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If I get a little prettier, can I be your baby?
One more verse from Lana Del Rey's song called 'Gods and Monsters'. If you do not know who is Lana, and if you do not know anything about her music, you can easily find that on the Internet. I do not want to talk about Lana and her music. Just about this one sentence from this song.
This sentence is showing us the way many girls think, and many girls would do many things to make the guy like them. They are ready to lose weigth, to gain weight, to work out, to change their hairstyle, to change color of their hair, even to have a plastic surgery. And, if you ask me, that is horrible, really horrible. Girls need to love themlseves. They need to know that they are good enough. We do not have to be perfect to be amaizng.
Every single body type,a nd every single body is perfect. If you are big, small, fat, skinny, tall, short... you need ot know that you are perfect! You do not have to be prettier to be his baby. You do not have to lose weight, you do not need bigger lips, you do not need blue eyes, tinnier waist...
Do not make a plastic doll, that is similar to all other plastic dolls, out of yourself. If you look like someone else, specially if many girls look like eachothers, nobody will remeber you. You will not be special anymore, people will not remeber you, because there is not going to be anything on you, that is making you different from all other girls.
Of course, if you want to change something on yourslef, that is okay! If you really want to change hair color, do it, but do it because of yourself. Not because the guy you like, likes the color that you are dyeing your hair into more than your natural hair. If you do not like your nose, you should have a nose job. For yourself. Not for someone else. Even if you do not have your nose job, you will still be amazing. And, you will still deserve only the best.
Do things you think you should do, for you.
Everyone can leave you. But you can never leave yourself. You will be by your side forever, and because of that, you owe to yourself to do not lose yourself, by trying to be liked by soneone else.
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ko prestane da radina sebi taj je iznutra umro, uvek se vodim tom idejom, i to prvenstveno treba raditi radi sebe samog s tim sto je lepo i kada hoces poraditi na sebi radi drugih
Ja mislim da ne treba menjati sebe radi drugih. Pogotovu ne fizicki. Uredu je promeniti neke male, beznacajne navike koje svi mi imamo, i koje nisu bitne za nas,a drugima smetaju. Ali, nikako nije uredu menjati boju kose, dodavati ili gubiti kilograme, ici na bilo kakvu operaciju, zbog nekog drugog. Ako se menjamo to moramo raditi iskljucivo zbog sebe, ne zbog drugih.
ma fizicki sta pa mozes da promenis zbog drugih, jedino eventualno da se ofarbas ili da se napucas silikonima ali ovo drugo mi je van pameti mada kolko vidim nije neuobicajeno
Ima danas mnogo ljudi koji to rade, i to nikako nije dobro. Mladi ljudi su okruzeni instagramom i tim nekim idealima lepote. Moje misljenje je da ideal lepote ne postoji. Svako je lep. Treba ih ohrabriti da vole sebe, kako god da izgledaju.
Sreću treba pronaći u sebi. Jedino čovek koji je zadovoljan sobom može da inspiriše i da pomaže drugima.
Upravo tako, moramo voleti sebe. Ako postoji na nama nesto sto nam se ne dopada, moramo to da promenimo zbog sebe. Ljudi treba da se menjaju iskljucivo zbogh sebe, treba da rade na sebi, zbog sebe. I kada su ljudi zadovoljni sobom, kada vole sebe, privucice i druge ljude koji ce ih voletei.