, some people you always want around, some people you don't want to see anymore, because they really send a negative emotion down your spine. We are conversant with energy being a propelling force to carry out work, energy exist in diverse forms, also in form of human to human interactions. Some people in your life would serve as good energy, some others has little effect on your life majorly because you care less about them, while some would serve as bad energy, you don't want to meet this last class of people, but sadly its inevitable, they are everywhere, even among your tight friends. Their actions and interactions with you is to get you either depressed or demotivated, bringing down your self esteem, while increasing theirs, like i said, you can find them any and everywhere, your schools, offices, among families too, you can't just stop it but we can only drive it far away. Funny enough, they could be bad energy to your and be a good energy to someone else, a great help to another while a wrong choice to you, we all behave how we choose to, we like who we like and dislike who we dislike, this we know and cannot hold grudges for someone disliking us, let's just adjust and stay far, bad energy are dangerous. Taking a bit from the Cinderella story, a tale I know must be popular to writers, the stepmother was a great motivation to her two daughters, but then totally a bad energy to cinderalla. Our enemies has their own best friends, they are just bad to us. We don't judge by what other people say, we see for ourselves. Our individual life is a precious gift from God and so we have been charged with the task of safeguarding our lives, with wisdom being our weapon. Wisdom is always profitable to direct. And wisdom tells us, anyone who continuously plays with a viper, should be ready to get bitten, some associations are bad energies, they can only lead to ruin, many are in jail today or dead just because they met with the wrong person. Some associations would give a declining result although we hope for a increasing level. So we must be careful to associate rightly, push bad energies far away. We'd prefer people who can stand to your face and tell you they don't like you, infact such people are actually good people, but others who pretend to like you but deep down are only planning against you, not happy with your success, this are the real dangerous people. I recently saw a footage, a caught on camera true life footage of two friends walking along the road and a bus was driving by. As the bus drew closer one of the friend used her body to push against the other who fell and hit the tyres of the moving bus. Good timing of luck was upon the victim as she met with the main side of the tyres and not the crushing part, she stoop up and guess what, her friend came running to her like it was all a mistake, and they both left, we'll yes she believed her friend wouldn't want to hurt her deliberately, this is what we see in our walks with different people, let's just be prayerfull and vigilantly applying wisdom. You never know who truly likes you or not, but then we can't be blind to their words and actions, watch. We have heard stories of husbands or wife killing their partner, stories of betrayal and jealousy, stories of backstabbing even among besties, it's almost like one can never be too careful, should we live our lives alone then? Shouldn't we keep friends who we can have fun with, life would be boring without friends. We will just keep being good in our own path and be vigilant, also prayerful as God is the only one who knows the heart of everyone as well as their true intentions, so he alone can truly be our help against bad energies. How are you to people also, definitely there are friends who we envy, who we are jealous of, but then what are our thoughts and actions towards them? We can't really stop being jealous or envious, it's quite natural, especially when they possess what you want but don't have, yet we can control our actions, be good always. It starts form us all, give out good energy, then you'll be more deserving of good energies returning back to you, remember we reap what we sow, even when the bad comes against the good, just know that good always conquers at last. Thanks for reading.

They Were All Imagined The power of our imagination can never be measured, if only we could see the start of the earth when there was no science and technology, when we were still in the stone age, so primitive and compare it to the world of today, I guess then we would see how far we have come and how much kudos should be awarded to the powers of our imagination. Of course with billions of people having different and various thoughts running through our minds on a daily, mainly owing to our experiences or what we've learnt, it's expected that some crazy things would be birthed into reality. The cars you see today were first imagined, the dresses, the building blocks and irons, the planes, oh don't forget the computers, everything you can think of, your bed, your phone, your bags, shoes, even your artificial hair, they were all imagined and worked into reality. Its paramount to note that they might not be the first people to think on these, take the bag for instance, its logical that people wish they could take all they need for a journey and still be comfortable, but it stopped there for many of them who thought of it, eventually and fortunately for us all, someone decided to push it further and work on it. It's one think to think on it, its another thing to actually go for it, and do it. Which would you prefer to be the brain or to be the one who worked it into reality? As we all know the main recognition goes to the one who works it into reality, in fact some of the appreciated inventors weren't the rightful thinkers of the idea, some were stolen, some were bought, some were copied and gained more recognition over the first pioneers, it plays out in different ways, as much as you might want to get angry because the main brain isn't well compensated, we would also note that its smart work over hard work, treasures like good ideas should be well guarded and protected. A good and eye opening example to buttress this point is the well known Facebook, we see it wasn't the idea of the main beneficiary today as it was brought to him as an offer to work on with them, but today we see how it played out when they couldn't see the potentials it could offer. No arguments that Mark saw further than the main brains behind it and bought it off, well luckily for them the constitution got them covered as the court has offered them a little portion of the full cakes it offers. So it isn't just enough to think on it, and with this it isn't also enough to act on it, another question does arise, Do you believe in it? Brain storming is everyone's capacity. The issue is we are limited to what we know, and can only think around that. Imagine thinking on making an aeroplane, maybe one day a long time ago before the advent of any aeroplanes, you looked at the sky and imagine you could fly like a bird, from there you thought if you could have something to carry you up and fly you around like a big eagle that would be your pet, them maybe something like a machine you would enter instead of an eagle and fly around, so boom there is the thought, create a machine you can enter and fly you around. For me this is where I might stop my thoughts, cause how I'm I suppose to think a rolling fan, or group of wires, or power or propeller would do the work, even yet I still might not try it out. Personally I had begin to feel, getting to think on an idea, especially the mind blowing ones and fully accomplishing it was nothing short of supernatural, like you can't do it by hardwork and dedication alone, and with each passing day I think about it, it feels like it has got to be a supernatural force doing it not just humans alone. Now think with me, how do you think a group of wires would cause light to come or a gushing water against a turbine. How can you think that you being in America can call a friend at China and you both would communicate so fast and all cause of a telephone . To worsen it all here comes a super computer to blow our minds away. And a fellow human thought on all this. Reading the book of enoch I could clearly see how inventions came from old times, and they weren't from a human, of course we discovered some useful this like fire, gold, but it were quite understandable, but when it comes to other discoveries like mirrors, weapons, ornaments, and such as we couldn't possibly put our minds across, it was clearly explained that the watchers sent by God to oversee the earth, who later fell for the beautiful women of tyw the earth and descended to dwell with us, they were the ones who taught humans all of this and they were from heaven bringing to our notice some of the crafts of heaven. Now that makes sense, but seeing what humans are doing today, I'm clearly in awe. Well I don't think I would disturb myself so much with what happened and how it all happened, sooner everything would come to light, for someone to believe that an electric bulb can be lighted instead of our usual lamp of kerosene and tried over 1000 times to see it happens, and it's all natural, well lets believe that. In fact the kinds of phones coming out today especially the Samsung and apple products are just crazy, of recent a Tesla car free of gas now exist, I can only speculate the nearest future, but even I know better than to imagine how the world would be in 10 years ahead. Let's keep our imagination open and keep thinking. You never know the next best crazy idea may be coming from that head of yours. Thanks For Reading.

There's No Fear In Love Maybe you should start reconsidering your options if you're scared and you think is love. Love can be many things but it isn't fear, the one who carries fear does not carry love, you just can't place both in a confined place, and by fear I don't mean not wanting to let go, I don't mean hoping that things would always be fine, I don't mean wanting that he loves you back as much as you do, I don't praying she comes back home to you every night, all this would surface out of love, it's all products of love, you do this in love cause you always want them safe and with you all the time. Now by fear I mean terror, I mean being subdued and scared to be expressive, all cause you love, this fear has no place in love. You see some relationships and you wonder where the love went, you wonder why they are still together. You can sense the fear on a part of one and the lost of affection on the other. Most times there is always a motive why that person being scared is still in it, there is something holding them down that's making them scared to let go. Worst still it continues and gets into marriage because of a faked fake apology and you feel it can be better but now kids are involved and you're more tied down to continue loving in fear. Well you need no announcement to say that such relationships has the exemption of love and has fear building its pillars. Personally I hope people would realized the many benefits in building in love much more than trying so hard to make things work out of fear. Maybe we think we would never fall in love again that's why we stick to those who aren't treating us right, maybe be feel too unimportant and lucky to be selected by our partner that we choose to stay when we can't feel the love anymore, or maybe we've lost count of the numerous millions of people existing alongside us on this planet earth, of which many of its population are potentials suitors for us. Maybe we need to be reminded that we deserve the best love can offer, and if it's not love then its not worth it. Recently have been hearing of numerous cases of harassment and couldn't help but realize most came off from a so called relationship, where the boyfriend can beat up his girl and feel it's alright, where the girlfriend can insult and abuse the boy and they feel its alright, this is little compared to that faced by an already married couples, all this happening daily and you wonder if you don't want it anymore, why don't you just work away. Rather than hurt your partner why dont you just work away? Is it that hard. Well that's why loving in fear can cause, it's all products of fear. Just like an oppressed citizen of a country rising up with violence to tell their government enough is enough, same goes to a relationship built on fear, cause our tolerance level as humans can be limited, we can only hoard for a while, during this times a lot of things keeps happening that we bear and slowing creeping into hate, yes I mean completely hating that which you claim to love, and this hate over time grows into evil intentions, which if not cautioned so fast can lead to the unbearable. More reason why we shouldn't afford to love kn fear from the first and early stage. So many as been undermined as we thought they couldn't hurt a fly, until they killed a lion, then we knew better than to conclude on any one and just advice everyone equally. You reading currently can never know how far you can go when pushed to the wall until you're in reality pushed to the wall, many has promised to wait for their spouse to have a change in character and they would continue to bear until that day, well some succeeded and others did not, as luckily as some left with a breakup other left with higher regrets and trauma. I have continue to repeat there is no Fear in love. If love isn't there then it isn't there, don't force it to come. No one truly loves in fear, its not a military camp, nor is it a strict school policy, rather love is a place to feel at home, when they say be yourself, it comes from a place of love. It's the one place where you should be appreciated for what and who you truly are and not what you have been confined to be. If our creator saw love fit enough as giving us free will and still loving us no matter out choice, then it says we have to learn from it, learn how be comfortable where you are truly loved, you deserve that experience at least, I know most times those we love won't love us back but we choose to stay, however we all deserved to be loved and loved crazily. Are you loving in fear, have you defined your fear, what it is, is it the usual fear of losing the one you love, or is it the actual fear that involves harrassment and not being accepted for being yourself, well be sure to wait for your gold, no one should settle for anyone because they are scared you won't find better. Love isn't a business transaction, its has to do with emotions which would widely affect your life. Learn to love for love, shut out every fear, because like I said, there is no fear in love. Thanks For Reading.

Change Your Company, Change Your Life You'll never realize how much influence your associations have on you until you have a critical analysis of how far you've come via knowing that particular group of people. Ofcourse it doesn't make them less of a human if they aren't beneficial to your dreams and drive, as well as it doesn't mean you all have to become enemies in order to break ties, no there are more applied way to getting the right associations and yet keeping Everyone smiling and in good term, however it is paramount to note that ensuring everyone is in good terms with you is a secondary action, you can as well decide to discard it and not care if your past associations are hurt by your removal,especially when they are real negativity and crime offenders. Overtime our actions and nature would start resulting from places we have been, people we have copied from there, if you want to add the math together, you'll ponder on where do you spend most of your time, with whom do you spend time most, especially when its resting time. For most of us, it is not home, therefore our characters are quite different from our parents, no wonder I hear mom say at times "I wonder where you learnt that, I and your father were never like that", hmm yes you can say I've been influence outside and you'll be right. Even for those who spend most times in the office, you'll notice you have some friends you relate with on a lighter mode, those guys are an influence to you, as you're to them too. The way you talk is one of the quickest and more noticeable victim of change, and all these is because you love where you are, the discussions are exciting, your friends are amazing to you, they put a smile on your face, and because they did it a kind of way to make you smile or furious, you too do it to make them smile or angry and with constant repetition, you'll notice you dont realize you've brought that character home. If you are not convinced you're speaking the way you ought to be speaking, or you've began to say some really hateful or negative words, the best way to stop it isn't to decide not to be influence by them, it actually to stop such association. The Job you have or you level of income too can be greatly influenced by the company you keep. You want to grow and get higher in life, but you don't have anyone up there to give an helping hand, its often a longer process of toiling, worst case scenario is when their mindset are so shallow, for instance they can't imagine possibly owing a certain asset or getting to a certain amount in a time frame. Actually it's no problem if you are comfortable, but if you are serious about what you want to get, then you'll do the necessary to get it. I know this sounds like a wicked advice, but it true. But like I said earlier you dont necessarily need to cut ties with old friends on a angry note. The numbers of people who get their dream jobs or career ambitions met because they are skilled alone without knowing anyone to indoor to give a little push are very small, not that it doesn't happen so, it does but even when it happens so, it'll be considered as a miracle, cause we know the competition is high and we have many applicants for a very limited openings. I don't think the honest people who can discard their family or friends to hand over a good job, contract or work to an outsider because he or she is qualified are that much, so the more rampant one is you having someone inside to help. Which is why your current salary scale still has a hand on the friends you keep. More dangerously, is your mindset being on the line, at first you were all different, the company you kept met with so much quarrels and disagreements, but overtime you all are finding a common ground, now you agree on certain things, any outsider who comes to bring a different opinion, you all would join forces to ensure you deal with such person, and you all could be wrong. Then how would you know you're wrong when you're feeling right and your mind is feeling right, it's a dangerous place to be when you're not doing things right and you don't know. More than anything, be need to be carefully selective so we don't toil with our mindset, this can mar our lives completely. I once knew a guy who was ambitious on being very rich, more life being successful in what he does so that it earns him so much money, cause he definitely had a big dream of living large. Not quite long he has a new friend and as friends you know there have been some covalent sharing of personalities. In our most recent talks, I couldn't help but notice this guy doesn't want to be rich anymore, because riches comes with a lot of trouble as if poverty doesn't have trouble too. He sounded comfortable with striving and striving as long as he can get by everyday. That old drive is gone, until I got to understand that was the perception of his friends and he has only been influenced. We all know how it is, when we talk in the midst of friends and we air our opinions and they just laugh at us like we don't know what we are saying and they say how they feel it's right, more often we quickly discard our previous ideas and pick up theirs, so fast. We might feel it matters less those we keep close company with as what would be would be, but I tell you, you might just be joking with your very existence. Even the bible says show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are, it wasn't stuttering in words, it's so plain and clear, the company you keep hold a very strong hold in your life, it's one area we have to critically look into and make amends if need be. Let's talk more on the comment session. Thanks For Reading.

Smile Cause Jesus Loves You Its yet another Sunday lovely people, trust your day is going fine, never forget that all is well, and should things seem unstable or tough now, it's still doesn't change the fact that all would be well. Overtime we must have grown to the assurance that there is a supreme being high up above, who is watching our every move, and contrary to the stereotype going round, that he's looking for a way to catch us doing bad so he can note that down against the day of reckoning, in reality he's watching us with so much love, infact looking for every way possible to bless us and put a smile on our faces. Know this and know peace, more than our human corrector, Gods corrections towards us is pure love. Towards the end of the week, I got into a kind of mood swing, apparently I felt like the week just came and gone without me getting to achieve much, more like I was numb, so that day i was sleeping and sleeping for most part of the day, and all that kept adding to my thoughts, more like I had been super lazy and i need to caution my life, would i continue like this, Will you can't be a lazy man. Hahaha, but it was just how I felt. Then I decided to unpack the full week for myself, I decided to rewind it all and see if truly I had been in bed for the full week or I had only been feeling that way cause I wasn't feeling too good that day. Well you'll be amazed that I had once of the most profitable week this week, so much I achieved, infact there have been something ove been saving for that i got to finally get this week, there are people and places I got to that I wouldn't be able to if truly I was lazy. Infact the week itself started off with lots of appreciation that got my heart gladden, if I should weigh this week in comparison to many other weeks I've lived this year for an example, I sure would realized this week was a blessing infact, and I should have been singing songs of worship and appreciation to God for what he did, instead the devil tries to use a mood swing to change a lot of things. Oh I'm happy I thought deeper, like if I had continue in my feelings of frustration and laziness just because I wasn't feeling good that day, then I wouldn't have realized how far I've come this week alone. I should have been grateful rather than moody, and I also tells that something similar is also happening to people all around, the enemy is a smart guy, you can choose to deny but as humans we must give him that, overtime he has master his craft and has become good at it, we can't war against him base on our strength, even If he was a thin man without muscles his age of experience has earn him a bigger chance of very. So the bible advices us to fight in God through Jesus. This is why I said smile, smile cause Jesus is here to redeem us, he has done so in the past and has still wanting to do much more for us even as we keep living through each day. He Isn't so loud to always shout at your ears that "hey see what I just did" , but I bet you he has done much more to get you screaming out of excitement each and every seconds of the day. You know a wife who doesn't do much can still be happy and console herself back to joy, knowing she has a husband that loves her and is not ashamed to let her know every time. The love he shows is hope for her. Same applies to our Jesus, his love towards us is hope for us. If you knew me in reality you'll see that I'm a music person, infact music is one major thing I do and take very seriously, oh today is Sunday so in a few hours I'll be doing music again, so that incident poured into my soul an old time song and as I kept on singing, the burden I felt earlier kept easing off, slowly I could think more clearly and more calmly, it sure felt like joy was returning to my soul as I knew that I need to be happy, I have gotten one of the best week and the devil didn't want me happy, but I need to say thank you plus one major thank you my God desires of me is to see me happy. So I sang myself to joy. That song Is one truth we all need to accept each and every day, it says I know that I can make it. Sang by the legendary Kirk Franklin Titled - My life is in your hands. You don't have to worry, And dont you be afraid Joy comes in the morning, troubles they don't last always Remember there's a friend name jesus, who would wipe your tears away And if your heart is broken, just lift your hands and say Chorus: I know that I can make it, I know that I can stand, No matter what may come my way, My life is in your hands. It's good to know God is on your side, no matter how powerless you feel, its only an illusion, cause in reality you're more powerful, infact the odds are to your favour, Jesus is on your side, its not a tales we tell kids to be happy, no it's the unfiltered truth and its told to cause a reassurance to our life course anytime we seem to want to drift away. Happy Sunday guys, the best is yet to come, the steadfast love of God is new every morning, just when you thought you've seen or gotten it all, another more amazing thing is happening, and that is our benefits of being in God, of dwelling in his love zone. His mercy would keep redeeming us. AMEN!!!! Thanks For Reading.

What Is Your Truth Everyone has their various opinion about me, some say I'm smart, others think I show off, some feel I'm reserved others feel I'm loud, even at home mom feels I'm lazy, dad feels I'm hardworking, you feel I'm an awesome writer, others feels I'm not deep enough, and the things is everyone is right, in their own way at least, it's just the angle they have percieve me from, probably some meet me on a good day, while others have always seen me harsh, it doesn't matter your opinion to me, it also doesn't matter who chooses to believe what you've said concerning, maybe I'll feel bad when I'm told, but then it's TRUE but its not the TRUTH. It's True what you say, you're right in feeling that kind of way, like if anything you pass by a bar you'd always see me there drinking, you're right to conclude I'm a drunkard, that's true, but the truth could be that you always pass by mostly when I'm there, other days you've passed by and didn't see me but you dont remember to count that, you suddenly remember to count whenever you see me. Oh how about if you see me dancing happily and conclude I was a dancer, but deep down I know I dont dance so well, I only felt the music and you caught me moving my body, its true what you say. But it's not the truth, however you may never get to know my TRUTH. Life has always been this way and no one can really be blamed, just like two different people viewing the number 6 form different edges. The top viewing may be seeing 6 while the bottom viewing is concluding that has got to be 9, and both would sure get into a heated argument, but they are both right, it's both true, both the questioner knows the truth, people opinion about you can be true based on their findings, but that doesn't make it your TRUTH. Your truth has got to be what you believe yourself to be, what you know you can be regardless of what's happening right now, people can see the present, but you know what your truth is. Ever called someone jobless and for a fact he or she has got no job, but that person keeps refusing to be tagged such, oh it's TRUE but it isn't my truth, my truth is that I have a job, you guys just haven't seen it yet, but I know I have a job. You can called it faith confession, you can call it believing, I call it my TRUTH. Oh that girl can't speak or write English so well, I wonder how she's going to cope now she's saying she wants to travel to America, I think it's better she stays here where she can cope. Oh it's TRUE she can't speak well, but what's her truth, does she concur or she has a different opinion to that, her actions thereafter would say it all. Years later many people have learnt to speak fluently and change the course of truth. Often times what's true is only a call for you to pick up the challenge and see how you can be better. I can remember growing up, it was true I was a stammer, like I could literally waste 5minutes trying to call your name, oh certainly I was laughed at and people called me a stammer, to them it was true, in fact I knew it was true, but that wasn't my truth, oh indeed I'm grateful for the men of faith I've surrounded myself form my young age. As simple as the bible verse that says I was complete, wonderfully and fearfully made, I knew I had a different truth, many times I prayed, also while learning to talk more calmly, whenever I see myself rushing words, I quickly call myself to order. Today my truth has come alive, I bet you wouldn't guess I was a stammer, maybe till you saw me angry. Another truth that people has always looked to change is that of poverty, a poor man knows he's poor, people around can know too dependent on how exposing the man is, so when he's mocked or simply referred to as poor, they are correct, that's true, but often times we've seen people so desire a transformation that they get up feeling rich, they get to make their own truth, more like look to the mirror and picture the future bearing the truth, their truth. This is a motivation, the motivation we need, so see past what's true about us, and go for what we want to be our, we make our truth. The day I got to discover how powerful we are generally as humans, is the day I stopped writing anyone off, we only keep staying down when our mindset is down, the day we decide to get up and pick up the pieces to see how we can get better, that day we become dangerous, nothing can stand on our way. however life often bring out this morale whenever things have gotten so hard, or we have been highly humiliated, this shouldn't always be the case, we can't wait till everyone starts saying what's true about us before we see to change the truth. From now we can reflect and see those true we need to change, cause truly it's only about what we have accepted to be true. So with this, we begin to think, is it true that I'm no good? Is it true that I'm not achieving anything yet, is it true that I may never build a house with the way I'm going? Oh they say since my parents are not well known nor highly connected in the country, it'll be hard for me to be great, is that also true? I really want to know with the level of competition outside, would I ever be recognized? All this are true to them at least, it doesn't make it my TRUTH. My truth is that I am enough, as long as I keep being motivated everyday and God is on my side, there's absolutely nothing I won't achieve. That's my truth, and with this i can stop worrying. All what they're saying can be TRUE, but what is Your Truth. Thanks For Reading.

No One Is Coming Sometimes we need to be reminded that no one is coming, even when we know there are people who has got our back, but as long as nothing is certain, then it's best we take it to be as no one is coming. This mindset would enable us get up to be better. Imagine knowing no one is coming to your bedside to wake you up cause its morning and you're running late, I bet you'll find your way around it as seriously as possible. Then you'll see that things are done more accordingly not because you love it so but rather cause there is a aim to achieve. Most times we aren't lazy, we are only too relaxed, feeling like what's the worse that can happen, things would always sort out itself, as much as this mindset is good to ease depression, it can also be a drifting to doom as it can make one more nonchalant and mediocre, operating with very low efforts, when you can get serious and give it your best shot, which would have earned you better benefits ahead. So sometimes it's good people know that no one is coming to their rescue, so they can sit up and work hard like their life depends on it, so we can give it our best shot. You know as teenagers and high school student, a large number of teens feel more relaxed in their academics because the fun is so overwhelming and they are beginning to see that school is not the end of life and it is not an assurance to be successful, so why not just make it fun. However in that same school there are always people who can't afford to fail, most of them are only scared of their parents so they put in extra efforts, some others are taking it seriously cause they believe it's a right path to earn them success. Which ever it is, as long as they get to improve academically, they surely would be rewarded in life. No one can truly help you if you don't want to help yourself. Everyone has what they are dealing with, same way it's not easy for mr A is also in another angle not easy for Mrs B, I mean life happens to us all, both me and you and we all complain and react based on how we feel at the moment, so you can't possibly bank on anyone to stand by you especially for future purposes, cause no one can truly predict tomorrow. I could only be having 10$ and be complaining about being poor and another has over 1k$ and his complaining more bitterly about being poor and can't spare me anything. So no one is sure to come, take it like "No one is coming ". With this we can get up to get the job done, not because we love it, rather cause if we don't who would? We have to visit our tables and make some necessary adjustments, plan and execute it all by ourselves cause at the back end of our mind, no one is coming and we still have to get the job done so its the earlier the better. Do you have a job interview, then you've got to prepare and study before by yourself and for yourself and the rest beneficiary aligned to you like your family, so you are motivated to do more at home. You've got an exam ahead, you've got to prepare cause no one is coming, work as though you're alone in this world. Any help that comes in along the way would be considered as benefits. No you won't reject it cause you want to do it all by yourself, rather you'll accept cause it has made your work easier. Just like a father is not expecting his young child to pay the bill's yet but if by chance the kid sees his way to earn more cash, then it's a bonus for the father to whom it doesn't makes him lazy or less of a man. No one is coming guys, let's set the grounds for our movements. Work it out with all you've got guys. Probably it's where we get the saying I'll do my best and leabe the rest to God. We knowing fully well that God would in turn use men to come to our aid, but since we aren't sure of who the men would be we can't keep hoping on them so we just put all hope on God yet we do the work like we aren't expecting anyone to help out. Such determination to see things achieve would always strive through. It's the reason why we can see people rising up from the gutters into becoming because they feel they are all they've got and if they don't work it out, who would? So yes, act like no one is coming to do your dirty laundry, so you can get up to do it yourself, act like no one is going to give to the answers in the examination, so you can burn the midnight candle, act like no one would stand up to speak for you, so you can know your rights for yourself and fully defend yourself. Act like no one is coming with a big bag of money to offer you, this way you will get up and work, not the regular. No you'll work like you need that success today. Act like no one is going to put that smile on the faces of your parents and dearest, so you can be more intentional about seeing it come to realization, indeed do your very best and let God handle the rest, don't put hope on any man, cause in reality no one is coming. Thanks For Reading.

Its Night Again Its really a special time among the full day, night time is a time to look out for, the intensity, the drive, the supernatural force, the raging emotions, its nothing short of spectacular. Maybe it's supernatural or simply our believes that is giving so much importance to this time of the day, no doubt this time is a portal, a transit from past to present, from yesterday to today, from your awaiting to the D-day, it clearly is a crucial time of the day. Sadly we don't take every other night serious and we just look forward to the remarkable nights when there's something to celebrate. Actually every night is serious. That 24th day of December which is Christmas Eve, you see everyone anxious, it holds so much anticipation, and as it draws closer to the close of the day we can almost feel the energy building up like something is about to happen and as the clock strike 12am, everybody in one accord get excited, its Christmas. Same goes for the new year, this we are mostly stay awake to witness, like we are literally about the watch the previous year fold up or roll away, lol, but its just still like every normal day transit, just now we are looking on the day with high hopes cause its has a celebration attached to it, but really everyday is special. Well, I know for a fact that each day is very important, and at such each swap of the day holds so much energy, already people have learnt to speak or as Christians would say it "proclaim" into the new day from the early hours of the day, while many don't see this necessary, many others think its an idle action to take to enable them seize the day. Words are powerful and has the abilities to cteate and make amends, as long as we can speak in assurance and prayers to God Almighty, those works aren't mere speaking again, as they are now messages to fulfil it's purpose. Speaking to your day is a great habit, we can imbibe such culture if it'll be convenient for you, and if not, still not to worry, proclaiming to the day is not only schedule to 12am only, as each and every seconds is still a good time even till the last minutes of the day, however the earlier the better so its best we usher our day in while speaking to it about the rules you want it to go by with. Its your day, own it. Same way you feel today might not be important, someone else somewhere is very concerned about today, maybe its their birthday, wedding, important occasions, first day at work, a lot of reasons why a day is important, imagine the billions of people who we have in the world today and how many of them would have a thing or two to do today, and you feel the day is just like every other day, well think again, each day comes with energy, more reason why we are not just looking at it like mediocres who are going with any way the day comes. No we are actively pushing through, we pray on the day, we plan on the day and we also act accordingly to the plans and prayers. Seize the day from the start. You can say " I speak into this day that all is well, I recieve favour from God and men, I get business deals, I am being blessed with gifts" as many as you can remember and pray for just speak it ahead at the start of the day, then believe its done,then expect and accept the incoming good news. Most times, by the time we are awake we are quite rushing to meet up with time, we rarely have chance to relax, and some few when they do would only rush the process. Yet some are also very tired to wait till the new day to bless it and either pray on it before the day or after they awake, so its more of a personal constraint, however, the truth remains that early moments of the new day are very powerful, all other time are great but we can't sugarcoat enough, but its just true. However, learn to pray and speak into your day, bless it with your heart and your mouth and then no one can curse it, pray on yourself so that you can kick start your day with God and be sure you have the highest power with you guiding you all through. All is well do have a lovely day, our day is blessed and filled with Gods love and his mercies shall be upon us today and every other day. Amen! Thanks For Reading.

People Would Surely Talk About You You'll agree with me that people are so quick to judge, they percieve from afar and conclude so quick, they be like "is it not that guy? he can't get the job done", "is it not that girl? she can't get married " "oh that family, they hardly get by every day, so fast so easy to conclude about someone else's and sadly we too take this to mind and starts feeling down, now the issue is when we are sad because of what people have said instead of just believing on in ourselves and keep pushing ourselves to greater heights regardless of their hurtful opinions. The reality of things is that people don't really care, you see they can say whatever they like however they like it, doesn't concern them who they hurt on the way. This action has often led to depression for a lot of people listening a lot of people, listening to what people have said about them and believe in it to be true, However we must know our live belongs to us and us alone. We have the singular power to change at will, whenever or however it pleases us. This is the beauty of life, the free individualistic choices we have. Well, we all get guilty off this, we all judge people in our heads, only that few of us knows better than to speak it out so it doesn't hurt another. We know not everyone is emotionality intelligent, as some would deal with it easily, some others won't and it'll lead to stigmas in their life, huge enough for them to deal with alone, might require a therapist to help them through. Hopefully they meet a good therapist, cause if they don't then life might keep being a rollercoaster ride, as they hardly find peace within theirselves. The bitter truth is that no matter how tough you claim to be, you'll still care a lot about what people has to say concerning you. I might act like I'm living my life regardless, but I know deep down that I wish people would say what I love rather than the hurtful words they say currently. I can only act up for sometimes or get used to it especially when I have no option than to continue, maybe because of my job, or because of a certain benefits I enjoy from it, so I don't want to stop regardless of the hurtful and accusing fingers from people, but bet you I really wish I can be on the good side of people. It doesn't matter what you are people will talk if you're good people will talk if you're bad people will talk if you're white if you're black if you're tall, if you're thin, if you're a short they would talk. Talking is one of our major fun excercises, so you can't stop anyone from expressing their opinions, or should I say, you shouldn't stop anyone from expressing their opinions, cause you can decide to confront the supposed gossiped and beat them up, so you shouldn't stop anyone, that's not the way out, there is a better way out. Well the first step is to judge for yourself, If people are talking, then they must have clearly seen something to talk about, there must be a content of any such before people would talk, so what are they talking about, is it good or bad? If it's good then that's fine, if it's bad, then do you want to change or not, don't be surprised a lot of people don't want to turn a new leave, and would continue doing what they please regardless of they knowing what they're doing is outrightly bad. Now after knowing all this, you'll feel more relaxed knowing fully well you've dealt with the issue within yourself. Stop letting people get to you easily, especially when you feel you're in the right track, you shouldn't switch course because of fear or because of humility of what people has said, no one really care, that word you heard and is causing you sleepless night, may just be a pure cruise, the person who said it might not talk it seriously but there you're hurt and battling with emotions and bad mood swings. More reason why its best we see things for ourselves too. Don't forget that person who talks about you is also being talked about by someone else, so take it easy with yourself. I too wish there's a easy way to get them to stop, or an authority you could report gossips to and they would take it up for you, but apparently it'll be treated as a minor issue, though you're feeling hurt and hated, and that is because it truly is a minor issue, one you can deal with within yourself and still live a healthy life. Don't take something's too serious, it's just life remember, find your happiness and shun bad energy. People would Surely talk about you, it's all part of life's experience. Thanks For Reading.

Equality, No Injustice, No Oppression Imagine the law cutting across to everyone equally, a situation where it doesn't matter who you are or what you do, as long as you're guilty you'll get what is due you. A place where the justice system are really serving justice and no one is above the law. The rich and poor alike are subject to the law, where there is no bribery nor are there corruption. All these would create a world we definitely would look up to. Then we all can live knowing fully well that everything is working fine and great. Have you ever been oppressed, have you seen where someone helplessly is being oppressed, what did you do, how did you feel, did you feel OK or hope you had the powers to bring some changes here. Its harder today to see people uphold their office more than they uphold their personal desires, like you have been ordinated as an officer to promote justice, then an occasion arise where you have to administer judgement to a close pal, would you be truthful to the job or see ways to help them cut corners. I have observe that a nation can have many voiceless citizens and its either you're wealthy or powerful to have a say, or you're connected to people of importance to at least seek help from someone who can help the situation. What then happens to those who knows nobody of importance to call and have not enough money to pay their way through, when then becomes of them, should they keep on being oppressed and maltreated by the so called high and mighty feeling like gods who are untouchable. As normal as this sounds, this actions of inequality in judgment has a lot of disadvantage. Disadvantage of inequality 1. Depression No jokes it's truly disheartened and frustrating, when you know things are going wrong but you can't do much, even the little efforts put is almost like nothing because the opposition is a more powerful one. When you hear things like, I'll do this to you and you can't do anything about that. Or words like I run this place and you know deep down that this is true because of the past Works of such person. It has lead many to depression, widows having no one to fight for their rightful properties which have been seized by the husbands family, the poor who are being extorted more from. Its crazy indeed. 2. Suicide Of course anything having the potentials of causing depression has the potentials of causing suicides attempt. Especially when such unjust occurrences happens repeatedly and it looks like they lose the battles every time, when then would things get right. Maybe its a lecturer who is refusing to give you a good score out of his selfish reason, and the school system can speak for you or help you out, now young people get easily frustrated and might considered suicide as an option, which is very wrong, in fact more than ever such a student need to live and be successful, that is the best revenge. 3. Increased Crime Rate Why not, when people get to grow up knowing that the society wouldn't stand for the weak, if you are calm without any form of power then everyone is ready to prey on you without pity, it's only natural that such person seek out his own way and that's by acquiring powers for themselves. Not everyone would follow the right route to getting respected, not everyone would follow the right path to success and getting power, most of them would go through the short route and that would lead to more crimes and more unrest in the society at large. Way Out To Solving This Inequality And Injustice Transparency In Operations As much as we know there are unjust in the society, we all won't come openly to say that a bad system would prevail, we would openly push for good, but when we're involved we seek to manipulate it to our favour, but when the system is transparent, where everything actions taken can be accounted for and not just some things can be swept under the carpet. When a complaint is filed or brought to book, even against a strong opposition, all officers needs to know the importance of going by the book and seeing justice prevail. Because everyone learns eventually, it might not be easy at first to get everyone to act right, but one good to another right judgement, people eventually would see that there are some changes are being made. Over time we would begin to act accordingly as we have learnt the system is a respecter of no man. For good to win, it begins with you and I, if you are opportuned to be in authority tomorrow, would you uphold equality and justice or would you cut corners too as long as it serves and suits you, then don't forget, someday another would be in authority, do you want them to cut corners too, especially if it would be against you or then you'll hope justice previal. Its good to be good, it's better to stay good. Thanks For Reading.

Grow, Get One Better Per Day Most times when we see people do extraordinary things it isn't always magic or some sort of external power, most times its their hard works paying off overtime. Indeed no one was born an island of knowledge, no one came into the world knowing all the mathematical formulas or the chemical equations, or knowing the economics of the world, we all learnt and what makes the difference currently is because of the different levels at which we all go deeper into our areas of specialisation. So many people can exist in a field, but they all can't get an equal sort of respect, some of them would be more appreciated and recognized when compared to others and vice versa, reasons are not cause of looks or who people just admire more, It'll be their works overtime speaking for them. A lot of things you can cover but you can cover a bad result especially for a kind of job done for a customer from time to time, even those who knows they aren't up to the task looks for way to get in touch with another person, someone who is good at it, or simply better than him or her. Each day seek to get better, strive daily to be a bit better than before, never dispise how you are current, I mean your looks and current idea may not be suitable to see you through that higher stage now, but whenever a man set his mind on something, then he can surely achieve it, most of the world's best creativities came all from people who never thought it possible a few years back, but their quest to push and see that burning desired met, like completely accomplished. If people could succeed without parents and the poor could get very rich, as well as those being mocked turning out to be the newest motivational speakers, now having plenty audience and followers, with people giving them as much attentions as they demand. But it'll only happy when we choose to grow. Today we might no look like, but can't afford to stop, each day another time to get better, one bit better than before, I book better than before, one skill better than before, one client more than before. One area I have seen drastic improvement and overtaking is in the area of skills, skills aren't talents and so they can be learnt and worked on, someone is being schooled today by a teacher or a master, only to return in a few time ahead to realize that student or apprentice is doing so much better and is more skilled than those who taught him or her. Just a while ago someone was learning to be a worker, with the boss always correcting and shouting at them, but now he is an expert and teaching other, he or she grew, with each day working they kept being better. Take a look at yourself and reflect for a moment, you'll realize how much you've grown, especially when you're past the age of 24. I don't mean your physical growth and body size, yeah that would grow, whether we like it or not, but there's a way we wouldn't grow if we don't want to, and that way is in getting a skill. What can you do, how well do you do it?. What value can you bring to a place, how appreciated would your value be, how needed is it to the world now? These are questions we could answer in order to know, yes we did grow. These growth doesn't come with age, nor does it come with inheritance, rather it comes via dedication and diligence to see things work out perfectly. Those days you stressed yourself to seat in class are part of getting a bit better, those days you took that professional course in other to learn more advance than you knew already, those days you stayed loyal to your master in order to learn the trade are part of the journey, those days you listened to your parents and learnt a thing or two are by no means important to your learning too. Oh those days you learnt form God via his words are also geared to keep you one step better than before. Its all in your dedication, its all in your active pushing to work it out, it's all in your plans, it's all in your attitude, its all in your lifestyle, its all in your communication to God Almighty, its all in your mindset. You want to get better with every passing day, then you've got to prepare your mind from in out. Get dedication and make it show in your lifestyle. God for sure blesses the labor of our hands, what we deserve we'll get, but what then do you deserve?. You deserve to be better than yesterday. Learn to grow. Thanks For Reading.