Choose a way of life The journey of life is indeed about a choice, everyone has the right to determine and make their own choices in life, even though we actually have our own destiny. But that doesn't mean we can just give up and can't do anything about it. In the journey of life sometimes making a choice is not easy, so many doubts arise in our minds, but when we have made a choice life can actually feel more meaningful because of it. In this article, I intend to write…
Disappointment As a human being, who has never been disappointed? Most likely all readers here have felt disappointed. Actually, what triggers feelings of disappointment in us? According to Adjie Santosoputro, a mindfulness practitioner, feelings of disappointment can arise because of our expectations/hopes/thoughts on other people or something. It is undeniable, as social humans, we have a tendency to expect others to be kind to us. However, in reality, what other people…
Between wants and needs There really isn't enough of everything in this world. If you are rich, you want to be richer, you are beautiful, you want to be more beautiful, you are already on the throne, you want to be in power, you already have a husband or wife who are good and responsible, you want more, even if you are destined to be a woman or a man, you want the opposite. Actually the fault lies not in these desires. Wanting to be more than what we have right now is very…
HI Time Hi time where are you ? What's your shape ? There will be no answer. But we often hear aphorisms about life. Some say life is a struggle. Some say life is a pilgrimage. Then someone who sees death as the end of everything says life is a journey to death. For people who are sick for too long, saying that life is a suffering. All these expressions show that it becomes a very important condition in human life. In these aphorisms implied the belief that time is important…
Friend, Best Friend Or What? In life, we cannot be separated from other people. so is my life, I live surrounded by so many people. people who come from different places, with traits, characters, which are different from mine. but it's not a big problem, although sometimes it makes us disagree. That's the beauty of life, that difference is a blessing to me. from the difference i can understand something i never knew before. those who are present in my life are the people who…
My Story Recently, there have been many things that I need and think about myself, family, work, future, love, and the human journey which is death. About myself, about the possible journey from being born until now, until I was formed as I am now, like the story of an ordinary human life that has various stories of the past or what I consider history. happiness, pride, loss, and so on. Maybe all the stories of life's journeys that have been passed or are currently running…
Stupid It is impossible to force oneself to be useful in front of all eyes. dwarf ego, for the sake of meraksasa your smile. just for the sake of looking useful in your eyesight. I don't care even though the whole universe thinks I'm funny. Maybe you are the few who know that I'm actually stupid. while people are out there; I still think I can do it all. But what I do know, I feel so handsome when you make you laugh. Even though what you're laughing at, is my stupidity,…
Kemubaziran Besarnya keinginan kita menjadi penyebab hidup kita dalam kemubaziran. Sebagai manusia, kita cenderung memiliki keinginan yang tidak terbatas, membuat kita sering terjebak dalam kemubaziran. Dalam Islam, istilah mubazir bermakna perilaku boros, berlebihan, membuang-buang, atau menyia-nyiakan terhadap suatu hal yang tentu tidak ada manfaatnya. Berapa banyak pakaian yang kita punya, yang sebenarnya kita hanya membutuhkan beberapa saja? Berapa banyak makanan yang…
Compromise Without Identity Expression of heart and love is not only about pouring it on your partner or loved ones. There is no less important meaning when bestowing love on yourself. Through this, the term that is often heard is created, namely self love. Especially when it comes to talking about love for a partner, each person has their own ways and methods of realizing true romance. Seeing the correlation with self love, affection for the idol of the heart also needs to…
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2 Orang & Pisau Tajamnya Eh, dari mana? "habis ngembaliin sleeping bet, mas" emang udah selesai acara campingnya? "loh, kok kamu tahu kalau aku habis camping" iya, kemarin kan kamu bikin moment di Path. "ketahuan deh sering visit Path-ku, suka kangen ya mas?" eeh, enak aja! iseng kok. "yaudah mas, aku pulang dulu" iya dek, hati-hati ya. salam buat mama. "iya, mas" ……………….. Sebenarnya percakapan di atas milik seorang teman dan mantan pacarnya. kemarin petang di sebuah toko…
Learn From Experience Lately we are often faced with uncertainty, I think an uncertain situation gives me time to pause and reflect on myself to be able to improve myself. In times of uncertainty, I try to fill it well, for example writing songs or going out with my family and spending time with the people closest to me. I think this is the best way to deal with the uncertainty that is going on. One of the uncertainties that is still a mystery is when we have to part with…
Memory Don't joke with memories. You don't know how painful separation is. There is a longing to bite the silence when your shadow drifts away like fallen leaves every time you step away there is always a longing left behind when your veil is waving behind the door. Sometimes I envy the wind who are free to mingle at the end of your hijab, and the mist that pampers your shady face. Twilight of love is there still time for lay down the remaining longing. For years I waited in…
Outpouring Friend A friend once confided, he once struggled desperately to get a decent life so that he could treat his mother, take care of her mother in her old age. Even though his desperate struggle ended up being his mother who died. This is when my friend started to make money. He felt a failure. Then I said what I had felt for him as in my previous writing. "That the struggle is still a struggle, even if the result is just tai." Want 22 years of painting without…
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