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Love Or Hate (Our Choices) There indeed is a thin line between to love or to hate, we all have got something or someone we just hate, well most people claim not to have someone they just hate, but over time they realize they do, now you hate the action of the person, what they do and who they are and just can't help yourself from hating the one carrying out the action. If a killer is on the lose and is finally caught, you don't expect the people who got affected from his evil act to claim not to hate him, they probably would do the unthinkable if you'd leave them together in a closed space. You hating something or someone doesn't necessarily make you bad, it's your choice towards the person or substance, but in all this we must know why we choose what we choose, now its wrong to hate someone or something without a good cause, imagine just hating on someone because he or she is cute or brilliant, that is jealousy birthing forth, and if we all could really lay back and understudy the reasons for our choices we would know where we'd need to make amends. A lot of things are normal but we have to work on them and make things better, jealousy is one of this, in fact jealousy is one of the most active ingredient of hatred. Once you sense your self beginning to hate, take a rest and do some self restructuring, you have got to try to be good and stay good as much you can. There is a thin line to loving and to hating, both are great forces of power, both are very possessive. Their actions sometimes is so overwhelming that you do things involuntarily, they both fill our emotions with raging hormones to act at the moment, you wanna do something, you wanna hit the nail on the head, you wanna let it out, you'd just wanna dive in, this could be love or this could be hate, its our choice to choose, it pays to be good and filled with love to engulf so much love within yourself that it becomes what you have to offer, everywhere you go, whatever you do and anyone you come across, be sure you aren't leaving them without a deposit of love upon them and that is the beginning of when we say " make the world a better place ". Of course, if you'd believe there's more to earth and there is a greater essence to living then you'd understand the need to remain good and why bad exist. Have you ever played a game that you were given a task and it was easy to be completed, the answer is no, to every game there must be obstacles, same goes for life, we are passing through this phase and a reward awaits after, a reward that would be on the basis of how well we lived through this world, and how best we fought against the wickedness of this world, the sworn enemy to humanity and his devices which are undoubtedly wickedness, killing, hatred, kidnapping, rape, stealing and the likes, how best did we fight to stay go and better still spread love across. Of course we have our own arms and that is Love being the summary of it all, in fact love overcomes hate, the only thing strong enough to subdue a chronic hatred is a chronic love, more reason why we should never give up on anyone, yes they might have wronged us so bad, but we keep loving up on them, so that they realize that love is both our defense and also a helping hand. Love posses enough strength to tame any and everyone, even the fiercest of creation. Its most gentle, yet most powerful and most effective even compared to hate. If they are dangerous, of course its smart to keep your distance but don't choose the option of hate on them, give them the best light, give them the shocker of someone still loving them not withstanding what they have done, one day they would surely come around. When there's no where else to go, we all return home, and seeing that home means a place where you are accepted and loved, the same thing would apply to them when there is no where else to turn to, they would come to you for a change because your display of love smells more like home. So choose love today guys, choose love over hate, choose to laugh over to cry, choose to live over to die, choose to smile over to frown, choose love always, the benefits are huge, like very massive, love would sustain you now, it would sustain you later, it would sustain you for as long as you love, in fact love would make you live on even after death. Choose to love today. Thanks guys for reading. Don't forget to remain valuable to yourself and to your world. Please do like, subscribe and comment. Stay strong y'all.

Value! There's no better benefits one could enjoy than when living a life people would value, no body pays for a thrash, if you wanna make some buck then you've got to offer something valuable, even if its yourself you are trying to sell to the world, maybe in the aspect of a music career, an actress, a dancer, a field expert to list but a few, whatever your stand is you've got make sure its worth the pay, if you can offer something normal, then expect a normal pay if not little, because why take the stress to meet you when they could get it else where. There are no question that a value added is proportionally some money added. We should look out for how best we can add value to whatever we do, if we want to attract the public then we must offer them something that would capture their attention. For instance, two people selling ice cream, the kids would surely folk more to the seller playing some music and making his place more fun, than the other just waiting for people to come buy. There is a market in difference, there is a market in luring people using their desires. Same ways clowns are invited to a kids party, and funny personalities are invited to anchor relaxing events, find your own space and build it to a flavour worth coming over for and see how you'd get valued. One singular problem is a fact that people are comfortable with the usual, with the normal, they want to stand out, but just feel lazy to start working on themselves. Its never easy and rosy to do something outside the norm, you are most likely to face oppositions, reason why things are not easily done that way clearly shows there could be some factors preventing it. More reason why you've got to be self convinced that the step you are thinking of taking is the right step, this is actually the most crucial aspect to being and doing something valuable, to be sure you want to do it and to know what you want to do. Be convinced within yourself as it makes your foundation more solid so no one can easily talk you away with their discouragement. Getting public opinion has often shown to be fruitless, and at last you've just got to run alone with your vision together with any few who cares to support it. And should no one be in support then your self motivation has got a lot of work to do and a lot of mockery to overlook. Nevertheless, we must be smart and decisive as to who has a say in the affairs we hope to embark on, already we know words are powerful and are like seeds, they would slowly creep into the mind and dwell, and since its just a beginning it isn't a good time to be giving thoughts to doubt. Standing out is good business, being more valuable when compared to others is a lot of benefits to you therefore we must work towards it. And not just for the profits or money alone, being value also earns you respect, you aren't just taken likely, when anybody are being treated as normal or the usual kind of way,you are differently treated and taken care of. People want to hear from you, your words are honoured, your point of view is taken to heart, some may even jot it down so they won't forget and just so they won't forget, they jot to easily get a reminder. When you are valued, people would come to you, they want what you have and they are ready to pay for it. Value is one good thing we can do for ourselves to earn us a better life. Our daily lives while growing up was geared to help us increase our value, all the education, and the church doctrines, the skill acquisition, the seminars, even the parental care and nurture were all sited towards helping us get more value for ourselves against the world struggles. The world isn't a funny place and it's not friendly also. It doesn't go soft on you because you are lazy or weak, it doesn't pity you because it knows your parent, oh that movie lied, life gives back what you give in, we've got to demand our share of the cake from life or else it would keep it to itself, and who better would life listen and attend to faster than someone of value. Get value guys by working on your self and your skills, it has a whole lot of benefits, adding value is the first step to a better life. It might not be a pleasant experience but it would definitely be worth the shot. Start adding guys. Thanks everyone for reading. Build a valuable life for yourself.