Personal development What I told myself last year, is to work on myself this new year. I came to realize that love at early stage is a distraction. As a lady, I want more of everything. I never want to settle for less. One thing we all need as adults is true love, you don’t need to waste anyone’s time, pretending to love them, when what you just feel for them is lust. I think it’s high time, we all start working on ourselves, let’s try to be better people for ourselves. I…
Procrastination Beating procrastination should be your number one priority if you want to achieve things in life. Procrastination gets in the way of almost everything you desire. The rational decision maker will make the rational decision to do something productive, but a procrastinator will do things that aren’t worth doing when they have work to get done. There was a time I had an exam to write, and instead of studying two weeks before the exam, something inside me will…
Ego “I can’t allow anyone to talk to me anyhow” is a common statement from a mindset that has perpetuated poverty more than anything. Work on your poor self-esteem, it could sabotage you. I heard of a story of a young man who said he can’t take less paychecks because he is a graduate. Don’t let “how much are they paying you” by friends or kins rub you of the invaluable opportunities to begin somewhere, and learn things money cannot buy. Work on your ego, it shouldn’t be…
Poor parental care I could have just said mommy issues, but I wouldn’t, because the children belongs to both parents, and it’s not an assigned duty to only the mother, but the father as well. Normally, we hear people say it’s the mother’s duty to raise the child, but the best way to raise a child is when the father and the mother come together in bringing up their future, which is the child. I was at the salon yesterday afternoon, when my stylist suddenly talked about this…
Fake love So, I got an email notification on my cell phone which says, “Thank you, you made the last 16 months memorable. I hope you find the joy you deserve from somebody else, not me”. The mail wasn’t clear enough, I decided to put a call through. He picked at the third attempt. I asked faintly, “Are you breaking up with me?”, then he said “I’m sorry! You deserve better, Tee”. I was indoors all through the week. I couldn’t believe I wasted 16 months with someone who who…
It takes process After watching episode seven of the movie “MANIFEST”, I decided to check through my phone. I remembered mom’s 60th birthday is tomorrow, and I realized that she hasn’t even started eating the fruit of her labor at 60. Tears rolled down my eyes, I couldn’t help but think about how my siblings are still trying to make something out of the little paycheck they get. It was at this moment I know it takes process. We are going to have everything we wish we had…
Hate Hate begins from home. It bothers me when I hear little children use the word “Hate”. I have seen parents who told their children not to communicate with their Neighbor’s kids just because of a clash they’ve had in the past. And it continues that way, the kids stay away from each other because of their parents clash in the past. This should stop in the society. Whatever issues you have with friends or relatives, neighbors, it should never be passed onto the children. I…
Warnings A warning is an advance notice of something that will happen, often something unpleasant or dangerous. Most individuals never heed to warnings. As far as it isn’t from a cleric, or a prophet, we don’t heed to others cautionary advice. As humans, we do not not believe every thing said to us by outsiders, but the best thing to do is, always give whatever warning or advice a thorough thought, at your own space. Most of us believe in sharing it to people, especially…
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