@Soulwriter 2 November 2021 more from that month

Reconciliation with my best friend

Happy New Month Friends🤍! I’m so sorry I haven’t been stable here. I’ve been busy with different assignments lately, the assignments are been used as our test and it so stressful that I barely have time for myself. In one of my articles, I wrote about friendship breakups which I experienced with my best friend. Last week Friday, I went to the library to study a course material. There’s a particular row my friend and I do sit on, so on entering I saw someone’s back on my friend’s seat, I didn’t give it a thought because we don’t own the library, anyone could sit there, so I went to my seat, only for me to tell the person to excuse me, I noticed it was my best friend. I smiled widely and hugged her, then said softly into her ears “I’m sorry, babe”. She hugged me back and smiled back. I was glad we made up, I thought I had lost my best friend. After studying for two hours, we left the library to a restaurant where we were able to talk about the gist we both missed. I was happy to reconcile with someone I was already used to. Making new friends in the department would have been quite tough for me because I barely mingle and I’m not a social person. Finding someone who would think likewise can very hard, finding someone who would want the same thing as I want is not something easy. I met a girl during the time my best friend and I weren’t talking. I’ve always been attracted to beautiful girls (I’m not a lesbian😂 ), it’s just that my friends are always beautiful like I am. So, I became so plain with this girl, we eat out, sometimes we cook. Until one fateful day, she came over to my apartment with some new clothes and said she went for shopping and she was hungry, I was shocked and I thought to myself how would someone shop when she’s broke. I made Noodles and egg for her, she ate and left and I was like wow this one is living an extravagant lifestyle. The following day was a Friday, she came to my apartment and said we should go to club, I refused at first but later went with her. It was at that moment I missed my best friend because we agree on the same thing. If I don’t want something she’s never persuasive. We got to the club, it was fun at first until time to pay the bills and the girl started behaving somehow, I was so angry and embarrassed when her card was saying declined. I eventually used mine and left. On getting to my apartment, it was like a flashback, I remembered my first day in club with my best friend we danced and laughed and we both shared the bill at the end but My new friend wants me to do everything because I want the friendship. I realized my new friend and I never agreed on the same thing, her lifestyle was so different from mine and she could make me go bankrupt, so I decided to let her go and went back to my normal life until I reconciled with my best friend. Don't give a chance for fake friendships and always learn to be friends with someone who wants the same thing with you. I’m happy I got back with my Best friend. I’ve been so lonely without her, going to school alone, eating alone, sitting alone and the likes. The annoying part is when people see me alone they keep asking me where’s my friend and I always lie, haha. Have a lovely day guys!